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I Don't Want To Be Anybody's Rebound

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    i WOULD LIKE TO BE SOMEBODYS REBOUND. I don't want someone else to be mine though.:D
    Acchbellon Acchbellon 18-21, M Sep 14, 2012

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    I have been emailed by more

    than one man who just got out of a relationship with one and wanted to be with me. I am NO ONE'S rebound. I don't think people can think or see clearly if they have pain in them from life. They need to give themselves time to heal and see themselves in a good light then move on...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Feb 5, 2014

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    Why I Don't Want A Relationship

    I don't want to be "played" or hurt in any way like that. I don't trust anyone, so it prevents me from dating and other stuff.The most I have is sex with someone & then they have sex with others, so it isn't like I'm special.Soo, yeah.
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F Sep 1, 2012

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    Wants Me For Me

    I want someone who wants me for me..not because they just broke up with someone else & they are just lonely. I hate the fact that some people just "settle" for someone because they don't want to be alone. Believe me, I have thought about it in the past...but I want that crazy...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Rebound?

    i have a feeling i am someone's rebound pls let me go if that is true.  don't waste my time.  don't be selfish
    rio765 rio765 22-25 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    But I Have Been My Whole Life

    I feel like with everyone I care about, I always come second. No one ever puts me first. I'm everybody's second girl. I'm everybody's next choice if they're first one doesn't work out or something else happens with the first one. In any kind of relationship, I'm there to...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    I really don't want to go through all the hassle. It's too much work :/
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Is there a way to set my account so that 15 yr old boys won't message me? I always use my app so not sure if there's a way on the app to do it?
    Elalala Elalala 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't want to be alive anymore yet I'm afraid to die. The world and society sucks. My life has been s****y forever and I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I can't trust...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Seriously, can't talk to ANYONE about it. It's so much to explain. I moved last year, lost most of my communication with friends. My family loves him. I love him, so I don't...
    amflynn amflynn 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    With my genetics, any children I have will have a huge chance of being legally blind before puberty. Very high susceptibility to addiction, and plenty of genetic mental disorders...
    Franse Franse 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I'm just tired of my father such a **** about things that don't matter in the end, and just because he THINKS he saw what happened, means that he has every right to punish me over...
    sonicrulesdude sonicrulesdude 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    not because I don't want kids I just don't want my own. what's the point in bringing another child into this world when there are already so many that need our help? I could make...
    tamsin100 tamsin100 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have dogs and guess what? I considered them as my children and nephew (I consider my brother's dog as my nephew). Yes, I did not give birth to them and yes they are not human...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Nobody understands what I go through on a daily bases and nobody really cares. Everybody wants to be heard. I see people online who seem to have the same problems I do. They want...
    bfsd150 bfsd150 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I really can't stand them along with Kanye West. I think they're disgusting and ugly people. Most people I know dislike them because of the sex tape. But that's mostly irrelevant...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think I would rather eat a bowl of Cheerios out of Rosie O'Donnell's belly button.
    RusPagan RusPagan 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why can't people just give it to you straight? I'm tired of bull sh*t excuses! I had rather know the truth no matter how bad it hurts. Say what you mean and mean what you say. It's...
    Gentlesoul77 Gentlesoul77 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When I wanna sleep, people call me at freaking 3am. I get all cranky and I'm just like, "WHAT?!" and their reactions are, "Hi." Are they TRYING to drive me nuts? My sleep pattern...
    MariosGirl95 MariosGirl95 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I tend to screen my calls on the landline, if it's important, I'll pick it up. If not, the answer phone can get it, if the other person doesn't leave a message, it's clearly not...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate when people look at my phone while I'm typing. It's not that I have something to hide... It's just none of their damn business
    jyjyb jyjyb 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why is it that guys think that's the one thing every girl wants to see? I'd rather see my dog squatting with her tail up to crap than see your random d**k pic. And I'm speaking...
    luckylidia luckylidia 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Many years ago now I went to an event and met someone there who I felt was pretty interesting. He was a poet and artist so we exchanged info and have kept in touch sort of through...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F a week ago

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    He's 18, I'm 16. I rarely get feelings for guys. I think I really like him, but he didn't finish high school, he smokes weed a lot, drinks a lot, doesn't have a stable job, doesn't...
    Emelyaaa Emelyaaa 16-17 a week ago

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    I had enough. I don't want to waste anymore time on this garbage. I don't see the point of having a loving relationship with someone that means absolutely nothing to me: the...
    DostoevskyForever DostoevskyForever 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    First of all, I have a son and daughter and I don't want either one to hate me. I don't know how anyone in their right mind would want that. I don't care how good or perfect a...
    grnwd82 grnwd82 51-55, F Jun 28

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    I remember in grade school hearing about how everyone over the internet are dangerous. Of course, that's not true at all, but I eventually became too carefree and that really...
    SomethingPink SomethingPink 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    At first it seemed innocent enough. He asked me about my day. Then he asked what I was wearing. Then I told him that I have a boyfriend and he wouldn't be too happy that he was...
    TeresaRudolph71 TeresaRudolph71 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 28

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    I can't find it anywhere, the answer to my problem. I simply cannot understand what normal people do anymore, and i feel like i am done trying because nothing's getting any better...
    Bradly123 Bradly123 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    I want to go to a new place and discover new stuff. I don't want to be stuck at one place ...NOT EVEN. Around this town it's either doing the same thing over and over again and it...
    Mysterygirl156 Mysterygirl156 13-15, F Jun 26

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    As I minor, EP has really helped me through a lot. And I know it's helped some other minors out as well. Although there are plenty of rude and stupid minors on here, there's also...
    thehobbits thehobbits 22-25 Jun 25

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    I don't know if you mean they don't want them in the sense that when they have them they put them up for adoption or let someone else take care of them or if you mean parents who...
    thehobbits thehobbits 22-25 Jun 25

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    So, my "dad" is a gamer, (I put that in quotes because he's just dating my birth mother) but not the kind I hoped I would get when I wanted one. He's more of the "sit in the...
    sonicrulesdude sonicrulesdude 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    I want to make something very clear here: this group is for people who don't want kids. if anyone is uncomfortable with the idea, then don't come on here and tell people they will...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Why do people get so butthurt when I open my mouth about that I think people should stop having their own babies and maybe adopt instead? Apparently it’s selfish that I think...
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    So I've been trying to figure out a way to say this in which people will understand. I've decided it's entirely impossible to do that so here's what I have: I am all about loving...
    underlyinghonesty underlyinghonesty 22-25, F Jun 24

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    People absolutely refuse to understand this. I've never been in love. I've never had a crush, and I don't see the point in dating as in those situations people expect a romantic...
    Thisbe Thisbe 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I'm turning 15 the day after tomorrow, and I feel that I'm growing up, but I really don't want to. I never did. You know how kids always say: "I wish I was a grown-up!" Well I...
    ThatOneDepressedKid ThatOneDepressedKid 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Can I please just let this out? (it's pretty long O__O) It's summer break and my dad keeps on ordering everyone in the family around. He calls at least 3~4 times a day everyday...
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 16-17 Jun 23

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    Many people give-up on themselves rather than step-back and evaluate the bigger picture. It's never too late to start over, regardless of the circumstances. It amazes me how many...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 51-55, F Jun 22

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    I like attention from people as much as any other person. You want to feel understood and appreciated by the people you talk to and share mutual experiences which makes you connect...
    GuiltBear GuiltBear 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    People tell me they think I'm weird and they avoid me. well, I think it's funny how you need other people's approval, and I avoid you because I can't stop laughing.
    Azeazal Azeazal 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 22