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I Fear Judgement

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    I fear the judgement that will be placed on me when people find out I was sexually abused by several horrible people. 
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 21 Responses Sep 18, 2007

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    Judgement Sucks!!!

    I think everyone fears judgement in a certain way, I def have a fear of being judged! I've always been like that for as long as I remember, afraid of being judged on my life choices, my appearance...just about everything.   Judgement sucks
    NiRiada NiRiada 22-25, F Mar 15, 2008

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    Terrified

    i am terrified of being judged, genuinely scared, just like to be considered as what i truly am, rather then an impression someone gathers of me
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Mar 29, 2008

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    Mom is protective, she tell me everything that could go wrong, I live in fear , I do everything carefully, exhausting, feeling so negative Dad yells at me, his way of telling want...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F Aug 15

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    For some reason, i feel this fear... when i am approaching people that i found interesting and curious about or when i am trying to sit near my dearly beloved. I am trying to...
    spinningtime7 spinningtime7 18-21, M Aug 15

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    What cracks me up is all the people who claim not to be judgemental. Are they brain dead? Are they special snowflakes and all things to all people? Everyone makes judgement...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 Aug 19

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    There's no need to judge, whatsoever. Judgement was created as a survival mechanism to quickly assess the situation and read someones intention to quickly react in a hostile...
    Draganoth Draganoth 13-15, M Aug 13

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    I probably fear life more than I fear death. There are far worse things in life than there are in death. I’d like to think of death as a liberation of struggles, diseases...
    TheGreatLeveler TheGreatLeveler 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Fear of death vs fear of pain? I think reason pepole fear death is often because of the pain that comes along with it rather than actually being dead. All short of terminal...
    gypa gypa 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This has been a recent development. I am really not sure if it's right for me to fear this but this is causing unwanted stress in my life. It started last year in December. I had...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    I was so damn quiet in my class n was nt much popular.. I was always alone.. I loved to sing but my music teachers never would take me into the school music team for any...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Fear is beautiful, well depends how you look at it with the sort of soul you have problem is, can you handle fear? To conquer fear, look at yourself in the mirror and make all...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 29

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    Everybody has fears wheather they admit it or not. My big fear is astraphobia ( fear of storms) Heavy rain I can handle. Loud thunderstorms make me really nervous.
    pardax pardax 13-15, M Aug 2

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    I have a fear of body odor. I realize it is a strange and irrational fear, but I am terrified of body odor. I take 3 showers a day, always have my lush brand deodorant, and carry...
    MaryLiz94 MaryLiz94 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    This fear IS normal.. how significant a part it plays out in our lives is very much down to us the individual. However ..if we didn't have this fear, we just wouldn't be human...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F Aug 16

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    I don't fear death, I fear what happens to my loved ones that I leave behind, that I can no longer protect, I've been close to death many times, my heart has actually stopped 2...
    HeadStrongPro HeadStrongPro 16-17, M Aug 19

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    So I joined the military and got stationed in Texas. I'm originally from New Jersey. One fear that I didn't know I had until I got here was the fear of being alone. Feeling alone...
    cyrusthevirus74 cyrusthevirus74 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Hate is fear. Fear of goal deprivation. Or fear of losing what was gained.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    My greatest fear is not being able to have children. Ever since I was little I knew that I would want to be a mum someday. Then I started having strange nightmares about babies...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Hi :) Does anyone have any advice on how to getting over the fear of flying? Background Story When I was young, I didn't have any fear of flying at all. I was fine with it, and I...
    LonelyKaty LonelyKaty 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    "I know it is coming, and I do not fear it, because I believe there is nothing on the other side of death to fear. I hope to be spared as much pain as possible on the approach path...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M Jul 30

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    I don't fear death; though I do have some issues coping with grief. I come from a family that did not really help me to understand and cope with grief, so even now at age 42 I'm...
    BJH72 BJH72 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I don't fear death, I fear my existence meaning nothing to anyone. I am afraid I have not changed someone's life. I am scared that I won't matter.
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I don't go out looking for death defying experiences, but I adventurous. A former Marine, I'm a motorcycle rider and love to try a lot of adventure sports. I guess I don't fear...
    Brandona7x Brandona7x 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I don't fear the death of myself, I fear the peoples pain around me, it would unravel so many lives.
    ScottM13 ScottM13 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I Don't Fear Death, it's as simple as that. I know that's a really random thing to say but it's true. It's another unknown and naturally I'm curious as to how etc. Everyone does of...
    BriGrace BriGrace 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I don't fear death.. But, I fear pain.
    teeaaaa teeaaaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I don't fear death because I'm not traumatized or have horrible (or any memories) of what was before birth. That non-existence is my only connection to death, and I can't remember...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I have a fear of working or it may be a fear of being around a lot of people. I have a job at Walmart and panic a lot, I was working at a hospital but same thing happened at quit...
    believe201427 believe201427 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I have been with many people when they died. As a nurse I have always tried to sit with a person if they were alone when death was near. My wife and I sat with my father as he...
    laird laird 61-65, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have depression and I often think about suicide and have suicidal phases or whatever you call them. As I write this, I don't feel suicidal so don't worry. :) But when I do feel...
    lovelyloner143 lovelyloner143 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Not specifically mine more like my possible future children I fear that they will live in a war zone and won't know true happiness I fear that our world is so damn corrupt that no...
    snazzygal3000 snazzygal3000 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I fear death. But I don't fear death. I accept and welcome death. At the same time I deny it. I want to die only because I get tired of living. But I figure once I make the choice...
    CJCA CJCA 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A dark presence is within us all, It's those who fear the night that make the call. The darkness covers your eyes making you fear, There are more of them; soon they'll be here...
    MsTedious MsTedious 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Probably not being good enough thats probably the root of most of my problems..feeling im unlovable not worthy of love..I always wonder why people even like me people im close to...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I fear the ocean so badly! Yes it's ok from the car I may even walk the beach but going in it nooooooooooo way! It's hilarious because I love my family's beach house on the ocean...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    To me life is useless I'm a very dark person and have never feard death if death were to come knocking on my door I would just let it in or end up cheating death I can be very...
    Shadow500 Shadow500 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I have a fear that a duck, somehow, somewhere, is always watching me...
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Toilet snakes are biggest darkest fear. And they exist!
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have a fear of feeling small. It brings out bigger outcomes than I expect.
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I fear what comes after.....
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Deaths not something to fear, it's something to look forward to. in life we never know for certain wats gonna happen but we know wat ever we do death will come, we think we can...
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    One of my fears is since Im be getting a divorce that I will be a single mom the rest of my life.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I always have an irrational fear that I'm being cheated on and it scares me cause I don't wanna confront him and I be right
    hickksey hickksey 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Like a DJ project, "Suffering from Success" is my secret story too. One of my mentors had a project titled "you're nothing until you're dead" and that's so true. A dead rapper...
    lifeafterdeath7 lifeafterdeath7 51-55, M Aug 9

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    I want to learn how to let go of some of my fears. I just don't know where to begin.
    krimsonlove krimsonlove 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    My mom is catholic, and my dad is christian. I grew up in the catholic religion; however, my dad started to take me to his church. All of my beliefs changed after that. I learned...
    messedup123 messedup123 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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