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I Fear Judgement

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    Terrified - i am terrified of being judged, genuinely scared, just like to be considered as what i truly am, rather then an impression someone gathers of me
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Mar 29, 2008

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    How Do You See Me? - I fear the judgement that will be placed on me when people find out I was sexually abused by several horrible people. 
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2007

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    Judgement Sucks!!! - I think everyone fears judgement in a certain way, I def have a fear of being judged! I've always been like that for as long as I remember, afraid of being...
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Mar 15, 2008

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    God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power , love and a sound mind. Fear of airplanes, failure, judgment, the future, etc. These fears are strongholds that come from...
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    This is an update to my story about fear of getting lost and where I am today. The answer was unexpected. I recently went to the doctor to see about actually taking meds for my...
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    Death is the most unknown factor of life. It's a vicious cycle, birth/live/die. Those who fear death fear the possibility that what they were told by their religion does not exists...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Is it bad I have so many fears. I have a fear of death, I am terrified of death. I can't sleep at night cause I'm worried ill die. I get nightmares every night of me dying or I'm...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F Mar 25

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    Or worry. Little difference. Fear the world goes lord and serf. Fear marrige becomes just a tax break. Fear no common law lovers. Fear no bisexual bliss. Fear end...
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I've been letting fear hold me back for way too long. It's time to embrace fearing nothing and not giving a flying f*** what others feel. Too bad I'm too much of a coward to do...
    Ljguyguy Ljguyguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    If you do not like what you read- please keep to yourself. A Dire Warning to Christians and People Everywhere. Hello, everyone here. What will be discussed here is very very...
    EvangelistTeen EvangelistTeen 13-15, F Apr 6

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    I don't know if it's strange or not but I don't know anyone else with this fear. I fear not having control. Like, something takes over my body and I'm still inside screaming...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    fear has been like a invisible bird cage trapping us in mentayl exaggerated out come scenarios... in actuality when the situation played out the fear was easier to face than what I...
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    In a life, just some bodies growing old No fear of the end, of anything But I'm afraid to die... I want to die, but death is something I fear.
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    NIGHTMARES/THE LITTLE GIRL/KITCHEN!! PLEASE READ NEED ADVICE. alright so this is going to sound weird but, when I was 13? I lived at my grandmas for 2 years and I began having...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My fear was the dark. This started when my dad told me at a very young age that he claimed to see this old rocking chair moving back and forth by itself in my Grandmas basement...
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 13-15, F Mar 29

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    Sometimes my fears take over & I become afraid of taking chances. I fear I'm ugly, stupid, fat, & pretty much anything else that's negative. I can never be happy with myself. I...
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I have a fear of barbers and barber's shops. I think it originates from my childhood and being taken to the barbers by my mum. Perhaps I'm scared of having my hair cut too short, I...
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    I have this fear of losing you. The fear of not having you beside me. The thought of you being gone and out of a sudden your love towards me change. That one day you decided to...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F a week ago

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    I have a fear of the floor falling through because of weight placed on it. I've felt like this since I was little. If I'm ever on a second story of a building I get horrible...
    skinnylittlewrists skinnylittlewrists 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I don't fear it I welcome it but it's the way I go that I fear the most.
    tfanime tfanime 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    The thing I fear most is loosing my friends or family. I have a very strong bond with ten and I don't know if I could live if I lost them. Besides that it's Thunderstorms. I know...
    BeefStromi BeefStromi 18-21, M Mar 17

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    How do you handle fear and anxiety? I always have this thought that i am not good enough, i cant stop comparing myself.
    ggborealis ggborealis 26-30, F Mar 23

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    They terrify the living **** out of me. Only recently have I noticed that I am scared of these bridges. And just bridges in general. I have an irrational fear that they will...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 23

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    This is my opinion. Why fear it? I will die one day, it could be tommorow, a few years for now or today. I'm going to live my life and try to enjoy it while i can.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    And not being what I've always wanted to be in the future and achieving my goals is the biggest fear I got
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I desperately want to over come my fear of driving. It's seriously preventing me from being independent. Anyone have any advice to offer on this?...
    SirenSong13 SirenSong13 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Pootn is making me live in fear for my life,family,friends, and the poor people in the Ukraine
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F Mar 28

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    Every night I just breakdown thinking about my grandfather.. Ever since he passed away I've been worried about how I'm going to lose everyone around me I think of how I'll lose me...
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    I have these fears. Imagined or real. No matter how much they say they care I'm so scared. But at the same time im just there like daring it to happen..It's happened so many times...
    waldeinsamkeit waldeinsamkeit 18-21, F Apr 1

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    What fear do you want to face head on?
    Littlelionwoman81 Littlelionwoman81 36-40, F Apr 5

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    I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now and we've had unprotected sex where he's pulled out as well as accidents such as the condom breaking, yet I've never been pregnant...
    beautifulhypocrisy beautifulhypocrisy 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Death is inevitable. Our fear of it makes us play safe, blocks out emotion. It's a losing game. Without passion you are already dead.
    dede9090 dede9090 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    "Terrible thing, to live in fear. Brooks Hatlen knew it. Knew it all too well." Morgan Freeman...
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    To say the least I am fearless. I won't back down from a challenge even when I know I won't succeed. Even death, put a gun to my head I won't cower and beg for my life, no. I won't...
    Crazynerdyguyyaknow13 Crazynerdyguyyaknow13 18-21, M Apr 7

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    "Your to good for him"!"he lives 8 hours away its impossible you cant even touch him" goo on tell me the negative tell me its impossible u can take away my hope of ever seeing him...
    missunperfectly missunperfectly 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My daughter is my clean slate. I am no longer a *****, insert any derogatory statement. I am clean of my past sins because of her. I am in a relationship but we fight often; I...
    thegirlinthegreencar thegirlinthegreencar 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've checked out a lot of stories posted on this site, and one thing that stands out with some of the ones I've read, is that people are extremely judgmental for all the wrong...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M Mar 23

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    I see so many people saying that they are open minded! Do they even know what it means? I think not, most are under the delusion that it means they accept this or that latest fad...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    andgme andgme 26-30, F Apr 1

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    I am a very judgmental person and hold nothing back. I judge based on everything; your looks, your behavior, and your intellect. I am very critical and am not ashamed. I get a lot...
    Mehsy Mehsy 16-17, M Apr 3

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    I don't like the fact that some people are super judgmental when they don't even know your first name. First, learn their name. Second, Get to the heart of the person. If you don't...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    People are too quick to put someone down or be nasty just because they have different opinions or act differently. What differences does it make to them what that person does. It's...
    AriaSteel AriaSteel 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Death and growing is a part of life, but that doesn't mean that as I grow and wake up one day and find that I've got dementia and other things that run in my family when we reach a...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I have zombie dreams every night. What does this mean? Any one experienced this as well?
    Lizardgirl0011 Lizardgirl0011 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Today I was talking to a boy and sent him pictures of me FULLY CLOTHED and doing random things and he swapped my body for naked body shots and kept saying he was going to post them...
    skitbrownie skitbrownie 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    i dislike birds so much. the noises they make scare me, the cawing, the flying, all of that. & i think what makes it worse is that in my neighborhood, there's a LOT of trees around...
    VeenaWasHere VeenaWasHere 16-17, F Mar 18

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    When it comes to guys taking to them online or not I just am afraid they won't like me. Ik it's stupid but whatever
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F Mar 19