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I Don't Want to Be In Love Any More

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    I have tried finding love all my life.

    I compromise so much of myself, my eccentricity, my sarcastic attitude, my weirdness, and it did nothing for me. I tried finding a balance, but I can't find one. I'm either really weird and eccentric, or really timid and boring. I have no standards, because I'm afraid of...
    mehxx mehxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Move On

    I decide to move on!!!!! I am moving on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) It is kind of sad that he did not reciprocate my feeling But I feel relieved I still cannot imagine being in love anymore in the future I do not want to fall in love anymore at least for some time, I need to rearrange...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 14, 2010

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    Love Has Got A Hold Of Me..and Wont Let Go

    I was in a relationship with this guy for a year and a half. I cheated on him, yes i know, im horrible....but i broke it off with him. Now were on and off and I sill love him. Im sick of loving him, I wanna move on and not love him anymore. 
    nene577 nene577 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    Have You Ever...

    Have you ever loved somebody so much that when you wake up, before you even open your eyes, they are the first thing that you think of...? Have you ever loved somebody so much that they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep...? Have you ever loved somebody so...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    I'm A Horrible Person.

    I don't deserve to love or be loved in return. I'm a bad person. I'm miserable. And anyone who's associated with me ends up sad or being hurt.
    bontacoon bontacoon 18-21, M Aug 18, 2013

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    Being in love hurts. I was with my boyfriend

    for nearly 14 months. I broke up with him because after giving me a promise ring (it was a few months back was really happy about it) he ignored me for two weeks and treated me like I didn't matter nor existed. After finally getting a hold of him to talk all I asked was "can you...
    goinInsane goinInsane 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    The Worst Promise Ever

         Falling in love has always been a weak spot for me. I always used to think that it would be a magical thing when it happened. But I never expected it to hurt. This past April, I had a terrible rundown with my first love.We were on a school trip, and I was...
    headoverstilletos headoverstilletos 13-15 Nov 18, 2010

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    This Is The End

    Seriously , I can't take this anymore , I get hurt so much time & now I decide to move on I don't want to fall in love again ... but maybe if I find the right person ... so much things gonna change I don't know .. I don't think so anyway
    hyunam hyunam 13-15, F Jul 23, 2013

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    What Was I Thinking?

    A few months ago, I wanted to be in love. I wanted someone to smile at me, be in love with me and want to be with me. But then I started dating my boyfriend. I love him, I know I do. But now I realize that being in love freaking sucks. I don't want to drag him down with me...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    Waste Of Time, Love Is The Source Of My Misery, No More.

    i keep bouncing back and forth about whether to try to love again or just stay single. i really dont know what to do.but something i saw really turned me away from trying to love again. something i wish i never looked at in the first place. there was a girl i liked and i took...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    Ever, Ever Again.

    "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" I don't know who said this, but they were so full of ****. I don't want to feel. At all. Ever. I'm sure I'm just over reacting, but I don't care anymore. I just don't want to feel ever, ever...
    belleanomalie belleanomalie 16-18, F 9 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I Want To Freeze My Heart, No More One Sided Love!!!!!!!!!!

    This is my 3rd time to fall in love. First time, it ended very bad....the guy hurt me very deeply with his words. Not only did he reject me bluntly, he even blamed me for falling for him. It took me a year and litre of tears to get over it. Second time, I fell in love, again...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 9, 2010

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    Ever since I was 14 years old, I never wanted to have kids. I have no maternal instincts and don't like being around kids very long. Even though I live with my parents, I love my...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    It's not because I don't like them, or think they're annoying in any way. I just don't want them to grow up in a world like this, I would hate myself if I saw them grow up to...
    MarziJain MarziJain 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    So There's this guy.. I'm really tall like 5'9 and he's quite taller than me like 9" taller and I think I like him but it's getting a little irritating that he doesn't talk much...
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    I'm sad. I stay up late and sometimes don't sleep at night just thinking of the things I could say if I actually had someone to say it to. I'm extremely precocious and have found...
    mattheadplus mattheadplus 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I miss how close we used to be and I miss it everyday. Just a single thought makes me breakdown and cry because I miss you ... I miss us and the friendship we had. It hurts me so...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I have my reasons and those reasons will help me stay out of a relationship at all costs. I don't get why most people want to be in one so badly and make a HUGE deal about people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 1

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    I don't want to be alone I don't want to be let down I don't want to be misunderstood Who does? I don't want to be neglected Relegated to the space where I'm never thought about...
    faerylight faerylight 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Laying here in my bed, dreading the fact that I have to get up and go out to handle business. I don't want to run any errands today. All I want to do is stay snuggled up in my bed...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I was prompted to type this after seeing a question about it. Also, because I wanted an excuse to reference the Cosmic Turtle. I don't want kids. Although I admit it's slightly...
    Aikin2 Aikin2 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I really don't :'( she's my whole world. Life means nothing if she's not in it :'( what's the point of life if you can't be woth the one you love most in the entire universe :'( I...
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M Jul 31

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    I had this friend, she judges everyone. I thought she'll change, but I was wrong. So I decided to stop being friends with her and she went all crazy and harass me on twitter. She...
    meganchang meganchang 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    i'm not being selfish or something, but i just want my friend back... recently this best friend of mine just met a new friend online. they happened to be in the same school (and...
    yunisaurus yunisaurus 13-15, F Aug 22

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    I have nothing against children. I just don't want any plopping out of these thighs, EVER.
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I like kids but I don't think I would trust myself to be a mother. Its such a huge responsibility and I'm not sure I would be very good at it. I sometimes fade into myself and shut...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't want kids. I do enjoy being around children. They're cute don't get me wrong [although they're some nasty ones out there] but, very early on I just knew that I didn't want...
    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    and i don't want to lie bout myself. If people don't like me its ok. I understand.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F Jul 31

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    Everytime I try to imagine my life with children I can only see how tying myself down would severely impede my educational and career goals. I would also have to marry(children out...
    Hoshanna Hoshanna 31-35, F Aug 6

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    The only tempting thing for me to get married is the sex since i am someone not hot enough to get laid. I don't want to get burdened with the responsibilities otherwise. I suffer...
    ipulkit ipulkit 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    Like Ever. I don't want my kid having my issues. I hope I never get pregnant. If so I would turn to abortion,adoption. Check out Safe Haven Laws in your state for parents who want...
    Hannarose Hannarose 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Even though I don't want kids I still get a motherly yearn sometimes, to have the whole experience. But I'm not going to do it. Maybe next lifetime.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Lately everything has been going wrong for me and there's nothing I can do about it I'm depressed and the only reason I'm staying is because I don't want to be selfish. But...
    thewondergirl thewondergirl 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I'm sorry mom and dad, college wasn't for me I had to drop out, I know how you feel I think I wasn't made for school I've always struggle to stay I'm class, I apologize for...
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    I hate myself. That's all there is to it. I keep things to myself because if I tell someone I hate myself I'm automatically an attention *****. But truth is I don't even want...
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    He is getting out of hand. He's professing his undying love for me. We dated when we were 14 were both almost 18 now. I've moved on cuz I had no choice. He left me out of the blue...
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