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I Don't Want to Be Controlled

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    No I Dont Like It At All Bu...

    No I dont like it at all but it usually happen by my husband
    CoOkIeLaTiNa CoOkIeLaTiNa 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2008

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    We Are All Under Forces Tha...

    We are all under forces that we can't control. Whether that be our faith, our government, or otherwise, we can not help but be controlled in some form. I don't like being controlled because it suggests that I'm not in control of my own destiny. I do believe in fate, however...
    BTK316 BTK316 31-35, M Dec 14, 2008

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    Yeah

    I want to be free. I don't want to be controlled.. I remember what my husband told me. I have to listen to him. If he is right. I will listen. If he is wrong. No way. I'm a person too. I'm not a object.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2008

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    I Don't Have Any Power Over It!

    I don't like being controlled. Who does? But does it really matter when I cannot do anything about it. I am the prisoner of my thoughts and emotions. Mostly I am the prisoner of my heart! I let the ones I love control my life! I have given up my dreams to serve a life...
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 22 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Freedom

    I want to be free. I am a free soul. I'm meant to be free, and always will be.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

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    SOUL Mate

    fOR  THE  LONGEST   TIME  I     HAVE    BEEN   LOOKING   FOR  A   MAN  TO  LOVE   ME  FOR  WHO   I  AM  ACCEPT  ME  .  I...
    rockybear397 rockybear397 47, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Not Anymore

    I'm very frustrated! I had this story all written out, clicked "Submit" and lost it all. I don't even want to talk about it anymore, now. Maybe later. Okay. I'm going to do it now. I've been in controlling relationships in the past. They were horrible. I almost wasn't...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    You Are All Contrilled

    All of you here say you don't want to be controlled, yet I have received not one offer to buy my, evil space alien, control pills.  All of you know that the Evil Pushky is intent on implanting chips in your brains and controlling you so as to use you as human batteries and...
    levin60kitty levin60kitty 61-65 1 Response Feb 11, 2009

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    Heart And Mind

    No! I don't want to be controlled any more. I'm not some puppet on a string with the sole purpose of acting out his own desires. But wait. It's not the strings attached to my body he's pulling. It's those which are attached to my mind....those which pull and tug at my...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    No, Not Me!

    i am not! who likes to be controlled by anybody? i should be the one who is controlling!
    evergreen evergreen 31-35, F Feb 2, 2009

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    ....

    Idk who are you to control me and why do I allow you to do so! Who are you to plan my time for me, to influence my plans and get me to decide when I should be on and when I should be off.It is so annoying and I wonder what is so hard about just ignoring? About spending my time...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2013

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    I am 25 and have 3 children under 6. I have been with my husband since I was 14, married at 18, and started a family a few months into the marriage. I love my kids with all my...
    Mom1989 Mom1989 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I like kids but I don't think I would trust myself to be a mother. Its such a huge responsibility and I'm not sure I would be very good at it. I sometimes fade into myself and shut...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    at all. While I enjoy spending time with some nice kids in moderation. I don't think I'm cut out to be a mother. At least not a traditional one. When I'm in my forties or so is...
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    I'm sad. I stay up late and sometimes don't sleep at night just thinking of the things I could say if I actually had someone to say it to. I'm extremely precocious and have found...
    mattheadplus mattheadplus 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I was wondering. Is there any way to block or some kind of filter for minors to "friend" me? I don't mean to sound rude but. I don't want minors anywhere near my "circle". I do...
    carrie72067 carrie72067 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 4

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    It's not because I don't like them, or think they're annoying in any way. I just don't want them to grow up in a world like this, I would hate myself if I saw them grow up to...
    MarziJain MarziJain 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    i'm not being selfish or something, but i just want my friend back... recently this best friend of mine just met a new friend online. they happened to be in the same school (and...
    yunisaurus yunisaurus 13-15, F Aug 22

