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I Don't Want to Be In Love Any More

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    I'm A Horrible Person.

    I don't deserve to love or be loved in return. I'm a bad person. I'm miserable. And anyone who's associated with me ends up sad or being hurt.
    bontacoon bontacoon 22-25, M Aug 18, 2013

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    This Is The End

    Seriously , I can't take this anymore , I get hurt so much time & now I decide to move on I don't want to fall in love again ... but maybe if I find the right person ... so much things gonna change I don't know .. I don't think so anyway
    hyunam hyunam 16-17, F Jul 23, 2013

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    What Was I Thinking?

    A few months ago, I wanted to be in love. I wanted someone to smile at me, be in love with me and want to be with me. But then I started dating my boyfriend. I love him, I know I do. But now I realize that being in love freaking sucks. I don't want to drag him down with me...
    hurts2much hurts2much 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    Being in love hurts. I was with my boyfriend

    for nearly 14 months. I broke up with him because after giving me a promise ring (it was a few months back was really happy about it) he ignored me for two weeks and treated me like I didn't matter nor existed. After finally getting a hold of him to talk all I asked was "can you...
    goinInsane goinInsane 18-21 Dec 27, 2013

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    Ever, Ever Again.

    "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" I don't know who said this, but they were so full of ****. I don't want to feel. At all. Ever. I'm sure I'm just over reacting, but I don't care anymore. I just don't want to feel ever, ever...
    belleanomalie belleanomalie 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    I have tried finding love all my life.

    I compromise so much of myself, my eccentricity, my sarcastic attitude, my weirdness, and it did nothing for me. I tried finding a balance, but I can't find one. I'm either really weird and eccentric, or really timid and boring. I have no standards, because I'm afraid of...
    mehxx mehxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    Waste Of Time, Love Is The Source Of My Misery, No More.

    i keep bouncing back and forth about whether to try to love again or just stay single. i really dont know what to do.but something i saw really turned me away from trying to love again. something i wish i never looked at in the first place. there was a girl i liked and i took...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20, 2010

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    I Want To Freeze My Heart, No More One Sided Love!!!!!!!!!!

    This is my 3rd time to fall in love. First time, it ended very bad....the guy hurt me very deeply with his words. Not only did he reject me bluntly, he even blamed me for falling for him. It took me a year and litre of tears to get over it. Second time, I fell in love, again...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 9, 2010

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    Move On

    I decide to move on!!!!! I am moving on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) It is kind of sad that he did not reciprocate my feeling But I feel relieved I still cannot imagine being in love anymore in the future I do not want to fall in love anymore at least for some time, I need to rearrange...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F Dec 14, 2010

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    The Worst Promise Ever

         Falling in love has always been a weak spot for me. I always used to think that it would be a magical thing when it happened. But I never expected it to hurt. This past April, I had a terrible rundown with my first love.We were on a school trip, and I was...
    headoverstilletos headoverstilletos 13-15 Nov 18, 2010

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    Love Has Got A Hold Of Me..and Wont Let Go

    I was in a relationship with this guy for a year and a half. I cheated on him, yes i know, im horrible....but i broke it off with him. Now were on and off and I sill love him. Im sick of loving him, I wanna move on and not love him anymore. 
    nene577 nene577 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    Have You Ever...

    Have you ever loved somebody so much that when you wake up, before you even open your eyes, they are the first thing that you think of...? Have you ever loved somebody so much that they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep...? Have you ever loved somebody so...
    blindhorse63 blindhorse63 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    i asked before and chosen to be loved but honestly i hate love by every painful pain i feel right now!!!, i hate it i hate it and i never hated something in my life but it...
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    my love for him is fading away day by day(mainly cuz of his actions, we had so much of chemistry n now its gone), valentines is near n i feel so irritated !!
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    My mom was abused by her mother, went to live with her dad, later in life she had kids, and then abused them. That is what has happened for generations in my family. History has...
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    Especially if it's an ex that had the most terificly bad things to say about u... Also when people ask u what ur doing now and ur like... erm... I am looking for a job... I...
    Backspaceblogger Backspaceblogger 26-30 1 day ago

