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I Don't Want to Get Pregnant

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    Well, This Is An Experience I Can Guarantee Will Not Happen - Well, since I am in the Sexless Marriage Group, this really goes hand in hand. Damn - to think if I were in...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    No Children Please - Growing up, I thought that every woman wanted to grow up, get married and have kids. When I reached this, I knew that this did not apply to me. Even now...
    queenietarts10 queenietarts10 22-25, F 4 Responses May 18, 2010

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    At Least... - Not right now......one of these days I do want to get pregnant, but at least not right now. I want to be married and out of the house, with a job....I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    Not Now - I'm 21; I don't think any 21 year old needs to be making a family in this economy. It's not that I wouldn't love to experience what all of my friends have. It's not that...
    tahruhh tahruhh 18-21, F Aug 20, 2012

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    Bad Idea # 1 - I have a romantic interest, and we are getting closer as the days go by. However, I have no desire to bear his child. I have no patience or tolerance for children. I...
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2008

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    Don't Want Kids, And A Question - I don't want kids.  I don't have a maternal bone in me... for people.  When everyone else is cooing over the baby in the room, I'm just...
    NYCgirl6 NYCgirl6 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Even Though I'm a Guy - Okay, guys can't get pregnant. But I hear couples say all the time, "We're pregnant," and guys asking, "Are we pregnant?"...
    rustyguy rustyguy 18-21, M 6 Responses Jan 17, 2009

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    Hell No - I'm 16. There was this time when my period was four days late. I have NEVER been that scared in my life. Back then I was even still convinced I was going to stay with him...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2009

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    I Feel Like Somehow I Am Doing An Injustice... - To society. There is nothing wrong with wanting children, or not wanting children, however some seem to think there is with not...
    Zelda2 Zelda2 26-30 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Absolutely Not. - In my younger years, I always dreamed of being a mommy someday.  Now that I've gotten older, I realize that I just don't want to have a baby.  Maybe I...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    Sad - i will never get over losing Laura, my precious daughter. i dont want to get pregnant and could not cope 9 months of stress and anxiety at the thought of losing another...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 8 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Maybe I'll Change My Mind.. - But right now, I am utterly terrified and disgusted by the thought of being pregnant and going through the whole ordeal. When I was little, I always...
    s4261627 s4261627 18-21 Dec 22, 2012

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    God No - im only 19! it would **** everything up. completely. urgh.
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2008

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    Not Yet - I defiantly do not want to get pregnant! I haven't even graduated high school yet and went to college. I really do want to wait till I get married to start having...
    keepdreaming keepdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2009

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    NOOOOO Gtfo -  I do NOT want to get pregnant! Not now, and not anytime soon. It is the creepiest thing to say to me that you want to "get me pregnant" or "Have...
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22, 2008

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    My 2 - pregnancies, and 2 miscarriages were enough to teach me that i'm just not cut out for going that route again.
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F Oct 31, 2011

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    I'm Seriously Scared of Getting Pregnant - The idea of me being pregnant seriously terrifies me.  I mean I dread it and fear it so much.  It's incredible.  Even if I...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    I Don't Want To - In my country, married people like to have kids and more kids. One reason married people have many kids is the husband wants his pregnant wife to have a baby boy...
    Gady222 Gady222 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Just Not Maternal - I'm always meticulously careful when Vlad and I have sex, and will rush to the doctors to get the morning-after pill if there is even the slightest chance that...
    Ryuuzaki Ryuuzaki 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    So I think I may be pregnant but all my pregnancy tests are negative! I'm about a week late for my period, and my lower back is killing me, I've been really gassy, hungry, super...
    MotherfuckingBass MotherfuckingBass 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    Eventually I Do - but right now would not be a good time.  I'm thinking in 2 years when I'm married (hopefully) I will give it a shot.  Little caramel babies
    apencilfornow apencilfornow 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    NO - As of right now, I do NOT want to get preggers...I wouldn't be able to provide him/her with the home or family that he/she deserves and it wouldn't be fair to either one...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    PuertoRicanPrincess18 PuertoRicanPrincess18 18-21, F 6 days ago

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