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I F U Cant Handle Me At My Worst, U Dont Deserve Me At My Best

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    You Don't Deserve Me

    You said you would always be there for me, comfort me and hold me when it felt like the world just caved in on me. Yet, whenever I needed you the most, you couldn't handle it. You would never stick around for me to be my best again. If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    Dont Deserve Me

    When i see this group i dont just think bf gf. I think about bestfriends also. im a very diffcult to deal with and i have alot lf bad moments. If you love someone would try your best to be there for them and abamdon them. I have so many bad things that make me think how hell...
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    Sushi Soy Shots

    "Not all Asain people can make sushi"I learned that very interesting concept that someone brought to my attention...bahahaha! That doesn'tmake any sense does it? Like why wouldn't they know how?Anywho,what was once The Heist and is now The Federal Bar is still a place I haven't...
    LonelyBeing LonelyBeing 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    So true! She's been there at my worst.

    That's why she deserves the best she can imagine that I'm giving to her.
    essie3d essie3d 31-35, M Feb 13

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    If U Cant

    This goes for any relationship out there. (Friends, married couples, dating, etc).  Were good enough when we are at our best and not good enough when we are at our worst?  Either people take us with flaws and all or there's no point being in each other's lives.  This is the...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    If Ya Can't Handle Me, Then Ya Can't Have Meh.

    At my worst, I'm a depressed suicidal *****. At my best, I'm a quirky, random, silly kid. If you don't like that, then don't bother. I am me, I'm far from perfect, but this is where I am. Take it or leave it. Don't leave me hanging. You either want me to be in your life, or you...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    My Blessing

    My fiancee is the only man Ive ever loved who loved me back without reservation or judgement. Ive got some massively difficult health issues which men in the past have found to be too much to handle. My fiancee has loved me for three years,and what a love it is-hes seen me doing...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F Dec 12, 2012

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    delen delen 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    My Worst Is Probably Pretty Bad

    I have bipolar 2... so I experience extreme lows... I've been pretty treatment resistant, but again, am trying a new medication. It's just frustrating because I feel I've been alone through most of this. I am trying to get help for my illness, but everytime I go through a...
    d3partfromme d3partfromme 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    A Song I Think Both Sexes Could Learn From!

    I found myself once blaming a man for what someone else has done to me in the past && this song clearly sends out a message reminding us that just cause one person hurt us that someone else shouldn't pay for their mistakes. ENJOY! <333333 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P...
    AmazinglyAmazing AmazinglyAmazing 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2012

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    I believe this saying.

    We are all individuals and we are each the whole person. No one is all good and no one is all bad. You shouldn't only like someone when it is convenient for you to like them.
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Jul 2

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    He Does Actually...

    it happened just todaythat i was very sad, angry... not for one thing for lot many thingsso... he tried to ask me what's wrong in every possible waybut i could'nt respond or may be i didnt want to...because sometimes when i go over it againto find out what's wrong, i tend to...
    amateurgenius amateurgenius 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Simple

    its simple, I am me, I am a woman, I am a human, I am complex; I love life, have a sense of fun that is a mix irreverent, dirty, innocent and childlike; I am loyal and caring, open and honest, but I am also moody (at times), have fears (some justified and rational, some not) but...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F Jul 4, 2012

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    I Can Take A While To Get Used To But I Am Worth The Wait

    I do a lot of things that drive people up the walls. Most people love me or they hate me. I am outspoken. I will tell you what I think when I think it. That has gotten me in trouble over the years but it is part of what makes me who I am. When I get mad at someone I will forget...
    Zoeyredbird Zoeyredbird 26-30, F Jul 7, 2012

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    Who Can't Handle People At Their Best!!!

    So yes, if u can't hang on my bad days then rightly so, that person should not get to enjoy u on the good days only, anyway, that's not a relationship, it's some kind of ship for sure but not a relation-ship. Personally, I think it's time to ditch that ship, hopefully ure not in...
    snpom snpom 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    This Is A Song For All You Beautiful Girls Who Have Been Had Their HeartBroken by Selfish People <33

    Pearl - Katy Perry!!!!!!! Remember this is you and what has happened in the past doesn't matter.. Please listen http://youtu.be/B6Y4y6ka3y4
    AmazinglyAmazing AmazinglyAmazing 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    rahul000777 rahul000777 22-25, M Apr 1

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    Take Me As I Am

    I will be first to tell you that I am moody. Because of an endocrine disorder I have, my hormonal imbalances cause me to have drastic mood swings. I go from happy to sad to frustrated to sobbing to laughing. It's terrible and it's worse some days than others. I have had friends...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    No One's Perfect!

    and while we all can be super pretty, happy, beautiful, understanding, clean, kind, strong optimistic and all the good things.. we also have our bad moments, when we just can't b e the best we can be, when we're weak, tired, hurt, depressed, cynical and thats when we need you...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2011

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    Going Too Far?

