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I Fear Judgement

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    Judgement Sucks!!!

    I think everyone fears judgement in a certain way, I def have a fear of being judged! I've always been like that for as long as I remember, afraid of being judged on my life choices, my appearance...just about everything.   Judgement sucks
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Mar 15, 2008

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    How Do You See Me?

    I fear the judgement that will be placed on me when people find out I was sexually abused by several horrible people. 
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2007

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    Terrified

    i am terrified of being judged, genuinely scared, just like to be considered as what i truly am, rather then an impression someone gathers of me
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Mar 29, 2008

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    my mind is functionning in weird ways this morning. And honestly, this is quite the story out of my comfort zone to share. It's true that I don't fear death. Cause the way I see...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Sorry but this group is ridiculous. We are all judgemental to an extent, even if we don't want to be. I can honestly say I try not to judge others, but sometimes I do. It's...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    The ignorant are the irresponsible and the narrow minded. The judgemental are the weak and the cowards. These elements together lead to apathy, which is the cruelest element...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M Jul 13

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    I hate when people are like "don't judge me unless you've walked in my shoes." I won't judge people based on what they've been through. I will judge people based on how they...
    derbygirl67 derbygirl67 22-25, F Jul 21

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    I hate fear, it stops me from doing what I want to do, and being who I want to be. I'm sure it's the same for everyone. Everyone has their fears, and everyone either deals with...
    LHollyleaf LHollyleaf 18-21, M Jul 15

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    I have a few fears like everyone but this is for my irrational fear. It's irrational for I don't know where my fear comes from our why I fear it. I fear ladders. I don't fear...
    fallenzero fallenzero 22-25, M Jul 14

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    Fear is one of the greatest obstacles that this world will present to you.. Fear has roots in everyones heart, and its really difficult to tear out that fear,, but once you do, you...
    Josue26 Josue26 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    What causes the fears that you and I have? Does it always work to say "just get over it"? I don't think so. I think fears have an emotional attachment, and they need to be...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I need to make a confession.....when I was little, I loved the water, I was always trying to get in as much as could, until the day. The day I was hit with a massive wave that...
    TheShutout TheShutout 16-17, M Jul 11

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    I was so damn quiet in my class n was nt much popular.. I was always alone.. I loved to sing but my music teachers never would take me into the school music team for any...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Sorry I'm ranting so much about my feelings I just have moments of clarity that I like to share. Remember a time you got hurt? (I'm talking emotionally). Or embarrassed, let down...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    It is a strong fear. Too many times I hear it, I have lived it my self. Being in a violent relationship with someone who really does not care about "you" robs so much from you...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I have very few fears, but the ones i do have are paralyzing. Open water, arachnids, large canines make my nerves go crazy. But to be fair, each fear was branded on me by an...
    xxxCL4Yxxx xxxCL4Yxxx 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    Not totally strange, but had the fear of driving for the longest time. Especially for a guy. Conquered that fear. Not just a fear but a burden off my shoulders.
    Deeperthinker Deeperthinker 31-35, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    All my life I have lived in fear of social rejection. My family immigrated to the U.S. when I was 6 and I could not speak a word of English. I was sent to live with my aunt who...
    MNRR MNRR 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Fear is beautiful, well depends how you look at it with the sort of soul you have problem is, can you handle fear? To conquer fear, look at yourself in the mirror and make all...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Pretty soon on Monday, haha my first job ever and it's a service job at a bakery cafe at one of the most famous restaurant. You ask why? Well it's terrifies me to death to talk to...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    My main fears are clowns and then the basic being cheated on/being alone fears. But anyone here scared of clowns?
    labyrinthandinfinity labyrinthandinfinity 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    A fear is a insecurity... not trying to insult anyone, I have my own fears
    NotYourGirl NotYourGirl 13-15, F Jul 8

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    I have alot of irrational fears. I am scared of maggots, mirrors in front of dark stairways, and slugs. Those are just some of my fears. I don't ever think I'll get over them.
    PrincessAbigail89 PrincessAbigail89 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Theres nothing to fear but fear itself
    boobsandbellylover boobsandbellylover 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    My greatest fear is not being able to have children. Ever since I was little I knew that I would want to be a mum someday. Then I started having strange nightmares about babies...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Hi :) Does anyone have any advice on how to getting over the fear of flying? Background Story When I was young, I didn't have any fear of flying at all. I was fine with it, and I...
    LonelyKaty LonelyKaty 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "I know it is coming, and I do not fear it, because I believe there is nothing on the other side of death to fear. I hope to be spared as much pain as possible on the approach path...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    I fear loosing the one person I love. And well let's just say that person is walking away from me now
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Because every other day I'm lonely,my close friends may have a clue and sometimes ask me and I just brush it off.but deep down,I fear I may be alone forever.though I meet boys...
    dreamsNscreams dreamsNscreams 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm scared . I hang out with only one friend an then even when we hang out I'm a very non happy person . Sometimes I fear I won't find someone to make me happy
    DentalNexus DentalNexus 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Insert nihilistic observation here* Hahaha It's kinda funny that when people speak of spirituality, life, death etc. They sometimes take on a God-like voice "i am thee blessed...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Jul 2

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    I don't fear death. I mean everyone has to die but on their own time. So if I die I will accept it cause its part of life. First I was scared but my uncle said " no one can live...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Both of my parent's past away. Ever since they did I don't fear death or even cry when I hear someone died.......at first I couldn't accept death but it took alot for me to...
    davamp13 davamp13 41-45, F Jul 4

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    Both of my parent's past away. Ever since they did I don't fear death or even cry when I hear someone died.......at first I couldn't accept death but it took alot for me to...
    davamp13 davamp13 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    People with disabilities. It disgusts me that I have a fear like this, but I do and I try so hard to get rid of it, but I just can't. Specifically physical disabilities. I know...
    RjMommy245 RjMommy245 22-25, F Jul 4

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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Deprivation. At&t and verizon dont got big plans. Videos need big plans. No unlimited data plans means what. No videos. No learning from them. No comfort from them...
    converted converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Crucified and solid, Inside my heart, he let me in. The fear of dropping tears, Part me from him. The falcon that just lost his duo, screams, The hill stays lonely if me And...
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I have a fear of heights, sharks, scorpions and snakes. I probably have more, but I can't remember them at the moment.
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M Jul 15

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    Fears~ [ ] the dark [ ] staying single forever [ ] being a parent [ ] being in front of others [ ] open spaces [X] closed spaces [X] heights [ ] dogs [ ] birds [ ] fish...
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am deathly afraid of caterpillars. It's completely irrational because they're so small and harmless, they only live to eat then cocoon and turn into flying caterpillars (oh, I...
    PepperGrrrl6669 PepperGrrrl6669 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Sometimes I'll hear people say things like, "Dying is so horrible and depressing. I don't want to miss out on everything that goes on when I'm gone." That fear should logically be...
    polythenejam polythenejam 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Being alone is my biggest fear.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 18

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    I am afraid to eat today. I havnt had one of these days in a while. In all honesty I believed that once I was with my boyfriend this illogical fear would die off. That his magic...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Why do people fake who they are ...... It pains me terribly . It's so rude. Don't you respect or value another's time. As you sow , so shall you reap. Have the courage to put your...
    heavenlyflower123 heavenlyflower123 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm new here. And I really wanted to post this, because I struggle with it everyday. And it is that I fear I have multiple mental illnesses. It feels really strange to post that...
    iHack iHack 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I haven't given myself to someone 100 percent because I haven't ever felt that comfort, that 'I really really like you" feeling, where I'm happy to be open and not forcing anything...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F a week ago

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