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I Enjoy Doing Self Bondage Dares

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 190 People

    Looking For Some New Ideas

    I've been doing self bondage for years now and I'm looking for some new ideas.  I have some basic equipment (cuffs, chains, ball gag, neck corset, etc) but I'm willing to invest in more if someone suggests something that sounds fun.  I'll try just about anything and I...
    daniindiapers daniindiapers 26-30, T 4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Ice Lock

    Just wondering if anyone here owns a ice lock. I recently found one online for £35, just wondered if anyone has any expierence with them
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    Emily's Playtime

    Emily’s body shivered as she stood in the middle of the empty park, goose bumps covering her body, partly from the cold, but more so from the apprehension. It had been a hot summer’s day and since she hadn’t left the park since late afternoon when her friends said goodbye...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    Shall I?

    The only ****** I have ever had has come from clitoral stimulation, I can get horny from vaginal penetration, but never ***. I want to be so cruel to myself; my plan is to sit at the end of my bed with a ***** inside me and some very tight knickers to hold it in. Then I’m going...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    Where Are Those Damn Keys?

    I was feeling extremely kinky tonight so I decided to go through another self bondage dare. I took my locking ballgag out of the drawer and sat on the bed. This is not a fake and crappy ballgag but made of sturdy thick quality leather. The small keys and the padlock were hanging...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M Jul 9, 2013

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    Self Bondage Ideas! (while Cross Dressed)

    I enjoy self bondage while being cross dressed, I use the Hogtie and Arm to Thigh positions, but fancy some new ones. I live at home with my parents so the positions will have to be do-able using just three cords about 4ft long and 2 ties (that you'd use for school shirts or...
    TamaraCD123 TamaraCD123 18-21, M Jun 1, 2012

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    Itching And Can't Scratch

    Anyone tried enduring wearing something that itches like mad while making themselves unable to scratch? One could wear rough wool next to the skin with a nice wam coat over the top to guarantee a sweaty time then mittens locked on, or in winter head out in public and test your...
    BlueDreamUK BlueDreamUK 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 24, 2011

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    Tense Self Bondage

    I am alone now, with no one to share my fun with, so I enjoy myself..... On a trip to a used clothing store, I found a cashmere turtle neck in black.. Beautiful sweater, and allowed a number of interesting pictures of who owned it??? This is what I did to totally make myself...
    Anthony1812 Anthony1812 51-55, M Oct 18, 2011

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    Go Ahead Dare Me Away......

    Hey everyone! So a little about myself im a heterosexual crossdresser and i love bondage play. Since I'm always doing this by myself i thought it would be fun if someone would help me get tied up for a change. Heres how it'll work you guys come up with some ideas that you think i...
    glasscitycd90 glasscitycd90 22-25 4 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Challenge Accepted!

    so heres my challenge "If you have enough time and rope, and some knowledge of cinch ties I suggest tying your ankles, tie below the knees and above them. Then wrap a sufficient amount of rope around your skirt and waist and tie it off. You are on a chair so you cannot get up and...
    glasscitycd90 glasscitycd90 22-25 3 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Adventure In Self Bondage

    Girdled And Tied Up. This is a story that i will also post in the self bondage categories. It is a real experience from years ago. i have dressed up in the tightest girdle i own with my little boy toy tightly wrapped in sisal rope and pull back between my legs and cheeks. Next i...
    redlace redlace 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    Self Bondage Dare

    A friend of mine,she saw this video on the internet regarding self bondage play,and suggested we try it. She came over and showed me the video,i liked it and we agreed to try it,we actually dared each other. First,we took off our clothes,then set up everything,which was nipple...
    MissAmber45 MissAmber45 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Stuck with wrist-to-neck bondage..

    I would like to share my recent terrifying but exciting at the same time self-bondage experience. I had practiced self bondage before but not anything that was risky or anything. It's been a while since I came across this "toy" on the Internet. http://d2weypz2veqqsi.cloudfront...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    Could'nt Reach The Key

    I love tying myself up an pretending that I am stuck, usually just binding my legs together. Whilst on a forum someone suggested that I take it a stage further, by tying my **** and balls to in a slip knot and fix it to my bed, then make sure my legs are bound then put my hands...
    DDFlasher DDFlasher 46-50 Oct 7, 2013

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    I Love Doing Crotch Ropes

    I started with a very strict male crotch rope: fold a long rope (15-20ft) and wrap your waist with the meeting point being in the front. Go down and wrap around base of **** 2 times then around both balls 2 times then each ball individually 2 times, really stretching them out...
    Thedurdenster Thedurdenster 46-50, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Stuck In A Spreader Bar, Watching A Movie!

    Some months ago, I had a little "home alone" time for about 6 hours so I got a little bored and decided to get myself in a little predicament. I already had a pair of black fishnet pantyhose on so I layed the rest of the gear I was going to use on the bed. A sturdy plastic...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 18, 2011

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    Self Bondage Dare #2

    The same friend of mine in the first story came up with another self bondage dare.The first one took place at her home in the small town she resides in.The next one would take place at my home in the country,where there is no neighbors,lots of open and wooded areas,with several...
    MissAmber45 MissAmber45 41-45, F Nov 5, 2012

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    Locking Myself Up For The Night!

    Again, I had a couple of days when I would be all alone at home. So, it only made sense that I'd indulge in two of my greatest fetishes, crossdressing and self bondage. So I decided to something a bit different. I recently found a piece of chain in my basement so I decided to get...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    No Choice But To Wait All Locked Up!

    This was my most recent self bondage experience. Up till now, I had tried self bondage that was just a matter of 10-25 minutes to get out of, as soon as I wanted to get free. This time I decided to take the next big step. It was last Saturday morning, I had the whole day to...
    Nailpolishaddict Nailpolishaddict 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    I Enjoy Doing Crotch Ropes For Men

    I started with a very strict male crotch rope: fold a long rope (15-20ft) and wrap your waist with the meeting point being in the front. Go down and wrap around base of **** 2 times then around both balls 2 times then each ball individually 2 times, really stretching them out...
    Thedurdenster Thedurdenster 46-50, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Back Seat Bondage

    I dragged my backpack into the car and dumped it on the back seat. I drove to some country lane a few miles off from my house and parked up. It was 2am and I have been driving around a lot looking for the right place to do this. I secured the car and turned off my engine and made...
    xEmilyStrangex xEmilyStrangex 18-21, F Oct 28, 2011

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    A Fun Challenge...

    I was reading in another forum about bondage dares and I came across a fun challenge. Tie yourself up with ropes (no chains or locks or wrist/ankle cuffs) so that even with reasonable access to and knife and scissors escape is impossible. Now nothing sick like a neck rope that...
    daniindiapers daniindiapers 26-30, T Aug 12, 2010

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    Almost Found Out...

    Had not been married all that long, had know my wife a number of years, but never confessed my secretes about what I totally enjoy.. Soft sweaters being used as a blindfold while being tied up.. Enjoyed this since I can remember, and have had some wild experiences... My wife had...
    Anthony1812 Anthony1812 51-55, M Oct 21, 2011

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