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I Dont Want To Fight For The Wrong Reasons

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    I Don't Like It But If I Must

     I'll shut down emotionally, use logic the whole way, take out my pretty little claws and WIN. Because if you make me argue I'LL MAKE SURE TO FINISH IT all victorious and glorious like ALI! So don't bring it. Things can be solved so much easier through talking instead of...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F Dec 5, 2009

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    She Loves Me She Loves Me Not

    this is weird. this site is one of those that i use to frown upon in a past relationship. she was crazy about me, and i wasen't so crazy bout her anymore and she seemed to find the confort and support she wasen't gettin from me on this site. i guess it is my turn to tell my story...
    ronie23 ronie23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2010

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    Picking Your Battles

    Each and every day we are faced with choices. We are bombared with visual, physical, psychological and emotion stimulants almost by the minute. Buy this! Believe that! Vote him! Love her! Accept this behavior! Sunday! Sunday! Sunday! Each and everyone of our choices has a...
    crow29 crow29 31-35, M Jun 28, 2012

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    My Wife Cheated On Me But I Still Love Her With All My Heart.

    My wife cheated on me but i still love her with all my heart and will forgive her but she says that after what she has done she cant be with me any more, i am going to fight for us to work because i believe she still loves me and i cant imagen living with out her! can someone...
    AnthonyHead AnthonyHead 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    I Am Hurt & Lost But I Still ...

    I have loved and married a man for 10 years only to found out that after our child is born, he no longer loves me. How could that happen? I am so hurt and lost. And I can't turn all my emotions off...
    Sensaciones Sensaciones 26-30 2 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    Please Don't Take It Out On Me!

    I know things aren't always the best...  I know it was a bad day yesterday...that seemed to carry over to today...  Us fighting over work, trucks, bills...family...kids...  Just sucks...  You don't seem to understand my side of things...  All I have to do...
    tks tks 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    My Wife Left Me For No Reason

    My in-law's brainwashed my wife, so left home 4 months before on small fight with my family. I really miss her. She is not coming back.
    Feb 2, 2013

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    We Are Both Not On Our Meds I Get That....

    I get that we are both not on our meds. I get that you are stressed out about work, and getting a promotion, and worrying about me. I get that I am on a rollar-coaster, that isn't letting me get off anytime soon. I just wish we wouldn't fight. I wish you wouldn't leave in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 30, 2009

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    I hate fighting. I really despise any drama in my life at all. It stresses me out and makes me cry, but I will always fight for what I love. I would fight to the death for the...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F Mar 29

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    I am introvert and shy by nature. I avoid confrontations. I have always been uncomfortable to fight or argue unnecessarily. I love too much and that's what I enjoy doing. I am very...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Fight for what you believe in, I was once told. There's no shame in fighting for what you believe in. In fact, fighting for something just goes to show how much you want it. I...
    awkwardnessbeginshere awkwardnessbeginshere 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I am a very peaceful person. I try to consider Jesus' approach in everything I do because we are made in his and his fathers image and I want to start acting like it. I will fight...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Have you ever fought for the one you live? Thats how you no you care about someone your willing to fight for them because you don't wanna lose them. Couples that fights are more...
    missunperfectly missunperfectly 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I always fight for what I believe in because there is a goal that everyone has and it has to be achieved someday... I won't stop until I get there!!!
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Mar 28

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    Even if I disagree with you I will fight for your right to express your opinion. Once we lose this freedom of expression we are lost as a society.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    If you don't fight for what you believe In then you never really believed in it. Just joined the bandwagon because you thought it would look good. That's my personal thought for...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I am happily married woman. My husband loves me a lot. We have been married for 4 years. 2 years after marriage I resigned my job n moved to a new place with my husband. I got no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 26

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    I loved him. I really loved him. I hate myself for still being so madly in love with him. There hasn't been a single day I haven't thought about him ever since I met him. The break...
    nobodyn234 nobodyn234 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    That my mother never made me a priority. I want to forget that she moved me in with a child molestor and a rapist. Nothing happened except the molestor priming me up. Walking into...
    karenjposey012213 karenjposey012213 22-25, F Mar 27

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    So... Yesterday marked 6 months since I was put in a hospital room for four hours, cameras in each corner, wearing nothing but a hospital gown and a necklace I refused to take off...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    this is my biggest problem. guys never want me for me, and it makes me feel like ****. I hate myself half the time because of it.
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Ppl say its wrong to love who I do but Idc I love this person and will always fight their corner
    lifecansuckmydick lifecansuckmydick 13-15, F Apr 3

