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I Emotionality In Men Is Not a Weakness

I believe that emotionality in men is not a weak feature, who else agree? 313 People

    It's A Strength

    Not being able to feel, or to express feelings, not to ever be able to cry without people looking down on you is very wrong. Why be embarrassed for showing that you have a heart, and that it can be hurt like any other?
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2011

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    "Thank You"

    Not just a man who shows and shares his emotions, but one that understands that anger in not the emotion he should show to others to cover up the rest of his emotions. For the first time in my life, I am in a very sweet relationship with a man that is very emotional and not...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Hardly

    A man that can stand up, admit his mistakes and faults, or simply rebel against the deterministic ideals that all men have to be jocular and macho, well... that makes that man far more stronger than any of his peers that just give into that stereotypical influence. The man that...
    Jiemusu Jiemusu 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    I Hate Macho.....

    I find emotionality in men to be very attractive. I can't stand it when men try to act all macho and what not. For instance, a lot of guys tend to just act like everything is cool when it's not - saying that it's all good and what not. That is no annoying. I mean if they can't...
    staystrong11 staystrong11 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    But We Can Forget How Powerful We Are....

    ...when we concentrating on how weak we feel, and not see how much of an effect we have on the woman/girl we love. If we can't keep our emotions controlled, so we can plan our actions, then we can do alot of harm to the person we are having these...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 22, 2009

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    Only Human

    I just wanted to say I think emotionality in a man is a virtue, not a weakness. I know some men want to bottle up all their emotions. I'm pretty sure some guys suffer physical consequences of containing their emotions. I know my boyfriend thinks his emotions are...
    honeybunch honeybunch 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Out Of Control

    I cannot control my emotions when it comes to sadness or seeing someone else fall apart.  I cannot comfort them because I too am unstable...I so much want to be there and strong for my friends in a terrible situation ...but I cannot hold together no matter how hard I try...
    swede swede 56-60, M Nov 30, 2010

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    It Takes Strength to Show Vulnerability

    There's something beautiful about being able to look into someone's eyes and be let into their world in just that one glimpse... Even more so when it's a man that is letting you in.  We are taught to hold things in, letting your emotions out is for women to do.. ...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Love Emotional Men

    I like a man that is able to show his emotions freely. I don't perceive it as weakness. I actually think it's sexy.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Dec 9, 2011

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    I See It As a Strength

    Unfortunately our culture doesn't see it this way. We seem afraid of those raw emotions...as if we might even catch it if we get too close. I'm not talking about wallowing in tragedy...more like sharing and then moving on... But give me a man who can feel and *gasp* maybe even...
    frito414 frito414 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    I am a man and emotionally analyzing my life

    and owning my emotions is the most manly thing I have ever done. Tell me, is it manly to be aware of just 10% of yourself? What kind of manly is that? Society wants to keep us men in this state, where we are not aware of ourselves. Where we can be manipulated by one and all.I...
    emotionalyst emotionalyst 26-30, M Jun 7, 2014

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    Not At All

    I actually prefer the company of a man who is ok with experiencing his feelings. I don't want a cry-baby, but that goes for either gender. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2010

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    It Is A Rare & Desirable Trait !

    And I use caps to emphasise, just in case anyone thinks I am shouting at them - LOL! I soooo think men who can show emotions, and be real, are stifled into thinking this is a weakness by stupid stereotypes. Mean who can cry, or laugh like they really mean it, or say words with...
    OzAngel OzAngel 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2009

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    Let Us See You Too Are Vulnerable

    Let us know that you don't wear a suit of armor That you feel emotions too This helps us connect to you And brings us closer together
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2009

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    “To get something you never had,

    you have to do something you never did.”
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    If Anything

    wearing the facade of emotionlessness is the weakness. having the courage to show weakness is a great facet of strength.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2010

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    It Is Not

    I think it's quite attractive. A guy who can tell you how he is feeling is a guy you wanna keep! Sadly I've encountered none. And I mean no men at all, emotional and non-emotional 0_o lol It's because I am such a fat loner
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 4 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    Definitely Not!

    if anything, it's a plus. it's good, there's nothing wrong with it. it makes things better. makes things more bearable, makes us understand each other more. Logic is good, but there always has to be some heart in it---always.
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Men, You're Not Less A Man When You Cry

    It is bullshit to think you are less worthy then another men when you're showing your emotions. Don't lock it up inside. Don't pay too much attention to what other people say to you when you're showing your emotions.  My shoulders are waterproof enough. When you're feeling...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 31-35, F Jun 6, 2010

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    Men Crying

    I love it when men cry. Not because I want them to, of course. I also love to see them happy. :) But when I see a man cry, I feel like he's joining the human race, instead of being in a class by himself with others who deny being human. It is the gentle, quiet men who turn...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 13, 2010

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    :-) This Is Such A Relevant Topic For Me Now At The End Of 2010

    can I just put a tonne of "!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" against the title of the group??
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F Dec 12, 2010

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    Ok Be Kind...

    I dont know what it is, but there are times, when I'm watching a show on TV and I will suddenly get emotional. It doesn't have to be an overtly emotional scene. In fact it's usually subtle. If others are around, I feel like I need to supress it. Like I'm not supposed to shed a...
    Todd1970 Todd1970 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    Desparity

    My man and I have ended, because of his inability to deal with the abuse I suffered as a child. He cannot deal with his emotions. He can't talk about it, and he can no longer face me. That men are brought up to feel that it is wrong to have emotions - is what is wrong!!! Such a...
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    I Saw His Falling Tear

    Tears falls... it's a normal thing. Crying woman is nothing unusual. But why crying man is something different? We are all human beings, men or women, everyone needs to cry. There's nothing embarassing in this. I don't think that a man, who doesn't show his tears is...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    I Am Not A Terminator, I Am Human.

    Its not always about that. Its about letting the people around you see that are a human being rather than an object. Its more to me about being honest by showing what you feel on the inside to the outside. You can just stand there and feel nothing. Or display another emotion...
    TotallyAmazing TotallyAmazing 22-25, M Jun 8, 2010

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    A Strength

    I know that men have their macho sides.  And in a way, at times, it can be cute. But I love it when a man can also cry.  Not all the time, or in front of the world.  But privatly, when something really touches them or hurts them.  I consider that a...
    ShatteredOne ShatteredOne 31-35 Jul 22, 2010

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    Its Beautiful

    I love it when i see a man crying. Not because i enjoy other people's pain, but it's beautiful to see that have emotions too.
    rachelness rachelness 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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