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I Fall In Love With Damaged People

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    Hey Colium

    I get you... I have always run away from guys who liked me...No I am not a lesbian...That's not what it is... I dont feel good about myself.. I feel I am so damaged that I dont am not worthy of being loved.. I have observed when a guy likes me I tend to ignore him or am quite...
    sushmaik sushmaik 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2010

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    Damaged And Broken

    I didn't see from the beginning how broken she was because i knew for sure she was stronger than me. You see i was just nineteen and i was going through some heavy stuff at the time and not to mention still trying to figure out who i was amongst the mess going on around me. To me...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Oct 4, 2013

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    Mutual Lasting Love A Rarity Like Winning The Lotto..

    Your chances are about the same, love with an equal & winning the lotto that is. I might be depressed and spending almost a year around an insecure and avid liar liar selfish desire which doesn't nudge the pattern. Why is it so easy to surround yourself with people who will bring...
    whosgonnasavemysoulnow whosgonnasavemysoulnow 22-25, F Dec 13, 2012

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    Typical

    I don't know why. Maybe I just need to take care of people. Maybe people can read from my face that I understand heartbreak. Maybe, on some subconscious level, I attract tortured souls. I just know that I always seem to run into the damaged ones. Even my friends are never...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2012

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    Hmmm

    Seems like I have always found the wrong guys to be with every since I started dating I ran with the guys tha t did drugs so I started doing them then I ran with one guy that didn't do any drugs and that was different and I liked it but he was abusive sand ended up cheating on me...
    kalikween28 kalikween28 22-25, F Jun 29, 2013

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    Only The One- Now I Am The One Who Is Damaged...

    The one and only time I've ever fallen in love caused to my own self-destruction. She was manipulative, belittling a compulsive liar and just an alround toxic person. Needless to say: she was major bad news.Before I fell for her we were 'best friends' for three years before a...
    TrueWolf TrueWolf 16-17, F Jul 16, 2011

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    There Is A Crack In Everything... And It's Damned Beautiful...

    Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything That's how the light gets in. -LEONARD COHEN "Anthem" Of course I fall in love with damaged people.... because I am one. To fall for someone who claims that they have never been hurt...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    I'm Damaged

    i'm damaged and i wont let anyone fall in love with me, i hurt the people i care most about and hate when i hurt some one thats close to me.  i have even went so far as to tell a girl in the first 4 min of talking to her that she should stay away and that i hate living.
    coliom coliom 22-25, M 7 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Not Intill Now

    I'm falling in love with a tortured soul. A intelligent minded man. This is also his downfall, his intelligence causes him to over-think at times. He ends up questioning himself, his purpose, his accomplishments, his true worth in this life. He tortures himself with his failures...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    Beautifully Damaged

    Call them the rebels, call them the bad-boys, call them the emos, call them the emotional wrecks, call them the psychos, call them whatever you like – they get me. There’s something about a “damaged” guy that just draws me. Without me even realising it, I become...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 24 Responses May 30, 2011

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    Continued I'm Damaged

    i dont hurt anyone physicaly, i'm too weak for that :P i'm damaged becuase i have a hard time living, i dont have a reason to live, and i talk about it, about how i am only here becuase i dont want to hurt the ones i love by commiting suicide, so in essence i'm only living for...
    coliom coliom 22-25, M Feb 4, 2009

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    Damaged But Cute - Can I Survive?!?!?!

    What I didn't realize when I entered into this relationship was that he is damaged from his childhood. Once he said that - it kind of made me realize why I'm not 100% comfortable with him sometimes. He has serious trust issues and trust no one. He definitely sets the tone for our...
    007love 007love 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Truly Damaged!

    Because of my dad I cannot trust men. I stay wary of all men that I meet. I feel as if they are all individually are hiding something. Whenever I get a little bit close with a guy I straight away back off, I feel like they are putting up a front just to get to me e.g. They are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 4, 2013

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