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I Effeminate Men

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    I Am Effeminate

    I, too, am effeminate, and if I didn't fear for my safety I'd be very open about it. For the rare guy who accepts me as I am I tend toward being the 'swishy with a limp-wrist' type. I hope to someday find a masculine guy who encourages me to open with him 24/7.
    Kennp Kennp 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2011

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    I'm Effeminate, It's Now How I Am

    I lived as a woman from when I was 18 to 26. At work, I met the woman who I was to marry (when I was living as a woman) and stopped living as a woman when I started to go bald. She suggested I get my hair cut real short and just go back to being a man. Easier said than done, I...
    marybethme marybethme 51-55, T 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I'm always horny and I love to have sex, especially with older men. There's just something about them that's so... addictive? haha probably not the word to describe it but I always...
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    I love it when older men notice me. I get so turned on. 40s 50s maybe even older.
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    I love older men. I'm 26 and I was with a man who was 54. He had such a firm touch and soft skin. It turned me on so much that he wanted me. I felt so comforted by him being so...
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    I loveee older men message me im bored
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    This message is to all the radical man hating feminists who go on the Internet to trash and mock the male gender. It is obvious from what you're writing to your 100% blind to what...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M Jul 22

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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
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    I'm sick of hot straight men who are cocky enough to think they can tease masses— women and men alike. When I say tease, I mean show off their supper hot bodies and faces and...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Not only do I hate mental illness, but I hate that people don't understand it. I have lost three family members to mental illness, two from addiction and the other from depression...
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    The problem for me is this: In general, women care for men & children, whether we know them or not. But it is generally accepted that women & children should feel unsafe in the...
    ChattyCathy81 ChattyCathy81 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have people close to me in my life who have mental illness. I work on the business side of mental healthcare. Right now I am incredibly frustrated with someone near and dear to...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    i cant help but to not fully trust men, and my life is pretty miserable because of it. I have read too much about how all men will cheat if they have the chance, how all men think...
    nikicat nikicat 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I am black and I have dated guys of my own race, but in the end i would end up heart broken. I am NOT saying that there are no good black men out there just that white men (and...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 Aug 10

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    cuteshyginger cuteshyginger 16-17, F 17 Responses Jul 20

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    Men, not boys. Men with a job, and a head on their shoulders...do men like that exist?!
    MsInked511 MsInked511 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Beautifuldamage Beautifuldamage 22-25, F Aug 7

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    MacKenziePatriciaLee MacKenziePatriciaLee 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I think men should wear whatever they want to wear. Skirts are cooler in hot weather. As long as the clothes are well fitting and look nice what does it matter what any one wears...
    renah64 renah64 61-65, T 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I am only 18 but I love old style relationships. And I believe in old styles , which includes men holding doors for women , or even helping her get out of a car. And even manners...
    mckenziegibson mckenziegibson 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 20

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    I have had this Menieres Disease for 20 years I had the surgery in my left ear 3 years ago where they put a shunt in worse thing I ever did my balance is a bigger problem now I...
    gborron gborron 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I have always been fascinated by the way they speak, look and treat others. Personally I love how calm they look and how confident they are looking straight at a woman’s eyes...
    AlexandraWard AlexandraWard 22-25, F 17 Responses Jul 21

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    I took the Mensa test in Fort Worth, Texas and was accepted into the Mensa 76 chapter but I have not maintained my membership. I am pleased that I earned my B.S.E.E. Electrical...
    p010ne p010ne 70+, M Jul 21

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