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I Fear Losing the One I Love

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    Irrational Fear

    I don't worry about him leaving me. but I do worry he will die. I guess it is an irrational fear but it is still there.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2010

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    My Biggest Fear...

    I never wanna lose her.... I hate to think of how I would end up without her in my life....I just kno w it wouldn't be good. Id be so lost....so broken...and would find it really hard to live without her. She means everything to me, and the thought of losing her just puts knots...
    Astory4supper Astory4supper 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    When He's Gone

    Okay, so, my fiancee' is currently deployed.  He was deployed at the last minute back in April.  Well, ever since the first night he was gone I've had this terrible nightmares. But i have to say the one that messes with me the most is the one i fear the most....Maybe...
    SpcBabyGirl85 SpcBabyGirl85 22-25 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    You Always Hope You'll Be Together Forever

    But you can never truly know even if you are married and don't believe in divorce, what if some terrible thing happens to break you apart? Something you would never ever see coming? Life is a scary thing!
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    Realizing What I Wanted Was Infront Of Me All Along.

    We started off as just best friends , he was the guy I would call up when me and my ex would fight. We'd talk everyday as soon as I got out of school , I felt as only with him I could tell everything to . Even though he'd judge me for my actions he was truthful. But here's the...
    Insecuritykills1 Insecuritykills1 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    This fear IS normal.. how significant a part it plays out in our lives is very much down to us the individual. However ..if we didn't have this fear, we just wouldn't be human...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I let my fears get in the way of our perfect relationship and started our first fight after a year and a half. Now he says he needs some time to think. He says he needs space. He...
    jess1994 jess1994 18-21, F Jul 22

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    Why WOULD anyone love me. Me. Why should anyone even like me. Everyone has every right to hate me. Because I'm ME and that's a good enough reason. It is for me anyway.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    She will b loved - maroon5 this explains a lot for me
    lilasofargone lilasofargone 18-21, F Jul 30

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    Suffering depression but its affecting me great effect, i hate my personality because iam antisocial i don't have social skills i talk less than usual, my parents are the reason of...
    Emmajasonn Emmajasonn 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been just three months since I lost her and I feel that the pain will never lessen. Especially since she won't be there for advice when I have children or be there to help me...
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Today is a very special day...Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, the person i love more then anything...Thanks to that woman who gave birth to such a kind...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I didn't realize that I could actually grow to tolerate him much less fall in love. He was the guy I saw Bye Bye Birdie with. The guy who taught me how to work a light board...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s the most horrid...
    Oasisdawn3 Oasisdawn3 18-21, F Jul 22

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    It has been a while since i wrote about what i do in this life. You see as i love all people around me at ep or around the world. they don't love me and i am not like need to have...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 31

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    Classic Country - Young Love - Sonny James Lyrics They say for every boy and girl, There's just one love in this old world, And I, I kn-ow, I, I, I've found mine. The heavenly...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F Aug 6

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Unending Love by Rabindranath Tagore I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times... In life after life, in age after age, forever. My spellbound heart has...
    TheDreamyWoman TheDreamyWoman 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Cause all I need is one love, one love, one heart..baby give it to me cause I don't want want somebody when I got got your body baby nope not somebody I got what I need tonight.
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F Jul 25

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    While You Loved Me - Rascal Flatts ♪If I ever write, the story of my life. Don't be surprised, if you're where it begins. Boy, I'll have to dedicate. Every line on every page. To...
    MyEternalDesires MyEternalDesires 22-25, F Jul 30

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    I love you so much but you do not love Me and I want to ask me one love
    xhmkq8 xhmkq8 13-15, M Aug 6

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    I love Bruce Springsteen's "Secret Garden" song. Maybe this is my number one love song. There was a time i was listening to it every day many times. When i was in love. Even now...
    HonestFriend13 HonestFriend13 31-35, M 22 hrs ago

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    OneRepublic "Love Runs Out."
    Alcathor Alcathor 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Water Against The Rocks By Faye Listen, water against the rocks Looking back, I can't see. The boats leaving, out on me No shoes, bare foot. No make-up, the new look Where's...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Does any one love Tokio Hotel, Halestorm, Evanescence, Linkin Park, Within Temptation, Revolution Renaissance, In This Moment, Lindsey Stirling, Device, Metallica and Paramore? Or...
    DarkAngel483 DarkAngel483 13-15, F 19 Responses Jul 26

