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I Fear Losing the One I Love

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    Realizing What I Wanted Was Infront Of Me All Along.

    We started off as just best friends , he was the guy I would call up when me and my ex would fight. We'd talk everyday as soon as I got out of school , I felt as only with him I could tell everything to . Even though he'd judge me for my actions he was truthful. But here's the...
    Insecuritykills1 Insecuritykills1 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    You Always Hope You'll Be Together Forever

    But you can never truly know even if you are married and don't believe in divorce, what if some terrible thing happens to break you apart? Something you would never ever see coming? Life is a scary thing!
    SummerWind18 SummerWind18 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    My Biggest Fear...

    I never wanna lose her.... I hate to think of how I would end up without her in my life....I just kno w it wouldn't be good. Id be so lost....so broken...and would find it really hard to live without her. She means everything to me, and the thought of losing her just puts knots...
    Astory4supper Astory4supper 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Irrational Fear

    I don't worry about him leaving me. but I do worry he will die. I guess it is an irrational fear but it is still there.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2010

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    When He's Gone

    Okay, so, my fiancee' is currently deployed.  He was deployed at the last minute back in April.  Well, ever since the first night he was gone I've had this terrible nightmares. But i have to say the one that messes with me the most is the one i fear the most....Maybe...
    SpcBabyGirl85 SpcBabyGirl85 22-25 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    This fear IS normal.. how significant a part it plays out in our lives is very much down to us the individual. However ..if we didn't have this fear, we just wouldn't be human...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I went out with this guy and I fell in love with him. I'm talking about real love. I broke up with him but then I wanted him back and he said no. My heart broke and I begged him to...
    Roseloring Roseloring 22-25, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Why do no one like me it make me sad
    sanjay2849 sanjay2849 56-60, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Suffering depression but its affecting me great effect, i hate my personality because iam antisocial i don't have social skills i talk less than usual, my parents are the reason of...
    Emmajasonn Emmajasonn 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I've never had a real relationship. I'm 15 going on 16 and all my friends have been in a relationship or at least have "talked" to a guy and no guys ever like me and I fear no one...
    dreaming1942 dreaming1942 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Classic Country - Young Love - Sonny James Lyrics They say for every boy and girl, There's just one love in this old world, And I, I kn-ow, I, I, I've found mine. The heavenly...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F Aug 6

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    People say the smell of weed smells gross. I for one love the smell of it. Ive never been one to boast about how great it is because i know no one can appreciate my opinions on the...
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love you so much but you do not love Me and I want to ask me one love
    xhmkq8 xhmkq8 13-15, M Aug 6

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    Listening to one of my favorites. Bob Marley- One Love
    Yooper117 Yooper117 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I feel all lonely and without love it gets hard cause I start to believe no one loves me.i need someone to love and to call mine.
    Sarthak8528 Sarthak8528 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    How do I mend my broken heart now that my world has fallen apart. I struggle to get through each new day knowing the man I loved gave up on me and walked away. My tears seem never...
    dybbukbox dybbukbox 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Rewatching it right now Season one episode one.. Love it so much 😍
    ep1093 ep1093 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I hate the hatred that Fairy Tail gets. On chatanago everybody keeps on saying how it is the worst anime ever. I for one love it and it has made me very very happy watching it. I...
    Mustlovecats Mustlovecats 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Saudade............. “A deep emotional state of nostalgic longing for an absent something or someone that one loves.... it often carries a repressed knowledge that the object of...
    indigoeyes22 indigoeyes22 41-45, F Aug 16

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    I want love!!! Someone... I don't wanna look desperate. I just feel like no one loves me and I'll take what I can get as desperate as that sounds
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 16

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    One Love - Bob Marley.. 
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M Aug 23

