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I Fear Losing Him

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    I don't know what to think anymore.

    We were amazing when we were together. I was so happy to talk to him every morning. I always woke up with a smile knowing that I would have a text from him, I couldn't wait to see him again and to feel safe in his arms. Than we had a fight over my ex, he said that I was being...
    lostnunsure lostnunsure 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My boyfriend is outta town

    for his job and I miss him so much
    themagicmachine themagicmachine 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Losing The Love Of My Life...

    How can something so simple hurt you so much.? So this started last year...I met this guy J... We started talking all becuase of how weird I am.! But i dont regret it... My friend and me were walking around my neighborhood park...he would always run around it... So he was...
    mydarkworld13 mydarkworld13 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    My Fear Of Losing Him Caused Me To Lose Him.....

    I have feared of losing my son's father for the past 2 years of our relationship to the point that I pushed him away. Always being scared that he is cheating, trying to analyze his every move and accusing day in and day out because I didnt want him to think I was stupid if he...
    HEALiNGWOUNDS HEALiNGWOUNDS 18-21, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    Cant Imagine My Life Life Without Him

    My love,,who just came to my life without signs,,that man who was so stubborn to make me say ,,yes,,to him when he asked me to marry him,,i cant imagine life without him,i dont want to,,i dont want to even tink about that,i enjoy my life because of him,feelings like hope,fun,joy...
    denez denez 22-25, F Jul 22, 2012

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    I never drink and recently I cheated on the

    love of my life. Determined to tell him but don't know how. Guilt is eating me from the inside and I've never felt this much pain, please help
    Isabelllll5 Isabelllll5 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Bianca

    Im in love with a man thats 40 an im 21 do you guys think i should'nt be with him because he to old for me
    biancaaustin1988 biancaaustin1988 18-21 3 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    And All My Friends.........

    ~ I know that I have a LOT of sh!t in my life that isn't real helpful to relationships of any kind. I know that I come off clingy, needy & pathetic more times than not. I KNOW this & yet can't seem to stop myself. I find myself worrying about what they think of me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 15, 2009

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    I Fear I Have Lost Him

    He IS the love of my life. after 3 and a half years he says he needs space and time alone, and that for now we must go our sperate ways. he says we might get back together and try again, maybe in afew months, maybe after a year. he says he still cares for me, and wants to be my...
    AllyPally AllyPally 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    The Truth

    Tell me seriously with all the details.
    lana300482 lana300482 31-35 Jul 22, 2013

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    Memorial Day And Him

    I have been dating this guy for about ten months and up til now i thought all was well but this 3 weekeend i spoke to him twice and that was after i had to call him. in fact memorial day was kinda saddening cause instead of spending it with him  ( since he had plans"with family...
    honeybear30 honeybear30 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    You The Most Valuable...

    No need of gold.. No need of gems.. No need of pearls.. You're more valuable than them.. Your sweet smile always in my mind.. Your mischievous things make me joy.. Your stubborn talks make me happy... Never creat me angry.. So i cant forget you.. You are still in my heart.. That...
    Sharasithu Sharasithu 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    I Fear Loosing Her

    I have been in a relationship since September of last year. She is a wonderful and beautiful woman and I love her with all of my heart. Just before Easter of this year, over 6 months after we had met. We were sitting together watching television. She had a text message and...
    knightgames knightgames 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    Selfishness Has Consumed My Morality

    I'm so confused right now. I can't even write my feelings because I just keep back-spacing; I don't even know where to begin! If I start talking about my boyfriend first, I go off on this tangent about how I love him, how I don't deserve him, how I wish this all never happened...
    SweetinaNutshell SweetinaNutshell 18-21, F Jul 24, 2013

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    Fear Came True...

    And what now?? Does my fear go away?? After seven years he sad that he doesn´t love me enough... And that he is 90% sure that we should break up...
    juigine juigine 22-25, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    You Are Everything To Me...

    You are my SKY.. Who gives shine to me..rain to me... You're my everything.. Who gives life to my life...
    Sharasithu Sharasithu 22-25, F Sep 6, 2011

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    I fallin head over heals with my boyfriend,

    he makes me smile,laugh,he always puts on a handsome smile and knows how to cheer me up,I never want to loose him.
    Wisdombird Wisdombird 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I Honestly Do.

    I know my relationship is amazingly good.  However, I truly fear losing him.  I fear because he is truly the man of my dreams.  He has all the qualities I've always wanted in a man.  He can make me laugh like no one else.  He is not afraid of being silly.  He is completely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    Always

    I am always afraid of losing him even though he tells me all the time that I am not going to lose him.  But he threatens so much it terrifies me.  I don't ever want to lose him.  He is so special to me and the thought of not having him is like a knife twisting and...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Just Because I Don't Say It, Doesn't Mean That I Dont, Necessarily

    It all seemed so very "Patrick Swayze" in "Ghost." His inability to tell me he loved me was something that I attributed to his being with women who had not appreciated his amazing kindness and beauty When he told me; "just because I don't say it, doesn't mean that I don't...
    heartprotection heartprotection 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    I'm So Scared Of Losing Him...

