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I Enjoy Talking Deeply With People

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    This is possibly a bad/maybe good trait of mine.

    I don't like small talk at all, but for a lot of people deep conversations are too much or they cannot carry on one.
    justme5079 justme5079 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Hello!

    This is great! I love how specific this site gets with shared interests. I am SO that person who loves to get to the heart of a matter and will talk about things that make other people uncomfortable or might take them months to become comfortable enough to discuss. I feel like...
    Fayerweather Fayerweather 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I Love Deep Conversations

     When i was 16  my friend sarah had this kick ***  party ... well there was this guy there named Chris ... well he had a gf she was there ...  i was completely freakin wasted ...  i had  waay to many  of those downhome punch things ..  ...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Aug 24, 2007

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    I don't mind chatting

    or helping people of anyone wants to chat nothing sexual I am in a commited relationship thank you- I don't mind talking though
    potato11 potato11 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Sunrise and Promise

    As I sit here watching the sky to my left grow crimson *** the song begins it weary trek across the horizon I think about all the myrid things this day will hold for people all over the planet. Some will die in a car wreck, in numbers that dwarf warfare. Some will bury a loved...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses May 2, 2008

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    With the Caveat That the Talki...

    With the caveat that the talking deeply be about something important, not something like how cool the iPhone is or whether Avril Lavigne is hipper than Amy Winebottle.
    Mandragora Mandragora 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2007

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    Madelene Vegelhousen And Her Cousin Anna Talking About Forever Young Part 2 At A Party Could Be Worse If Didnt Listen To It Ok

    so tell me why u like Alphaville and forever young part 2 its sonded allmoust like refreshing time for alot of people it could sound liek this in case uand me as synth part 2 velevet underground and it satrted long time ago woth comercial we did in accrding to love me as a famous...
    MonicaW MonicaW 36-40, F Jul 17, 2011

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    Girl Talk

    As a girly teenager, I do stay up all night and talk to my friends about everything that's bothering me. It feels good to let out everything that's been on my mind to someone who I can trust with my problems who has some of their own too. I feel much more comfortable talking to a...
    maggers73 maggers73 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    I Don't Want to Just Tell You How Much I Love It

    i do love it, truely. but right now i just want to do it. i have no one i can just talk deeply to in my life anymore. i just want some intelligent conversation. words have kind of become my escape lately.. so i don't want to talk about the damn weather... intrigue me world
    katiekayy katiekayy 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I don't have a problem speaking with strangers

    and befriending them on the internet. It's been a bad and good experience to me and I can relate to other people here on this site. Talking to strangers also has it pro and con situation. You are an adult of age, only you can decide if you want to connect with strangers on a...
    lovelyautumn1989 lovelyautumn1989 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I Want to Know Everything About You...

    I love talking to ppl, getting to know how they think, what their opinions are. My b/f tells me i'm great at "Q&A.  I love to sit down with someone i don't know very well and just ask them random questions.  Ppl might look at me funny or think i'm nosy, but...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    You Might Never Know What You Hear

    I love it when people surprise me with insightful conversation that leaves a deep impact later. I guess these kind of people are becoming so rare by the second due to technological insanity that is taking place nowadays..not that technology is totally a bad thing. Hopefully these...
    madamoiselle madamoiselle 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2008

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    Well They Say Not To Talk About Politics And Religious Beliefs At Least At The Dinner Table..

    so i don't but i like to know peoples beliefs on things like that... also i just like to hear peoples stories/experiences/fears/anything really i hate talking about the latest show or about other people behind their backs...that's just mean plus i'd rather just hear it from...
    papasmerf21 papasmerf21 22-25, M Jan 12, 2012

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    Chatfest

    I have written a lot today, and so am not feeling very chatty tonight, but I wanted to share that I really love being at home with a good friend, and having a fire in the fireplace, and sitting on the sofa for a long talk.  Talking deeply is best for me when the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 5, 2007

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    Because...