    There seems to be a lot of entitlement rightly or wrongly when it comes to peoples emotions. I think the original reason why people started going down this path of thinking came from the idea that who you are the 'value' of you should never be deminished, taken or otherwise...
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I've known my ex for 15 years, her older brother for just as long. He was my best friend, we grew up together, and we were brothers. 8 Years ago, he was killed in Iraq, and over...
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    I love you sweetheart. I don't know where you are, with whom you are and what you do. Still I love you. Maybe I lost you forever but will never lose my love for you ever. I cannot...
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    The person I don't want to see cry again is my best friend, I've only seen him cry once and it was the night he had to leave, seeing a guy cry especially if he means soo much to...
    Daisymay77 Daisymay77 16-17, F Jul 3

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    I tried to be nice. I tried to do the right thing. But I always mess up! No one appreciates for the things I do. If they ask me to do it, I do it. But when I'm done they don't like...
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    julialauren julialauren 13-15, F Jul 16

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    That was what this 18 yr old told me when it all happened on the 4th of July. I was getting off of work to meet my boyfriend/husband of 8 yrs and my two girls out at the lake and...
    tlca tlca 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I try to be as nice as I can most of the time considering I don't always know what others are going through, but sometimes people deserve to get a big fat ******* YOU!
    Csmit38 Csmit38 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I've been going out with the same guy for a year now, but 4 months ago there was a bump in the road of our relationship. Ok so, my boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14 we met on a trip to...
    Julianna2406 Julianna2406 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I was 13. So was he. He was my kind of boyfriend. I repressed it until last year when I was 18. The nightmares and flashbacks have stopped but my life is completely messed up. I...
    abbietee abbietee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Just sitting in room.i dont know why i am so dead. I just feel as my soul want to leave my body and dont want to live like this anymore. What i am and why do i exist?? Am i...
    brokenangelia brokenangelia 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I've known you since I was 12, at first you were a little to much to handle.. How could anyone be so innocent and naive all at once, even being so young. As time passed we grew as...
    hunterray212 hunterray212 18-21, M Jul 15

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    I'm with someone at the minute who I've been with for 4 years, we're arguing on and off recently, we haven't spoken for 8 days and seen each other for 4 weeks, I seen him this...
    bethbabe321 bethbabe321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    its been awhile since i logged into my ep account..bad thoughts are lingering inside my head again..and maybe thru writing in ep i can tune out these unhealthy thoughts im having...
    redchic4 redchic4 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I didn't know what true friendship was until I met my best friend. We met a year ago, when my life was at it's worse. Everyone thought they were no hope for me to change, I got on...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Jul 3

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    She's the ultimate worst best friend on earth. She doesn't care about me at all, she makes fun of me the whole time. She basically stole my first boyfriend/love. She took my...
    anonymouslymyself anonymouslymyself 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am 20 years old and I met a guy who is 7 years older then me. As time went on we grew close and I unexpectedly fell in love with him. He told me from the beginning he wasn't able...
    shannen4 shannen4 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Hello ! Today i found out that i'm going to celebrate my 18 th birthday in a ophthalmological place . I was in a good mode , but my mom came happily at me and said this with a big...
    MistyOff MistyOff 18-21, F Jul 7

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    The worst thing that's ever happened to me was falling in love with my now EX best friend.
    dannielong1 dannielong1 13-15, F Jul 8

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    My best friend of 10 years (who is also my aunt) moved to Kentucky about 2 weeks ago and I have hardly heard from her since. But I missed her before she left. It's hard because I...
    akrysrose akrysrose 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    No words to describe it..... Still trying... Me and my husband were best friends in college days. we r fun n having max 2 max tym fighting with each other but still we both like...
    ishanapal ishanapal 26-30, F Jul 15

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    I fuking love you the best thing in my life i dont know what i will do without you I cant go even a minute without thinking of you swear ill do anything for you
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    I feel in love with somebody who I considered my best friend, well more than that, he was like a brother. I guess I need to start from the beginning to tell the whole story I met...
    FayeAndMerlin FayeAndMerlin 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I miss her so much... We used to be like a twins and now??? We didn't talk each other more than 2 months... She totally lost her interesting about me.. I have so many things what I...
    trulywords trulywords 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I went out with a great guy one night and had a good time. The next morning, I had to tell him I couldn't see him anymore because I had just taken a pregnancy test and it was...
    honeybee3584 honeybee3584 26-30, F Jul 10

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