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I Enjoy Living a Dominant and Submissive Lifestyle

For those of us who are doms or subs or anybody that is interested 927 People

    I love this lifestyle. is something that I have always craved and unlike most things in my life...the reality has surpassed my expectations. Throughout all my previous relationships, I have always felt incomplete and unsatisfied....there was always a piece of the jigsaw missing!!! Now I've...
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379
    36-40, F
    Feb 5

    In A Healthy Way

    Me and my wife have adopted this lifestyle from a long time and it has helped us to bond well in married life and sex life d/s doesnt mean we have painful sex,humiliate each other or way..
    Blackgoldd Blackgoldd
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2012

    A Sub By Choice

    It took me a while to figure out that this is the lifestyle i need and want.  I dont know why it works for me....but its like the only way i feel cared about is by my Dom taking interest in my life and wanting to help me live my life better. Sometimes i feel like im so out...
    SassySexySweetSub SassySexySweetSub
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2008

    Turn Me On...

    1. When he grips a fist full of my hair so that he can pound my harder. 2. When he tells me to come here in that deceptively calm and gentle voice, when I know he is about to be everything but. 3. when his horniness gets the better of him love making turns into crazy, rough...
    ToBeYours ToBeYours
    26-30, F
    22 Responses Jul 16, 2013

    First Meeting (True Ongoing Relationship)

    I met the submissive couple for the first time face to face last week at a restaurant. We had a light dinner and talked. They were very nervous. This meeting was the first step in exploring their desire to experience submission and to see if they truly were submissive. Toward the...
    Treehuousedom Treehuousedom
    51-55, M
    May 19, 2013

    The Chair

    She came out of the bathroom wearing her hair down around her shoulders and no lip stick. This was an unusual beginning for one of our play sessions.  Normally it is ponytail, dark lipstick, high heeled shoes and be on time or be punished.  Wearing only high heels she walked...
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    1 Response Oct 3, 2013

    Beginning Of A Dominant/Submissive Relationship

    This will be an ongoing description of a relationship that is about to begin. I am a dominant man here and have recently be corresponding with a submissive couple... at least they think that they are submissive and want to explore further. We have not yet met, the meeting will...
    Treehuousedom Treehuousedom
    51-55, M
    May 11, 2013

    My First Submissive

    I was living and working in a new city , alone then when i met this girl in one of the IRC chat servers ... We chatted for two weeks and then spoke to each other for another week or so till we met in a shopping mall. I took her to a small snack shop and we started talking. We...
    master4slv master4slv
    36-40, M
    Oct 10, 2012

    Master/slave 24/7

    i lived in a 24/7 master/slave relationship, for almost a year. i always wanted to try it, i thought it was just roll playing. but once i got into it, i found it was pretty intense, in a good way. i felt so guilty, because it wasnt the norm. my slave studied, and followed what i...
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    1 Response Jul 28, 2011

    My beautiful wife and Mistress have decided to

    start our pages on here looking for friends and networking. I am 40 bi m who loves to be humiliated and made to dress up by my wife and suck **** and want to get ******. I would love to see my wifes sweet ***** ****** by a fat **** since I have such a small sissy **** ****. She...
    hersissycuck hersissycuck
    41-45, M
    Dec 9, 2013

    TickleMaster101 is now

    and always will be my one and only master.. I swear to be my masters slave with no limits FOREVER!!!
    Slave2ticklemaster101 Slave2ticklemaster101
    41-45, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    He has been serving me last 5 months.

