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I Fear Losing Him

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    Constant Fear - i am always afraid of expressing my emotions and desires for the guy i am with even though i know i know my feelings for him are very strong. I know that if i dont...
    littlekitty84 littlekitty84 21-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2006

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    Selfishness Has Consumed My Morality - I'm so confused right now. I can't even write my feelings because I just keep back-spacing; I don't even know where to begin! If I start...
    SweetinaNutshell SweetinaNutshell 18-21, F Jul 24, 2013

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    Dear Heart - Dear heart,Why him?I've never thought I would fall for him. Because though I liked him, but as a friend, and I've never thought to get in the relationship with whom...
    Alexfield Alexfield 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Cant Imagine My Life Life Without Him - My love,,who just came to my life without signs,,that man who was so stubborn to make me say ,,yes,,to him when he asked me to marry him,,i...
    denez denez 22-25, F Jul 22, 2012

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    I Fear Loosing Her - I have been in a relationship since September of last year. She is a wonderful and beautiful woman and I love her with all of my heart. Just before Easter of...
    knightgames knightgames 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    You The Most Valuable... - No need of gold.. No need of gems.. No need of pearls.. You're more valuable than them.. Your sweet smile always in my mind.. Your mischievous things...
    Sharasithu Sharasithu 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Fear Came True... - And what now?? Does my fear go away?? After seven years he sad that he doesn´t love me enough... And that he is 90% sure that we should break up...
    juigine juigine 22-25, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    The Truth - Tell me seriously with all the details.
    lana300482 lana300482 31-35 Jul 22, 2013

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    I don't know what to think anymore. We were amazing when we were together. I was so happy to talk to him every morning. I always woke up with a smile knowing that I would have a...
    lostnunsure lostnunsure 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    First Real Love - I have been in other relationships but they were all clouded by the insanity of my alcoholism. This time around with a clear head and a love for myself I was...
    dlz6109 dlz6109 31-35 2 Responses Feb 9, 2011

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    My Feelings Are Confusing Me - I have been dating this wonderful guy for about a year and a half. things have been a bit hard on the financial side, as he is a foreigner and...
    sexyjenny30 sexyjenny30 22-25 Jan 10, 2011

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    I Honestly Do. - I know my relationship is amazingly good.  However, I truly fear losing him.  I fear because he is truly the man of my dreams.  He has all the qualities I've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 10, 2011

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    Memorial Day And Him - I have been dating this guy for about ten months and up til now i thought all was well but this 3 weekeend i spoke to him twice and that was after i had to...
    honeybear30 honeybear30 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    I fallin head over heals with my boyfriend,he makes me smile,laugh,he always puts on a handsome smile and knows how to cheer me up,I never want to loose him.
    Wisdombird Wisdombird 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    My Fear Of Losing Him Caused Me To Lose Him..... - I have feared of losing my son's father for the past 2 years of our relationship to the point that I pushed him away. Always...
    HEALiNGWOUNDS HEALiNGWOUNDS 18-21, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    I Fear Losing My Dad. - If I lose him, I don't know what I'll do.
    M0RGUE M0RGUE 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2008

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    My boyfriend is outta town for his job and I miss him so much
    themagicmachine themagicmachine 22-25, F Mar 23

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    And All My Friends......... - ~ I know that I have a LOT of sh!t in my life that isn't real helpful to relationships of any kind. I know that I come off clingy, needy &...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 15, 2009

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    I Fear I Have Lost Him - He IS the love of my life. after 3 and a half years he says he needs space and time alone, and that for now we must go our sperate ways. he says we might...
    AllyPally AllyPally 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 1, 2010

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    I never drink and recently I cheated on the love of my life. Determined to tell him but don't know how. Guilt is eating me from the inside and I've never felt this much pain...
    Isabelllll5 Isabelllll5 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    So I Got Rid Of Him - that way the pain is my fault and not his! my heart has "NO FIXED ABODE"
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    You Are Everything To Me... - You are my SKY.. Who gives shine to me..rain to me... You're my everything.. Who gives life to my life...
    Sharasithu Sharasithu 22-25, F Sep 6, 2011

