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I Fear Having My Trust Betrayed

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    Hello Everyone! I hope you all are having a

    good day:) ok so on Friday which was yesterday we all went on a field trip (I know we to old for that) but it was at a museum in Philly and the whole class went including my boyfriend! (I forgot to post it :)) but anyways fast forward it was about 20 minutes before we were...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Mar 8, 2014

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    Trust Issues

    I realize that I have serious trust issues and it has affected my relationships with people. There is no doubt I have to work on that. But the truth is I have been betrayed or abandoned many times. My paranoia isn't that bad when it comes to friends, but if I have a girlfriend I...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    It's Happened All Too Often

    So, now it is a natural fear, and I take precautions, being very picky with my friends and such. Not opening up or revealing anything unless the other person does so first. I try to trust people, but humanity has made me cynical...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    With Good Reason....

    It has been betrayed.....way more than once...by friends as well as lovers.  I have definate trust issues....
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    I'm not one to believe in the word ' fear'

    for it is a false emotion.. Created by the mind. Let's just say I'm cautious when it comes to giving my trust. I respect and trust no one until they give me a reason to. Both trust and respect should be earned ..
    DeepZen DeepZen 22-25, F Feb 5, 2014

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    Why Do I Trust At All?

    Almost everyone in my life has betrayed me. Now, I know this may sound like an overexageration, but believe me it is not. My own mother has betrayed me, which is the worst. I cannot trust anyone in my family, nor most the people I call friends. Not that I ever trusted them much...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    ItsCandyAcidStuff ItsCandyAcidStuff 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    ImBatmanShhh ImBatmanShhh 16-17, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    varcx3 varcx3 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Considering how trustworthy I am, along with how open and honest I am...it surprises people when they realise that I find it immensely difficult to trust people in fact it'd be...
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I was betrayed on 3 occasions first when I started secondary school when I made a friend. in traditional fashion he and I were good friends but then he left me for another group of...
    Aspergicbadger Aspergicbadger 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I started talking to someone on here. I told them a lot about myself we had a lot in common and instantly became great friends, or so i thought. I thought we really connected. I...
    mari17 mari17 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Im 26 and still having this amazingly irrational fear. The only thing that scares me. I do wake up screaming at night, running out of my bed, never remembering from what or why. My...
    Nerkiss Nerkiss 26-30, F Aug 20

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    Can I trust anybody anymore. ****! The guy that I like (liked) now knows I like him and I don't know who the **** told him and well I can't like him anymore. Because its flat out...
    conversebitch12 conversebitch12 16-17, F Aug 20

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    OqSydSchizo16Troll OqSydSchizo16Troll 36-40, M Aug 18

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    When I was 10 I met a guy on social media. I really liked him, and he was about 2 years older. I know I was the typical 10 y old wannabe 16 already at the time, trying to act older...
    justsomeone32 justsomeone32 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I found the love of my life when I was in my 20s. I admired him greatly and was completely in love. He was very gentle and gentlemanly. I met him through my sister who was dating...
    vocaleyes vocaleyes 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I failed this major subject in school, then all I can do is to take up the same subject again for a whole semester. I'm not sure if this is entirely betrayal *in the context of...
    PinkBubbleGumAndCottonCandy PinkBubbleGumAndCottonCandy 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I feel if you see my flaws and the things I hold dear you might judge me and insult the core of who I am. I don't trust too easily if at all.
    oddnelly oddnelly 31-35, F Aug 17

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    I don't trust anyone. Nowadays nobody can be trustworthy. This is the reality. Everyone is bad and they tell everything you said about yourself to everyone. Don't trust anyone,just...
    xCristiana xCristiana 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Honestly, when your life starts out with lies and family members being two faced who can you trust and turn to in your time of need? No one!!! My mother will never be a part of my...
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I can't trust someone easily since I was betrayed by my ex-best friend in high school. Since then, trusting people hasn't been easy for me. Trusting someone just seems so hard...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 1 Response Aug 16

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    PlatonicLover PlatonicLover 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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