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    All people are people. And here in America, the issue is quite illogical. I don't know if it's the largest of an issue here, but when I hear about states legalizing gay marriage it...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love God. And I'll defend what I believe. I'm His soldier, and I'm His daughter. I will keep what I know and love. I love my boyfriend. And I'll fight against school, work...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I'm a pacifist not because of religion or anything, I'm just usually too lazy to fight. But if someone I love is at risk, I will fight to defend them. I have actually sent a guy to...
    ZC343454 ZC343454 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    In every relationship I have been in. It's been me who has made all the sacrifices. My friends. My family. My home. I've given up so much in the name of "love and commitment". And...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F Apr 1

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    I'll give up my life for her, no I won't back down. Not until I lie cold on the dry hard ground. Cause she gave me reason to even live and stand tall. Even if she don't really love...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Truthfully, I'm the opposite! I love getting in fights (as long as they stay in the safety boundaries (I'm not an idiot (or at least if hope I'm not xD)))!
    EmbryosandSkulls EmbryosandSkulls 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    My girlfriend of 3 years recently developed a crush on a co worker. She wants to rethink out commitment before we decide this will be forever. I want to give her the space and time...
    religiousd religiousd 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I fought and I lost. We weren't meant to be. Now I'm ready and of course I will fight again!!!! For some one new!!!
    ser3garcia ser3garcia 31-35, M Mar 29

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    I am picking up my ex's kids on Saturday to go to a movie and ice cream. I am going to pour my heart out to her in hopes that we can get back together. I miss her and the kids...
    domsdad domsdad 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am an extremely patient and tolerant person and it takes a lot to make me angry. But if I do get angry it's usually pretty intense because it is something that I feel very...
    purplemusicprincess purplemusicprincess 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK!!!!!! My boyfriend is back:) He has been gone for 8 months and now I get him back for a little while:)
    AbbieBaby AbbieBaby 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I am pretty pacifist, but I'm willing to be horrifyingly sassy and rude and forceful for something I love
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I never wanted to look back. I had to stack the deck against myself. I'm too scared of losing you to be involved with what I used to do. Please, let me break my cycle. I always...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    I hate having to push you away right now, Kilig. I don't want things to be all about me. I just need to figure out how to talk to you about how hurt I am right now. I don't think I...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 29

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    I didn't want it this way and I still don't Kilig. Never is a horrible word.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    If we're finished, Kilig; it was decided by you. If you want our relationship to be over, it's been all about you from the very beginning. However, I'm not through with you. You...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 31

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    Little did THEY know, that the only thing I really believed in was us. I never forget. We never forget. #ops
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 25

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    Please anon, don't make it any more difficult than it needs to be for me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    What you guys still don't get is that it IS best for us if I leave her alone for right now.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    You aren't the first person I've sent myself to jail for, Kilig. You just happen to be the one that matters most to me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 30

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    True love isn't easy. But it must be fought for. Because once you find it. It can never be replaced. 💔🌹 But can it be repaired?
    Missjayne1 Missjayne1 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    There is so much to say to you, for I'm just an observer just like you. When I look at you, an eternal thought kicks in, automatically without my permission, in my head, based on a...
    MyLady9 MyLady9 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I have been thinking a lot about love. I don't know why. The thought pulls me in. It makes me feel safe. It's like I'm in love, or maybe I just love the thought, or maybe I just...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F Mar 28

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    After one year of being lied to all I want to do is forget and move on but it's too hard when everything has happened so recently and so fast. Why did I have to fall for him? Why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7

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    I was cut when I was 8 and missed my fire skin ever since. I tried restoration, but found it awkward since I frequent the gym. I would have foreskin restoration surgery if it was...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Do you ever wish you can completely forget about someone, just get them out of ur memory, because of all the hurt u feel/felt. Forgiving might be easy but forgetting is hard
    BicurMe BicurMe 31-35, F 14 hrs ago

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    Late spring. Time when we kind of stop appreciating wild little yellow flowers, purple flowers, fresh green grass, soft wind, bluer, sky and shinier sun.
    FreeFallWall FreeFallWall 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    If you don't then you didn't believe in it in the first place. It was just something you went along with to make you look better
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I got drunk coz we broke up and when she knew about it she showed up and took care of me :) i just love the feeling of being taken cared of coz usually it's the other way around...
    Harraf Harraf 18-21, F Apr 3

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