I Don't Want to Have Kids

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    I Hate Kids

    I worked as a teacher - of small kids, 3- 7 years of age. It was awful. About 25 kids left with one teacher. They just completely broke my nervous system. I wanted to quit, but my mother kept saying that I just needed more practice to get used to it, so I kept going to work...
    graceymiller graceymiller
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2009

    I thinks its weird but i actually don't wanna

    have kids. All my friends, are sooo excited to be moms and stuff, but i just can't imagine myself as a mom. I just feel like when you have kids, your life in a way stops. there are so many things you can't do with kids.... My parents and my friends thinks its selfish, and...
    Tamie0164 Tamie0164
    18-21, F
    Jun 5, 2014

    I love kids. I really do.

    But I'm not going to bring any more human beings into this ****** up world. If I want kids, I'll adopt, and hopefully make some kid's life better. But I'm not going to give birth and drag some poor child into this awful place we call Earth.
    Skirefly Skirefly
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    I'm almost 31, and I really don't feel the urge

    to have children of my own someday. I am not sure why, like I would like a dog someday soon. But I just like the idea of spending my time and money only on my significant other and myself. As selfish as that is. At what point do Males usually think it's time to have children...
    BlueTiger57 BlueTiger57
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    A lot of people have told me I'd be a good

    parent, but I just don't want the responsibility, expense and stress that comes with having kids. It doesn't help more and more "parents" pretty much just hand their brats the reins and let them run wild. And if you dare call anyone out on their crappy parenting, or even dare to...
    PearlRose PearlRose
    Nov 8, 2015

    The Frustration

    One of the reasons why I don't want to have kids is the fact that because of the nature of life, you simply won't be able to protect them fully. On one hand because your opinion is subjetive and you may be wrong and on the other hand, because it's their life and they need to make...
    floatingintheocean floatingintheocean
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 10, 2011
    deleted deleted
    Jun 2, 2015

    After being in the military,

    there are many things I learned to not take for granted anymore....SleepSolitudeSpontaneityMoneyTimeIntimacyand so much more.I have come to understand that having kids is not for me. I will have to do a 360 turn for another being that didn't ask to be here.I am a kid enough to...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 18, 2015
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