I Don't Want to Lose Him

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    I Have 4 Months

    I have four months until I lose him forever, and I don't want to. The reality is that I will be leaving the country, and I have no choice. It's a student exchange. I wasn't expecting to meet anybody like him, not in this country, not in my life, ever. We are only friends but I...
    SpeakNoFeeling SpeakNoFeeling
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 18, 2010

    So my guy best friend ( the boy i like ) went

    out to a party last weekend. I couldn't go because i was sick. So anyway after the party had finished he called me when he got home to tell me about the party and stuff. Which was fine. And then he started telling me about this girl he met, he said she was really nice and that i...
    ruinedminds09 ruinedminds09
    16-17, F
    Sep 24, 2014

    I can't seem to give up loving someone

    even though I know it won't work out between us.
    emmadancer emmadancer
    18-21, F
    Sep 6, 2014

    he's so perfect he loves me the way I am

    and never ask me to change. really he's the perfect guy. the best thing that's ever happened to me I love him
    laverso laverso
    18-21, F
    Mar 19, 2015

    Okay, so there's this guy

    and we've been friends for a year+ now. He has continually expressed wanting to date me and I have said no A LOT. I value him so much in my life, he's one of my favorite people. I just don't want to date him. He was planning to ask me out this weekend (2 days before my birthday...
    heidiiscatlady heidiiscatlady
    18-21, T
    1 Response Feb 5, 2015

    im madly, deeply in love with a man

    that dosnt love me back. i want to marry him but he wants to lie and cheat. i need to forget about him so i can be happy but its difficult to forget about someone your in love with.
    solost413 solost413
    Jan 29, 2016

    I can never lose you.

    You are forever mine. Without you is not a life at all.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 29, 2015

    Codependent? Idk

    I love my husband with all my heart, but I feel the relationship fading.  As much as I know that the best thing is to leave, I can't.  All he does is yell anymore, and all I do is cry.  I'm not a weak person!  I've been on my own for 13 years, raised/ing 4...
    hopeless hopeless
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2007

    Myy Boo

    i think of him. dream of him. care about him. laught at him. smile at the thought of him. love the way he touches/kisses me. He's amazing. :) *You will always be my boo.   Can't hide it, deny it. He isn't very open with his feelings, but he told me todayy "... then...
    mimiboo mimiboo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2008

    Maybe Happy Endings Are Real....

    A few months ago I wrote a story about this guy j... and me and how I was moving away and how I would lose him forever well, guess what readers.? I didn't.! I did not move and my story had a happy ending.! I didnt lose him.!Well it was all a big scene like a true movie or love...
    mydarkworld13 mydarkworld13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2013

    Sometime chapter just have to close with out

    closure you can't lose yourself by tryna too fix that was not meant to stay .
    Moneea Moneea
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    I've never experienced anything like this in my

    life....the pain I feel when he's not around is so unbearable. I can't even think straight. Sometimes, I don't so anything but sit and think....I'm always afraid he'll walk away again and shut me out. It's so frightening to think about. And more than anything, I wish he knew...
    katiebeth91 katiebeth91
    26-30, F
    Mar 18, 2015

    AM I This Strong?

    I met "G' June of 2006 at a club with some of our mutual friends. I liked him from the start, but he was dating one of our friends. So I settled on becoming just a friend. I never saw our friendship blossom like it did. When I moved out-of-state, "G" helped me...
    LadyRant LadyRant
    22-25, F
    11 Responses May 18, 2007

    I Don't Want To Lose Neither Of Them...

    Yeah, I am one of those people that see it impossible to love more than one person at once, to give them total commiment, love and your heart yet I am one of those people.  I do love more than one person no more no less than the other.  Its not like half...
    winterheart winterheart
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2009
    deleted deleted
    Mar 19, 2015

    I Can'T Save Him

    So I met this guy, let's call him Dean. I met him through my boyfriend at the time and when we started chatting, we immediately clicked. We understood each other and became closer. I broke up with my boyfriend and went on with my life and Dean and I became closer by the day. I...
    SirenThing SirenThing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2013

    Like I Said I Never Knew Them ...