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    I have a feeling so many of my friends parents pity me. I don't want that. They've seen me go throughout so much family related issues and I feel like they're overly cautious when...
    PearlyyJayy PearlyyJayy 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    so valentine's day is coming up and our 8 yr anniversary happens to be that day too. and to me it's a big deal. I don t get any romance at all throughout the year. and I've...
    Lucylubbsgolda Lucylubbsgolda 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Here I am, another spring semester, another crisis. I am currently awaiting results from a brain scan. Could be a brain tumor, could be epilepsy, who knows? Not me. Understandably...
    BuzzFanatic BuzzFanatic 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I married the man of my dreams and he cheated on me. I want to move on but it's complicated and I'm desperate. He's at the point where I deal with it and get over it because I'm...
    pairofblues pairofblues 26-30, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I get antsy when people want to talk on the phone for more than 5 minutes. I thought this anxiety would be gone by now.
    Jewelz62 Jewelz62 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I don't get any pleasure when people who know nothing about me leave comments like "I'm sure you are beautiful" and "Lots of men find X really sexy" after I say something about...
    adel66 adel66 46-50, F 3 days ago

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    My energy is severely limited by a disease and I don't think I could physically handle the care for a child. That lack of energy also gets in the way of gathering the money for...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't understand today's "obsessional" priority of a phone call...we've all got voice mail, so use it...if you're actually with someone that took the time out of their day to be...
    BooBoo493 BooBoo493 61-65, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    No i won't be, i refuse to be a verbally abusive lazy alcoholic. Who didn't want kids but had them anyways.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Pain pain pain pain pain. That's all I feel is pain. I want to scream it hurts so much. Pain inside. Driving me crazy. I want others to see my pain. Know my pain, but I can't tell...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Though I really don't know what defines a boing life. Since no one's life is completely boring.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I don't trust my husband anymore, after a lot of "little lies" I found that he has a sex lover on line, then months later I saw his profile on a dating site, and his sister...
    ladywarrior100 ladywarrior100 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Do you find it ****** up that most people want you to respect their decision of wanting kids, but they won't respect your decision of not wanting any?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 9 Responses Feb 3

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    Not having kids is for me a charity act to the world. I believe there are too many people on Earth, and millions do not live good. I think that reducing the number of person would...
    JuPond JuPond 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I have started to feel more powerfully about this since my friends started to have them themselves. Good, old, Female friends that are essentially permanently off the market and...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 31

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    It's crazy. When you are friends with someone for so long, only to realize years later that you can't talk about EVERYTHING. I learned that over the past weekend. I love this...
    Jazzy1234 Jazzy1234 31-35, F Jan 31

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    ughhhh really don't wanna go.
    hexKrona hexKrona 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I keep hoping that I can get thru to him, that the tunnel of darkness will somehow go back to light. Some days I just don't want to even try to get him to understand, other days I...
    NolaHollywood NolaHollywood 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    I don't want children nor do I have children and it's staying that way. First when becoming intimate with my husband when get the mood all of the sudden kids come in no thank you...
    Cynthia1976 Cynthia1976 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    im madly, deeply in love with a man that dosnt love me back. i want to marry him but he wants to lie and cheat. i need to forget about him so i can be happy but its difficult to...
    jbrose413 jbrose413 22-25 Jan 29

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    Plz ladies if your gonna add me at least have a profile and a experience's don't expect me to send you photo's of me in a skin suit. As for guys I won't add you!
    Sofia1179 Sofia1179 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    It's getting to the point now if I don't know if I can keep going. I am practising acceptance and making peace with what may come to me. But what I can't take anymore is the...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M Jan 27

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    In my opinion, I'm not a very smart person, have not made the smartest choices, and have not had the funnest time on earth. I don't want to raise a child in a world like this to...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    If I help you, it's because I have made the choice. Although I don't ask for anything in return, understand that I will not allow myself, or my family to be taken advantage of.
    ZenGrrrlLioNESS ZenGrrrlLioNESS 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 26