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I Fear Having My Trust Betrayed

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    Hello Everyone! I hope you all are having a

    good day:) ok so on Friday which was yesterday we all went on a field trip (I know we to old for that) but it was at a museum in Philly and the whole class went including my boyfriend! (I forgot to post it :)) but anyways fast forward it was about 20 minutes before we were...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Mar 8

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    With Good Reason....

    It has been betrayed.....way more than once...by friends as well as lovers.  I have definate trust issues....
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    It's Happened All Too Often

    So, now it is a natural fear, and I take precautions, being very picky with my friends and such. Not opening up or revealing anything unless the other person does so first. I try to trust people, but humanity has made me cynical...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    Why Do I Trust At All?

    Almost everyone in my life has betrayed me. Now, I know this may sound like an overexageration, but believe me it is not. My own mother has betrayed me, which is the worst. I cannot trust anyone in my family, nor most the people I call friends. Not that I ever trusted them much...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I'm not one to believe in the word ' fear'

    for it is a false emotion.. Created by the mind. Let's just say I'm cautious when it comes to giving my trust. I respect and trust no one until they give me a reason to. Both trust and respect should be earned ..
    DeepZen DeepZen 22-25, F Feb 5

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    Trust Issues

    I realize that I have serious trust issues and it has affected my relationships with people. There is no doubt I have to work on that. But the truth is I have been betrayed or abandoned many times. My paranoia isn't that bad when it comes to friends, but if I have a girlfriend I...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    I've had a few relationships, but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M Oct 21

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    I've been dating this guy for over a year. He had just ended things in his previous relationship but the girl wasn't taking it well and he being kind tried to help her with her...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 12 Responses Oct 18

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    He betrayed me by always being there for me, no matter what happens. I thought promises are meant to be broken, that if something big happen, some promises must be broken. How...
    FrenchKissed FrenchKissed 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Preview I was 15 when I couldn’t handle it anymore, so I decided to go and talk to him. I told him it was great that they were such good friend, but that it was getting too much...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

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    Yes. Like the many of you , I've been in love and was betrayed by a man I was very much in love with. I couldn't think of a world without him. I trusted him more than myself and...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 19

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    I found this on the internet - Hope it helps someone. 5 stages of grief - how it applies to infidelity Posting from another site. This will help you understand that the...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F Oct 18

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    I betrayed the person who loved me more than his life. I harmed him and I hurt him so deep. ... It happened on 25th September. We were dating 2 years online. Im from Eastern Europe...
    mermaid07 mermaid07 13-15, F a week ago

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    I also found this: General Timeline of Recovery Q: How Long Will It Take Me To Heal From This? A: There is no set time line. On the average it's 1-2 years to heal from betrayal...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    The word trust has haunted my mind every now and then. The word trust has a meaning, but now I'm unsure what to feel. I use to trust people too easily, but now I become careless...
    msunique1989 msunique1989 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 18

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    Fear is an emotional response to a perceived threat. There are two kinds of fears: internal fears and external fears. If it’s internal fears which don’t base on reality nor...
    ChicaAudaz ChicaAudaz 18-21, F Oct 3

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    Now that I have been hurt by my first love... And betrayed... Not only in relationships but with friends as well.. I now have major trust issues with starting another possible...
    mayks3 mayks3 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Well...Hmm... Find a New One who you can Trust.. Its Never Gonna be Easy. A Real Friend is Only One. Having Two is Rare. Not Everyone who smiles at you is your Real Friend. Hey,I'm...
    ishi78252 ishi78252 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Truth or Death I am in a bunker, inside I see my wife and child. To the side my comfort, food family foresight. It is decorated evenly, as I wished. She smiles a beautiful smile...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 1

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    Indeed. This is why I have trust issues and why I clearly just don't give a **** anymore about whether I have friends or not ^_^ I can only make guy friends for the most part. I...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If I die, my family will miss me. I feel expend-used up, and as if I’ve been given the curse of emotional pain and bullying. As an adult, I find it ridiculous to say, I’m a...
    Hiddenintheleaves Hiddenintheleaves 22-25, F Oct 20