    Like I said I never knew them and if they didn't want to be apart of my parents life they have no business being apart of mine.
    lisaj0410 lisaj0410
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2007


    My boyfriend (Munchy) is just so supportive of everything that's wrong with me and helps me get through tough times. We have been together for nearly a year now and I'm still as madly in love with him as I was when we first got together :) We have our fights but then after we sit...
    Iheartiryan Iheartiryan
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    my love Bronson, you are the moon

    and all of my stars. you make me smile and light up when you swing me around in your arms that have held me on the saddest of nights. his eyes are the same brown eyes that I felt looking at me when you tried to get my attention that day. his hair always smells like he just came...
    strangecreaturre strangecreaturre
    18-21, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    I been feeling like shot lately

    but I'm so thankful to have someone who I can call my friend more than my friend and it's stupid how people think a guy and girl can't just be friends but they can he has been their for me through a lot and I love him so much he has helped me fight through crap and we are both...
    Dezitorsmilez Dezitorsmilez
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    In the past I've had bad relationship

    experiences & I don't want this one to be one too! We've been together for almost 3 yrs, and we fight over the stupidest things. How do I get him to see eye to eye with me? Idk what to do.
    SAndre23 SAndre23
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

    Love For My Boyfriend May Be Gone

    I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of five months. He is my first boyfriend, and I have a lot of love for him. However... the past few weeks I don't feel in love. I suppose I should explain everything of the past month when things first started to go wrong with...
    neku neku
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2012

    As a potential friend.

    ..Ladies I'm sorry....you have done your best to make hate him..I adore him I cannot live a hatred I don't have for this man...I can't despise him.
    imhotthatisnot789 imhotthatisnot789
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    I Don't Want to Lose Him....

    I don't want to lose my boyfriend. I Love him very much, and he is a huge part of who I am, and why I do the things I do today. He makes me happy, and I would give the end of my life for him. He makes me so happy most of them, I Love him so much. Him and I are having some...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 21, 2009

    I feel so lost right now.

    I have got too much time on my hands, and he doesn't have enough. I love him beyond any limit, but I don't have any hope. I want him happy, but I want him to understand and encourage too. Things are falling apart and I don't know how to save it.
    Jasperelliott Jasperelliott
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2014

    he means everything to me

    and I feel numb right now
    Mylo248 Mylo248
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    how to accept that he doesn't want to

    communicate with me anymore...i love him and he is the only man i want in my life...
    hannagrace hannagrace
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    I don't want to lose my husband he is a soldier

    and is currently on active duty we have 3 kids and expecting our fourth I just can't help but thinking about what my life would be like without him...
    kiana904 kiana904
    26-30, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    My husband says I don't respect him,

    don't value his opinion, don't care how he feels, and I ignore him. I sometimes bring up a different idea or different opinion/different side of something, and he ALWAYS takes it as me ignoring and disregarding his ideas instead just trying to help. He said I blame everything on...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    At first it was just sexual attraction,

    yes I'm married, yes it shouldn't have happened, but we'd just met that night, had a few drinks, ended up back at his place with a few friends, and ended up having the most incredible sex I've ever had. I was completely hooked, I went back, I shouldn't have, cos I am falling in...
    Coco181225 Coco181225
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2014
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2015

    but he barley talks to me anymore

    and he never says he loves like he used to, and while i was on vacation he asked if he could go on a date and it broke my heart.
    nobody0608 nobody0608
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    So Afraid of Loosing Him

    I can't keep a job due to my fantastic "Mood Disorder" and my boyfriend doesn't understand that. He has been at the same job for 16 years (he's 34, I'm 22) I don't know what to do. I can't move in with him without a job. Help?
    ArtisticChick ArtisticChick
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa
    26-30, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    His eyes are like an ocean the depth of them

    reaches his soul which is never ending. His smile can light up any room and definitely lights up my heart His laugh can reach inside my heart and pull out things I never knew existed. His hands so soft and gentle touching my skin sends sparks through my bones His heart so...
    itsMindoverMatter itsMindoverMatter
    31-35, F
    Dec 13, 2015
    Mylo248 Mylo248
    18-21, F
    Mar 3, 2015

    I'll Have To Give Him Up Someday...

