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I Fear Having My Trust Betrayed

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    Hello Everyone! I hope you all are having a

    good day:) ok so on Friday which was yesterday we all went on a field trip (I know we to old for that) but it was at a museum in Philly and the whole class went including my boyfriend! (I forgot to post it :)) but anyways fast forward it was about 20 minutes before we were...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Mar 8

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    It's Happened All Too Often

    So, now it is a natural fear, and I take precautions, being very picky with my friends and such. Not opening up or revealing anything unless the other person does so first. I try to trust people, but humanity has made me cynical...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    Why Do I Trust At All?

    Almost everyone in my life has betrayed me. Now, I know this may sound like an overexageration, but believe me it is not. My own mother has betrayed me, which is the worst. I cannot trust anyone in my family, nor most the people I call friends. Not that I ever trusted them much...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    I'm not one to believe in the word ' fear'

    for it is a false emotion.. Created by the mind. Let's just say I'm cautious when it comes to giving my trust. I respect and trust no one until they give me a reason to. Both trust and respect should be earned ..
    DeepZen DeepZen 22-25, F Feb 5

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    With Good Reason....

    It has been betrayed.....way more than once...by friends as well as lovers.  I have definate trust issues....
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    Trust Issues

    I realize that I have serious trust issues and it has affected my relationships with people. There is no doubt I have to work on that. But the truth is I have been betrayed or abandoned many times. My paranoia isn't that bad when it comes to friends, but if I have a girlfriend I...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    I feel I need to start talking about this to atleast just feel a bit better. My BF and I have been together for approx 6 months now. At the start when we were simply seeing each...
    Bells83 Bells83 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I've had a few relationships, but only two of the girls I dated I ended up falling on love with. The first was my first love (a bit obvious). The second was my recent ex. I trusted...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 16 hrs ago

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    I've been dating this guy for over a year. He had just ended things in his previous relationship but the girl wasn't taking it well and he being kind tried to help her with her...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    Preview I was 15 when I couldn’t handle it anymore, so I decided to go and talk to him. I told him it was great that they were such good friend, but that it was getting too much...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

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    Yes. Like the many of you , I've been in love and was betrayed by a man I was very much in love with. I couldn't think of a world without him. I trusted him more than myself and...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been on and off in a relationship for 4 years now with my boyfriend due to his gambling problem. We love each other very much and love playing soccer together, eating...
    griffingirl3 griffingirl3 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I found this on the internet - Hope it helps someone. 5 stages of grief - how it applies to infidelity Posting from another site. This will help you understand that the...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 days ago

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    I also found this: General Timeline of Recovery Q: How Long Will It Take Me To Heal From This? A: There is no set time line. On the average it's 1-2 years to heal from betrayal...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The word trust has haunted my mind every now and then. The word trust has a meaning, but now I'm unsure what to feel. I use to trust people too easily, but now I become careless...
    msunique1989 msunique1989 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Fear is an emotional response to a perceived threat. There are two kinds of fears: internal fears and external fears. If it’s internal fears which don’t base on reality nor...
    ChicaAudaz ChicaAudaz 18-21, F Oct 3

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    Now that I have been hurt by my first love... And betrayed... Not only in relationships but with friends as well.. I now have major trust issues with starting another possible...
    mayks3 mayks3 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    I'v never had my heart broken or been in some type of betrayed situation, or cheated on. Never really been lied to. I'v had bad things happen to me, but.... I don't know. I just...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    Truth or Death I am in a bunker, inside I see my wife and child. To the side my comfort, food family foresight. It is decorated evenly, as I wished. She smiles a beautiful smile...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 1

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    I don't trust people often, but when I do I seem to keep trusting the wrong people. Maybe I should just stop all together. Maybe I will.
    CleverName94 CleverName94 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 26

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    In my entire life all i got is 'Betrayal' Saddest part is that betrayal cones from the people you know and you adore them I got 4 betrayals in my life (from my besties) i thought...
    eriloves1D eriloves1D 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Can you ever trust someone again after they have betrayed you? Should people deserve a second chance?
    eovlel eovlel 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 30

