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I Fear Having My Trust Betrayed

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    Hello Everyone! I hope you all are having a

    good day:) ok so on Friday which was yesterday we all went on a field trip (I know we to old for that) but it was at a museum in Philly and the whole class went including my boyfriend! (I forgot to post it :)) but anyways fast forward it was about 20 minutes before we were...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Mar 8, 2014

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    With Good Reason....

    It has been betrayed.....way more than once...by friends as well as lovers.  I have definate trust issues....
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2009

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    It's Happened All Too Often

    So, now it is a natural fear, and I take precautions, being very picky with my friends and such. Not opening up or revealing anything unless the other person does so first. I try to trust people, but humanity has made me cynical...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22, 2011

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    I'm not one to believe in the word ' fear'

    for it is a false emotion.. Created by the mind. Let's just say I'm cautious when it comes to giving my trust. I respect and trust no one until they give me a reason to. Both trust and respect should be earned ..
    DeepZen DeepZen 22-25, F Feb 5, 2014

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    Trust Issues

    I realize that I have serious trust issues and it has affected my relationships with people. There is no doubt I have to work on that. But the truth is I have been betrayed or abandoned many times. My paranoia isn't that bad when it comes to friends, but if I have a girlfriend I...
    baltazar816 baltazar816 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 9, 2011

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    Why Do I Trust At All?

    Almost everyone in my life has betrayed me. Now, I know this may sound like an overexageration, but believe me it is not. My own mother has betrayed me, which is the worst. I cannot trust anyone in my family, nor most the people I call friends. Not that I ever trusted them much...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2009

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    To all those who have trust issues. I understand how you feel. I have been betrayed and betrayed several of times by my own kind, the one who gave birth to me. I understand how...
    Supersoumya Supersoumya 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    My mother. My own bloody mother, who gave birth to me, brought me up and said she 'loved' me. She said she would protect me from everything. Oh she did. But I was merely being used...
    littleowlet littleowlet 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Cousin - So one of my female cousins (it's not the one who abused me, but she's from the same side of the family as him [in fact his mom is her aunt]) told me months ago that I...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F Jan 9

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    I completely agree. I'm tired of trusting people, just to get let down and hurt. I'm tired of respecting people who don't deserve it or who disrespect me. I have a policy I made...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    That's it . Feel totally betrayed in life by the one I trusted most
    movietime movietime 31-35 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I thought my cousin cares but he didn't. he betrayed me when he pulled me close to him. my heart was already broken.
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    it was twenty two years ago. I was newly pregnant. I was supposed to take it really easy. My grandmother died and her funeral was in our family hometown, about eight hours away...
    littlesadone littlesadone 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I find it hard to trust in the first place, but when that trust is betrayed, I don't know what my next step is. And thinking about it isn't helping.
    DHggmu DHggmu 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    Its hard to trust someone, especially when the ones you trusted the most were the ones that betrayed you.
    hopeless220 hopeless220 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was in the middle of a separation with my ex-husband. My MARRIED BFF started spending a lot of time with him, talking to him, etc. I asked her if she was sleeping with him and...
    bfulnightmare bfulnightmare 41-45, F Jan 13

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    I was sexually assaulted by two of the people I thought I could trust.smh my best friends this was years ago but it hurts me till this day smh.They lied and caused so much havoc...
    AnonymousTea6 AnonymousTea6 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I was in the 9th grade, my mom and I had gotten into a fight and she had kicked me out for once again. It was a common thing in my household, my mother, sister and I lash out...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Okay, so my boyfriend is very good to me when I am good to him(not accusing him, not being jealous and making him stressed out) he's great,caring, likes me hanging out with his mom...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F Dec 27, 2014

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    Most of the girls that i have dated have betrayed me. they would say that they liked me that they wanted just to be with me and only me. than i would find them kissing other guys...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I thought they were my best friends, but really they didn't give a **** about me. I trusted them, with everything and they abandoned me. I would've take a bullet for them and yet...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    My husband and I divorced last year and shorty after (3 months). I discovered he was having an inappropriate relationship with a teacher at our children's primary school whom was...
    OneCrazyGemini OneCrazyGemini 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    My name is Joshua Weiske my deepest darkest secret is my fear of the dark I started back on having fear of the dark back in 2005 when some dude told me a story about Bloody Mary he...
    theinfo theinfo 22-25, M Jan 2

