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I Ended My Affair

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    I Want To Continue My Affair - I have been having an affair for the last 6 weeks. We met at a function and we both felt some chemistry. He sent me texts afterwards, pursued me and...
    gilly27 gilly27 41-45, F 4 Responses May 19, 2013

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    Day Three Of No Contact - Saw him the first time in office since d day. He is still sitting behind me even though he promised to do me a favor to change seat for me not to see him...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    Today - I reconnected with my partner yesterday and decided to end it with my AP. Relationships aren't perfect but eventually all affairs become dull after a while. Did any of you...
    MissDarkAngel MissDarkAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    Finally Over - I just ended the affair I was in 10 days ago. I'd been moving towards that for some time and made the official decision and cut him right off. I do miss him, and I...
    wandawatson069 wandawatson069 36-40 14 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    No Need To Say Its Over - I am not contacting him. I will be strong. I haven't seen him in 3 weeks. I haven't talked to him in over a week. He came back in town, and we saw each...
    Justinkar Justinkar 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Whats There To Say? - For today it just hurts...
    hopefulfor2013 hopefulfor2013 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2013

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    Hopefully This Time Is For Good - I've been unfaithful to my partner of almost six years. I fell in love with someone else last summer. I still love him but what I did was wrong...
    LoveBeth13 LoveBeth13 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2013

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    Today, probably the hardest thing I had to do was end the affair with a married man, that recently I realised that I was in love with him.... It's so hard and I'm just thinking...
    blondebeauxo blondebeauxo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    Love That Hurts To Give - Thought I would share some communication I received from my ow today. It has been nearly two months since the end of the affair. She and I were quite in...
    Sweetman17 Sweetman17 41-45, M 4 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    I Ended My Affair - even though im in love with the man i broke it off with, bec i know its the right thing to do and my husband is really truly a great man who i love very much...
    IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm 31-35, F 18 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    Day One Of No Contact... - Yesterday he left tired and doesn't want to continue this hassle thing to him. He want me to find single and available man and not him. He mention he...
    n1BB1t n1BB1t 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    I've Tried Over And Over..........it Just Keeps Calling (or Strokin) Me! - I know, I know I need to leave this married man alone! I can't - it keeps callin me (DON'T JUDGE!) Now...
    chie5189 chie5189 36-40 4 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    Party Over Here!!! -- Oh Yeah...?? - So I did it. I really did this time.  Three weeks and counting.  3.5yrs of my life now punctuated and relegated to secret stashes of...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    The Rest Of My Story... - Some of you may have read my previous stories and know that I recently ended an 'affair.' But there is more to it and i feel like i need to tell the...
    LoveBeth13 LoveBeth13 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 28, 2013

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    The Aftermath - Day before yesterday I ended my affair. He was amazing, but also married with 2 kids. I can't even explain the hurt I am feeling right now. Never did I ever think...
    lovetohatelove lovetohatelove 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    How To Kill Love? - The goal is not to simply cease kissing, touching or caressing my precious lover (ow). It is to conclude the love entirely. Victory is recorded when I no...
    Sweetman17 Sweetman17 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    After 7 Months - I just wanted to share my story, since many of you have so many similar stories as well. I knew my mm for 3 years before we got involved. We used to work together...
    Healed77 Healed77 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    Treason Of The Heart - My veins are full, arteries swollen. Joy chased away and grief replaces. My heart no longer pumps oxygen into my blood but instead makes it run cold. One...
    Sweetman17 Sweetman17 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I Know Exactly How It Feels - Trust me. I know how it feels. I know exactly how it feels to cry in the shower so no one can hear you. I know what it's like to wait for everyone to...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 6, 2013

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    Why Can't I Do This?! - I ended my affair . . .again.  . . . maybe. As I left my office desk w/a last glance at the 2dz roses sent by my husband on the occasion of our 24th...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I Ended My Affair. - I've been trying to end my affair for the last month.  I also tried to end my affair last week, but he talked me out of it.  I've been doing a lot...
    tks tks 36-40, F 25 Responses Oct 26, 2007

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    I Have Been Having the Most Passionate Affair - I have been having the most passionate affair for almost 3 yrs and 3 months to the day... I can say it has been one of the most...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    What A Silly Thing To Do - Things where not great with my hubby and I met this guy who I thought was brilliant and after a few weeks i came out and told my hubby I was having an...
    hannahbear93 hannahbear93 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    But I Still Can't Make Up My Mind - It was a short affair, the feelings about lying to my husband were eating me up inside, so one day when he asked me what was wrong, I told him...
    Cavernio Cavernio 31-35 Oct 18, 2013