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    My New Rediscovered Love Is Slipping Through My Fingers - Our love had started growing Slowly glowing Now its starting to fall Even though i have given my all The roses of love...
    Caitlinsmith1636 Caitlinsmith1636 18-21, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Always - I am always afraid of losing him even though he tells me all the time that I am not going to lose him.  But he threatens so much it terrifies me.  I don't ever...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    I Fear Loosing Him to the Navy... -   Since 10th grade Chance and I have been inseperable.  We had some rough patches as most teenagers do but nothing that our love...
    navywifeandmomtobe navywifeandmomtobe 16-18, F Apr 25, 2007

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    Just Because I Don't Say It, Doesn't Mean That I Dont, Necessarily - It all seemed so very "Patrick Swayze" in "Ghost." His inability to tell me he loved me was something that I...
    heartprotection heartprotection 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    A Different Kind Of Love Story - I met him on a church retreat in March, in the middle of nowhere somewhere in Vermont. He smiled, I waved. Throughout the weekend we started a...
    Comatose2 Comatose2 16-17 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Losing The Love Of My Life... - How can something so simple hurt you so much.? So this started last year...I met this guy J... We started talking all becuase of how weird I am...
    mydarkworld13 mydarkworld13 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Bianca - Im in love with a man thats 40 an im 21 do you guys think i should'nt be with him because he to old for me
    biancaaustin1988 biancaaustin1988 18-21 3 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    Not Special - A few years ago I moved half way across Canada to start a life for myself. I was doing alright, lonely but good until I met him. We feel head over heels and were...
    sheisakeeper sheisakeeper 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Terrified Of Losing Him. - Every single time I've lost. I've never truly won. Everything I've ever loved has always been taken away from me. I remember my first love. How I loved...
    queenbatman13 queenbatman13 13-15, F Sep 4, 2012

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    I'm So Scared Of Losing Him... - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. I have been in a serious relationship before but it didn't work out well. When I gave up on love, I...
    monobo monobo 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    I'm in love with my best friend, but I never told him. I can't. I don't want to risk losing him.
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    I do not fear death, the manifestation nor the action of dying. What I fear is the pain that comes with it. I force myself to believe it's the only way out, if I just took my own...
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    ....& as I prepare for the knife - to replace my neck_ I don't fear the competency of the surgeons in which who will perform my repair- yet I fear the timing of the end of my...
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    I fear people alot. My heart is soft like a crystal. It breaks easily. What people do even with their kindness fear me the Most. Why? Because they unintenionally/intentionally hurt...
    cantma cantma 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I'm afraid of losing my father , not least because he is family, but also because I did not want to lose it all , I love my dad , but I love my mom too, both are the best we have...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Hello, my name is Chiara. My boyfriend Simon and I just fell apart because of this problem. He said he loves me but he's not willing for our relationship to continue because I need...
    darthki darthki 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've had ear problems and hearing problems pretty much my whole life, but lately they seem to be escalating more and more. Before someone tells me to go see an ENT/doctor- I...
    NaturallyPeculiar NaturallyPeculiar 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Death is inevitable. Our fear of it makes us play safe, blocks out emotion. It's a losing game. Without passion you are already dead.
    dede9090 dede9090 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F Mar 24

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    Even though we broke up almost 2 months ago, I still think about him like crazy and actually, it's been more than usual for the past few days. I can't stand knowing that he could...
    amandavynes amandavynes 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    Is it bad I have so many fears. I have a fear of death, I am terrified of death. I can't sleep at night cause I'm worried ill die. I get nightmares every night of me dying or I'm...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F Mar 25

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    My best friend wants to move across the country to be with her boyfriend who moved there recently for graduate school. If they weren't profoundly in love with each other, I wouldn...
    RelianceOnScience RelianceOnScience 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Where do i even start... my mother is my everything, she is my best friend and all the family i have left since i do not have a relationship with my other family due to abuse. I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm married and have a child. I don't love my wife. I met someone who was supposed to be just a harmless fling but I love them with all that I am. I can't just kick my family...
    iamsumwun2 iamsumwun2 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    If you do not like what you read- please keep to yourself. A Dire Warning to Christians and People Everywhere. Hello, everyone here. What will be discussed here is very very...
    EvangelistTeen EvangelistTeen 13-15, F Apr 6