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I Don't Want to Lose Him

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    So Afraid of Loosing Him

    I can't keep a job due to my fantastic "Mood Disorder" and my boyfriend doesn't understand that. He has been at the same job for 16 years (he's 34, I'm 22) I don't know what to do. I can't move in with him without a job. Help?
    ArtisticChick ArtisticChick 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    This, him, all totally unexpected,

    but since my first taste of him, I was hooked, and now I'll do anything in my power not to lose him. He is my drug, although I know it's not good for me, I am completely addicted and I can't stop!
    Coco181225 Coco181225 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    Words From The Girl Who Did Lose Him... What Happens After..

    He was my world and even after all the yrs we had been together, his kisses still give me shivers.  Then SHE came into our lives.  A blast from his high school past he had never spoke of and hadnt seen or spoken to in over 20 yrs.  6 months later he left me to go to her. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    I'm in love with my husband

    but not as a husband. I think the right thing to do is leave him
    bluefire110 bluefire110 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Rain0069 Rain0069 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I Don't Want To Lose Neither Of Them...

    Yeah, I am one of those people that see it impossible to love more than one person at once, to give them total commiment, love and your heart yet I am one of those people.  I do love more than one person no more no less than the other.  Its not like half...
    winterheart winterheart 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    I Had An Affair...want to Be a Better Wife

    Hi.  I'm new here.  I wanted to share my story and maybe get some feedback by someone that has been in my shoes.  I know what I've done is wrong so I don't need any comments like that.  I just basically want an 'ear' and maybe some support in getting my...
    sb1208 sb1208 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    I already have but he's going to think about it

    over the weekend. He's always was able to make me smile when I'm down. He doesn't judge my scars. He's helped me through some of the toughest things in my life. He's my best friend and my love.
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2014

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    Okay, so there's this guy

    and we've been friends for a year+ now. He has continually expressed wanting to date me and I have said no A LOT. I value him so much in my life, he's one of my favorite people. I just don't want to date him. He was planning to ask me out this weekend (2 days before my birthday...
    heidiiscatlady heidiiscatlady 16-17, T 1 Response Feb 5

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    In the past I've had bad relationship

    experiences & I don't want this one to be one too! We've been together for almost 3 yrs, and we fight over the stupidest things. How do I get him to see eye to eye with me? Idk what to do.
    SAndre23 SAndre23 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    This Is So Complicated -.-

    Me and my boyfriend Dan broke up a month and a half ago and it wasn't a very nice break up either. We've just started talking again because his friend Charlie (what a darlin' for doing this for me) spoke to him about how I was feeling. He sent me a message telling me how sorry he...
    amysfc95 amysfc95 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    AM I This Strong?

    I met "G' June of 2006 at a club with some of our mutual friends. I liked him from the start, but he was dating one of our friends. So I settled on becoming just a friend. I never saw our friendship blossom like it did. When I moved out-of-state, "G" helped me...
    LadyRant LadyRant 18-21, F 11 Responses May 18, 2007

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    Love Isn't Enough

    Today is July 15, 2009 and both Yahoo and MSN have stories about a study regarding couples staying together.   They found: 90 percent of second or third marriages end in divorce If a man gets married before the age of 25, or is 9 or more years older than his...
    rw5453 rw5453 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    weadle98 weadle98 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2014

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    So my guy best friend ( the boy i like ) went

    out to a party last weekend. I couldn't go because i was sick. So anyway after the party had finished he called me when he got home to tell me about the party and stuff. Which was fine. And then he started telling me about this girl he met, he said she was really nice and that i...
    ruinedminds09 ruinedminds09 13-15, F Sep 24, 2014

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    At first it was just sexual attraction,

    yes I'm married, yes it shouldn't have happened, but we'd just met that night, had a few drinks, ended up back at his place with a few friends, and ended up having the most incredible sex I've ever had. I was completely hooked, I went back, I shouldn't have, cos I am falling in...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    Love For My Boyfriend May Be Gone

    I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of five months. He is my first boyfriend, and I have a lot of love for him. However... the past few weeks I don't feel in love. I suppose I should explain everything of the past month when things first started to go wrong with...
    neku neku 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Please Be Careful and Love Yourself First

    Reading the stories here I feel like I'm watching someone standing on the edge of a building preparing to jump. I know how good it feels to be in love (sort of) but the way you feel is temporary. You may love someone forever but as time goes by this intensity you are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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    I'll Have To Give Him Up Someday...

    There are times when he touches me like a lover and kisses me and makes me feel like I'm walking on air. He calls me his best friend and he hugs me and tells me he thinks I'm lovely. I feel my whole stomach do back flips...That's usually when he's drunk. And then there are times...
    Akynorev Akynorev 18-21 5 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    I Need Him Forever...

    i don't want to ever lose him. he is everything to me and i would be nothing without him. he came into my life last december and since then i came really close to losing him and my world completely fell apart. i started to go back to my old life; i was depressed and impulsive. i...
    helloxkittyxoxox helloxkittyxoxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2011

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    Codependent? Idk

    I love my husband with all my heart, but I feel the relationship fading.  As much as I know that the best thing is to leave, I can't.  All he does is yell anymore, and all I do is cry.  I'm not a weak person!  I've been on my own for 13 years, raised/ing 4...
    hopeless hopeless 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2007

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    Myy Boo

    i think of him. dream of him. care about him. laught at him. smile at the thought of him. love the way he touches/kisses me. He's amazing. :) *You will always be my boo.   Can't hide it, deny it. He isn't very open with his feelings, but he told me todayy "... then...
    mimiboo mimiboo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2008

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    I Don't Want to Lose Him....

