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I Fall In Love With Damaged People

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    If you're like that you have a big heart!

    Problem is it's a tough job to try mending or healing those people that have been hurt. The effort will pay off later in life.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Mutual Lasting Love A Rarity Like Winning The Lotto..

    Your chances are about the same, love with an equal & winning the lotto that is. I might be depressed and spending almost a year around an insecure and avid liar liar selfish desire which doesn't nudge the pattern. Why is it so easy to surround yourself with people who will bring...
    whosgonnasavemysoulnow whosgonnasavemysoulnow 22-25, F Dec 13, 2012

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    I'm Damaged

    i'm damaged and i wont let anyone fall in love with me, i hurt the people i care most about and hate when i hurt some one thats close to me.  i have even went so far as to tell a girl in the first 4 min of talking to her that she should stay away and that i hate living.
    coliom coliom 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    a guy that i have loved

    for a long time and still love to this day very very much, was cheated on in his past relationship. he told me he loved me but he just has really bad trust issues and we were going to try a long distant relationship. he ended up just slowly stopping talking to me and if I text...
    idkhby idkhby 13-15, F Nov 9

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    Typical

    I don't know why. Maybe I just need to take care of people. Maybe people can read from my face that I understand heartbreak. Maybe, on some subconscious level, I attract tortured souls. I just know that I always seem to run into the damaged ones. Even my friends are never...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2012

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    Only The One- Now I Am The One Who Is Damaged...

    The one and only time I've ever fallen in love caused to my own self-destruction. She was manipulative, belittling a compulsive liar and just an alround toxic person. Needless to say: she was major bad news.Before I fell for her we were 'best friends' for three years before a...
    TrueWolf TrueWolf 16-17, F Jul 16, 2011

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    Lol. Lmao. Because society is wrong.

    The damaged are humane more often. The successes are moronic lemmings. Fifty / fifty for both groups dont exist. Humane can be successful. But those called damaged rarely are. Some damaged go evil. But more successes do than not. Worked mental health...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Jul 30

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    Hey Colium

    I get you... I have always run away from guys who liked me...No I am not a lesbian...That's not what it is... I dont feel good about myself.. I feel I am so damaged that I dont am not worthy of being loved.. I have observed when a guy likes me I tend to ignore him or am quite...
    sushmaik sushmaik 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2010

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    Damaged But Cute - Can I Survive?!?!?!

    What I didn't realize when I entered into this relationship was that he is damaged from his childhood. Once he said that - it kind of made me realize why I'm not 100% comfortable with him sometimes. He has serious trust issues and trust no one. He definitely sets the tone for our...
    007love 007love 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Hmmm

    Seems like I have always found the wrong guys to be with every since I started dating I ran with the guys tha t did drugs so I started doing them then I ran with one guy that didn't do any drugs and that was different and I liked it but he was abusive sand ended up cheating on me...
    kalikween28 kalikween28 22-25, F Jun 29, 2013

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    Not Intill Now

    I'm falling in love with a tortured soul. A intelligent minded man. This is also his downfall, his intelligence causes him to over-think at times. He ends up questioning himself, his purpose, his accomplishments, his true worth in this life. He tortures himself with his failures...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    I want to help people

    so much and sometimes it hurts me more than them.
    taylorrose99 taylorrose99 13-15, F Nov 9

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    Beautifully Damaged

    Call them the rebels, call them the bad-boys, call them the emos, call them the emotional wrecks, call them the psychos, call them whatever you like – they get me. There’s something about a “damaged” guy that just draws me. Without me even realising it, I become...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 24 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Damaged And Broken

    I didn't see from the beginning how broken she was because i knew for sure she was stronger than me. You see i was just nineteen and i was going through some heavy stuff at the time and not to mention still trying to figure out who i was amongst the mess going on around me. To me...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2013

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    There Is A Crack In Everything... And It's Damned Beautiful...

    Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That's how the light gets in. -LEONARD COHEN "Anthem" Of course I fall in love with damaged people.... because I am one. To fall for someone who claims that they have never been hurt...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    Truly Damaged!