    . A well placed and a successful professional for the world, he turns into my sissy boy when we meet. In his mid 50s now. he wanted to serve a man in the closet. We meet a couple of times a month .. mostly at a rented location where he serves me on high heels. He becomes a...
    master4slv master4slv
    36-40, M
    Mar 13

    24/7 365

    My marriage is one of total power exchange. My husband is my Master and I, his collared slave. I am his property. i write this with his permission and approval as is everything in my life. My Master works from his home and so he has me under his direct supervision all the time...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2010

    I Love The Feelings Living This Lifestyle Creates

    And the more I feel them the more i crave them! Today I was getting ready to run some errands, and, as usual, sent Master a text to let Him know where i was going. He is working out of town right now, so we text a lot.  I get a text back and was surprised to see it say.. "I...
    simplysubmissive simplysubmissive
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2010
    QuietTranquility QuietTranquility
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    Loving my life, love belonging to

    and being the slave girl of my Master ticklemaster101 nothing makes me happiest and more fulfilled than serving and pleasing my master... The most grateful the luckiest slave girl in the whole world!!!
    Slave2ticklemaster101 Slave2ticklemaster101
    41-45, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    Outside our marriage,

    especially at work I am the man. I am in charge of several employees and very successful, if I may say so. But when I'm with my wife it's a completely different story. She is the dominate person in my life and I must day I love it. Even if she humiliates me in front of our...
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    2 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    Intelligence Is A Must For Real D/S Fun

    "For me", I must begin this post with those two words. Not every Dom would want the same type of woman or agree with my next statements so I set the record right by stating this is what is necessary "For me" to enjoy the D/s life style. I wrote this post to remind me that I...
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    1 Response Nov 16, 2013

    ****** Denial Or Control (ODC) Part 2

    This part of the article was written by my sub-wife and I have left it as written so you can see her side of the story:      " My night started like many have in the past. I had special instructions from my Master, instructions I needed to follow exactly or the chance of...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 19, 2013

    I want to know why he entices me with being

    his sub, but he wants to move slowly . He says the rules will come in time , but he wants to know me first. I enjoy this romantic seduction. I want to know if this is the normal process as this is my first experience.
    vahotmommy vahotmommy
    36-40, F
    Sep 21, 2014

    My Dom Mind Is Running Amuck.

    My sub wife and I are really enjoying all the fun, interesting people on EP. Lots of fun and games are afoot and life is very interesting.  My mind has been stimulated and while sleeping my dreams and fantasies are going to new, and interesting places.  Here is a fantasy...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 24, 2013

    My Life Is Her Life

    My wife and I have been in a D/s marriage for over 5 years. Our relatioship is quite different than most. She is in absolute control of my life.She controls my every action and thought. I make no moves or actions other than those that she has decided for me to do. I make...
    papafisch papafisch
    1 Response Sep 10, 2010

    Dominating My Wife

    My wife and I have had a Dom/sub sex life for a number of years now. We have found we both enjoy sex so much when she is tied up and used anyway I want. Any body part, or any orifice is available for my **** to explore. I really enjoy using toys, nipple clamps, light S/M play...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 6, 2013

    I'm new to this and it have only gone a year.

    :o But I like it so far and would love to explore more and improve myself. I have a lot to learn yet though and gladly take in advices and new things. I still wonder though, how it can work. It feels like from the first word from my Sir, I knew we fitted. I have no idea why and...
    FransescaWinter FransescaWinter
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014


    After a long and/or rough play session, a compassionate Dom needs to show a sub a great deal of appreciation and affection for her trust and for her gift of submission. You've earned it, but never squander it. Appreciation and acknowledgement keep the bonds tight.
    stocksthatgoup stocksthatgoup
    61-65, M
    Jun 19, 2013

    New To This Lifestyle

    I am a 30 yr old submissive female that has craved dominance fom my bf of 5 years. I always thought of it as only a fantastyof mine until I realized this can be a lifestyle if chosen. Of course if you read any previos questions or stories I was nervous and scared to tell my bf...
    inluv28 inluv28
    31-35, F
    Jul 5, 2013

    The Chair Part 2

    She stood by the bed with her body bent over with her *** up facing toward me.  My finger worked its way deep into her anal **** hole.  I lubed her good so my finger was sliding easily in and out.  Her ***** juices flowed down her legs and dripped onto the floor below.  Her...
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    Oct 4, 2013