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    Trust: Whom do you trust? Is there a person in your life with whom you would trust your very life, if necessary? A spouse...a parent…a sibling…a very good friend? Think...
    dsardes dsardes 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    One of my closest friends seemed to never notice my wife was sleeping with one of his room mates. I am not believing him nor the friends who spent so many evenings around them...
    tommiatkins tommiatkins 51-55, M Oct 5

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    I'm afraid to date again. I don't even know where to start and I have trust issues. It's pretty lonely.
    MissinMySon MissinMySon 36-40, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    There is a boy from 6th grade which has had a huge thing for me for almost 4 years but i finally told him i was a lesbian and that i was dating his apparent accidental -never...
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I don't understand why the people I trusted, all left the ones i made promises with that we'd always be there for each other, they all left me, I'm the only one who's still keeping...
    HeadStrongPro HeadStrongPro 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel I need to start talking about this to atleast just feel a bit better. My BF and I have been together for approx 6 months now. At the start when we were simply seeing each...
    Bells83 Bells83 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    September 2010 It was obvious Ryan and Kaylah were besties for life. Everyone could see that. Summer was almost ending and school was about to start. I actually didn’t made it...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

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    My sister and her idiot boyfriend have spread lies about me on Facebook, throughout my family, sent nasty emails, ridiculed me and the list goes on. All this started because they...
    StopLying StopLying 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    As i sit here and type this post I am in disbelief. I recently found out that the person I was once married to and been with for 5 years is gay. I recently discovered an email he...
    Distraught89 Distraught89 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 21

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    I loved you, you loved me. I never stopped but you betrayed me. I still love you even now but I can't ever see you again. WE both need to move on after all we did to each other. I...
    Droy7 Droy7 13-15, M a week ago

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    I was betrayed by a friend my existence in not wanted
    todd1998 todd1998 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Do you prefer having feet rubbed by a friend or family member? Or professional? Honestly I would let friends do it since you can trust them more. From experience I prefer being...
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 16

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    im in a funny position, i you use to go out with friends and within the last few years i havnt seen them because of my ocd. I moved some years ago and the distance has made it...
    reflectivemind reflectivemind 70+, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend of 5 years (recently engaged 3 months ago) was recently served with child support papers from his pervious relationship. Though he is a VERY active dad physically and...
    seeme83 seeme83 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I don't understand what's going on. I thought it was over. We hadn't really spoken or really even acknowledged each other in 3 weeks. I asked about it once over text and he said he...
    lovedaria lovedaria 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    So, I have been feeling really aimless for many years. There is nothing wrong with that, because it was something I had to go through. I keep on having a hard time holding a job...
    huzzah111 huzzah111 18-21, F Oct 18

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    No matter how silent the Lord is I will continue to believe and trust in Him. He is always on time and I need to start walking by faith and not by sight. No matter how bad things...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F Oct 21

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    It sounds cool to say, but I actually do fear death. I'm afraid of dying for nothing. My death absolutely must mean something. I can't die without leaving some mark upon the world...
    herewegothen herewegothen 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    The power of trust: In these days of scams and unashamed graft, what comes to mind are Shakespeare's words, 'Love all, trust (only) a few'. Quite often we see the innocent and...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Duh. Lol Some fear. Some got reasons. Me is the type with reasons.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Oct 19

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    I don't know what to do with my heart, because I worry so much. And it puts my body through so much physical pain. I try to remember to let go. It's hard. Maybe I should say to...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 Oct 19

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    They post something, you reveal something, something you didn't even know was you. They question you about it and then drop you, with a 'Yeaaaah, ok then...". Knowing the feelings...
    SirEvilJebus SirEvilJebus 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am a very giving man when it comes to the woman i choose to be with and give all my trust and benefit of the doubt right from the start but when you break that trust especial...
    dom8869 dom8869 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    Fear when expressed as scared is described as "imminent danger." Fear when expressed as anger is described as many things such as "numb, confused, overwhelmed, inadequate...
    BeautifulAddiction49 BeautifulAddiction49 46-50, F Oct 17

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    But it is. Everyday I wake up I think about my past. I can't move forward mentally. My brain is so consumed with my past self (childhood). I experienced so many trials as a kid...
    forestchild forestchild 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    The tightness within The turmoil The struggle The want and desire present, but the fear of never acting upon those deepest fantasies The constant thoughts and emotions that bring a...
    ThoughtFulMoments ThoughtFulMoments 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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