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    I hate the hatred that Fairy Tail gets. On chatanago everybody keeps on saying how it is the worst anime ever. I for one love it and it has made me very very happy watching it. I...
    Mustlovecats Mustlovecats 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Saudade............. “A deep emotional state of nostalgic longing for an absent something or someone that one loves.... it often carries a repressed knowledge that the object of...
    indigoeyes22 indigoeyes22 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I want love!!! Someone... I don't wanna look desperate. I just feel like no one loves me and I'll take what I can get as desperate as that sounds
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    What's the worst thing about losing weight? -my clothes are getting baggy -can't afford to get new clothes -not sure if the weight is coming off from stress or if changing a few...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Losing weight is definitely not easy especially you are a foodie. Never did I know that a 5km run would burn only 300 to 400 calories. Worse is it takes about 30 to 40mins...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    PART ONE . . . Tonight, I will drive to my Dad’s. The drive is only about two hours—an easy drive in good weather. Boring. Ugly. But easy. In the winter, it’s prohibitive. I...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 28

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    I was am 14 at the moment and a few months ago I was at a stage with a girl I loved dearly and still love where we had been "talking dirty" for a while and exchanging pictures with...
    Teyh606 Teyh606 13-15, M Jul 22

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    YET another idea, this one is another boot camp activity. This one partly inspired by Fear Factor. All attendees have to do burpees for 1 hour non stop, while wearing lycra hot...
    mrmassive1990 mrmassive1990 22-25 1 Response Jul 29

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    My boyfriend had open heart surgery 3 years ago. 2 years ago he suffered 2 strokes, most likely a complication of the surgery. Since then, I am constantly scared when I can't get...
    saralu923 saralu923 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Losing a whole year I remember you and me used to spend the whole goddamned day in bed Losing a whole year Lying in your room we'd lay like dogs The phone would ring like a...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Six weeks since I’ve been away And now you’re saying everything has changed And I’m afraid that I might be losing you And every night that we spend alone, Could be thinking...
    IzzyIrwin IzzyIrwin 13-15, F Jul 23

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    Sometimes the need to kill others gets so bad so I kill myself instead and wake up in the morning and start over. But what if one day the need over powers my self control and I...
    KatIsCrazy KatIsCrazy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Would love to know one day that someone I care about losing actually cares about losing me as well maybe even more than I care about losing them....but I guess I better keep...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F Jul 31

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    I haven`t yet worked out where to place this yet, but it will probably be under "I love my wife", or a site somewhere on these lines. IF you start to read this experience you MUST...
    0utlander 0utlander 56-60, M Aug 9

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    This dumb jam didn't mean a thing Ecstasy, rave is king Fake diamonds shining on a finger And I'm bad for you You stole my soul, or I gave it to you I wish I was a spray can Hey...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    As a Man Thinketh Quotes (by James Allen) “The outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to his inner state...Men do not attract that...
    TitaniumSkyScraper TitaniumSkyScraper 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I was so damn quiet in my class n was nt much popular.. I was always alone.. I loved to sing but my music teachers never would take me into the school music team for any...
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F Jul 29

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    All my life, Ive been alone. My father killed himself while I was a child, causing my mom into a depression. I was alone at night. Never comforted, never feeling loved or wanted. I...
    JustPlainScared JustPlainScared 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    why not (these are my favourite 100 that are on my phone, not my favourites overall) 1) About the Future - Yves Klein Blue 2) Ain't No Rest For the Wicked - Cage The Elephant 3...
    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Every day I drive to work across Flint River bridge A hundred yards from the spot where me and grandpa fished There's a piece of his old fruit stand on the side of Sawmill Road He...
    Yooper117 Yooper117 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Here I am in love with you; You're everything and more. This is the way it's supposed to be; There's nothing I want for. But she was in my heart before, The embers there still...
    chewyconor chewyconor 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I probably fear life more than I fear death. There are far worse things in life than there are in death. I’d like to think of death as a liberation of struggles, diseases...
    TheGreatLeveler TheGreatLeveler 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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