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I Fear Judgement

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    Judgement Sucks!!!

    I think everyone fears judgement in a certain way, I def have a fear of being judged! I've always been like that for as long as I remember, afraid of being judged on my life choices, my appearance...just about everything.   Judgement sucks
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Mar 15, 2008

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    Terrified

    i am terrified of being judged, genuinely scared, just like to be considered as what i truly am, rather then an impression someone gathers of me
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Mar 29, 2008

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    How Do You See Me?

    I fear the judgement that will be placed on me when people find out I was sexually abused by several horrible people. 
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2007

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    How many people here on EP can say they actually ARE open minded and non judgemental? Why don't those who condemn others take a moment and actually imagine what the other person...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I want to list my fears hoping to get over them one day Fear of judgement, rejection, abandonment Fear of loneliness Fear of getting lost Fear of not being enough Fear of driving...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Dec 8

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    In light of the tragic and completely preventable death of Michael Brown and the 12 year old child in Utah, I believe cops need to utilize much better judgement. Michael Brown did...
    gumshoejane2 gumshoejane2 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 1

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    I really hate judgemental people! They always say crap about you and it really ****** me off.. If I get judged by my looks or whatever, HELL WILL BREAK LOOSE!! Now, I'm...
    xxBoyishGirlxx xxBoyishGirlxx 13-15, F Nov 28

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    I realize that I'm quite judgemental. Not when I'm surrounded by people, but nights like this when I am alone. People message me and based of what they type or say I automatically...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Judgemental people: You aren't God and you have no right to judge anyone because no sin is greater then another.
    miseriae316 miseriae316 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    This applies to all of my loved ones. and, no, I don't mean the fear of abandonment but the fear of losing any of my loved ones to death. It haunts me, especially the thought of...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F Dec 3

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    I fear love, I fear falling in love, I fear losing my friends, I fear that the person that I love will die, I fear that someone that I know will die. I don't wanna love anymore...
    Ummaperson Ummaperson 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Most of my life I feared going bald and ageing. Now the ageing part I do not fear no more in years, But the balding I did.. I had 3 hair transplants since 2005 on the front of my...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    in past, i lost many great opportunities of enjoying certain things, and getting new life experiences.......... i feared that people will laugh at me if i dont do a certain thing...
    LittleCreates LittleCreates 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 5

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    this. 1. one of my main goals for some period. it scares me to say "one of my main goals from now on",seems like a long period, now here's one fear! 2. fight fear, i want to stop...
    alogo alogo 26-30 6 days ago

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    I have been sad for a very long time. When I was eight years old, my father left my mother for another woman, thus destroying my family. I cannot explain how this felt, because I...
    classicslove classicslove 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    i want to start going to the gym to workout and get me back into shape and loses same what but the fear of being judged by others is holding me back. i can see my self going to...
    wolf2020 wolf2020 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 10

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    I don't fear death because I've felt like I was dead for the longest. Nothing is more fearful in my opinion, then living a dead life....existing instead of thriving and living...
    SpanishRose10 SpanishRose10 31-35, F Dec 19

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    To want, to long, to crave. Thoughts so consistent, so deliciously great. To connect, to feel, to ache. The emotions slowly flow, overwhelm the body and soul. Years of...
    SecretEscape SecretEscape 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I have never feared death. I know where I will be going when I die so what is there to fear. Sometimes I have over thought it but then again there is no such thing as over thinking...
    batman1104 batman1104 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    I don't fear it for myself. I fear it for my children.
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M Nov 30

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    So I am working on a business plan. I don't have any previous experience so I need to learn a lot of things... Last weekend I set a task for myself to finish. I spent hours...
    Loufree Loufree 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I don't fear death. Death fears me.
    jack3683 jack3683 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 5

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    For 29 years I've let fear control me and keep me from so much. Keep me from pursuing my dreams, going a little wild, or from even being myself. This is a sick and psychological...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 6

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    I fear stupid things like love, or being judged more than I could ever fear death.
    KittayGoesRawrxD KittayGoesRawrxD 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 16

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    I am trapped between my own emotions and pain. I can't get out. Every second leaves from my life, I feel like i am more getting trapped in it. I don't feel like I used to feel. My...
    deathiscold deathiscold 70+, M 2 Responses Dec 19

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    I don't fear death I don't think about death I don't like death I don't mind situations that could lead to death if I've time Do you fear death? By Anonymous (me)
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Disappearing can be quite the coping mechanism for those of us who fear abandonment the very most of all. If we disappear, you have to find us. You're the one who worries. We know...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F Nov 27

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    I want to run away. Tuck my tail between my legs Give up throw in the flag Admit defeat Prove the nay Sayers right Run for the hills Be the scared little girl only I know I am If...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 28

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    Yeah... The truth is I hate being alone... And people leave my life and I feel abandoned so I just don't let people in, so I don't have to fear losing people...
    catho catho 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I fear more for the future of Russia. In Russia many stupid people hate USA and they think that USA will broke down like USSR anyway its stupid I think. I don't know what will be...
    Chinrussian Chinrussian 18-21, M Nov 30

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    I've lived through three episodes that should have killed me. it's hard to fear what you've been so close to so much
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 30

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    I lived in worry and fear most part of my life, happiness has been short lived. I thought something was wrong with me. I couldn't accept and live myself. Now I think I need a...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Dec 1

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    Ok, so this may sound a little weird but I cannot pop a balloon or be in close proximity of one popping! It terrifies me. I start panicking, sweating and just a really...
    Refugeblue83 Refugeblue83 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I fear getting pregnant like so bad even if I'm not near or with anyone it's like in my head
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    My biggest fear is missing giving her something vital for her to be happy with herself. For her to blame me for her suffering. I don't want her to EVER feel alone or unloved.
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I was unfaithful to my daughter's mother nine years ago. That is why the lady and I are divorced. Although our daughter remains happy, healthy, well-adjusted, compassionate, and...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 3

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    Feet. I have a fear of feet.
    xxjellybabyxx xxjellybabyxx 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I have a fear of intimacy, causes panic attacks around any sexual situation or the idea of it. aka genophobia
    lbear57 lbear57 16-17 Dec 3

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    I fear of being alone with no companion to share your life with.....
    shaurya26 shaurya26 36-40, F Dec 4

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    I have an irrational fear of needles dollar coasters and snakes today at I went to my sign language class and the speech class was meeting at the same time one woman did a speech...
    lealia123 lealia123 18-21, F Dec 5

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    I've had a great life, have a great wife and great kids. I've made great friends and done lots of kool stuff. Death holds no fear for me.
    Itwhizz Itwhizz 46-50, M Dec 5

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    I fear that I'll never be good enough and I'm also scared of water...for example, I could never go to the ocean.
    ofmiceandme ofmiceandme 16-17, F Dec 6

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    I don't fear death because I'm already dead. Simple.
    BrokenWingedDove BrokenWingedDove 16-17 1 Response Dec 8

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    here's one for strange fears, I can't stand it when people touch my wrists, I can't even deal with thinking about my wrists. the fact I have wrists completely freaks me out all...
    TheUntrainedSubmissive TheUntrainedSubmissive 16-17, F Dec 9

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    Death isn't something we should fear. No one is gonna die before their day, sooner or later we're all gonna die. I'm just afraid of what comes after death. I believe that if god...
    mayakelly mayakelly 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Success Such a funny thing. There is no real way to place value on another persons worth. Sometimes I get caught up in my self-loathing that I forget I am pretty good at certain...
    secretme1970 secretme1970 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 10