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I Enjoy Doing Self Bondage Dares

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 181 People

    Looking For Some New Ideas

    I've been doing self bondage for years now and I'm looking for some new ideas.  I have some basic equipment (cuffs, chains, ball gag, neck corset, etc) but I'm willing to invest in more if someone suggests something that sounds fun.  I'll try just about anything and I...
    daniindiapers daniindiapers 26-30, T 4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Go Ahead Dare Me Away......

    Hey everyone! So a little about myself im a heterosexual crossdresser and i love bondage play. Since I'm always doing this by myself i thought it would be fun if someone would help me get tied up for a change. Heres how it'll work you guys come up with some ideas that you think i...
    glasscitycd90 glasscitycd90 22-25 4 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Shall I?

    The only ****** I have ever had has come from clitoral stimulation, I can get horny from vaginal penetration, but never ***. I want to be so cruel to myself; my plan is to sit at the end of my bed with a ***** inside me and some very tight knickers to hold it in. Then I’m going...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    A Fun Challenge...

    I was reading in another forum about bondage dares and I came across a fun challenge. Tie yourself up with ropes (no chains or locks or wrist/ankle cuffs) so that even with reasonable access to and knife and scissors escape is impossible. Now nothing sick like a neck rope that...
    daniindiapers daniindiapers 26-30, T Aug 12, 2010

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    Almost Found Out...

    Had not been married all that long, had know my wife a number of years, but never confessed my secretes about what I totally enjoy.. Soft sweaters being used as a blindfold while being tied up.. Enjoyed this since I can remember, and have had some wild experiences... My wife had...
    Anthony1812 Anthony1812 51-55, M Oct 21, 2011

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    Tense Self Bondage

    I am alone now, with no one to share my fun with, so I enjoy myself..... On a trip to a used clothing store, I found a cashmere turtle neck in black.. Beautiful sweater, and allowed a number of interesting pictures of who owned it??? This is what I did to totally make myself...
    Anthony1812 Anthony1812 51-55, M Oct 18, 2011

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    I Love Doing Crotch Ropes

    I started with a very strict male crotch rope: fold a long rope (15-20ft) and wrap your waist with the meeting point being in the front. Go down and wrap around base of **** 2 times then around both balls 2 times then each ball individually 2 times, really stretching them out...
    Thedurdenster Thedurdenster 46-50, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Challenge Accepted!

    so heres my challenge "If you have enough time and rope, and some knowledge of cinch ties I suggest tying your ankles, tie below the knees and above them. Then wrap a sufficient amount of rope around your skirt and waist and tie it off. You are on a chair so you cannot get up and...
    glasscitycd90 glasscitycd90 22-25 3 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Adventure In Self Bondage

    Girdled And Tied Up. This is a story that i will also post in the self bondage categories. It is a real experience from years ago. i have dressed up in the tightest girdle i own with my little boy toy tightly wrapped in sisal rope and pull back between my legs and cheeks. Next i...
    redlace redlace 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    Self Bondage Dare

    A friend of mine,she saw this video on the internet regarding self bondage play,and suggested we try it. She came over and showed me the video,i liked it and we agreed to try it,we actually dared each other. First,we took off our clothes,then set up everything,which was nipple...
    MissAmber45 MissAmber45 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Self Bondage Dare #2

    The same friend of mine in the first story came up with another self bondage dare.The first one took place at her home in the small town she resides in.The next one would take place at my home in the country,where there is no neighbors,lots of open and wooded areas,with several...
    MissAmber45 MissAmber45 41-45, F Nov 5, 2012

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    Itching And Can't Scratch

    Anyone tried enduring wearing something that itches like mad while making themselves unable to scratch? One could wear rough wool next to the skin with a nice wam coat over the top to guarantee a sweaty time then mittens locked on, or in winter head out in public and test your...
    BlueDreamUK BlueDreamUK 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 24, 2011

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    Back Seat Bondage

    I dragged my backpack into the car and dumped it on the back seat. I drove to some country lane a few miles off from my house and parked up. It was 2am and I have been driving around a lot looking for the right place to do this. I secured the car and turned off my engine and made...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F Oct 28, 2011

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    Stuck with wrist-to-neck bondage..

