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I Don't Want to Be In Love Any More

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    I Want To Freeze My Heart, No More One Sided Love!!!!!!!!!!

    This is my 3rd time to fall in love. First time, it ended very bad....the guy hurt me very deeply with his words. Not only did he reject me bluntly, he even blamed me for falling for him. It took me a year and litre of tears to get over it. Second time, I fell in love, again...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 9, 2010

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    Being in love hurts. I was with my boyfriend

    for nearly 14 months. I broke up with him because after giving me a promise ring (it was a few months back was really happy about it) he ignored me for two weeks and treated me like I didn't matter nor existed. After finally getting a hold of him to talk all I asked was "can you...
    goinInsane goinInsane 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    Ever, Ever Again.

    "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" I don't know who said this, but they were so full of ****. I don't want to feel. At all. Ever. I'm sure I'm just over reacting, but I don't care anymore. I just don't want to feel ever, ever...
    belleanomalie belleanomalie 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I'm A Horrible Person.

    I don't deserve to love or be loved in return. I'm a bad person. I'm miserable. And anyone who's associated with me ends up sad or being hurt.
    bontacoon bontacoon 22-25, M Aug 18, 2013

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    Waste Of Time, Love Is The Source Of My Misery, No More.

    i keep bouncing back and forth about whether to try to love again or just stay single. i really dont know what to do.but something i saw really turned me away from trying to love again. something i wish i never looked at in the first place. there was a girl i liked and i took...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    This Is The End

    Seriously , I can't take this anymore , I get hurt so much time & now I decide to move on I don't want to fall in love again ... but maybe if I find the right person ... so much things gonna change I don't know .. I don't think so anyway
    hyunam hyunam 16-17, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Move On

    I decide to move on!!!!! I am moving on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) It is kind of sad that he did not reciprocate my feeling But I feel relieved I still cannot imagine being in love anymore in the future I do not want to fall in love anymore at least for some time, I need to rearrange...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 14, 2010

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    I have tried finding love all my life.

    I compromise so much of myself, my eccentricity, my sarcastic attitude, my weirdness, and it did nothing for me. I tried finding a balance, but I can't find one. I'm either really weird and eccentric, or really timid and boring. I have no standards, because I'm afraid of...
    mehxx mehxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Have You Ever...

    Have you ever loved somebody so much that when you wake up, before you even open your eyes, they are the first thing that you think of...? Have you ever loved somebody so much that they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep...? Have you ever loved somebody so...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    The Worst Promise Ever

         Falling in love has always been a weak spot for me. I always used to think that it would be a magical thing when it happened. But I never expected it to hurt. This past April, I had a terrible rundown with my first love.We were on a school trip, and I was...
    headoverstilletos headoverstilletos 13-15 Nov 18, 2010

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    Love Has Got A Hold Of Me..and Wont Let Go

    I was in a relationship with this guy for a year and a half. I cheated on him, yes i know, im horrible....but i broke it off with him. Now were on and off and I sill love him. Im sick of loving him, I wanna move on and not love him anymore. 
    nene577 nene577 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    What Was I Thinking?

    A few months ago, I wanted to be in love. I wanted someone to smile at me, be in love with me and want to be with me. But then I started dating my boyfriend. I love him, I know I do. But now I realize that being in love freaking sucks. I don't want to drag him down with me...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    Period Period, Go away I don't need you, I don't want kids some day
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There, I said it. I am not having a baby! Yes, my hips look like they could plop one out in a heart beat. Yes, my large breast probably could feed 10 of them a peice,a day. Yes...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Alone is not bad, when it is a choice. When it isn't a choice, it is not necessarily bad, but it is lonely. I find it strange that I am lonely, when in the past, being alone didn...
    comeonletsgo comeonletsgo 61-65, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    veranique veranique 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't know how I feel, I do not know if this is official. I have this theory, where, if I ever had a girlfriend, another guy may take her away from me, somehow. I feel that way...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I don't want kids because I don't want kids. Age, race, gender, etc has nothing to do with it. It's not something I want to put my mind and body through. Because I don't have to.
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    Highschool Sweethearts My husband and I have been together for 11yrs. we got together the summer after junior yr of high school in Hawaii. We were inseparable. As soon as we...
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    I don't want any friends at all, at least from a conscious theoretical perspective. From an evolutionary perspective, I see friendship as a way to ensure survival by combining...
    Zaxel Zaxel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    my husband and i for married last year. I hate kids, particularly the young ones. I don't mind them as much if they're older, as long as they behave. however, my husband wants kids...
    gingerru gingerru 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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    Isn't your significant other supposed to be your best friend... We've been together about a year and a half and I don't feel like my bf is any kind of friend especially not a best...
    SkyeFoster SkyeFoster 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I find it sad that people think that the only way to find happiness and true love is if they have children. So, your friends, family, pets, bf/gf, or spouse don't make you happy...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    "Oh when you get older, you'll change your mind." I'm not saying youre wrong. But I'm not saying youre correct either. When I get older, I don't see children in my life. I want a...
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    There are countless reasons why I don't want children. One being: People may call me selfish for not having children. However, I say that bringing a innocent, helpless child into a...
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm a real piece of work. I married the girl of my dreams and had three beautiful kids with her. But I have issues. Serious issues. I have PTSD, anxiety, anger issues...
    Cantevergetright Cantevergetright 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Because of the medical problems I have, I feel like I'd have a really tough pregnancy. Also, I tire out easily, so I don't think I'll have the energy to take care of a kid. And I...
    hiddenkitty hiddenkitty 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't want some sanctimonious, pompous vicar saying crap about me. Just dump me on the compost at the bottom of the garden or something. I don't know.
    jeannabeens71 jeannabeens71 41-45, F Aug 18

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    She's going to leave, this bright star. She will shoot across the heavens and lend light to the universe. My friend is amazing, is beautiful, and is going to move on. It is...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I can not find anyone who loves me back. I'm gay. I have dated only once but it was long distance. All the guys who I have crushed on are straight or they don't know what they are...
    AlphaSolaAmator AlphaSolaAmator 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I hope that as I make my way through high school and then college after that I will have an interesting life. I don't want to live a boring ho hum life that no one cares about. I...
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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