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    Can I Say Goodbye To My Heart? - It seems we're all here, in EP, when we obsess, we tell our story, make a decision and then disappear back to our lives, never letting the EP...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Walking Away From Love - I love to laugh. Humor and laughter are the spice of life for me. Part of why I love being a father so much is the laughter and silliness they create in...
    Sweetman17 Sweetman17 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 19, 2013

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    He Doesn'T Get It!!! - My AP doesn't seem to get it! I broke things off with him over a month ago and we've had little contact since. A few minutes ago he called me and left a...
    LoveBeth13 LoveBeth13 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    No Longer Avoiding the Pain of Saying Goodbye. - I ended a 5 month affair.  Nope it's not the first but I hope it is the last.  This was my "so called" first...
    road2redemption road2redemption 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2009

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    Brokenhearted With No Right To Be... - In August last year, an old friend found me on facebook. We had met in the USA in 1996 while I was working out there for a summer. He...
    PinkTiger PinkTiger 36-40, F 25 Responses May 10, 2010

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    Hopefully This Time Is For Good - I've been unfaithful to my partner of almost six years. I fell in love with someone else last summer. I still love him but what I did was wrong...
    LoveBeth13 LoveBeth13 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    Tough - But The Right Thing To Do - First of all, the internet is a wonderful place to 'talk' when there is no one else you can talk with...Add me to the list of people that never...
    simplycrazy simplycrazy 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    This is so confusing. OM says he wants me as a friend. Says that's what he has always wanted. I apologized for thinking something more. He responds by saying "I love you. You...
    friendofmine friendofmine 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    It Was Beautiful While It Lasted - I ended it before I had to. One Sunday evening at the mall, going to shop for a few things, as we were passing a bar & restaurant, she...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Why an affair can be a necessary evil - from the point of view of a man. (see story below in comment area due to content restriction)...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    It's only been two days. How do you grieve the loss of a love and still keep it a secret?
    friendofmine friendofmine 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 8

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    Trying To Be Strong - I have just ended contact with a man I was involved in a brief affair with. It is probably the hardest thing I have had to do, but I know it is what I have...
    dietobewithyoutonight dietobewithyoutonight 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I Didn't End It Yet! - I am having an affair with a married man. I am married too. Its intense, exciting, and full of passion relationship. We love each other. I can not leave my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    Starting Over ....yet Again - I ended my affair. Yes, it was the right thing to do. I keep telling myself that hoping that the part of my heart that is left will someday believe...
    craz1969 craz1969 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Day 4 NC. Everything Is Grey. - Day 4 of no contact. I’ve read all the books. I’ve watched all the shows. I should have known better, but I was a victim of hope. Until I got...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    I saw him last night for a few hours. Just to talk. It was hard for both of us but the hardest part is missing the friendship. Maybe it's too soon but we are trying to be just...
    friendofmine friendofmine 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 11

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    Started With A Bang, Ended With A Whimper... - Today our love has come to it's bitter conclusion... We are both married, and I truely believe that when you have a family, it's not...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 9 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    My longstanding affair ended after his spouse found out (a few times over a few years), threatened divorce and he couldn't see us ever having a "happy ending" after destroying both...
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    I have been here for awhile hoping to come across a story similar to mine. I need help. My story has gone from dream to nightmare. Had affair. MM always said he loved us both...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 31

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Feeling sad and lost today :( My boyfriend had an emotional affair with a girl from work. We were on the verge of breaking up but supposed to be working things out. We'd been...
    melissamayhem melissamayhem 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    If two ppl in an affair accept and come to terms with the fact that they can never be anything more is it possible to stay friends? We have never slept together in the 8 months but...
    Rona22 Rona22 31-35, F 10 Responses Mar 26

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    I am sure my wife thinks i am having an affair. I had one that ended a couple years ago that she knew about. I am not having one now, but I am sure wife is interpreting every day...
    Blueeyedboy70i Blueeyedboy70i 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 2

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    Can anyone tell me......is there anyone out there....who is single....that ended an affair.....is there anyone who moved on and is actually happy? :-)
    kjr71 kjr71 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 8

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    I made a friend here with this topic of experience. Someone who for the first time since it all "ended" (it never really ends) coerced me into writing out the bloody details of...
    dbushy dbushy 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I had an affair and ended up getting pregnant . I had an abortion . My husband forgave me and said he still loves me and I feel I betrayed him. The bf who got me pregnant bailed on...
    Cathymary Cathymary 31-35, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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