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    If I die, my family will miss me. I feel expend-used up, and as if I’ve been given the curse of emotional pain and bullying. As an adult, I find it ridiculous to say, I’m a...
    Hiddenintheleaves Hiddenintheleaves 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My partner of 12 weeks started to act diffrent to me suspects I'm having an affair but more concerned if I had one last year when me n him just friends.i was an I am do I admit it...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    This sort of thing happens so much. I met a guy online, we spoke loads and loads and started doing more and more intimate stuff. We were really good friends but after a bit he was...
    smikey00 smikey00 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 25

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    One of my closest friends seemed to never notice my wife was sleeping with one of his room mates. I am not believing him nor the friends who spent so many evenings around them...
    tommiatkins tommiatkins 51-55, M Oct 5

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    The other day me and my partner were victims of a home invasion.. So afraid we listened to the directions given and meet called the cops.. We left the house for a few days to kind...
    young4orce young4orce 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    i ve known my hubby for 30 yrs & married for 23 yrs. 12 yrs ago I confronted d lady & she denied. so i leave it be until early 2012 saw his sms to the same gal. i collected proofs...
    ddnini ddnini 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    Sarcasm is a defense mechanism its a way for me to exist without revealing real emotions. Its part of the reason I try not to interact outside of face to face because I can't read...
    CassieWithAnO CassieWithAnO 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I've been betrayed by friends endless times and it wasn't right.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 26

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    September 2010 It was obvious Ryan and Kaylah were besties for life. Everyone could see that. Summer was almost ending and school was about to start. I actually didn’t made it...
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F Oct 5

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    My sister and her idiot boyfriend have spread lies about me on Facebook, throughout my family, sent nasty emails, ridiculed me and the list goes on. All this started because they...
    StopLying StopLying 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    As i sit here and type this post I am in disbelief. I recently found out that the person I was once married to and been with for 5 years is gay. I recently discovered an email he...
    Distraught89 Distraught89 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    This might be my downfall, but I admit. I always see the good in people. I trust people. As naive as it may sound, I do. I used to think I'm a good judge of character, I can...
    anhourglass anhourglass 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Do you prefer having feet rubbed by a friend or family member? Or professional? Honestly I would let friends do it since you can trust them more. From experience I prefer being...
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend of 5 years (recently engaged 3 months ago) was recently served with child support papers from his pervious relationship. Though he is a VERY active dad physically and...
    seeme83 seeme83 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    I don't understand what's going on. I thought it was over. We hadn't really spoken or really even acknowledged each other in 3 weeks. I asked about it once over text and he said he...
    lovedaria lovedaria 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    So, I have been feeling really aimless for many years. There is nothing wrong with that, because it was something I had to go through. I keep on having a hard time holding a job...
    huzzah111 huzzah111 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    No matter how silent the Lord is I will continue to believe and trust in Him. He is always on time and I need to start walking by faith and not by sight. No matter how bad things...
    nadiarenee nadiarenee 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    I remember ending a relationship mutually with an ex. I was moving to a different country, and he wasn't sure whether he could manage a long distance relationship. He said e...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    Duh. Lol Some fear. Some got reasons. Me is the type with reasons.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I don't know what to do with my heart, because I worry so much. And it puts my body through so much physical pain. I try to remember to let go. It's hard. Maybe I should say to...
    seesaw69 seesaw69 26-30 2 days ago

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    I've been married for 10 years. Things have been not great for a long time, and I've just sort of learned to live with that. He's been 'involved' with another woman for at least 7...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F Sep 22

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    Everyone has uncertainty about whom to trust, how much to trust, when not to trust, and so forth at one time or another. In fact, every day we make choices about whom and how much...
    Cpaz33 Cpaz33 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I know you can choose to trust anyone if you want and that's okay. It's your life. I believe that in order to be trusted though you'll have to prove that you are trustworthy. Im...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 24

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    For the last few months I have started to fantasize about having sex with a close and very dear lady friend of mine and I can’t seem to get her out of my mind for some reason...
    bfox2608 bfox2608 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I am a very giving man when it comes to the woman i choose to be with and give all my trust and benefit of the doubt right from the start but when you break that trust especial...
    dom8869 dom8869 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 13

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