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I Don't Want to Get Pregnant

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    I think I'm pregnant.

    I'm f.u.cking terrified.
    Lu24642 Lu24642 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 14

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    Even Though I'm a Guy

    Okay, guys can't get pregnant. But I hear couples say all the time, "We're pregnant," and guys asking, "Are we pregnant?" There's emphasis on the "we," like a man is part of the process. I'm glad there are still people out there who...
    rustyguy rustyguy 18-21, M 6 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    So I think I may be pregnant

    but all my pregnancy tests are negative! I'm about a week late for my period, and my lower back is killing me, I've been really gassy, hungry, super tired, cramping, and a lot of discharge. I've had sex about 10 times in the last month, but always use a condom, but once the...
    MotherfuckingBass MotherfuckingBass 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    Bad Idea # 1

    I have a romantic interest, and we are getting closer as the days go by. However, I have no desire to bear his child. I have no patience or tolerance for children. I don't have any ill-will or grudges, and am not a spiteful person or mean, I just can't stand kids, and as such...
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2008

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    NO

    As of right now, I do NOT want to get preggers...I wouldn't be able to provide him/her with the home or family that he/she deserves and it wouldn't be fair to either one of us.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Just Not Maternal

    I'm always meticulously careful when Vlad and I have sex, and will rush to the doctors to get the morning-after pill if there is even the slightest chance that the condom may have slipped.  Neither Vlad, nor I especially want me to have children.   I have been told...
    Ryuuzaki Ryuuzaki 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Ok my period was on september 30th

    and it lasted 6 days and so my boyfriend told me if i wanted to have sex and i told him yes , so he didnt tell me that we had unorotected sex , and now im worried that ima be pregnant . Wat should i do ? I have a life head of me and i dont wanna become pregnant right now by the...
    Ddghhtddghyg Ddghhtddghyg 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    Maybe I'll Change My Mind..

    But right now, I am utterly terrified and disgusted by the thought of being pregnant and going through the whole ordeal. When I was little, I always wanted kids. Until a couple of years ago I thought that being pregnant would be amazing, I loved kids. Still do love them. Even to...
    s4261627 s4261627 18-21 Dec 22, 2012

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    Absolutely Not.

    In my younger years, I always dreamed of being a mommy someday.  Now that I've gotten older, I realize that I just don't want to have a baby.  Maybe I'll change my mind in ten more years.  But right now, I don't want to get pregnant and have a baby.  There is...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    God No

    im only 19! it would **** everything up. completely. urgh.
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2008

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    We didn't do it with a con from

    and I always did with a condom... I am truly scared right now.. That I might be pregnant 😔😔 I'm only 18 I have so much to look forward I'm crying so much right now... Ahh
    Jic195 Jic195 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Don't Want Kids, And A Question

    I don't want kids.  I don't have a maternal bone in me... for people.  When everyone else is cooing over the baby in the room, I'm just not interested.  However, I am VERY maternal when it comes to animals.  I'm 27 and hope to be able to have a house by the...
    NYCgirl6 NYCgirl6 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    NOOOOO Gtfo

     I do NOT want to get pregnant! Not now, and not anytime soon. It is the creepiest thing to say to me that you want to "get me pregnant" or "Have your babies" No, just no.  It is one of the few things that will seriously make me want to run away...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    I Dont Wanna Ge Pregnant

    i dont wanna get pregnant now.. i'm not saying when im 15 or 17 either more like 22 so that i can live my life and have fun before i would have to settle down.
    cutebutdeadly295 cutebutdeadly295 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I am 35 and I trying really hard to get

    pregnant. Any tips from the women?
    roadrunner34 roadrunner34 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Sad

    i will never get over losing Laura, my precious daughter. i dont want to get pregnant and could not cope 9 months of stress and anxiety at the thought of losing another child.Laura is special to me i will never forget her.i can never replace her. i blame myself for her death. i...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 8 Responses May 11, 2010

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    I'm Seriously Scared of Getting Pregnant

    The idea of me being pregnant seriously terrifies me.  I mean I dread it and fear it so much.  It's incredible.  Even if I'm alone and getting business done, somehow my mind will warp and make me very paranoid about possibly getting pregnant.  I can't even...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    Not Now

    I'm 21; I don't think any 21 year old needs to be making a family in this economy. It's not that I wouldn't love to experience what all of my friends have. It's not that I don't want a family. It's not that I'm afraid of being pregnant. No, it's just not the right choice. It wasn...
    tahruhh tahruhh 18-21, F Aug 20, 2012

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    I Don't Want To

    In my country, married people like to have kids and more kids. One reason married people have many kids is the husband wants his pregnant wife to have a baby boy a male baby, and the poor wife still gets pregnant and have baby girl after baby girl until she finally have a baby...
    Gady222 Gady222 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    I Feel Like Somehow I Am Doing An Injustice...

    To society. There is nothing wrong with wanting children, or not wanting children, however some seem to think there is with not wanting them. An in cases, I see that people have a beautiful light and joy about it, and they do not want others to miss out. Other people want to...
    Zelda2 Zelda2 26-30 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I have never once thought about getting

    together with a guy and having a family. Why? Because it's not what I want. It's not part of my "life goals." I would end up losing my freedom if I chose to have children or got into a relationship. I very much love and value my freedom. Some might say I'm not normal, but I can...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Eventually I Do

    but right now would not be a good time.  I'm thinking in 2 years when I'm married (hopefully) I will give it a shot.  Little caramel babies
    apencilfornow apencilfornow 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Hell No

    I'm 16. There was this time when my period was four days late. I have NEVER been that scared in my life. Back then I was even still convinced I was going to stay with him forever. If we were not even strong enough to stabilize a relationship, I guess I should be thanking God on...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    No Children Please

    Growing up, I thought that every woman wanted to grow up, get married and have kids. When I reached this, I knew that this did not apply to me. Even now, after I've graduated from college and I'm with the man of my dreams, I still do not want children. It could be because of my...
    queenietarts10 queenietarts10 22-25, F 4 Responses May 18, 2010

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    At Least...

    Not right now......one of these days I do want to get pregnant, but at least not right now. I want to be married and out of the house, with a job....I want to have kids one day, and be a mother but right now. I don't want to get pregnant. I can't even control my life, let...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Not Yet

    I defiantly do not want to get pregnant! I haven't even graduated high school yet and went to college. I really do want to wait till I get married to start having children
    keepdreaming keepdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2009

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    ALL of my friends say

    that they wanna have kids when they're 20, I feel like I'm more mature, in this anyways, I don't want to start having kids until 30, or around that, I'm still self centered.. I don't want to be that mom that only cares about yourself, and when you have kids.. You can't just...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Well, This Is An Experience I Can Guarantee Will Not Happen

    Well, since I am in the Sexless Marriage Group, this really goes hand in hand. Damn - to think if I were in the 'I really want to get pregnant' group !  No, I have a beautiful son.  He is four.  He bounces off of anything that sits still (including...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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