    I would like to share my recent terrifying but exciting at the same time self-bondage experience. I had practiced self bondage before but not anything that was risky or anything. It's been a while since I came across this "toy" on the Internet. http://d2weypz2veqqsi.cloudfront...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    Self Bondage Ideas! (while Cross Dressed)

    I enjoy self bondage while being cross dressed, I use the Hogtie and Arm to Thigh positions, but fancy some new ones. I live at home with my parents so the positions will have to be do-able using just three cords about 4ft long and 2 ties (that you'd use for school shirts or...
    TamaraCD123 TamaraCD123 18-21, M Jun 1, 2012

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    Where Are Those Damn Keys?

    I was feeling extremely kinky tonight so I decided to go through another self bondage dare. I took my locking ballgag out of the drawer and sat on the bed. This is not a fake and crappy ballgag but made of sturdy thick quality leather. The small keys and the padlock were hanging...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M Jul 9, 2013

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    Emily's Playtime

    Emily’s body shivered as she stood in the middle of the empty park, goose bumps covering her body, partly from the cold, but more so from the apprehension. It had been a hot summer’s day and since she hadn’t left the park since late afternoon when her friends said goodbye...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    Locking Myself Up For The Night!

    Again, I had a couple of days when I would be all alone at home. So, it only made sense that I'd indulge in two of my greatest fetishes, crossdressing and self bondage. So I decided to something a bit different. I recently found a piece of chain in my basement so I decided to get...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    I Enjoy Doing Crotch Ropes For Men

    I started with a very strict male crotch rope: fold a long rope (15-20ft) and wrap your waist with the meeting point being in the front. Go down and wrap around base of **** 2 times then around both balls 2 times then each ball individually 2 times, really stretching them out...
    Thedurdenster Thedurdenster 46-50, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Stuck In A Spreader Bar, Watching A Movie!

    Some months ago, I had a little "home alone" time for about 6 hours so I got a little bored and decided to get myself in a little predicament. I already had a pair of black fishnet pantyhose on so I layed the rest of the gear I was going to use on the bed. A sturdy plastic...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    No Choice But To Wait All Locked Up!

    This was my most recent self bondage experience. Up till now, I had tried self bondage that was just a matter of 10-25 minutes to get out of, as soon as I wanted to get free. This time I decided to take the next big step. It was last Saturday morning, I had the whole day to...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    Could'nt Reach The Key

    I love tying myself up an pretending that I am stuck, usually just binding my legs together. Whilst on a forum someone suggested that I take it a stage further, by tying my **** and balls to in a slip knot and fix it to my bed, then make sure my legs are bound then put my hands...
    DDFlasher DDFlasher 46-50 Oct 7, 2013

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    Ice Lock

    Just wondering if anyone here owns a ice lock. I recently found one online for £35, just wondered if anyone has any expierence with them
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    sometimes i ask myself why im enjoying doing bad things , why i cant control myself and take good decesions ....
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    I think dares are really exhilarating and the thrill of getting caught is just amazing. Please post comments of any ideas for dares you have. I will not do anything sexual. I love...
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    POST SOME **** DARES!!!! I will check ep every day
    gamer2000 gamer2000 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I'm looking for a female teen dare buddy! I'm a nudist, I can do any naked dare as long as its inside the house. It can't be outside, except for in my back yard. I will send my...
    WelcomeToJackass WelcomeToJackass 18-21, M Mar 26

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    "Ask and ye shall recieve." I help others because I believe it to be moral behavior, and enjoy it mostly in a 'I'm doing the right thing' kind of way. When I was deciding what to...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 28