    I am still learning many things in my life....talking to people helps me understand that many things happen in life which can be dealt in different ways...consequences change a person's life and his/her personality.At times talking to someone makes me feel connected to them and...
    papri papri 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    Chika

    I don't know but I always love to talk deeply with other people. I love giving advice, I love listening to problems, and most importantly I love giving comfort.
    KLoverated KLoverated 16-17, M Oct 23, 2012

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Nothing More Attractive Than Your Mind

    That's how i really know- if i am going to like a person- friends or otherwise. If we can talk about our beliefs, our convictions, and generally speculate about the universe and the human condition without arguing (debate IS welcome however)  than i know there is...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2008

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    Revigorates

    To me conversation is a way in which we can explore, in which we can delve deep within ourselves, be challenged and educated by one another- share ideas and concepts, that even though we don't necessarily personally view as something we would want to incorporate into our lives...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2008

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    By The Sea By Athena Beachamp

    In their youth two have met on a playgound with swings and sand. Their paths were crossed many a time, love blossomed to great dimensions Till the day of recognition when he said, "You must be mine. As sailors of old, they have set the course and from their destination...
    attybea attybea 51-55, F Jan 29, 2013

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    Masculine/Feminine

    Desiring more intimacy with my husband, a very smart friend of mine who is astute in psychology said I simply need to develop my masculine side. This tripped me because I was looking more for something like you need to have more sex fulfillment with your man. So to look inside of...
    itzcomplex itzcomplex 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    But Only If They Talk What I P...

    But only if they talk what I perceive to be sense. I can appreciate other points of view but pretence drives me mad
    Bardo Bardo 66-70, M Oct 25, 2007

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    Why is it when I'm there

    for someone else it goes smoothly, Iran the Interaction. But I have something they are willing to listen to, the phone dies, something needs to be done etc. I know I ramble or go "beyond" the normal scope, but I haven't lived a normal life or even have a normal code 4 to believe...
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Ask Me Anything...I'll Tell You

    I love knowing what makes others tick and I am endlessly fascinated with our commonalities and differences alike.I will share with you my most angst-filled moments and will not judge you when you tell me your darkest secrets. I can't imagine not being able to share and...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Frankly I Do

    To be honest, from time to time it happens to me that I'm in a very serious discussion about matters of general and personal concern.  I just love it.  But lately I'm seduced to think that slapstick is even better.
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M Feb 2, 2010

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    I Wish I Do It More.

    Most of the people in this world don't thinking deeply about the things around them. And there is nothing wrong in it. A person who is not thinking deeply about things and if he is happy, then , I think it is very clever of him that he is avoiding complications. But I would like...
    Somexyz Somexyz 22-25 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Talk deeply with me! You know,

    cos I enjoy it ^-^ lol. I loveeeee deep convos
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 3 Responses May 10

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    Ideal

    My ideal way of spending a night in is to have an interesting and thought provoking conversation. When I have this lovely talks with people I love to hear people's different ideas and opinions, and debates often arise. I enjoy these conversations, and feel I should have to start...
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F Oct 26, 2007

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    So Im New Here To This....

    So i am new here and just found this site and joined. Im not exactly sure how this works but i guess sometimes its just really nice to have a fresh set of eyes to talk to you and get advice from. Recently in just these past few months i have transfered colleges, was forced to...
    KRISnTINA0810 KRISnTINA0810 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    Giving To Much

    I found the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with, the reason being she was the only person i had met i felt comfortable to expose my inner and thoughts. it was great at first and we both talked about all our deepest brain worms. then one day a brain worm became to...
    thefingereater thefingereater 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    Like talking about the destiny of mankind

    and the origins and the universe and it's purpose.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Down To The Bone

    I live for deep conversations. There is nothing more interesting than turning a subject inside out. I have at times been accused of being an inquisitor because I want to go deeper than the bone.  I want to peel that away and get to the marrow.  Once you're on that level, the...
    holloway64 holloway64 46-50, M Jan 21, 2013

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    It's What I Do...

