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    Kicked Out Of Medical School - My only dream was and still is to become a doctor. I am not the smartest person and thus I struggle and have to work harder than an average person. I...
    somb3r somb3r 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Have you had that moment when you've felt like a failure and sank into the depths of despair thinking you might not amount to anything. You might have thought at that moment why do...
    valerian777 valerian777 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    The Male Birth!!!!! I guess it's all my fault that my marriage is a mess.... It started out ok but then when it came down to the nitty gritty of having kids I guess I ****** up...
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 21 Responses Mar 26

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    But, loneliness is inevitable. I learned that everyone that you see around you has a hole in their heart. It doesn't always matter who they appear to be, or how they seem, we all...
    amblargh amblargh 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I used to complain about the loneliness.. Now I seem to seek loneliness.. I feel comfortable when I am alone... I feel good, I love that quietness... I am starting to hate hearing...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I lived my life thinking that i am a failure...because no matter what i do, no matter how much i have achieved and no matter how much i have spend my effort, money or time to help...
    asyilah asyilah 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I am looking for a support group, a community of people that I can connect with. I hope I have come to the right place. I feel so alone. there is a deep ache inside my gut. I am...
    ode2joy14 ode2joy14 41-45 1 Response Mar 23

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    Aloneness versus loneliness: Aloneness allows us to think for ourselves, to deal with ourselves without interference. It supplies calmness to our busy existence. It allows us to...
    TeKKeeVee TeKKeeVee 61-65, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    i feel like whatever i do, i fail. when i like somone, i fail to get their attention/attraction. when i do a test, i always get a lower mark. my family thinks im a failure and...
    lolihatemetoo lolihatemetoo 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    When I was a teen I did not enjoy school, and it really was my own fault i didn't enjoy it because I constantly jumped to negative conclusions about what others thought of me. This...
    Hincty Hincty 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Ok I haven't always been, but now I think failure is the least that could be said about my current state. And this is really sad, because I've always been the complete opposite of...
    Soligem Soligem 18-21 1 Response Mar 27

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    I never do what I say I'm going to do. I suck. Though there has been times where I've said that we will go to Disney world. I actually made it happen. But when it comes to "I'm...
    Ljguyguy Ljguyguy 22-25, M a week ago

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    I try not feeling sorry for myself because I know that there are others way worst off than me. But I can't help to think that or know that there is much more to this life other...
    Aloneinthisbitch11 Aloneinthisbitch11 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Loneliness became part of my life. I'm with people most of the time, but I have no true connections with them. I get depressed on weekends and holidays because it's time when love...
    viktorwolfman viktorwolfman 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    One day when I was feeling lonely I decided to try and do something about it. I took out my phone list and started phoning people on there, but I got to the end of the list. No...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I fight depression and loneliness everyday
    Nathancallaghan Nathancallaghan 18-21, M Mar 24

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    so i don't know what to say or who i can turn to. everything seems ok to people that pass me by but it isn't. my grandma passed away four months ago and it has triggered something...
    mrblobby49 mrblobby49 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I wish this anxiety would go away, the feeling of scared, annoyed, insecure, the worse butterflies, the sadness, anger everything mixed together. The feeling of loneliness and...
    Axoxo Axoxo 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Loneliness sucks! I put too much energy in a relationship that was not worth it. Iam trying to survive but this feeling of been neglected and alone is killing me :/
    Luna0902 Luna0902 36-40, F Apr 3

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    yeah and it's not a cheesy statement which means I need someone, being alone is peaceful and it's the moment when you can think about deep things and maybe sort life out...
    sidou89 sidou89 22-25, M Apr 4

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    I am a failure. My life will amount to nothing. I don't help anyone. I just hurt people. That's what I do. The world would be better without me. Everyone already knows that this...
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I don't know why every achievement I get or everything that I do right I just feel like I failed. And I'm not worthy. I was chosen from my high school as the city scholar (not...
    frozenkisses21 frozenkisses21 16-17, F Mar 18