    I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. I have been in a serious relationship before but it didn't work out well. When I gave up on love, I met him. He's everything, I've been looking in a man. But every time we fought, I became an a-hole to him, hurt his feeling. Though...
    monobo monobo 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    So I Got Rid Of Him

    that way the pain is my fault and not his! my heart has "NO FIXED ABODE"
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    I Fear Loosing Him to the Navy...

      Since 10th grade Chance and I have been inseperable.  We had some rough patches as most teenagers do but nothing that our love could not handle well.  Now, he's in the Navy.  He's gone alot, and I am so afraid of loosing him.  Of him dying or being...
    navywifeandmomtobe navywifeandmomtobe 16-18, F Apr 25, 2007

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    Terrified Of Losing Him.

    Every single time I've lost. I've never truly won. Everything I've ever loved has always been taken away from me. I remember my first love. How I loved him so much, and the night before he broke it off he was telling me how much he loved me and how I was so special. The night...
    queenbatman13 queenbatman13 13-15, F Sep 4, 2012

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    Constant Fear

    i am always afraid of expressing my emotions and desires for the guy i am with even though i know i know my feelings for him are very strong. I know that if i dont change, my relationship will just end because he does not feel anything from me.  I hate the way i act towards...
    littlekitty84 littlekitty84 21-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2006

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    I Fear Losing My Dad.

    If I lose him, I don't know what I'll do.
    M0RGUE M0RGUE 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2008

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    Dear Heart

    Dear heart,Why him?I've never thought I would fall for him. Because though I liked him, but as a friend, and I've never thought to get in the relationship with whom. Above all, I'm the one who refused him, when he said he liked me. But yes, I was the one who asked him to remain a...
    Alexfield Alexfield 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    A Different Kind Of Love Story

    I met him on a church retreat in March, in the middle of nowhere somewhere in Vermont. He smiled, I waved. Throughout the weekend we started a friendship. That was it. Then I ran into him again, end of April, another retreat, in a different state. Playful flirting, nothing much...
    Comatose2 Comatose2 16-17 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    First Real Love

    I have been in other relationships but they were all clouded by the insanity of my alcoholism. This time around with a clear head and a love for myself I was able to experience dating, and falling in love. But this time the love doesn't seem to stop growing, every day I love...
    dlz6109 dlz6109 31-35 2 Responses Feb 9, 2011

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    My New Rediscovered Love Is Slipping Through My Fingers

    Our love had started growing Slowly glowing Now its starting to fall Even though i have given my all The roses of love die Where our two hearts lie Trying to get a grip So our hearts don't rip But it keeps slipping Blood is dripping Cupid ripped the arrow out of our heart...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Not Special

    A few years ago I moved half way across Canada to start a life for myself. I was doing alright, lonely but good until I met him. We feel head over heels and were doing very well, even after moving in together after 4 months of dating. We're living together along with his older...
    sheisakeeper sheisakeeper 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    My Feelings Are Confusing Me

    I have been dating this wonderful guy for about a year and a half. things have been a bit hard on the financial side, as he is a foreigner and companies are reluctant to hire him as he has no work permit yet, only work visas. However, he has tried so hard, time and again to...
    sexyjenny30 sexyjenny30 22-25 Jan 10, 2011

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    Hello, my name is Chiara. My boyfriend Simon and I just fell apart because of this problem. He said he loves me but he's not willing for our relationship to continue because I need...
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    Death is inevitable. Our fear of it makes us play safe, blocks out emotion. It's a losing game. Without passion you are already dead.
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    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
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    I've been in and out of a relationship since 2010. After 10 months, our first break up occurs. I'm heartbroken to the point where I start to lose sleep. My eyes swell up because of...
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    Is it bad I have so many fears. I have a fear of death, I am terrified of death. I can't sleep at night cause I'm worried ill die. I get nightmares every night of me dying or I'm...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F Mar 25

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    My best friend wants to move across the country to be with her boyfriend who moved there recently for graduate school. If they weren't profoundly in love with each other, I wouldn...
    RelianceOnScience RelianceOnScience 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Where do i even start... my mother is my everything, she is my best friend and all the family i have left since i do not have a relationship with my other family due to abuse. I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm married and have a child. I don't love my wife. I met someone who was supposed to be just a harmless fling but I love them with all that I am. I can't just kick my family...
    iamsumwun2 iamsumwun2 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you do not like what you read- please keep to yourself. A Dire Warning to Christians and People Everywhere. Hello, everyone here. What will be discussed here is very very...
    EvangelistTeen EvangelistTeen 13-15, F Apr 6

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    My best friend Ashe knew I liked a guy named Jo for almost a year I loved him so much and I always talked about him even when I moved to a different town. She invited him over so I...
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    My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting our own place when we have enough money. Just recently I've thought of the problem where his mother will continuously bother us...
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    I was with a guy 3 year older than me for 2 years (17-18) we would be on and off cause of my parents the point is that both of us decided to break it off cause we didt see a future...
    thegirlwithdarksecrests thegirlwithdarksecrests 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I am just starting high school, and I am the only one who is going to this particular school. All my old friends are going to a different school, and I am not hanging out with them...
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