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    I love healthy food, no Junk one, love everything that is healthy both physically and mentally. but global pollution and food that contains too many chemicals makes me worried.
    nataliawww nataliawww 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    the other day i was exhibiting for work at an exhibition . this old chinese man came up to me and asked to read my hand.  he said " you are very strong, frank woman. you have...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I Am 123 Pounds Now Yay Still Losing More! So Happy And Proud Of Myself! Still 5Foot 4 :(
    JustASkinnyDream JustASkinnyDream 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    “Courage Is a Love Affair with the Unknown” ― Osho Best definition of courage I've come across. It is also a defiance of what we fear, since courage requires fear to exist...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Would you believe me if I said I was sorry The question wasn't mean to hurt, It was just my fear of losing you. And now you're filling all the space that surrounds you I'll soon be...
    NeverForgeIt NeverForgeIt 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Honestly - my biggest fear in life
    Dancemomisme Dancemomisme 46-50, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Probably not being good enough thats probably the root of most of my problems..feeling im unlovable not worthy of love..I always wonder why people even like me people im close to...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    how can i move on ? how to deal the pain of losing someone you actually never had? i can't let go but i have to...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    A seasoned witch could call you from the depths of your disgrace, And rearrange your liver to the solid mental grace, And achieve it all with music that came quickly from afar...
    satyr7 satyr7 51-55, M 1 hr ago

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    I have never been in love nor do I want to. I am also a virgin. I use to that girl. That wanted to fall in love ,get married, have a family, be a stay at home mom, and live...
    Ellebella1 Ellebella1 22-25, F Aug 24

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    Good or evil they both have the same thing in common.. Which is fear of death, but I'm a Neutral person I accept death
    nixgreat nixgreat 18-21, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Hate is fear. Fear of goal deprivation. Or fear of losing what was gained.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    I am afraid of love. Love is scary :( i hope someday i will meet someone who will help me overcome that fear :/
    freakycupcake freakycupcake 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    My ex had a gun when I went over to his house. He pointed it straight at me when I walked in. I saw him put one bullet into the revolver. We went upstairs and talked a bit, still...
    JustAnotherPuppet JustAnotherPuppet 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    If any man tells you he loves America, yet hates labor, he is a liar. If any man tells you he trusts America, yet fears labor, he is a fool. -- Abraham Lincoln
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Cut my life into pieces This is my last resort Suffocation No breathing Don't give a **** if I cut my arm, bleeding This is my last resort Cut my life into pieces I've reached my...
    greeneyedmomma greeneyedmomma 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My boyfriend had open heart surgery 3 years ago. 2 years ago he suffered 2 strokes, most likely a complication of the surgery. Since then, I am constantly scared when I can't get...
    saralu923 saralu923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    "Pain makes you stronger. Fear makes you braver. Heartbreak makes you wiser." - Unknown
    FollowMyLead FollowMyLead 31-35, M 3 Responses 46 mins ago

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    Losing a whole year I remember you and me used to spend the whole goddamned day in bed Losing a whole year Lying in your room we'd lay like dogs The phone would ring like a...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I haven`t yet worked out where to place this yet, but it will probably be under "I love my wife", or a site somewhere on these lines. IF you start to read this experience you MUST...
    0utlander 0utlander 56-60, M Aug 9

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    This dumb jam didn't mean a thing Ecstasy, rave is king Fake diamonds shining on a finger And I'm bad for you You stole my soul, or I gave it to you I wish I was a spray can Hey...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M Aug 15

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    Would you believe me if I said I was sorry The question wasn't mean to hurt, It was just my fear of losing you. And now you're filling all the space that surrounds you I'll soon be...
    StandInTheStorm StandInTheStorm 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Replacement, rejection, being forgotten, losing someone you love, seeing someone you love with someone else - I'm currently experiencing these, it's great.
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    As a Man Thinketh Quotes (by James Allen) “The outer conditions of a person's life will always be found to be harmoniously related to his inner state...Men do not attract that...
    TitaniumSkyScraper TitaniumSkyScraper 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    "The Sweetest Thing" by U2 http://youtu.be/5WybiA263bw My love throws me like a rubber ball Oh oh oh, the sweetest thing She won't catch me or break my fall Oh oh oh, the...
    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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