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I Don't Want To Go There But You Left Me No Choice

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    My mom was abused by her mother, went to live with her dad, later in life she had kids, and then abused them. That is what has happened for generations in my family. History has...
    Valeph Valeph 13-15, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    And maybe, just maybe, don't even judge me if you HAVE walked in my shoes. Everyone is different, and a little empathy and understanding can go a very long way.
    emmye emmye 46-50, F 9 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Especially if it's an ex that had the most terificly bad things to say about u... Also when people ask u what ur doing now and ur like... erm... I am looking for a job... I...
    Backspaceblogger Backspaceblogger 26-30 19 hrs ago

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    I have a feeling so many of my friends parents pity me. I don't want that. They've seen me go throughout so much family related issues and I feel like they're overly cautious when...
    PearlyyJayy PearlyyJayy 16-17, F 23 hrs ago

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    Here I am, another spring semester, another crisis. I am currently awaiting results from a brain scan. Could be a brain tumor, could be epilepsy, who knows? Not me. Understandably...
    BuzzFanatic BuzzFanatic 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I don't get any pleasure when people who know nothing about me leave comments like "I'm sure you are beautiful" and "Lots of men find X really sexy" after I say something about...
    adel66 adel66 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    My energy is severely limited by a disease and I don't think I could physically handle the care for a child. That lack of energy also gets in the way of gathering the money for...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't understand today's "obsessional" priority of a phone call...we've all got voice mail, so use it...if you're actually with someone that took the time out of their day to be...
    BooBoo493 BooBoo493 61-65, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    No i won't be, i refuse to be a verbally abusive lazy alcoholic. Who didn't want kids but had them anyways.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Pain pain pain pain pain. That's all I feel is pain. I want to scream it hurts so much. Pain inside. Driving me crazy. I want others to see my pain. Know my pain, but I can't tell...
    faeriefate faeriefate 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Though I really don't know what defines a boing life. Since no one's life is completely boring.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sometimes it feels like everyone judges me. I can't run, or swim as fast as the rest of the girls, I get behind in school, way behind,I am always sleeping and have a really hard...
    Youngandsarcastic Youngandsarcastic 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've only said this to two people that aren't my relatives, my ex and a friend of mine. I don't speak to the former, and am somewhat avoiding the latter. Truthfully, I want to...
    Condescendinitis Condescendinitis 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Do you find it ****** up that most people want you to respect their decision of wanting kids, but they won't respect your decision of not wanting any?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Not having kids is for me a charity act to the world. I believe there are too many people on Earth, and millions do not live good. I think that reducing the number of person would...
    JuPond JuPond 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    Ladies don't be sad when your man cheat's on you with someone not as beautiful inside and out.. Remember he cheated with her because he knew you were to beautiful for him... That's...
    lullabywolfeh lullabywolfeh 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    It's crazy. When you are friends with someone for so long, only to realize years later that you can't talk about EVERYTHING. I learned that over the past weekend. I love this...
    Jazzy1234 Jazzy1234 31-35, F Jan 31

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    ughhhh really don't wanna go.
    hexKrona hexKrona 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    have you ever had someone tell you they loved you and stuff, and your blunt enough to not say it back because you just don't feel it, but your nice enough to be honest .
    greyvibes214 greyvibes214 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I don't want children nor do I have children and it's staying that way. First when becoming intimate with my husband when get the mood all of the sudden kids come in no thank you...
    Cynthia1976 Cynthia1976 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I don't understand these people at all and have very little tolerance of them I usually block them
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014 41-45, M Jan 28

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    How can you see into my eyes Like open doors? Leading you down into my core Where I've become so numb Without a soul My spirit's sleeping somewhere cold Until you find it there...
    IEATDICKS IEATDICKS 70+, T 2 Responses Jan 28

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    In my opinion, I'm not a very smart person, have not made the smartest choices, and have not had the funnest time on earth. I don't want to raise a child in a world like this to...
    ghostofthesun ghostofthesun 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    If I help you, it's because I have made the choice. Although I don't ask for anything in return, understand that I will not allow myself, or my family to be taken advantage of.
    ZenGrrrlLioNESS ZenGrrrlLioNESS 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I accidentally gave my boyfriend hope today by talking about surrogate mothers out of curiosity. Not only do I not want to carry a child (which he thinks is the only reason) I...
    Nadiiaa Nadiiaa 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I don't think the word "love" should ever be taken lightly. It's sad that it has become a rather cheap commodity these days. But if you're not really ready to go through hell and...
    passionate1964 passionate1964 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 26

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    All I care about is if I like me. Others don't know me and don't deserve to judge me.
    10786y 10786y 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Reasons why I don't want kids: 1) I argue with them 2) I have no patience 3) I get mad at them if they're being naughty 4) And I have to watch my cussing
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    i'd rather just stand over here and watch, if you don't mind...oh, you do mind, i can see that. well, do i have to respond? i choose to just observe. you want me to participate...
    twitchie twitchie 61-65, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Hmm, there are times I can't say "I love you" to someone as I don't feel that way and there are other times I really want to say "I love you" to someone else but I just can't say...
    Anighttrain Anighttrain 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I hate that people say that "you'll change your mind one day." maybe I will, maybe I won't. As of right now I don't see myself as a motherly figure. I'm much too selfish to be a...
    queenkandas queenkandas 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    If I ever live by a neighbor who has kids whom are intentionally throwing their toys in my backyard, I'm taking those toys and donating them to GoodWill. They don't need 'em.
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Sorry, World, but I'm not going to have kids. I don't like the idea of being pregnant and I don't want the responsibility of taking care of a child. Hell, I don't even like...
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 23

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    As time passes, I miss you less and less. Glad you're done calling me, and I hope you're changing your selfish ways. Your mom deserves more of you as well as your grandparents. It...
    MJack1234 MJack1234 18-21, F Jan 23

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    I don't want kids. I really truly don't. I never have. When I was little, five or six, I told my mom I do not want kids. I still don't. She says I'll change my mind, but I doubt...
    13ookworm 13ookworm 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I don't hate kids. It's okay if people have them. But for me, I have a list of worries on why I don't want kids.1) Bad Pregnancy - I can be doing all the right things, exercising...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F Jan 22

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    Well if your female I have hope for you. I will be 40 next month and have never, ever truly wanted children. This was tested when I was 24 and got pregnant fr a casual relationship...
    Childfreetx Childfreetx 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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    I really don't, in every relationship I've been in I've never said I love you. till I net him. I didn't know what love was until he showed me (sorta in his friendish way) I was...
    ShadowRiver ShadowRiver 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    "What can I do to make you mine? Fallen so hard so fast this time What did I say? What did you do? How did I fall in love with you? I wanna say this right and it has to be tonight...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 19

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