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I Dont Want to Grow Old Alone

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    Lone But Not Alone

    I don't mind spending my life as a lone person with a significant other, however, I do not want to be Alone.  To me they are very different things. To be lone means you select few people for your inner circle and don't worry beyond that, you spend your time in solitude and...
    AbbyNormal AbbyNormal 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2007

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    Already Old and Alone

    Never thought I'd end up my age and be alone but here I am...no man, no children, no job, no life.... it all stinks.  Spend 99% of my time completely alone.  Never would have thought I'd have  a lonely empty life but here I am.  I'm sure I'll...
    tessieann tessieann 51-55, F 5 Responses May 29, 2007

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    End Of A Relationship At 61

    After 15 years living with a woman I have come to the conclusion that the relationship is over and I now live with an unfeeling stranger in my home. Not something that came on suddenly but has been a growing realization for the past 3 - 4 years. Many things coming to a head for...
    seigar seigar 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    It's The Dream................

    But knowing my luck in life, of course I will....................... Why the hell would anyone want to spend time with me................................
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Me And The Cats

    I'm betting there won't be a husband, so I'll be the "crazy cat lady". They're more dependable anyway...and loving!
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 12, 2009

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    Old And Lonely

    Wish my mum had told me when I was still young and eligible to find a good man I can marry so I won't be "old and lonely" as I am now.  I am 53years old now, never married legally, a single parent of two children and lonely all of the time.  If I had known how lonely life would...
    shellkiss shellkiss 51-55 2 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    The World Fails To See The Wonderful Person I Am

    I left an abusive relationship in 1999 when i found i was pregnant and have been alone since. the baby was born with cancer and passed away in 2001. Since then as result of the abuse degenrative athritis has taken toll on my body. I ;ole many have slowly put on wieght and am...
    littlebit3359 littlebit3359 51-55 3 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    When I was a teenage I felt so sorry for anyone over 30. But now at 55, I see the absolute beauty of growing older. Now, I have worked for over 30 years, I have raised two...
    RedXSue RedXSue 51-55, F Aug 30

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    You don't even know . i can't imagine me having a full life , or even half of one . i figured i would have killed myself before i was 12 because i seriously don't want to grow old...
    Breenis Breenis 13-15, F Aug 24

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    i had a dream about my ex, and one of my best friends and i was having sex with them, but i told myself why am i doing this... i changing alot myself, but i dont know how much do i...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 29

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    I want to be alone. But I'd rather be alone with you...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M Sep 1

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    I know I'm kinda being selfish here. Don't get me wrong, I love having my younger siblings and my one older sister but I just can't help but think that I want an older brother :o...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    I recently had a fight with a close friend and now she hates me and all the people I knew that knew here hate me now. I am often alone and now my friends who don't even know her...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 16-17 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    It's so strange. All I want is to find someone to be with. Someone to hug whenever I feel like. Someone to look at In the morning and kiss softly and passionate and both. I have a...
    alexhuman alexhuman 18-21, M Sep 2

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    I'm scared I am gonna end up an old cat lady and die of sneezing cause I am highly allergic to them. I get liked by the boys I want to keep as friends and am afraid to flirt with...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    i'm not being selfish or something, but i just want my friend back... recently this best friend of mine just met a new friend online. they happened to be in the same school (and...
    yunisaurus yunisaurus 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I don't know why but I just want to live all alone in a small apartment or a studio. Earn little and be at peace. I'm sick of everyone around me and I want to get rid of all the...
    bar206 bar206 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm male and 20. I really want to experience an older woman. The oldest I've been with is 24, but i can't help but think about having hot sex with someone who's 35+
    deany311 deany311 18-21, M Aug 19

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    17 year old boy looking for a older man of any age to have sex with me! I'd do anything you want so message me?
    benw19 benw19 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Or cyber with :) the older the Better come and get me
    Happiness412 Happiness412 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    I want to be with someone who can keep their promise And not leave when things get rough.. :/
    Remedy96 Remedy96 16-17, M Aug 29

