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I Don't Want to Be In Love Any More

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    I Want To Freeze My Heart, No More One Sided Love!!!!!!!!!!

    This is my 3rd time to fall in love. First time, it ended very bad....the guy hurt me very deeply with his words. Not only did he reject me bluntly, he even blamed me for falling for him. It took me a year and litre of tears to get over it. Second time, I fell in love, again...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 9, 2010

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    This Is The End

    Seriously , I can't take this anymore , I get hurt so much time & now I decide to move on I don't want to fall in love again ... but maybe if I find the right person ... so much things gonna change I don't know .. I don't think so anyway
    hyunam hyunam 13-15, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Waste Of Time, Love Is The Source Of My Misery, No More.

    i keep bouncing back and forth about whether to try to love again or just stay single. i really dont know what to do.but something i saw really turned me away from trying to love again. something i wish i never looked at in the first place. there was a girl i liked and i took...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    What Was I Thinking?

    A few months ago, I wanted to be in love. I wanted someone to smile at me, be in love with me and want to be with me. But then I started dating my boyfriend. I love him, I know I do. But now I realize that being in love freaking sucks. I don't want to drag him down with me...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    Have You Ever...

    Have you ever loved somebody so much that when you wake up, before you even open your eyes, they are the first thing that you think of...? Have you ever loved somebody so much that they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep...? Have you ever loved somebody so...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I have tried finding love all my life.

    I compromise so much of myself, my eccentricity, my sarcastic attitude, my weirdness, and it did nothing for me. I tried finding a balance, but I can't find one. I'm either really weird and eccentric, or really timid and boring. I have no standards, because I'm afraid of...
    mehxx mehxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I'm A Horrible Person.

    I don't deserve to love or be loved in return. I'm a bad person. I'm miserable. And anyone who's associated with me ends up sad or being hurt.
    bontacoon bontacoon 18-21, M Aug 18, 2013

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    Ever, Ever Again.

    "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" I don't know who said this, but they were so full of ****. I don't want to feel. At all. Ever. I'm sure I'm just over reacting, but I don't care anymore. I just don't want to feel ever, ever...
    belleanomalie belleanomalie 16-18, F 9 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    Love Has Got A Hold Of Me..and Wont Let Go

    I was in a relationship with this guy for a year and a half. I cheated on him, yes i know, im horrible....but i broke it off with him. Now were on and off and I sill love him. Im sick of loving him, I wanna move on and not love him anymore. 
    nene577 nene577 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    The Worst Promise Ever

         Falling in love has always been a weak spot for me. I always used to think that it would be a magical thing when it happened. But I never expected it to hurt. This past April, I had a terrible rundown with my first love.We were on a school trip, and I was...
    headoverstilletos headoverstilletos 13-15 Nov 18, 2010

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    Move On

    I decide to move on!!!!! I am moving on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) It is kind of sad that he did not reciprocate my feeling But I feel relieved I still cannot imagine being in love anymore in the future I do not want to fall in love anymore at least for some time, I need to rearrange...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 14, 2010

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    Being in love hurts. I was with my boyfriend

    for nearly 14 months. I broke up with him because after giving me a promise ring (it was a few months back was really happy about it) he ignored me for two weeks and treated me like I didn't matter nor existed. After finally getting a hold of him to talk all I asked was "can you...
    goinInsane goinInsane 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    I have my reasons and those reasons will help me stay out of a relationship at all costs. I don't get why most people want to be in one so badly and make a HUGE deal about people...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 17 mins ago