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    For the past few weeks, I've just not got anywhere with my life. I've been so unmotivated and it hurts. It's like ripples that blade through my heart, just seeing myself like this...
    JJSapphire JJSapphire 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I hate failure with a passion!!! I failed today.. I did. I hate failing. I always seem to fail at everything. I am so sick and tired of failing. I always seem to just cut short of...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm Scared! I don't know what's wwrong with me! I'm 23 years old and I'm just finishing up community college! But i can't finish it fast enough my mom thinks i'm receiving my...
    fragilbutimstrong fragilbutimstrong 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I live in a very competitive place, surrounded by people who are doing so much with their lives, and it overshadows my meager accomplishments. I try my hardest at something, and...
    shadow553 shadow553 16-17 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am 24 years old. After I graduated high school I started going to college to become an RN. It's the only thing I've ever wanted to do. I'm a very compassionate person and I am...
    kbtaoe kbtaoe 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I organize a book club and I feel like such a failure because very few members show up to the monthly meetings. Last year before I organized the book club a lot of members attended...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F Apr 1

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    When people ask wat r ur accomplishments /strengths? Me: 'uh........ ' wat r ur faults /failures? Me: ' rambles on n on! HAha
    trybettermyself trybettermyself 22-25 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I feel like a failure at life and at school. I mean like I can't do anything right I'm so stupid
    anyomunos anyomunos 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am trying to find a way to get perspective on my depression. I had to close my business and am looking for work. I also have a son who is struggling with mental illness and is...
    tesoro10 tesoro10 56-60, F 1 day ago

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    April 17. Taking Care of Ourselves. We often refer to recovery from codependency and adult child issues as self-care. Self-care is not, as some may think, a spin off of the Me...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    March 17. Empowering. You can think. You can feel. You can solve your problems. You can take care of yourself. Those words have often benefited me more than the most profound and...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    March 18. Safety. One of the long-term effects of living in a dysfunctional family - as children or adults - is that we don't feel safe. Much of what we call codependency happens...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 18

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    March 19. Staying Out of the Middle. "I don't want to get in the middle, but . . ." is a sign that we may have just stepped into the middle. We do not have to get caught in the...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 19

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    It's the kind of thing they call depression. like it's just a thing you get over, a sadness that works like every other illness such as a broken leg or a flu; take a pill and wait...
    stinebr stinebr 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    March 20. Releasing. Let fears slip away. Release any negative, limiting, or self-defeating beliefs buried in your subconscious too. These beliefs may be about life, love, or...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 20

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    I thought i was loved until 2 days ago i found out my fiancé of 5 years the father of my 18 month little girl has been playing away behind my back with other women.. I feel so...
    blondiestacey22 blondiestacey22 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    March 21. Considering Commitment. Pay attention to your commitments. While many of us fear committing, it's good to weigh the cost of any commitment we are considering. We need...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    March 22. Letting Go of Being a Victim. It's okay to have a good day. Really. It's okay to be doing okay and to feel like our life is manageable and on track. Many of us have...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 22

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    Just some things I wrote when I was depressed yesterday Depression. Hurt is what we feel when a part of us dies. Sorrow is us feeling everything good in our life go by...
    Connorhelquist Connorhelquist 22-25, M Mar 22

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    There are times where I enjoy doing things by myself, doing the things I love. And there are times where I wish I weren't single and had someone to say I love you too, to enjoy a...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M Mar 22

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    I am scared of solitude, but find myself needing it more and more often.
    IamtheTinMan IamtheTinMan 18-21, M Mar 22

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    March 23. Flack from Setting Boundaries. We need to know how far we'll go, and how far we'll allow others to go with us. Once we understand this, we can go anywhere. —Beyond...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 23

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    I have a raging battle against depression and suicidal thoughts. I have tried antidepressant drugs and I ended up sitting in a railway line due the feelings they gave me (train...
    artymike8 artymike8 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I feel like most if the time in a person who should be alone because when I'm with people I just feel like they hate me and give me dirty looks ... Maybe being by myself is better...
    tay1244 tay1244 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I put on a happy face and do anything goofy so that no one sees what I am inside. I don't want anyone to see the real me. It would only be a burden to them. Besides, who wants to...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    March 24. Appreciating Ourselves. We are the greatest things that will ever happen to us. Believe it. It makes life much easier. —Codependent No More It is time to stop this...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 24

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    Hello ! I'm a girl of 16 and I'm depressed ! I'm alone ! I am pressurised and there are many works to do in my life , there's no one to care ! My life is dull
    raveenamurali raveenamurali 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Honestly I've gotten to the point where I find myself wanting to cry but I can't....
    Drew3188 Drew3188 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 24
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