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I Downsized My Circle

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      Every now and again I downsize my circle. I don't really like to do it but there are cases where it is really needed.  Sometimes friends have left, sometimes they just arent online anymore, some became toxic and some our paths and journey's have changed. ...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    Every now and then I just have to clean house.

    The long-term people always stay.
    GenesiusRedux GenesiusRedux 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Yes I Hav

    and i do constantly..no hard feelings..still friends.. can add u back anytime if we really do b/c friends(mutual interest friends :)  ...... .. *STILL FRIENDS~even out of my circle... please remove me too! do me no hard feelings :) .. one reason why toOoOooo many...
    CrystalRainsPearls CrystalRainsPearls 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Fair Enough

    I will have no pleasure with Profiles (people) in my circle who has stories or been commenting to stories for the sake of sarcasms. I love knowing friends about their life and mind, but not on how they treat others with rude commentings. Making and having fun with people's...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    What's the point of having people in your circle

    that you rarely if ever chat with? Plus, if people add you to their circle they could at least say hello, so I no longer automatically add people who simply add me. Rant over! Back to a lazy Sunday zzzz
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 26, 2015

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    It Was Time

    I decided to go through my circle. I have been here almost a year, I  had a large circle but few if any really spoke to me. I have met some really great people here, if you are no longer in my circle it is because you never talked to me, or I had tried to speak to you but...
    Selendra Selendra 22-25 3 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Just A Few

    Yes, I just did. The only reason I do so is because I get no interactions from them. I prefer to add someone if we have similar interests and we COMMUNICATE. I only deleted those that I feel that the interaction on EP is one-sided; that is me doing all the talk, comments...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Broken Circles Become A 'c'

    I too am down sizing my circle! There have been many people come and go over 20 months! I am quite happy with the circle I have now, they are great people! If you find you are no longer a member,JUST ASK ME!..You'll be welcome!
    mzdivine mzdivine 56-60 1 Response May 18, 2010

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    I was new to EP and did not realize how many

    pervs I had added to my circle because I thought that it would be rude not to do so when somebody added me to theirs. I went thru my list of friends and "uncircled" pervs :) What a shocker seeing their profiles. OMG!
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Sometimes It's Necessary

    It starts innocently enough. You add a few people and then a few more and then one day you look and there are people in your circle that not only don't you speak with, you don't even recall adding them. Whats the point in that? For me its much more about quality than quantity...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 8 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    It is a slow day here today,

    so I am trimming my circle down. I think I just added everyone when I first joined 6 weeks ago.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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    Its the Recession!

    Seriously, I had to. Several reasons: I'm not suspicious just a bit private, but once you get to know me I am very open. In real life I have a few close friends that I am compeltely open with (OK, not to the EP degree, well not yet). I hated seeing people in my...
    iams iams 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 4, 2009

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    I May Have Gone A Little Overboard....

    From over 300 to 41.... I am soooooooooooooo glad I did it too =)
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    Just because I write kinky stuff here doesn't mean that's all I am about. It can be annoying when people message me with their sex needs. Read my stories or write your own! If...
    Doomflower Doomflower 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone and welcome... to my crystal lair. Haha :) Before you message or add me please consider this: 1. I am here to vent in the environment that is ultimately non...
    AmethystCluster AmethystCluster 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    To all of you who attacked me on my last post in this group: I don't have it set to block mature content (because I have mature content groups myself) and people outside of my...
    chloegoldmine chloegoldmine 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i wish more guys would send me dickpics
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just did this past weekend. . . I went from 138 to 62, if I deleted you and we talk, please message me. For those I did delete, I hope you have a good life.
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    1. I'm don't chat with men 2. I'm only into men that are my age and I already have one. 3. I am here to get to know and/or meet women that are curious, bisexual or lesbian because...
    butterfly1013 butterfly1013 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Okay since I'm getting annoyed again by the messages I receive on here, I'm making up these basic rules. I hope some people will read this before contacting me or adding me: 1) I...
    Kimmy159 Kimmy159 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello Everyone, How are u all?? Howzzz life going on???
    papasdoll papasdoll 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im looking for an online slave master. I'll be a good boy 😏
    xxJJLLxx xxJJLLxx 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    EP MEN: 1. Anyone I do not know who adds me to their circle will immediately be bumped. No manners or etiquette, no add!! 2. Messages from profiles with suggestive names will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I noticed the Gestures in the Whiteboard have been removed. Before I get to the point, I would like to explain. Ever since I joined this site in the beginning of 2014, EP has...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm going to trim it down to people I speak to and that speak to me. *wonders * is it still a circle if there's only one person in it??!!
    snoopysgirl snoopysgirl 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    1. I'm not a feminist. I'm not a meninist. I support "human rights". -What does this means? That I do not follow feminist ideology, nor this frankenstein online joke of meninism...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    It's so creepy to have people with blank profiles add me to their circles.why would I want someone who has 1. No profile picture 2. No Experienced 3. No Storied of there own add me...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F Jan 28

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    If I like your profile I will add you^^
    HumpinYou HumpinYou 18-21, M Jan 27

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    HAPPY REPUBLIC DAY to all indians on EP.
    papasdoll papasdoll 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I am a intellectual person who likes long conversations that are worth something and not just a waste of my time, please read my profile before asking me obvious questions. No...
    ihaveaname99 ihaveaname99 16-17, F Jan 25

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    i'm Emi! Im a teenager, trans (but i'm mostly a girl lol), pretty sexual, and always want to talk to someone! <3
    CallMeAnyDay CallMeAnyDay 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 25

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    I love chatting to dirty old men! You guys are the best :)
    ChloeLovesit ChloeLovesit 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Okay, I'll keep this simple. I won't accept your friend request if: You are male. Naah, just kidding! But I do prefer chatting to men between 26-35. We seem to vibe better. Any...
    Elmayarah Elmayarah 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 24

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    Wesson Mississippi. Anyone?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 24

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    1) Please message me before adding me, it makes things much easier. If you do not, I will not add you. 2) Be prepared if you are talking to me to answer lots of why/other inquiry...
    HydroLunarQueen HydroLunarQueen 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I want you to read my profile before adding me to your circle and/or sending me a message. It saves a lot of time and energy.
    butterfly1013 butterfly1013 18-21, F Jan 24

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    It really doesn't matter, instead i would love to chat about all such per vy things Lol
    Ronni989 Ronni989 26-30, M Jan 23

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    I do love hearing from like-minded people...:) just add me...:)
    marriedguy67 marriedguy67 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    This is too funny it has to be a joke
    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M Jan 23

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    I go to their profiles and go through their stories, posts, comments, as well as their friends list...just to have a general idea of their interests and ways of communicating. I...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    i always send good night and good morning to people in my circle but i dont get any from them. so dinally i deleted all of them. i kept couple of them in circle, they would be...
    mkdpk mkdpk 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 19

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