    I don't want to lose my boyfriend. I Love him very much, and he is a huge part of who I am, and why I do the things I do today. He makes me happy, and I would give the end of my life for him. He makes me so happy most of them, I Love him so much. Him and I are having some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F Mar 3

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    I feel so lost right now.

    I have got too much time on my hands, and he doesn't have enough. I love him beyond any limit, but I don't have any hope. I want him happy, but I want him to understand and encourage too. Things are falling apart and I don't know how to save it.
    Jasperelliott Jasperelliott 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2014

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Sometime chapter just have to close with out

    closure you can't lose yourself by tryna too fix that was not meant to stay .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    I can't seem to give up loving someone

    even though I know it won't work out between us.
    emmadancer emmadancer 16-17, F Sep 6, 2014

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    I Can'T Save Him

    So I met this guy, let's call him Dean. I met him through my boyfriend at the time and when we started chatting, we immediately clicked. We understood each other and became closer. I broke up with my boyfriend and went on with my life and Dean and I became closer by the day. I...
    SirenThing SirenThing 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    IheartIryan

    My boyfriend (Munchy) is just so supportive of everything that's wrong with me and helps me get through tough times. We have been together for nearly a year now and I'm still as madly in love with him as I was when we first got together :) We have our fights but then after we sit...
    Iheartiryan Iheartiryan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    So There's this guy..

    I'm really tall like 5'9 and he's quite taller than me like 9" taller and I think I like him but it's getting a little irritating that he doesn't talk much.. Sometimes I feel like I'm boring.. And I'm one of those tall girls who just fall inlove with a guy taller than them...
    inspiredwriterxx inspiredwriterxx 16-17, F Jul 31, 2014

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    So my boyfriend of 8 months broke up w me hours

    before my junior prom. He was never a good boyfriend yet I did so much for him and he never appreciated it. He claims he didn't want to break up yet said so many things that made it seem like he did so I just agreed to call it quits. I don't know how I'm feeling right now. Is it...
    scas03 scas03 18-21, F 1 Response May 4, 2014

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    I miss him so much. I mean,

    I've never actually been in his arms, or have known what he smells like. I've never hugged him, kissed him. I miss seeing him. We've been so busy. It's driving both of us crazy. He has to work and I have softball or something else when he's off work. I haven't skyped him in like...
    Kryzalo Kryzalo 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    Lemons2000 Lemons2000 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I been feeling like shot lately

    but I'm so thankful to have someone who I can call my friend more than my friend and it's stupid how people think a guy and girl can't just be friends but they can he has been their for me through a lot and I love him so much he has helped me fight through crap and we are both...
    Dezitorsmilez Dezitorsmilez 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I Would Be Lost

    i found the most wonderful man to fulfill my life. we have been together for almost 4 years, and i still fear losing him. i'm a pretty crazy chic and i'm afraid i'm going to push him away with my constant insecurity. also, we are both recovering alcoholics and i'm so afraid that...
    scooper scooper 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2009

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    I've never experienced anything like this in my

    life....the pain I feel when he's not around is so unbearable. I can't even think straight. Sometimes, I don't so anything but sit and think....I'm always afraid he'll walk away again and shut me out. It's so frightening to think about. And more than anything, I wish he knew...
    katiebeth91 katiebeth91 22-25, F Mar 18

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    If I don't tell him how I feel then he would

    just drift away from me If he's out of my life is don't know what to do
    iammee13 iammee13 13-15, F Apr 27, 2014

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    My husband says I don't respect him,

    don't value his opinion, don't care how he feels, and I ignore him. I sometimes bring up a different idea or different opinion/different side of something, and he ALWAYS takes it as me ignoring and disregarding his ideas instead just trying to help. He said I blame everything on...
    thatonecxnt thatonecxnt 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    As a potential friend.

    ..Ladies I'm sorry....you have done your best to make hate him..I adore him I cannot live a hatred I don't have for this man...I can't despise him.
    imhotthatisnot789 imhotthatisnot789 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I feel like I am. :( He's replying to my texts

    in less than a sentence he use to reply with a whole paragraph. He use to call when he said he would but now leaves me waiting weeks unless I call him but I don't often only because I don't want to annoy him by coming off as needy, clingy and obsessive. I also think he's Bi...
    Justbeingmeok Justbeingmeok 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    Hello all...here's my problem.

    .. Well, this the first time that i write something like that about my BF.. My BF and i have a long distance relationship.. We meet sometimes and he's overprotective when it comes to me.. He loves me so much.. So do i !! But the problem is that i'm a happy and kind person.. I...
    Roosh99 Roosh99 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2014

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    I know this can't be normal.

    When I have to leave him my heart feels too heavy. I'M JUST ONLY GOING TO WORK! I have to break myself from bed because I will literally stay asleep in his arms all day. I can't express how much I want and need him. It's been a couple of years and this feeling won't go away...
    ButtahCrunch ButtahCrunch 26-30, F Mar 19

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    Maybe Happy Endings Are Real....

    A few months ago I wrote a story about this guy j... and me and how I was moving away and how I would lose him forever well, guess what readers.? I didn't.! I did not move and my story had a happy ending.! I didnt lose him.!Well it was all a big scene like a true movie or love...
    mydarkworld13 mydarkworld13 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

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    He'S Just A Friend.

    He is just a friend, but what he doesn't know there is no "just' about him. He is not "Just" a friend. He is not "just" a guy. He is not "just" a person. He is the most amazing person in my life. He has been by my side through so much ****. I keep hoping maybe one day he won't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 6, 2013