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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I am 31 and I remember being 9 years old and wanting to jump off this balcony. I think sometimes if I had did it then what would I have missed out on? Would all the good...
    whoateyourheart whoateyourheart 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm 62 years old, and never thought I'd be old, sick, poor and alone. I have lost everything, so I will never be able to retire. I don't know how long I will be able to physically...
    Zennish Zennish 61-65, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Well I want a party........ Let me explain. My friend and I have a pact. This pact isn't a suicide pact do not worry, is more of a if I'm too old to live without pain, I'm on life...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I was introduced to this guy at a town street fair the other night. We chatted and had fun. I don't know many people in the area, but the ones I do know are twice my age and this...
    WiredCritter WiredCritter 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So There's this guy.. I'm really tall like 5'9 and he's quite taller than me like 9" taller and I think I like him but it's getting a little irritating that he doesn't talk much...
    inspiredwriterxx inspiredwriterxx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I try to do things for him that I know he likes and enjoys, and I know he loves and cares for me-- but at the end of the day, I go to bed feeling empty and alone. I don't want to...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Sometimes I wonder why am I alive, what is my purpose in life to be here, why did god choose to create me. I hate my life, I hate everything about it. Nothing good ever happen to...
    emmiecarmi emmiecarmi 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a recovering addict and I have two years clean from drugs and alcohol.. I lost my kids my house my career. I'm starting all over again I have my kids back in my life but from...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    My adoptive-parents forgot about my up coming birthday. They know that I've been molested and raped and they just shrugged their shoulders and said "sucks". A lot of the time I...
    100PercentMe 100PercentMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm very comfortable with myself and I know exactly what I want and I may be young but I'm 100 percent sure I don't want kids and it's a deal breaker for me. People have told me...
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    I get waay too jealous waay too easily and I don't want to be like this anymore. If anyone knows how I can work at not being this way anymore, or even if you're the same way...
    trysten778 trysten778 13-15, F Jul 23

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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Today is mine and my husband's 10 year anniversary. I'm not thrilled at all. Quite frankly, I'm depressed. Nothing about today is exciting for me. I've been unhappy food the past 5...
    lonelysara1211 lonelysara1211 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really don't :'( she's my whole world. Life means nothing if she's not in it :'( what's the point of life if you can't be woth the one you love most in the entire universe :'( I...
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just hate it when people say “you will change your mind as you get older”! Guess what, I said I didn't want kids when I was 15, now I'm 25 and I still don't want kids! I just...
    Naturalsimple Naturalsimple 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 23

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    I've been staying in my parents apartment for the summer, but now were going home this weekend for our town's homecoming. I don't want to go but I have to. I'll run into my pot...
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I don't want kids because I know I wouldn't be a good mother. I would rather go out and have fun with friends instead of stay at home and change diapers. Does that make me a bad or...
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I DON'T WANT TO GROW UP, I'M A TOYS R US KID, THERE'S LOTS OF TOYS AT TOYS R US THAT I CAN PLAY WITH, FROM BOOKS TO TOYS TO VIDEO GAMES, IT'S THE BIGGEST TOY STORE THERE IS, GEE...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want a life that is fully mine and the life that is right for me. My path, my own destiny, a purpose and belonging. A life that I feel comfortable and at ease in. Nothing is...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    and i don't want to lie bout myself. If people don't like me its ok. I understand.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I don't deserve love. I'm not good enough.
    oxLalaxo oxLalaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I don't want to stay with my family(my parents), because we often have quarrel. Perhaps, it is good for us to keep a distance.
    Aspada Aspada 16-17, M Jul 13

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    My mom has cancer I don't want to lose her
    Countrycutie2098 Countrycutie2098 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I'd rather just crawl back into my sheets and watch the perks of being a wallflower and be sad together with charlie. I don't want to have to act happy and energetic all day...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    But I don't want to not have someone to take care of me when I'm old.. lol.
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I hate myself. That's all there is to it. I keep things to myself because if I tell someone I hate myself I'm automatically an attention *****. But truth is I don't even want...
    Ambion Ambion 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I guess there's nothing really wrong with my life. I'm getting decent grades. I don't have nearly as many friends as I did before but the few I have I know I can count on. Of...
    poetess15 poetess15 16-17 2 hrs ago

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    Don't be mad if I don't get back to you right away:) it seems that everytime I log on I'm flooded with messages and don't have the time to answer everybody at once. Thank you all...
    Randi97 Randi97 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    My life is hell and horrible : read if you dare I'm in my forties lonely depressed and don't have many friends I relocated to try and better my life most of the friends that I had...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    This is a big part of who I am. I never want to hurt anyone. I've always put that before myself, always watching what I say and how I react and do things so I don't hurt others. I...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F a week ago

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    It's not people I don't trust, it's relationships and friendships. The people themselves are usually fine, it's easy to find people you can trust once you know what lies look like...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M Jul 5

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