I Ended My Sexless Relationship

We escaped the horror of a sexless marriage/relationship and just want to tell our stories without depressing others that are still in them 75 People

    Sex After 6yrs!!

    Hello,I got on this site because i need some advice, and im hoping someone will help me..i have no idea how to go into a chat rm, or where im supposed to go.  But here goes, i left a husband that (treated me real badly) 6yrs. ago after being with him 26yrs.  Now, for the first...
    saksam saksam
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2011

    Feeling Like Ugly Duckling!

    For most of my adult life, I have been with the very same man. For ten years I was always introduced or referred to as his beautiful girlfriend and then for 11 years after that I was his beautiful wife. These were the very words he would always use. One would be flattered, happy...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 8, 2010

    Tearful and Happy

    I did it, I really did it!  I told my husband of nearly 10 years it's all over and we need to seperate. I cried, he cried....and I guess this is just the start of the rest of both of our lifes.    
    scootergirl35 scootergirl35
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Oct 11, 2008

    I Ended My "loveless"..sexless Marriage

    In three more months it will be two years since i ended my marriage. Now it wasn't just the lack of sex that broke apart our relationship but the lack of tenderness, respect, thoughtfulness was missing...and then the LOVE was no where in sight! He was a mean mouth man! I bowed...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2012

    A Text Message At 3:15am

    My ex...sad case that one...texted me last night at 3:15am to tell me how much he misses and loves me. What he doesn't understand that that I mourned the relationship during the last months that we were together.  Our relationship was never sex filled since we moved in...
    Roaring20s Roaring20s
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2008

    Total Flipping Moron

    I don't know where to put this & I am so darn angry I just need to vent somewhere!! So sorry about this - I left my husband 6 months ago, best thing I did, with happy memories of the relationship, blah, blah.... Now it's coming to sort out the finances and he...
    scootergirl35 scootergirl35
    36-40, F
    8 Responses May 11, 2009

    Why Is It So Hard To Leave A Marriage You Wanted To End A Long Time Ago?

    The last couple of days I've been having doubts about the divorce and feeling fear and guilt over divorcing my husband of 14 years. I am 47 with no children. I've wanted out of this marriage for so long and I feel I should have left a long time ago due to his bad temper, constant...
    Cassiopeia711 Cassiopeia711
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Oct 8, 2011

    My x and I only had sex 5 times in 18 months.

    She was so promiscuous even cheated while pregnant in our bed !!!
    hellothisisme hellothisisme
    36-40, M
    May 17, 2014

    It's Been About 2 Months Now

    I left my sexless relationship about 2 months ago.  I went a little crazy for a few weeks, having sex with anyone that was willing.  I felt like a kid in a candy store.  After a while I settled back down to normal (a couple of times a week, some more, some less...
    Roaring20s Roaring20s
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2008


    I discovered this group today.  I didn't even know it was hiding among the hundreds of experiences on EP.  I found the need to bring it to life while sharing a little. I was thinking this morning about how lonely and sad my marriage was.  God how I loved that...
    kungfuchic kungfuchic
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Apr 30, 2010

    Sexless Marriage For 10 Years

    I was in a sexless marriage for 10 + years until I ended it. I had to face that it was not my fault but my partners. My ex had a hysterectomy in 1999, but instead of letting me go through the process with her and supporting her she just stopped taking her hormone replacement meds...
    arusso19 arusso19
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 2, 2012

    I am a hopeless romantic,

    all these ideas and wants. But I am also a very sexual person. Love to explore and experiment, use toys, and do so much more. No one to do it with because I am in a sexless marriage. Been so long maybe never do it again..yea well that will not happen. Will probably always...
    ngnomore ngnomore
    51-55, M
    Jan 1, 2014

    Leaving A Sexless Relationship

    Well ive finally done it!  I have finished possibly the most soul destroying relationship of my life.  Ive spent 5 months now out of 9 with no sexual contact with him, no intimacy no proper kissing.  I've raised the subject he just keeps telling me it will happen when things...
    nixt nixt
    4 Responses Sep 19, 2011

    I Ended My (Mostly) Sexless Relationship Last Year

    Last year, I broke up with my girlfriend after livign 10 years together. I loved her, very much, and I still do. We were fitting so well together, you know, the kind of relationship that comprise love, respect, and a strong underlying friendship. Except for one detail: we were...
    CirculusVitiosus CirculusVitiosus
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 5, 2013

    Now I Know That It Wasn't Me

    During the whole sexless relationship, I thought that maybe it was me.  That I was the reason for him not wanting me...maybe due to being overweight or possibly being ugly or something else. I've found that now that I'm out and available, I have no shortage of interested...
    Roaring20s Roaring20s
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2008

    Update On After Leaving

    It was really hard leaving and dealing with my ex to sort out finances, however it was TOTALLY worth it. I am now (re)married to a man who wants to be with me in every way, which I struggle to understand and we have a beautiful 6 month old baby. I am happier and more content...
    scootergirl35 scootergirl35
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Sep 9, 2011

    Fantasy`s Child

    I met the man I am married to now 35 years ago his  Dad married my Mom. I was  15 and he was 19 when we met  I so wanted to be with him ,When we were alone a few times there was so much sexual tension between us  it was crazy. he was my fantasy, I knew in my heart someday we...
    cnanursie cnanursie
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 20, 2012

    I haven't been intimate in a long time

    and sometimes I feel I should just wait until I get married to be intimate again but then again I have urges and I can relive them but there is nothing like the loving and passionate touch of a good man......
    psychologyLover08 psychologyLover08
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    So Sad and Confused

    Hi there,   I'm new and wanted to share my story here.  I have yet to really speak in depth to any friends about this because I'm so embarrassed.  Everyone thinks we are the perfect couple. We have been together nearly two years and have lived together for one...
    UNCHeels UNCHeels
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2009

    Moving On

    This originally was a blog,but a friend sugested i post it as a story...so I am..: I filed for divorce yesterday. And so friends that know,want to express some sentiment, and the first thing they say is ...,I am so sorry it came to this.....Well the problem is,if it didn't come...
    neuilly neuilly
    61-65, F
    23 Responses Sep 16, 2011
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