    There are times when he touches me like a lover and kisses me and makes me feel like I'm walking on air. He calls me his best friend and he hugs me and tells me he thinks I'm lovely. I feel my whole stomach do back flips...That's usually when he's drunk. And then there are times...
    Akynorev Akynorev
    5 Responses Dec 12, 2011
    Lemons2000 Lemons2000
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2015

    Hello all...here's my problem.

    .. Well, this the first time that i write something like that about my BF.. My BF and i have a long distance relationship.. We meet sometimes and he's overprotective when it comes to me.. He loves me so much.. So do i !! But the problem is that i'm a happy and kind person.. I...
    Roosh99 Roosh99
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    Please Be Careful and Love Yourself First

    Reading the stories here I feel like I'm watching someone standing on the edge of a building preparing to jump. I know how good it feels to be in love (sort of) but the way you feel is temporary. You may love someone forever but as time goes by this intensity you are...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2009

    Words From The Girl Who Did Lose Him... What Happens After..

    He was my world and even after all the yrs we had been together, his kisses still give me shivers.  Then SHE came into our lives.  A blast from his high school past he had never spoke of and hadnt seen or spoken to in over 20 yrs.  6 months later he left me to go to her. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 19, 2011

    I met the most amazing man 24/06/15 probably

    the first time I fell in love. We get along so well, the kinda guy who finishes my sentences. He doesn't seem to make time for me anymore though and I'm afraid that I'm about to lose the most amazing guy I have ever met in my life.
    ZamaSD ZamaSD
    22-25, F
    Jul 2, 2015

    I Had An Affair...want to Be a Better Wife

    Hi.  I'm new here.  I wanted to share my story and maybe get some feedback by someone that has been in my shoes.  I know what I've done is wrong so I don't need any comments like that.  I just basically want an 'ear' and maybe some support in getting my...
    sb1208 sb1208
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Oct 6, 2009

    He'S Just A Friend.

    He is just a friend, but what he doesn't know there is no "just' about him. He is not "Just" a friend. He is not "just" a guy. He is not "just" a person. He is the most amazing person in my life. He has been by my side through so much ****. I keep hoping maybe one day he won't...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 6, 2013

    i feel so unwanted so useless.

    he dosnt even look at me the way he used to. i want us to be happy together but i dont feel like he wants that anymore. i feel so stupid like i dont know what to do or how to act right now. its like he dosnt even want to be near me and im craving being in his arms so badly right...
    solost413 solost413
    Mar 1, 2016

    I'm in love with my husband

    but not as a husband. I think the right thing to do is leave him
    bluefire110 bluefire110
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    This, him, all totally unexpected,

    but since my first taste of him, I was hooked, and now I'll do anything in my power not to lose him. He is my drug, although I know it's not good for me, I am completely addicted and I can't stop!
    Coco181225 Coco181225
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    I Need Him Forever...

    i don't want to ever lose him. he is everything to me and i would be nothing without him. he came into my life last december and since then i came really close to losing him and my world completely fell apart. i started to go back to my old life; i was depressed and impulsive. i...
    helloxkittyxoxox helloxkittyxoxox
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2011

    I know this can't be normal.

    When I have to leave him my heart feels too heavy. I'M JUST ONLY GOING TO WORK! I have to break myself from bed because I will literally stay asleep in his arms all day. I can't express how much I want and need him. It's been a couple of years and this feeling won't go away...
    ButtahCrunch ButtahCrunch
    26-30, F
    Mar 19, 2015

    I Can't Believe I Am Saying This...

    I am not a co-dependent person and I pride myself on NOT being jealous or clingy. However I have found myself with a great friend.  I realized that I would be a lost soul if I ever lose him.   I'm not worried about losing him at this point because we...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Jul 4, 2008

    Love Isn't Enough

    Today is July 15, 2009 and both Yahoo and MSN have stories about a study regarding couples staying together.   They found: 90 percent of second or third marriages end in divorce If a man gets married before the age of 25, or is 9 or more years older than his...
    rw5453 rw5453
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

    Help Me Please?

    Hi, I'm 20 years old and am destroying my relationship through constantly telling my partner I'm not enough for him. He is gentle, loving, kind, honest... He's my world. But I am always disregarding his love for me.. I constantly accuse him of cheating because I don't think he...
    MissWood MissWood
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 22, 2012
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