    I've always been fascinated with the way people think... I love to learn and learning from your peers is the best way to learn to me... so I love to talk to people who can teach me something or give me insight or enlighten me... I don't know... I am majoring in Psych because I...
    phidget phidget 31-35, F 3 Responses May 13, 2008

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    Frankly I Do

    To be honest, from time to time it happens to me that I'm in a very serious discussion about matters of general and personal concern.  I just love it.  But lately I'm seduced to think that slapstick is even better.
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    ONE of the Things I Look For

    WHEN I MEET SOMEONE, FRIENDS OR MORE, I LOOK FOR THAT, IF U CAN NOT ONLY START UP AN INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION, BUT HOLD ONE, STUMP ME MAKE ME THINK ABOUT IT FIGURE IT OUT AND THROW ME TO KEEP IT GOING THEN UR MINE, THERES NOTHING MORE SATISFYING THEN TO REALLY GIG INTO...
    isgotsaninjakitty isgotsaninjakitty 22-25, F 5 Responses May 5, 2008

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    It Is Good For the Mind,soul

    to be able to talk with a freind .and have a frank and honest conversation.without agression.to be able to talk about any subject.and hear their views.and who knows you may see a new and better view of things.and if not at least keep an open mind.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Love It

    I have never been any good at the small talk thing. What's the point of commenting on the weather? I much prefer a decent, meaningful conversation that will leave me enlightened and thoughtful. I don't feel like I have had one of these in ages and I used to have them all the time...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    once I Was Waiting For a Tr...

    once i was waiting for a train and a guy sat next to me... he asked if i had a lighter. when i looked at him as if to say"i don't smoke" he said"Sorry smoking is bad i know i shouldn't... you like sicence?" ok so from a lighter to science science to maths...
    LittleLostQueen LittleLostQueen 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2007

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    To Learn

    I enjoy getting into deep conversations. Just to get to know them or even compare lives, common interests, etc. I don't have that in my real world, no time... so this is where I come for that adult conversation and talks. :)
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Oct 25, 2007

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    Around Here? Lol

    Yes I love to get into a deep talk with someone and my husband and I do it all the time.  The reason I say around here and laugh though is because I live in a hick town where the only things they talk about is how the cows are doing and etc.  When I worked at a factory...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F Dec 11, 2007

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    Smalltalk - Ugh . . . No

    I hate smalltalk, I really do - I am not one for smalltalk. That doesn't mean I don't have a great sense of humor or that I don't love to make people laugh but when it comes to conversation, I am not usually one for light fare. Anyone on my circle will tell you about how direct...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 3, 2009

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    Adore It

    Whether it be merely a deep conversation exploring rather common topics, or controversial debates, or considering philosophy, I just adore talking about deep things. So many people around to bore me with the shallow and many thoughts of day to day life, and no one to talk to...
    GoldLikeAutumn GoldLikeAutumn 13-15 Jan 10, 2012

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    FOR the Most Part... ...

    FOR THE MOST PART... DON'T REALLY TALK TO A LOT OF PEOPLE.. BUT WHEN I DO ITS SOMEONE IMPORTANT TO ME. AND WE CAN TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING TOGHETHER.
    MOISES MOISES 19-21, M Oct 25, 2007

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    Talking With Everyone

         I think, talk to people on a deeper level. Is always best, you get a feel for them, they can get a feel for you. You may never talk to that person. But you want to know you help that person on, a deeper level.     You never know, when you...
    Sourtherngirl Sourtherngirl 21-25, F Oct 26, 2007

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    Some Decent Conversation..

    I dunno but I'm starting to think that this is a dating site..
    janjanzano janjanzano 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    When i first joined EP i was soo much excited with this whole idea of talking to people all around the globe.Initially i tried to acquaint myself with far too many..then among...
    jusanotherguy jusanotherguy 22-25, M Jul 23

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    I don't know why, but I seem to get along with people older then me easily, more than the people that are around my own age. Well, at least I think so.
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I like talking with people who have different ideas, unless they are close-minded, because I can expand my knowledge with them.
    InsanelySaneGuy InsanelySaneGuy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    A lot of people think its weird or wrong that I'm a christian and I'm sort of friends with a satanist. We're not the best of friends but we are friends. She even has an upside down...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    One afternoon i was waiting at the bus stop when a homeless man came passing through. He wasn't doing anything wrong, he was simply passing through minding his own business and...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 13

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    What would be the point of only being friends with people like me? It takes all sorts to make the world turn. And let's be honest, I'm not the most exhilarating company! Haha.
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My peers are the most annoying people ever!! I cannot see why they focus on the useless topics that happen around them. Older people are more interesting, they have the capability...
    HarmonicArtist HarmonicArtist 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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