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I Downsized My Circle

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    Often !!!!!!!

    whomsoever it may concern.............i have removed u......its nothing personal.........i dont like to keep 100 or more friends in my circle.........and i think u will be also happy to not to see me unnecessarily in yr circle........* peace*
    destinyguy destinyguy 26-30, M Jan 25, 2011

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    Broken Circles Become A 'c'

    I too am down sizing my circle! There have been many people come and go over 20 months! I am quite happy with the circle I have now, they are great people! If you find you are no longer a member,JUST ASK ME!..You'll be welcome!
    mzdivine mzdivine 56-60 1 Response May 18, 2010

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    Its the Recession!

    Seriously, I had to. Several reasons: I'm not suspicious just a bit private, but once you get to know me I am very open. In real life I have a few close friends that I am compeltely open with (OK, not to the EP degree, well not yet). I hated seeing people in my...
    iams iams 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 4, 2009

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    Sometimes It's Necessary

    It starts innocently enough. You add a few people and then a few more and then one day you look and there are people in your circle that not only don't you speak with, you don't even recall adding them. Whats the point in that? For me its much more about quality than quantity...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 8 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    It Was Time

    I decided to go through my circle. I have been here almost a year, I  had a large circle but few if any really spoke to me. I have met some really great people here, if you are no longer in my circle it is because you never talked to me, or I had tried to speak to you but...
    Selendra Selendra 22-25 3 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Cleaning Out

    I sometimes downsized my circle; I do ep cleaning out once in a while. I have friends who I will never delete from my circle because I hope they come back.
    LittleLena LittleLena 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    Yes I Hav

    and i do constantly..no hard feelings..still friends.. can add u back anytime if we really do b/c friends(mutual interest friends :)  ...... .. *STILL FRIENDS~even out of my circle... please remove me too! do me no hard feelings :) .. one reason why toOoOooo many...
    CrystalRainsPearls CrystalRainsPearls 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Just A Few

    Yes, I just did. The only reason I do so is because I get no interactions from them. I prefer to add someone if we have similar interests and we COMMUNICATE. I only deleted those that I feel that the interaction on EP is one-sided; that is me doing all the talk, comments...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Fair Enough

    I will have no pleasure with Profiles (people) in my circle who has stories or been commenting to stories for the sake of sarcasms. I love knowing friends about their life and mind, but not on how they treat others with rude commentings. Making and having fun with people's...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 3, 2012

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    Several Times

      Every now and again I downsize my circle. I don't really like to do it but there are cases where it is really needed.  Sometimes friends have left, sometimes they just arent online anymore, some became toxic and some our paths and journey's have changed. ...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    I May Have Gone A Little Overboard....

    From over 300 to 41.... I am soooooooooooooo glad I did it too =)
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 25, 2010

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    gthegz gthegz 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Nope. I want to have a decent conversation with you. And by "decent," I mean, our definitions of "decent" are probably going to differ. If you want to talk about bumping nasties...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I don't like having people in my circle who don't ever talk to me so I add people I relate to as well as talk to. I have a very limited circle right now but it would be cool to...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I get loads of randomers who add me to my circle and I just wanna add this as I'm fed up 1. If you're going to add me to my circle, please use one of my experiences as a foundation...
    lunamoon12 lunamoon12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Yes I am, I'm in my own circle of friendship where everyone in it is also in it.. tee hee..It's an amazing circle, we all agree to be friendly friends and such like..Would you like...
    ImTooCoolForThisUsername ImTooCoolForThisUsername 41-45, F 14 Responses Apr 11

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    There's a reason why I don't add everyone. It's not cause I'm snobby, but I'm picky. You see, I don't want to be your number. There's a reason why it's called "Ep circle of FRIENDS...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 16

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    I don't know why i have ppl in my circle who never write me so if u guys don't wanna talk with me then say it cuz i will clean up my circle and kick the ones out who doesn't write...
    goven99 goven99 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Its weird. I feel like this. Lets say, the group is having a conversation. Im more of a listener. I always end up at the edge of the circle, even having to walk around the circle...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F Apr 2

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    It's this circle game that I don't wanna play...we go around and around I can't take it anymore.I'm the one that love you all tho that you don't care and I'm the one that didn't...
    DariaBrianna123 DariaBrianna123 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Hello all, please send me a message before adding me to your circle, that is all :3
    TheScotlandGuy TheScotlandGuy 18-21, M Mar 26

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    Thanks for adding me to you circle! Kisses, hugs and lots of love!
    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Please don't take offence if I do not respond to your massage or add you to my circle.
    copperlocks copperlocks 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 3

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    I have a very small circle of friends. although we are different we all stick up for each other and help each other out when needed.
    peppit peppit 36-40, M Apr 5

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    Kindly refrain from adding me if you have odd, odd hobbies that involves diapers, etc. I'd appreciate it if you don't add me to your circle if you're a friend collector or have no...
    AcousticAnne1 AcousticAnne1 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I'm cleaning up my circle, no offense to some of you, I am truly sincerely sorry if you had toxic or Narcissistic parent(s). I had been thinking about the probably and possibility...
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M Apr 12

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    Omfg yesss. Me does. Even the cautious that wont add me. How sad is it that we are cautious. But am lucky to have them. Like some in their circles. But love all in...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 12

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    This experience I have learned that you get very few close friends, always keep your circle small because not everyone is your friend..
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F a week ago

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    I'm here to share my experiences. Mainly I just want to use this space as a way to let off steam and frustration or even to talk about things that make me happy when I have no one...
    goshgollydolly goshgollydolly 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Nothing personal but if we don't talk then why are we in each others circle :)
    Nunlover Nunlover 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So? the title speaks for itself, why? And don't say you did it because you add everyone for no reason.
    aeinhardt aeinhardt 18-21, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I am open minded man here to have new friends and friendships with same minded people. I am honest and don't like liars. So before you add me know this things so this will save...
    darkfantasy13 darkfantasy13 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    1. No i don't wanna trade nasty pics! 2. I'm open to make friends. 3. Please know how to keep a conversation going Finally if your under the age of 16 or over the age of 26 i most...
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hmmm i wonder why... But if I look on their profile and I only see sexual stuff then I would rather not know why LOL
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Done it a few times. First time was 2 years ago. Latest was Monday. Usually the same group of lads. Played soggy biscuit too but don't really like that
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 25

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    Often. But rarely ask. And try to just decide on you then.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 25

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    WOMEN feel free to message MAN I will not add you or answer mail so don't bother. if you really feel you want to talk to me comment on one of my stories and I might add you. I don...
    SarahSugdon SarahSugdon 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than...
    abhabhardwaj abhabhardwaj 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Family is not an important thing. It's everything. The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each others life.
    abhabhardwaj abhabhardwaj 18-21, F Mar 28

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    There are probably a few things that anyone should know before they try to add me. -I probably won't add you back. Reason being, I can't just be friends with random people. If you...
    Unbeholden Unbeholden 18-21, M Mar 30

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