I Dread the Holidays

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    My mother died in Jan of 2013.

    My father is dating a woman that hates me. I cooked for 2 days to prepare Thanksgiving dinner. He didn't even wait for me to finish eating before he got up and left. He had yet to return home. She has her own family that she could spend time with, why is she stealing my father...
    mcrn96 mcrn96
    41-45, F
    Nov 28, 2014

    It´s That Time Of The Year Again........

    Well, actually this year it has started even earlier. I saw Christmas merchandise in September and by mid-October Christmas was in full bloom in all the stores and shopping centers. People feel compelled to buy, buy, buy, even if they get trampled at the door on Black Friday...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 29, 2010

    Just Not Feeling It..

    the past few seasons have not really been that super. I just can't get my enthusiasm up anymore. I realize more and  more that during and after the season i get hit with a mega-wave of depression. It happens EVERY year. I  only consciously realized it last year. Of...
    Tacit Tacit
    22-25, F
    Nov 21, 2008

    MY WAY

    I really hate the commercial craziness of the holidays. I find it ridiculous how people ruin the occasion by turning it into a shopping match forgetting the true meaning of the festivities. I hate how rude people are at the stores, the supermarket, the roads, because they are...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 18, 2010

    I Hate 'em

    Most holidays are about families and loving, right? I hate that since it seems like each holiday, you are expecting to spend a lot of money, or buy gifts. I come from a distant family and I really have no money. When Christmas comes around, my mother yells at me for not having a...
    AlbinoLapineRedQueen AlbinoLapineRedQueen
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2012

    ...

    I hate being all alone on the holidays because it is depressing. One or two here and there would be okay but because of situations in my family I am usually all alone eating deli turkey sandwiches on most holidays.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 12, 2011

    Dreading the Upcoming Months...

    I always enjoy this time of year due to the picturesque landscape associated with Fall, sleeping on flannel sheets, taking the dog on walks, and enjoying the smells and sounds of the holidays.  That is until it gets close to Christmas and Thanksgiving. I have the family...
    Bogey6294 Bogey6294
    36-40
    1 Response Oct 30, 2008

    This Year I Do

    Its been such a rough year for us and financially we are way behind. My wife has started a new job and she doesnt get holidays off (I do however). We always have to divide the holiday up among our families and we have little time for ourselves.....but this year with her working...
    IndyJoe IndyJoe
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2008

    Not Ready To Move On...yet.

    I've written here before about my current battle with depression. It took me many, many years to finally realize that I am living with this affliction. My world had to very nearly end before I was forced to face the truth & to finally find the strength to ask for help. My...
    MisterC MisterC
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2009

    I Dread the Holidays, But I'm Not Really Sure Why.

    I must admit, I have wonderful memories of holidays as a child.  I come from a fairly small, but close knit family.  My parents are still alive and still very much in love - they have been married for 52 years.  My 2 sisters, my brother and I are all in good...
    deliqueen deliqueen
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 17, 2008

    I Don't Dread Them.

    I don't dread them, a part of me, the childlike, ignorant, innocent part of me deep in there still looks forward to them, and expects it to be happy. It's not, they depress me. Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Easter even, I secretly expect it to be better than last year, and...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2011

    Cliche

    Firstly, I hate the commercialism The christmas displays this year won hands out on getting into the windows before the Halloween displays.  The advertisments on television are advancing how you can buy christmas out of the back of a truck this year...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 10, 2008

    My parents moved away this year.

    My cat died this week. I haven't wrapped any Christmas presents yet.didn't have much money for gifts this year.I have a big family. I don't have a Christmas tree, or any decorations. I don't want to even mail out Christmas cards. How am I going to get through Christmas week?
    Chelsea1973 Chelsea1973
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2015
    goodwitchofthenorth goodwitchofthenorth
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 15

    I only dread one. my favorite holiday.

    Christmas. had a nervous breakdown one year and avoid it like it does not exist. I remember loving to give and just be being with the joy of the of the world. my past is so in my future that it is truly makes one sick. almost.
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld
    36-40, M
    Aug 24, 2015

    Alone This Year

    I used to love the holidays. I don't know what happened. As the years progressed, I grew less and less enthusiastic about this time of year. Please, don't get me wrong. I love this time of year for other reasons and holidays in general aren't so bad. It's a nice time to celebrate...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2010

    Holiday Hate

    I used to love the holidays. The smell of turkey on Thanksgiving, waiting for Santa on Christmas Eve, watching colorful fireworks on the fourth of July, and basically almost every holiday my family celebrated I enjoyed. However, when I was around eleven years old, I...
    ARandomKid ARandomKid
    16-17, F
    Sep 7, 2009

    Er.. Well....

    It's not actually the holidays I dread- it's the way some people behave during them that irks me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    Oct 17, 2010

    **** going to Scotland

    for a week, I've got nothing against Scotland it's just my family suck and are really boring so this week is gonna be terrible
    Alienbassdrum Alienbassdrum
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    I Can't Face It This Year

    I had to make the dreaded weekly trip to WalMart yesterday,...I despise that place, yet I shop there because in my town there really is no where else. Anyway, I was shocked that it is already decked out in Christmas trees, poinsettias and Christmas songs blaring from the speakers...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    Nov 10, 2008

    This Year

    Oh God it is going to be so horrible! I will be all alone. I can't bear to think of it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 8, 2009
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