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    I've never thought of being without a father figure. I've never had one. I'm not sure what its like. Maybe my fear of men would be less vibrant. I've never trusted an older man...
    Minnowshi Minnowshi 18-21, F Jan 12

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    All my life I feared going bald. I feared getting older. I used to be very good looking, and feared loosing my good looks, which now I am ugly as hell, and do not care no more...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues that come from the fact that I was molested when I was 13 by a very close friend, Im not gonna go into a ton of detail there because i...
    Sulka19 Sulka19 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Sometimes I am all this to a fault. I place trust in people, some of whom I really shouldn't, however I want to believe the best in people. I want companionship. Someone who...
    MagickalFae MagickalFae 36-40, F Jan 14

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    Ever since I was 16 I've been very careful about who I let get close to me. I was dating a guy I thought I could trust, then I find out he was not only cheating on me but talking...
    SexyBustyGoddess SexyBustyGoddess 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    I am a closed book; i'm hard to read as I contain everything within myself. I find it hard to open up to people because i fear rejection or betrayal, and i'm a private person...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Many people love it that their personal banker trusts and understands them to move six or seven figures depending on an individual phone call or email. This could shock other of my...
    Darronbanksso0 Darronbanksso0 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I will be turning 42 ..can't explain why but this birthday (more so than 40) has been playing on my mind. Its almost as if my mortality has become apparent to me all of a sudden...
    crawf41 crawf41 41-45, M Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm breaking down here !!! my heart ! my pain ! THE PAST ! IM DYING AND FREAKING OUT ! SO PAINFUL ! IM DYING ! I CANT DO THIS ! I CANT ! TRUST ISSUES ! PAINFUL ! MY HEART ! UGGG...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I literally struggle to trust men since i had been sexual abused by father,sexual harrasment by stupid police..domestic voilence by ex.. Some ignorant people talk like victims are...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    when i say "anyone" i mean like it is pretty intense... i guess we can go back to my parents again and blame them but i don't feel like going down that route so this post i will...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    People always say: "Just trust me." And all I wanna do is scream that I can't just trust someone. Millions of questions and comments shoot through my mind. I always end up not...
    hxlils hxlils 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    I am having an affair with my first love. No one knows that this is happening not even my closest dearest friends. I have no one to talk to about this and a part of me says not to...
    laluna77 laluna77 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I dont know if I should or not?..Im so guarded,I always over think everything and I do have a pretty negative view of people in general I always question peoples motives,I dont...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 17 Responses Jan 2

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    When I first started dating my boyfriend I really didn't trust him... My mind would have these wild thoughts of how he was cheating on me and I used to think I would never be able...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I do... and I don't... Like, I think my problem is that I trust people TO much. I put my complete trust into some people, tell them everything, and put faith into them, just for...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    it seems like everytime I try N be as trusting as i can be.. I get burned. I mean back before all the hate anf dislike I was one that trusted just bout everyone. I learned the...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I told my friend I will likely never have a significant other anyway. Friend: why? Me:Because I have trouble enough with trusting friends. Friend: How come? Me: I don't know...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I trust people I've never met before. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. The only exception is when people have violated my trust previously. If you've ever lied to me or...
    PhilosophicalCoder13 PhilosophicalCoder13 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I learned what death was when i was a 6 year old boy. My sister's death sure was a valuable lesson. Ever since i haven't been afraid to die because i accepted the fact that we all...
    Tommyhilfiger Tommyhilfiger 18-21, M Jan 1

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    I had the worse year but its over and I can see the light more because of someone that I been talking to on this site he became my best friend helping me deal with my soon to be x...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F Jan 2

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    Honesty and trust go hand in hand. By being honest with the person your involved with, that is what builds the trust between the two. By always keeping the lines of communication...
    oldiron33 oldiron33 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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