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I Embrace Change, Even Though It Can Be Difficult

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    Change For The Better

    I honestly want to change. But the hurts of past breakup still haunt me. The pain is only a month old. But it was a three year battle. How did I truly think I could make him change? If I wasn't willing to do the same myself. My biggest change needs to come from within myself. To...
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F May 26, 2012

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    Worthy

    It is only when we see the flight of the monarch butterfly that we realise the beauty of the caterpillar... even if...like the caterpillar, we only make our first fragile steps tiny ones at first; remember... each small step is a prayer filled with hope and that hope shall both...
    8FOOTDREAD 8FOOTDREAD 41-45, M 12 Responses May 15, 2011

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    With Each Progression

    Some of the changes in my life I have involuntarily gone under; I have questioned why they are happening, yet each has led me on a different path, has elevated me from the depths that I did not recognise myself within.  I tend to like to have different things going on in my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 24, 2008

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    I feel like I'm not living life

    unless I see changes... I don't like when things become routine and comfortable... I like the challenge of new experiences...not that I don't miss old familiar things but I think it's better to appreciate their absence than not even seeing (taking for granted) them because it's...
    mandy795 mandy795 36-40, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Breaking Down The Last Wall

    As I have confessed earlier today I am making some changes. They are changes that are difficult for me. When you have made a comfort zone that hides some of who you are for whatever reasons they may be. It can take time.I still struggle with some of that line of feelings that...
    Tara277 Tara277 26-30, F Oct 28, 2013

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    Change Can Sometimes Be Very Scary ...

      ... but I just don't let it get to me ... I convince myself that that hollow feeling in the pit of my stomach is not fear, it's excitement ... anticipation of great new things to come ... another chance at a new beginning ... then I put on my nicest business suit, and go...
    kinkitty kinkitty 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 13, 2008

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    Changes

    Change is an inevitable part of life.  Things around us are constantly changing - for the most part, We are constantly changing (in some way or another).  Sometimes it is a positive change that we embrace and welcome w/open arms ... then, there are the seemingly more...
    NewFoudKitten NewFoudKitten 26-30, F Nov 7, 2007

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    Change Never Ends

    My life changed in a heartbeat when you loost the one you love or people close by you. Goes to show life is short. You have to change every day as something changes....With difficulty and change you grow in life.
    Marybear99 Marybear99 61-65, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2011

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    Difficult Yes, Scary Yes, Good Indeed!

    Change is a good thing indeed if you want it that is.  But you have to go out and get it, make it happen.  Because no one is going to do it for you.  It can be difficult, scary, bad, and really good. Sounds confusing because it is.  But if you want it and you seek it it will...
    Elatedtobe Elatedtobe 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2011

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    Change Can Equal Stress...

    I think for many people change means stress... It may be a simple way to look at it, but change, the unknown, and where life is going can mean stress.... But, it can also mean new friends and new opportunity.
    DancesWithDolphins DancesWithDolphins 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2008

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    My Dream I Need Help With

    I had a dream last night it was of my brother inlaw (who passed away 2 years ago) he was staying with us then he left and then I found where he was staying at through the computer then went straight to him and hugged him so tight telling him how I missed him and...
    MichelleRosemarie MichelleRosemarie 41-45, F 2 Responses May 28, 2010

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    Change Is Good

    I like change, only the good kind (lol).  It's good, if nothing ever changed, life would be boring.  Why someone is afraid of something different is beyond me - to positively accept the change is to understand what is happening.
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2008

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    Thrown Away

    About at the end of oktober I met someone pretty awesome online. We kind of had similar interests and sense of humour and it kicked of pretty fast. We were always talking deep into the night, about anything from remotely stupid to pretty deep and interesting. She herself told and...
    DistantEchoes DistantEchoes 18-21, M 2 Responses May 29, 2010

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    1. Don't fall in love with potential. You'll always be disappointed and attached. 2. Stop giving people so many chances, in hopes change will occur. You can't change someone who...
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    The things that once brought me pleasure and comfort, feel like the obstacles keeping me from catalyzing my life into something worth living. I used to have laughs and good times...
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    I am trying to keep a positive outlook on things. I should really be pretty happy. My life is not a bad one. I have all of my limbs, and they all work pretty well. I still...
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    My mother and I use to be best friends. And by that I mean when I was 14-17. That was the time when I dropped out of school and helped her with her weed habit. She allowed me to...
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    I miss him a lot, even though im fine without him, im even focusing on more important things in my life but.... I was happier with him, i felt safe and complete...
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    I broke up with my boyfriend and I feel like I am dying. Dramatic ? Maybe. But it's so hard not to go back even though I know I can't
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    I am trying to accept my ex being mean and hurtful to me even though he tells me he has someone else, if I retaliate he tells me to let my anger go and move on...grrrr
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    I can't change my attitude. I can't change the mole on my neck. I can't change my parents divorce. I can't change a lot of things. And I'm learning that it's better to let them be...
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    I'm trying to accept that I cannot change my husbands cheating, lying and addictive behaviors, but I can change my involvement in it..right? I may not be able to change him but I...
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    You can see the soul threw the eyes. Yes, you can hide your emotions, keep your body language to a minimum but you can't change your eyes. They always give you away...no matter the...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    hello friends... there are so many things that I would like to share. like so many that you'll all hate me for the rest of my life. to be honest I have no true friends.. to tell...
    Athish1995 Athish1995 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I’ve always listened to people when they said that it’s okay to be different. That’s why I always kinda tried to embrace it. But no matter where I go, People always seem to...
    Tweeter97 Tweeter97 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    There are parts of my life I, like so many others, would love to change but can't for many reasons. I have always wanted to have a better relationship with my mother. I had hoped...
    Youget Youget 46-50, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Thinking about changing my username (DisasterLand) to SurrealismLand. Don't know why a stupid username means so much to me but it does. Everyone one of mine has had deep feelings...
    disasterland disasterland 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love my ex husband but he never loved me. He used me for immigration. I tried so hard to make him happy to get his love and approval. He didn't care. I gave him baby which he...
    looby282001 looby282001 41-45, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    This story goes out to all of you who are grieving the loss of a love, I hope that what I have to say here may offer some small measure of strength for you to carry on and that...
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    im trying to live in the "now". i read a quote that said something about how...."the most confused we ever get is when we try to convince our heads of something our heart knows...
    LostInTheLight LostInTheLight 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have no idea why I am on this site at 11:30 in the morning but I need to vent. Im 19 years old nearly 20 and im trying to get myself together and trying to get my life together...
    buxey buxey 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    But now I realize the only thing I can change is myself. So I will. As I watch and wait for the world to destroy itself from the inside out. But I still have hope. Those that want...
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    I definite believe that someone can change your life for good or bad
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    When you're only 17 seems that you cannot do much to change things around you, so you just have to accept them. And sometimes it's so hard to deal with that!
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    No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world. Robin Williams
    Mur4d Mur4d 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I do to, especially if they believe in God. And when the change happens? It was God the whole time. :)
    Lovehermorethensherealizes Lovehermorethensherealizes 26-30, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Im gonna fix my F'd up life ! :P :D Hold me to it if you care to. I'll be grateful. Ask me how im doing with the plan. For all of you that are looking for a change, here are 11...
    sum1ab sum1ab 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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