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I Effeminate Men

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    I Am Effeminate

    I, too, am effeminate, and if I didn't fear for my safety I'd be very open about it. For the rare guy who accepts me as I am I tend toward being the 'swishy with a limp-wrist' type. I hope to someday find a masculine guy who encourages me to open with him 24/7.
    Kennp Kennp 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2011

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    I'm Effeminate, It's Now How I Am

    I lived as a woman from when I was 18 to 26. At work, I met the woman who I was to marry (when I was living as a woman) and stopped living as a woman when I started to go bald. She suggested I get my hair cut real short and just go back to being a man. Easier said than done, I...
    marybethme marybethme 51-55, T 3 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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