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I Don't Want You To Hurt Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 130 People

    But You Probably Will

    You probably will hurt me at some point, in fact it is almost a guarantee. The question is will you do it purposefully with malicious intent or will it just be an accident you hope never to be repeated? I'm not asking for false promises or empty oaths. I'm not nearly as fragile...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    Please

    When I say I love you I mean that I love you with all my heart. You are someone that I can count on to hold me up above the water when I am too tired to swim.  I am hopelessly bound by the chains of love's links. Is my love a gift or yet another cruel joke played on my weary...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 10 Responses May 28, 2010

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    (not A Relationship Story) Family, Please Stop, Not Only Are You Only Showing Me The Negatives, Your Also Hurting My Future, Forever

    I need my family to stop reminding me everyday that we are in terrible circumstances. that we are not like the rest of human beings, that we are always and forever different. Just stop, u r hurting me. PLEASE don't be the reason for me to go through depression again because we...
    Shamandora Shamandora 18-21, F Aug 28, 2013

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    When We Are Having Sex.

    I guess me, sex and pain don't mix, so please don't hurt me when we are doing it and I will promiss you the same.
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    Please Don't Hurt....

    Please don't hurt me, I would Never hurt you, or anyone else intentionally. If I do hurt someone, its the last thing that I planned on doing. I'd do anything to make it right. I wish there was a way to stop yourself before hurting someone you Love and Care about. Its so hard to...
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    Loving ...

    Loving someone is a huge risk to take.  You expose your heart to potential damage, making it vulnerable and unable to protect itself.  But I accept that.  I welcome it as part of the process.  There is always risk with anything which is worthwhile and I...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 10 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Please....

    Please don't hurt me....I have taken a Lot of Hurt and pain in my life, but if you hurt me....idk what I would do....
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 2, 2010

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    But Of All Of You...

    Somebody will. That is the price of love and friendship, even family, man. I'm ready, you wanna know why? Because the rest of you are so freakin worth it that's why!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 18, 2011

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    I Don't...

    But I know you will leave me.  So, I am quietly buiding my wall and my defenses back up.  I am not counting on you to be there because I can tell something has changed.  I feel you pulling away and I don't know why. I don't care why anymore.  I spent enough...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    You're Hurting Me..

    Why do you lurk into my thoughts just when I am about to forget you? Why do you haunt me? Tell me, why are you fixated on hurting me? Please, let's never speak again. Please, dear mind don't let him fog my thoughts. Please, don't let him hurt me anymore.   Because this...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 15 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    It's Not An Easy Thing

    To love someone. Especially when you have been hurt many times. When you try to love that person, the linguring thought in your head is that.."Will they hurt me to..?" Or will they love me and never let me go. in a way, you kinda hold onto that "Fairy tale" dream of a prince...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F May 30, 2010

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    I just don't want to live in general.
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    Ladies, please. I don't want to see your boobs! Cover them stuff up! Thanks. We have no right to tell men to pull up their pants if we can't even keep our boobies in check.
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