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I F U Cant Handle Me At My Worst, U Dont Deserve Me At My Best

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 564 People

    Going Too Far?

    There seems to be a lot of entitlement rightly or wrongly when it comes to peoples emotions. I think the original reason why people started going down this path of thinking came from the idea that who you are the 'value' of you should never be deminished, taken or otherwise...
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Simple

    its simple, I am me, I am a woman, I am a human, I am complex; I love life, have a sense of fun that is a mix irreverent, dirty, innocent and childlike; I am loyal and caring, open and honest, but I am also moody (at times), have fears (some justified and rational, some not) but...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Jeansgirl3200 Jeansgirl3200 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2014

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    My Blessing

    My fiancee is the only man Ive ever loved who loved me back without reservation or judgement. Ive got some massively difficult health issues which men in the past have found to be too much to handle. My fiancee has loved me for three years,and what a love it is-hes seen me doing...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl 26-30, F Dec 12, 2012

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    I get real bad sometimes

    and no one sticks around but at my best they come crawling back
    13Margareth 13Margareth 13-15, F 1 Response May 21

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    So true! She's been there at my worst.

    That's why she deserves the best she can imagine that I'm giving to her.
    essie3d essie3d 31-35, M Feb 13, 2014

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    He Does Actually...

    it happened just todaythat i was very sad, angry... not for one thing for lot many thingsso... he tried to ask me what's wrong in every possible waybut i could'nt respond or may be i didnt want to...because sometimes when i go over it againto find out what's wrong, i tend to...
    amateurgenius amateurgenius 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2011

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    Take Me As I Am

    I will be first to tell you that I am moody. Because of an endocrine disorder I have, my hormonal imbalances cause me to have drastic mood swings. I go from happy to sad to frustrated to sobbing to laughing. It's terrible and it's worse some days than others. I have had friends...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Dont Deserve Me

    When i see this group i dont just think bf gf. I think about bestfriends also. im a very diffcult to deal with and i have alot lf bad moments. If you love someone would try your best to be there for them and abamdon them. I have so many bad things that make me think how hell...
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

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    My Worst Is Probably Pretty Bad

    I have bipolar 2... so I experience extreme lows... I've been pretty treatment resistant, but again, am trying a new medication. It's just frustrating because I feel I've been alone through most of this. I am trying to get help for my illness, but everytime I go through a...
    d3partfromme d3partfromme 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    I Can Take A While To Get Used To But I Am Worth The Wait

    I do a lot of things that drive people up the walls. Most people love me or they hate me. I am outspoken. I will tell you what I think when I think it. That has gotten me in trouble over the years but it is part of what makes me who I am. When I get mad at someone I will forget...
    Zoeyredbird Zoeyredbird 26-30, F Jul 7, 2012

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    If U Cant

    This goes for any relationship out there. (Friends, married couples, dating, etc).  Were good enough when we are at our best and not good enough when we are at our worst?  Either people take us with flaws and all or there's no point being in each other's lives.  This is the...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    rahul000777 rahul000777 22-25, M Apr 1, 2014

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    You Don't Deserve Me

    You said you would always be there for me, comfort me and hold me when it felt like the world just caved in on me. Yet, whenever I needed you the most, you couldn't handle it. You would never stick around for me to be my best again. If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    Who Can't Handle People At Their Best!!!

    So yes, if u can't hang on my bad days then rightly so, that person should not get to enjoy u on the good days only, anyway, that's not a relationship, it's some kind of ship for sure but not a relation-ship. Personally, I think it's time to ditch that ship, hopefully ure not in...
    snpom snpom 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    If Ya Can't Handle Me, Then Ya Can't Have Meh.

    At my worst, I'm a depressed suicidal *****. At my best, I'm a quirky, random, silly kid. If you don't like that, then don't bother. I am me, I'm far from perfect, but this is where I am. Take it or leave it. Don't leave me hanging. You either want me to be in your life, or you...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 5 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    신논현오피걸 영통오피 〓OPBONDA/COM 오피뷰 바로가기 OPBONDA.COM 공식트위터 twitter.com/opview01 이태임=『오피뷰』신사오피의, 신논현오피걸 영통오피 〓OPBONDA/COM...
    zoozjmuc zoozjmuc 31-35, M Dec 20, 2014

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    madhav1 madhav1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Just sayin.… anyways Ive had a rough life

    so I might breakdown now and then
    Izziwhatchamacallit Izziwhatchamacallit 18-21, F May 2