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    I was prompted to type this after seeing a question about it. Also, because I wanted an excuse to reference the Cosmic Turtle. I don't want kids. Although I admit it's slightly...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Everytime I try to imagine my life with children I can only see how tying myself down would severely impede my educational and career goals. I would also have to marry(children out...
    Hoshanna Hoshanna 31-35, F Aug 6

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    The only tempting thing for me to get married is the sex since i am someone not hot enough to get laid. I don't want to get burdened with the responsibilities otherwise. I suffer...
    ipulkit ipulkit 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    I had this friend, she judges everyone. I thought she'll change, but I was wrong. So I decided to stop being friends with her and she went all crazy and harass me on twitter. She...
    meganchang meganchang 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Like Ever. I don't want my kid having my issues. I hope I never get pregnant. If so I would turn to abortion,adoption. Check out Safe Haven Laws in your state for parents who want...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I have nothing against children. I just don't want any plopping out of these thighs, EVER.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Even though I don't want kids I still get a motherly yearn sometimes, to have the whole experience. But I'm not going to do it. Maybe next lifetime.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Laying here in my bed, dreading the fact that I have to get up and go out to handle business. I don't want to run any errands today. All I want to do is stay snuggled up in my bed...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Lately everything has been going wrong for me and there's nothing I can do about it I'm depressed and the only reason I'm staying is because I don't want to be selfish. But...
    thewondergirl thewondergirl 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I miss how close we used to be and I miss it everyday. Just a single thought makes me breakdown and cry because I miss you ... I miss us and the friendship we had. It hurts me so...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I really don't know why anyone would. I don't have anything against people who do become parents but I just can't understand why they would throw their lives away. First few years...
    Dontcare8 Dontcare8 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to control my fear not let it control me. My anxiety level is spiking through the roof especially with school starting in a few days. Local school Thirty minutes away and...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Sometimes , I feel unloved but he always makes it better.. But.. Sometimes he doesn't understand me and he misunderstand me sometimes.. He's nice , kind , and sweet but sometimes...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I CANNOT ******* STRESS THIS ENOUGH. I DO NOT WANT TO RECEIVE ANY PICTURES. IF I DON'T ASK, DON'T SHOW ME. HOLY ****.
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I don't dislike children at all...I don't have children and it just simply didn't happen....but, to be completely honest, I have never thought about having or wanted to have...
    purly purly 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I have trouble asking for help, or depending on people. It is partly due to me being stubborn in believing I must complete everything on my own, and not wanting to burden others...
    EyeOfLight EyeOfLight 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Island Lofts have 514 square feet and both a king bed or two queen beds, a sitting region, a huge lavatory which has a deep soaking tub along with a independent shower, A personal...
    Alvera964pn Alvera964pn 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Seeing as we live in a society, where money and looks seem to matter more than personality and loyalty. Where people judge others on their fashion sense, or their looks and then...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    William162d6ol9 William162d6ol9 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Hmmmm. As tempting as that is, I don't think I want to smell you B O, unless it smells like fresh flowers in a summer field, lol. :P
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 16

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    I hit even more to the bottom. I want to die, no I need to. I need suggestions will my body won't refuse, and that's fast to execute so the police don't stop me!
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    He is getting out of hand. He's professing his undying love for me. We dated when we were 14 were both almost 18 now. I've moved on cuz I had no choice. He left me out of the blue...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm still young and I do attend college. I am single and all but one thing I don't ever want to go through is divorce. It makes me want to never get married.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Eh, I say I don't but I wouldn't mind it. Then I realize that my fertility is questionable for one. My uterus and hormones hate me. For real. Two, I am ALWAYS in dire straits. I...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I thought I was because i missed my period and so I thought I might be pregnant so I called the only possible person who could be the father and he came this morning and i told him...
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I don't hate them, I just think they're annoying and I have low patience. I hate when people say "you were a kid once" and "just wait until you have some" because I thought kids...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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