    Because of my dad I cannot trust men. I stay wary of all men that I meet. I feel as if they are all individually are hiding something. Whenever I get a little bit close with a guy I straight away back off, I feel like they are putting up a front just to get to me e.g. They are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2013

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    I feel inadequate in my attempts to convey

    myself to him. Even though I have a passion for writing, I can't seem to find the right words to tell him what I need. Furthermore, in his ignorance, he continues to hurt me with his coldness. I love him... Even worse, all the signs line up. So I think that there is only one...
    SunsetMoon SunsetMoon 26-30, F Jul 30

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    Continued I'm Damaged

    i dont hurt anyone physicaly, i'm too weak for that :P i'm damaged becuase i have a hard time living, i dont have a reason to live, and i talk about it, about how i am only here becuase i dont want to hurt the ones i love by commiting suicide, so in essence i'm only living for...
    coliom coliom 22-25, M Feb 4, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I love my husband, we have a daughter togather, we adore each even more with her in our life. And i love my ex, we are still in touch, we know each other so well that we just cant...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F Dec 12

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    My heart aches every time I know he is with her, i wait in-patiently to talk to him in the end of the day. I dont know how he can do it so easy, loving 2 people at the same time...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F Dec 14

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    I went out with my boyfriend today, we spent 5 hrs togather, best time i had in such a long time. He makes me connect with my feelings. I love him so much.
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F Dec 13

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    I just realized yesterday that i have known my boyfriend for 12 years, we have a very strong bond that keeps us together. Even though my husband and i have known each other for a...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F Dec 14

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    Yep. And one is all right for me and one is all wrong.
    daria80 daria80 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 15

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    I wrote a story not too long ago about my love for Benedict Cumberbatch. I just want to say that I'm over my predicament and just want to impart some words of wisdom to any one who...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F Dec 18

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    I think I'm falling love with someone....I don't know why but I'm getting feelings for him.
    SunSetAllDay SunSetAllDay 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
    CatherineGray CatherineGray 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm 24 years old and I'm just now experience what it's like to fall in love for the first time. I've never been the type of girl to just say that I love someone for the sake of...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F Dec 14

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    I'm in love with a fictional character. Only him, and for more than 10 years now. It's not the love of a fan girl for a celebrities - I'm a fan of quite a number of celebrities so...
    sannnnnn sannnnnn 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    Okay, here's the story: I have a very strong crush - I will not call it love - on my male employee. I am a manager at a place and he is one of my staff members. This should send...
    HunterOfTheRings HunterOfTheRings 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    First step..make him fall in love with me...then keeping doing what I did to make him fall in love with me the first time. So he can fall in love with me over again
    candacej1983 candacej1983 31-35, F Dec 4

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M Dec 7

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    When I'm wrapped up in his arms, smelling his fresh cologne after his shower, I nod off, feeling his love for me I also love falling asleep with my man, while gently massaging the...
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F Dec 10

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    I want to know people's opinions. I met this woman online over 2 years ago and we have become very close. We describe each other as best friends. Well I have fallen in love with...
    mhawkings mhawkings 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think that you fall in love with different songs at different points in your life. As you change and grow, some songs stay with you and some don't. Some songs are nostalgic and...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    very long post ahead. i have been in love with sonny moore/skrillex for more than 3 years. i think about him every single day. i want him to be happy more than anything. he is my...
    sonnyday5 sonnyday5 16-17 1 Response Nov 30

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    I am in love with my teacher and he's married with a three year old daughter and he barely even knows me. I never realised that it would hurt this much to fall in love with someone...
    arindreith arindreith 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    They say you can't control who you fall in love with. Unfortunately I think that is true. You see, it all started on the first day of school. He was a new teacher and very young...
    bruh245 bruh245 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Guess this should be the forum to post my stories because I'm definitely not the Other Woman anymore. But I've fallen madly in love with a single guy (SG) but I'm still married :(
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I didn't fall for her at first but when I did, I fell hard. I can't help but just stare and admire her whenever she talks to me. I like how whenever I make her laugh she smiles and...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    The young get older and looks change but personalty pretty much stays the same. So instead of falling in love with someone just because they are pretty really get to know them...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 12

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    UPDATE: Hey guys - just thought I would write a little update on one of my previous experiences "I fell in love with someone I met online" So this is a gaming related post. I had...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I have fallen comletely in Love with someone who lives 6 833 nautical miles away ~ until we cross the Pacific Ocean and the Equator very soon XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    vinvicau vinvicau 66-70, M Dec 17

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    Im a girl who started to fall with my girl best friend. Since this November I've been in-love with a new girl in our school and she has become one of my best friends. The problem...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    When i saw him I was interested in his personality and looks, and the way he just made me feel with his seductive voice that sounded like the song you can never forget and loved so...
    ummmheyyy ummmheyyy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    BRACELETS, TATTOOS, & LOVE Hey guys! I know it's been awhile since I've given an update about my former teacher, H. Now that I'm away at college it's been difficult not seeing him...
    PulpDiction PulpDiction 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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