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    Sushi Soy Shots

    "Not all Asain people can make sushi"I learned that very interesting concept that someone brought to my attention...bahahaha! That doesn'tmake any sense does it? Like why wouldn't they know how?Anywho,what was once The Heist and is now The Federal Bar is still a place I haven't...
    LonelyBeing LonelyBeing 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    and understand me, wake up gorgeous, look cute on her down days, make love to me at least 3 times a day, all while being my best friend... is that too much to ask???
    businessasusual100 businessasusual100 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    Few years back when this lady i prefer calling " kaye"( not her real name) was still working for us, I would always love mentioning her name on my diary. Not because i was fond of...
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    I honestly wish you would help me make this better. I wish you would make me understand. I wish you would make me see your true sorrow. A sorrow that runs so deep with regret that...
    Sobp Sobp 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So, when I was about 10 my dad got remarried to my now Step-mom, at first she acted like she liked me. She was trying to be my best friend or whatever, but I noticed that she...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I'm pro-life or pro-choice yet... I know I'm 14 years old but it's nice knowing who/what you are First conclusion of both- Life- I mean if you have sex you should...
    SadlySafe SadlySafe 13-15 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I would say my worst anemy, she doesn't even play any part in my life anymore, but when you cease to be bestfriends with someone sometimes it get's a little messy...
    Ennah Ennah 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    He is the best friend anyone could have! Even if he has no time he will find a moment if I need anything. He's a great person, funny and very intelligent. I also admire him so much...
    sophiesworld sophiesworld 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I prefer to hope for the best but prepare for the worst. I find it helps to avoid disappointments and kind of prepares me for a lot of different outcomes. I seem to have bad luck...
    nicholas25 nicholas25 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I want a guy bestfriend and a girl bestfriend so we can just talk and have good advice and stuff like that I guess :3 But somebody who can handle my moody Ness one of my flaws...
    TheLostSouls TheLostSouls 16-17, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF HER. SHE IS VERBALLY ABUSIVE AND PUTS ME DOWN AND IS MOODY AND USES ME AND MAKES ME DO WHAT SHE WANTS AND I CANT EVER BE MYSELF I HAVE TO HIDE AND GO ON...
    lilhipfelicity lilhipfelicity 16-17 a week ago

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    I'm tired emotionally-but it's not like that's going away anytime soon. Sleep would help temporarily however. I can't shut off my mind long enough for me to fall asleep, even...
    Elliearellano Elliearellano 13-15, F Jul 27

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    In spite of my circumstance. In spite of my broken marriage. In spite of my anxiety. In spite of my depression. In spite of all the obstacles in my way. I am going to try my Best...
    Poet1callyDr1ven Poet1callyDr1ven 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    It's the best relationship on Earth but the worst part about having a lover that is also your best friend is when they leave it's all over and you're left emptiness.
    anad718 anad718 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Him is my guy bestie he always had a crush on me when we were little but I didn't feel the same until like 2 years ago when I started to like him we were so close we had so many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 25

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    Listening to whatever you like by t.i. And all I can say is this song is the best it's my favourite song and the lyrics when they say you can have whatever you like isn't something...
    Devilsdaughter100 Devilsdaughter100 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    We were together for six months, never had sex. We fooled around and I would receive but never give (which I think lead him to cheating). However, he cheated on me and I ended...
    lovlife101 lovlife101 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    * I love a good quote * " She has walls because she's been hurt before. It's not unusual that those walls have built higher standards. She's not willing to make the same mistakes...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 23

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    I made a decision that cost me eternal love, joy, peace, relationship... all the good things that only Love Himself can give. I don't understand why I did it, the only answer would...
    Coloursearching Coloursearching 22-25 Jul 23

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    I'm in love with a cold hearted sadist. I know it's wrong and it will be best for me to stop but I can't stop... Every time he leaves an I say we are done for good I find myself...
    Davency Davency 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Even though some people think I don't deserve it.
    cairah cairah 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    So last year for my 22 birthday I had a very special wish, and finally my wish came true this year, my ex boyfriend he offered to take me and a bunch of my friend's and even some...
    jennylovesroses jennylovesroses 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    It's been eight long years of random bursts of flashbacks. There are days where I can't sleep, can't eat, can't keep my composure. I'm a mom now. I'm married. I have a job. I have...
    Farfallina22 Farfallina22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm not actually sure where I should start with everything I would like to be open and honest about everything my my relationship in the past 11 years but it's a lot for any one...
    buttermonkey buttermonkey 26-30, F Jul 20

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