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    For you (many, girls), who cut yourselves. Please remember that some of us love you, care about you. ----- Food for thought (an article from Psychology Today) ----- Sax on Sex...
    Karll Karll 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Netflix has ruined my sleep for this along with ep! I stay up till 4 am now days just doing Those two things
    nicenerd5107 nicenerd5107 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    I really really want to start cutting again, but I cant because my boyfriend will blame him self or will tell my mom but I need it bad ive fallin back to it but I need it home can...
    innocentangel101 innocentangel101 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I love self harming to see my blood sometimes when I cut and don't see blood I get angry and frustrated...
    Rishay Rishay 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    My favorite band of all time would be.. Mindless Self Indulgence. It's weird how they have a HUGE fanbase but you'll never hear them on the radio or see them on TV. I guess it's...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 3 hrs ago

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    OK GUYS IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A BONDAGE MASTER WHO LIVES IN MY AREA UGH ITS SOO HARD. ITS LIKE THE WORST THING EVER IM DIEN RIGHT NOW
    MIMIEMOUSE MIMIEMOUSE 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her.Being a woman in today’s world must be hard. So much is expected of you and...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F Apr 3

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    I self harm. I've been self harming since i was 11 years old i am now 14 and i am slowly starting to recover. A year ago i attempted suicide and nearly succeed, but my best mate...
    jayspiller1 jayspiller1 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Have anybody seen real bondage seen?
    relish20 relish20 36-40, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know where to begin when It comes to my experience with self harm. I started cutting when I was 13, the first time I had ever self harmed was in my bathroom with a large...
    musicforthemorningafter musicforthemorningafter 13-15, F Apr 7

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    I think It first started when I was 10 or so. Yeah I know, it's sad, it's sick. That a kid at the age of 10 would self harm. For me... Well I had A LOT goin on, waaayyyy TOO much...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I used to self harm last year. I'm starting to have those feelings and I really want to go back to the blade. Call me crazy. I don't care. But one thing that stops me doing so. My...
    HydroChronexia HydroChronexia 13-15, F Mar 26

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Dear Mariah, First off, take a deep breath and relax, I know that sounds crazy but you need it. Your life is going to be hard, especially these next few years. But don't let...
    LizzyQ7788 LizzyQ7788 13-15, F Apr 10

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    I hope to pay it forward by doing so :) It is a bonus when they are appreciative but most importantly, must remember that it is not for any self-gain.
    yxandy yxandy 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Truth is I don't think I've ever had any Self Esteem or Confidence. I say that only because looking back throughout my life I cannot recall a time where I was truly okay with being...
    needinganescape needinganescape 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I believe that without selfishness world can become a better place. That includes the corruption and stuffs like that. Don't act like you own things that you really don't. Don't...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F a week ago

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    I self harm. Ill admit it. No I wasn't raped (that is sad though. If that has happened to you I'm sorry) No I'm not bullied or abused. I'm not writing this to get sympathy. I just...
    blackbird96 blackbird96 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I am trying self-harming now, I had a fairly bad day today, so I'm alone in the kitchen and I thought of trying something completely different and not like me - I came to this site...
    jayja45 jayja45 18-21, M Apr 11

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    I'm not going to go into much of the background, but the experience is something I've kept inside of me and is dying for a release. It began when everyone around me became so fed...
    borderlinesymmetry borderlinesymmetry 13-15, F Apr 11

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    What's wrong with me? i've got to get over this. Long story short, In a relationship with a guy since I was 16, never truely happy, cheated on him, begged him back, got pregnant...
    hime0423 hime0423 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's still a battle even if it's been a while. It's approaching a year since I last harmed myself. I want to cave back in all the time, even when I don't feel that depressed. It...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    well I am a cutter and I'm doing pretty well using the butterfly project. I'm really trying to stop because my boyfriend said he's going to leave me if I don't. I'm actually almost...
    bunnydisaster77 bunnydisaster77 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I cut myself for many reasons. 1-I'm insecure. I'm overweight so having friends is definitely out of the question. I can never do anything because people judge because of my...
    Iamsolonely96 Iamsolonely96 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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