    It's the life I have always craved,

    without even really understanding or accepting exactly what it was I was craving, up until earlier this year. It kind of kept seeping into my consciousness, but I would push it away and forget about it again whilst trying to make another pointless "relationship " work. But I...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 26, 2015

    Vanilla Daydreams Of A Newbie Sub

    I'm expecting you to walk through the door any minute now. I'm feeling very nervous and a little insecure because i don't know how your going to react to what i am about to do. We've only talked about it briefly and even then i couldn't tell how you felt about it one way or...
    AmiraLaurelle AmiraLaurelle
    41-45, F
    Apr 17, 2013

    I'm looking for advice please.

    ... Do your family, friends and Work Colleagues know that you are in a D/s Relationship...and if they do how did they respond/ did it change your relationships with them? Thanks in advance. xxx
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 27

    Mistress And Her Sub

    I am a Mistress who has a submissive. I was mentored to be a Mistress by one of the best. I started out as a submissive myself, but the relationship turned disasterous and could have been very dangerous for me to stay in it. I then found the mentor and he quickly said that I...
    texflower texflower
    70+, F
    May 29, 2013

    A Long Journey

    This was a journey of love not a split second decision. amy and I have been married 21 years we have 2 girls ages 16 and 20. I am a nurse and she is a Hospital Office Manager. We met in college and married just before my going off to Iraq (US Army). When I got home we learned...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Nov 27, 2012

    Friday Morning

    -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My hubby was just about to sit down for breakfast when he noticed the toast still in the toaster,what the **** is my toast still there ***** he roared at me ,sorry i forgot when babe cried i get it...
    hlnalma hlnalma
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2010

    ****** Denial Or Control (ODC), Use With Caution, But Have Fun!

    ****** denial or control (ODC) is something my sub wife does not like me to do.  She really likes her ******* and wants them as often and as many as she can get (Master really, really, likes this part of his sub wife).  However, as with all things (within her hard limits) there...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 12, 2013

    I am a slave girl.. My master TickleMaster101

    has taught me so much in true service to him, I was lost going nowhere no direction no discipline till my master rescued me..he has changed my life for the better and I have never been more fulfilled at any time in my life. I feel I can no longer breathe without my Master.. I...
    Slave2ticklemaster101 Slave2ticklemaster101
    41-45, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    Oh, I am so tired today.

    Had a lovely time with my lady friends last and their submissive males last night My husband BBQ’d marinated salmon over a charcoal grill and prepared a red skin potato and asparagus combination with Irish butter, fresh squeezed lemon juice and fresh thyme. Exquisite! The...
    LEnglish LEnglish
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Aug 23, 2015

    Hello people . I'm new here

    and would like to delve more into my submissive side. Looking for a long term D/d relationship here but would love to chat with females as well as males about their experiences here and online. I'm looking for a caring Daddy with a sweet sexual side that isn't bashful about...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 23, 2015

    Communication Breeds Evolution

    Why I choose this lifestyle is simple. There is an open truth and honesty to it and it generates communication of limits and desires.  When trapped in a vanilla relationship people tend to communicate less.  (I am making a sweeping generalization here I know but listen to what...
    GentlemanBeast GentlemanBeast
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 15, 2013

    Power Turns Me On

    I have always had it in me to be the dominant one in my relationships. Before I accepted the title of Dominatrix, I would curb my feelings so that the man could be "the man" so it wouldn't interfere with our relationship. But after a while I told myself that I had to be true to...
    MySexyDominance MySexyDominance
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2011

    Long Overdue

    I was requested a long time ago to write another story on how I was doing in my life as a slave and I had totally forgotten so my apologies to 1234TBibbs. My life had a crunch for a period of time when I was in transition due to the Master i had was inexperienced and was not very...
    HisLittlePrincess HisLittlePrincess
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 10, 2013
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