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    I'm 16 and I love older men and women 😋
    jhopegirl jhopegirl 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Anyone looking for a brother feel free to message me
    SoCalAssasin SoCalAssasin 18-21, M Aug 23

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    Any guy looking for a younger brother message me.
    PopTownRuler08 PopTownRuler08 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 23

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    Went to scout out where my date is going to meet me on Sunday night. Checked out where everything was located sink was comfortable when I get there hoping everything g goes as...
    Betty9953 Betty9953 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    Someone message me so horny
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 6

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    I have a deal for yu if yu willing to listen go read my experiences plz and inbox me serious ppl onli!!!
    ih8beingyung ih8beingyung 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm alone. It's an ongoing battle between hate and love. I love the feeling of being self-dependent and having my own voice but at the same time I feel lonely because I have no one...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 Aug 17

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    I just turned 45 a few weeks ago...had a fiancee....until a couple of weeks before that...then he bailed. I thought that I wouldn't have to deal with being alone again. After my...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Because society portrays the perfect body as skinny with thigh gap, tiny waist, slight broader hips, small boobs, firm and pointy chin. We wanna be perfect too. Sometimes I just...
    kikimyst kikimyst 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    You are out there, somewhere in this big world. Something, I don't know what it is, but something is keeping us apart. I have spent half of my life searching for you and the time...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I held her in my arms as she lay dying...she was taking her last breath and I was helpless to save her...Her time was coming to an end and I could only do what was the most...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    I don't know about sexy, but why worry about getting older it's not as if you can slam the breaks on and stop it. My recommendation grow old disgracefully and have fun.
    Wheels64 Wheels64 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    So - I have never felt challenged. I never tried in school, or in college, and now I'm out in the real world. I started a couple businesses (all construction related, basically...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Sep 5

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    I just simply want someone to love me, the way I love them. I want to find someone to hold close to me, to grow old together with. Someone I can fallow the same path with. I wish I...
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I am NOT growing old gracefully. Things still happen, fun times and good memories, but the morning after, looking in the mirror??? Damn...wth happened?
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think its called monophobia. The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I have decided I am going to run away,however i do not want to go alone,I am 15 years old and I live in New Mexico,USA. If you live in the US and want to come with me,please...
    MarienaMorello MarienaMorello 13-15, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I just want to be alone and watch the kinds of movies I want to watch, not have to share my food, or compromise on anything. I've been living with people my entire life...
    RayvenJ RayvenJ 22-25, F Aug 24

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    Lately, I've had some people ask me why I don't talk to them as much anymore. I've had people ask me if something is wrong when I tell them I don't want to hang out. I appreciate...
    cmill357 cmill357 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Today is just one of those days where I just feel it's out of my control. My anxiety is getting worst ever since that day I had a panic attack in public. In the bus I feel like I...
    YourFavoriteFlower YourFavoriteFlower 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to be alone and drink. yes I am an alcoholic person, I know drinking to a problem is bad, it never solves anything. but in my case I drink because I want to forget or even...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    My boyfriend who I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with left me. We lived together, slept with each other every night. Took baths with each other made dinner for...
    Mangocupcakes Mangocupcakes 16-17, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    So i have been trying to start writing something longer than just another one page half story. This is what i started now... thoughts?In every town there was one like her...
    QuiteElementary QuiteElementary 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have started writing so many stories.. but i never seem to get around to finishing them. So here is another start of another story i hope to one day finish. In every town there...
    QuiteElementary QuiteElementary 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    and it makes me ache inside...I don't want to be alone but if that's the hand I'm dealt I will handle it. I will stock up on cats and wine and head toward whatever's to come!
    clinicallyquirky clinicallyquirky 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    i want an older man to call daddy and i want him to call me baby or princess. i am very submissive love being spoiled. would love if he was older then 27
    juanitac juanitac 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can go a couple days almost enjoying my life then comes that feeling of me wanting to give up on EVERYTHING, school, work, life etc. When this feeling hits me it hits hard I just...
    dezy2be dezy2be 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21