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I Feel Alone a Lot

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    Frustration Sets In..

    I thought that I would be able to shake this...but this feeling of loneliness and alienation is not going away. I am guilty sometimes  because I feel that since I have a great family I should be grateful for that gift and quit complaining...
    lafemmebette lafemmebette 19-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    Too Many Uncountable Moments

    I don't have alot of friends...Or should I say I dont' have a lot that I could call them 'my friends'.  Most of them are co-workers...whom turn a lil close to a certain stage where we have one or two hobbies in common. Apart from them, I hardly got chances to go...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2009

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    Only Child And Both Parents Have Went To Heaven.....what Do I Commit My Life Too!

    Hello everyone that is feeling the same way I do or know how I feel! These holidays are rough for me! This time last year I was a residing at the hospital with my mom battling stomach cancer. I already lost my father 10 years ago and I am the only child! So you can imagine that...
    Ladyb24 Ladyb24 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2012

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    I Feel Alone Alot Because I Am...

    i feel alone alot because i am alot. but then when i go out, i still feel, odd. not quite right. im not meant to be there. that doesnt stop me talking to strangers or whatever, alcohol and drugs can make you rather sociable, but as i speak i think "they must think im a right...
    piggygoff piggygoff 21-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2007

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    Feeling Lonely

     I was born without any phyical/mental disabilities *as far as i know*. and yet I am unbelievably shy and overthink things to a point where i ball up and hyperventilate for a hour.  i was/am a latchkey kid. parents would come and pick me up from school and after...
    aznboy aznboy 16-17 3 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    Help

    I started off with many friends, or i just thought that because i was still young and nothing really mattered then. But now I have no friends. I have always had three group of friends: my fake friends, my true friends, and my best friend. For some reason I always picked my fake...
    unknown1230 unknown1230 16-17 1 Response Feb 18, 2012

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    Very Empty

    i do feel alone alot ... sometimes i just feel empty, like there is a space that needs to be filled ...i espechillay get lonley when im around friends and they are with their b/fs or g/fs it hurts being a lone ,,, i dont want to feel empty, or alone anymore :(
    daydreamer25 daydreamer25 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I Need Someone To Talk To....i Need...a Friend.

    Alright…there’s something I need to get out. If you wanna add effect listen to the song Alone in this bed by framing hanley. I just don’t know what to do. I’ve never been so unhappy in my life…like really. I don’t know what to do anymore…like I can’t even put into...
    collegekid913 collegekid913 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    Almost Always

    Even when I am around people no one really takes the time or really cares to get to know me through and through... they are always just too concerned with themselves.
    Xeno Xeno 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2007

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    being tg i am not mainstream i dont hide

    it and i dont advertise it unless you class going out dressed in female clothes that is but it still makes me feel alone im glad i enjoy my oen company otherwise shopping would never be such fun
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Jan 15

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    Romantically

    Not friendship-wise! I have more friends than I would ever need on EP, plus three very close and special ones: Philip, Sharon, and Momo. So, I'm not lonely there. :-) I am lonely romantically... I just want to curl-up with someone. No, I am lonely, NOT desperate, so STAY...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 21, 2009

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    Lonely Old Soul

    Nothing like being in a sea of people and being alone. It has been made worse by my wife (really! I thought we were best friends when we married then she changed). My wife drove off my small circle of friends. Small because I prize quality over mutitudes. I had bolth male and...
    jharr1968 jharr1968 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I Don't Really Have Anyone

    I've just recently broke up with someone I was with for 5 years. He was the only person I spend time with. The days I was not with him I would be online watching movies or just fooling around. Throughout the 5 years he cheated on me and I stayed because I loved him but I found...
    CasieK CasieK 22-25 6 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    Alone A Lot

    Alone a lot,I used to feel this way,No more,Now I have support,Friends,A network of my own,I used to wonder,Would it ever happen?Would I have friends?Wonder need I no more.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2011

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    Alone 24/7

    I am very much a people person and for about the past year my lifestyle has dramatically changed. I found true love and moved across country to be with him. I knew it would be hard, but figured it would get easier. My husband works 7 days a week, and I am unable to get work due...
    Greeneyesofwonder Greeneyesofwonder 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    It's Not That I Don't Have Friends . . .

    But I don't have a lot of them. And my best friend is moving to GERMANY! in a couple weeks. Not just another town, not just another state . . . but Germany . . . She was one of the only people who really wanted to listen to me, and who cared about my life. Being the most popular...
    LonelySoul LonelySoul 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18, 2007

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    Missing the One I Love

     I know I should be happy, but right now I'm not, I guess the reason is, I miss my mother and sister's, I wish I could talk to them about some things that are hurting me, but I can't they have their own problems and I don't want to add to mine, I keep alot bottled in...
    angelsheart angelsheart 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2007

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    Sigh.

    i'm still young, like 17, still in highshool. and i feel alone. i am one of the popular girls in school. this year, i have the same friends but it's different because i can relate less, and that the boys i like hurt me a lot, esp. nowadays. i've been hurt so badly before. i...
    ahks08 ahks08 16-17 2 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Feel So Alone

    I have felt alone ever since my boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. I cry and scream everyday and night for him to come back because of how heartbroken and sad and alone i now feel. When we were together we were very happy i had many friends a family who really cared and the...
    lylkitkat lylkitkat 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    Lonelyness

    I fell lonly right now because i was just turned down by my only crush and i dont think i can find anyone else that i might like in my whole life.
    Death Death 16-18, M 3 Responses Apr 9, 2007

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    In My Own World

    To be honest, no one can ever tell if I'm upset. It doesn't matter how many people are around I'm always imside my own head. I zone out a lot and go on for long periods of time just thinking about things I would never want to discuss with another person. I usually just stay in my...
    Dancedancedance Dancedancedance 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    Unfortunately,

    I do feel alone alt. It is strange how you can feel alone when there are tons of people around. I can be with my friends and still feel this way. Sometimes it is because I miss someone and sometimes it is just that kind of day. I hate that feeling.
    Percheron Percheron 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Painfully Alone .

    Okay so I need a way to vent, I haven't been on for a while but it here it goes. This month has been the worst for me . The guy I lost my virginity to stopped talking for no absolute reason and the guy that I felt so strongly for isn't even my friend anymore. All the guys that I...
    dancerx3 dancerx3 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2011

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    Wishful And Hopeless

    I am so alone as I am isolated and unable to get around easily. I am very unique and people don't/won't believe me. With every passing day, hope continues to diminish.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Lonely

    i get lonely all the time even if am to work or my kids are around like no one really gets me. like theres a hole that no one can fill like am alone an can only hear my breath
    annagibson48 annagibson48 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I Do Because of My Moods, M...

    I do because of my moods, mostly.  The things going on in my life right now has me feeling that I have nobody.  Damn it!  That's just not true!  I have my children.  Especially my youngest daughter.  (she lives back at home, now)  She knows what...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2007

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    Idk. Alone And In Need Of Advice

    I feel alone. Being alone makes me depressed. Being with someone is like an un-achievable goal. I know I'm a good person. I know I have faults. I'm in a new area where I do not know anyone. I don't know how to meet other people. I never had the personality where I can just walk...
    iamnotcreative iamnotcreative 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Alone

    no friends to talk to, no job, no friendly neighbors, no pet, no lover, not even an online friend. but i never minded being alone. solitude was comforting for me. but recently i started thinking, who would come to my funeral if i died? would i die not knowing what sex feels like...
    clockticker clockticker 22-25 1 Response Sep 7, 2012

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    There's No Winning With Me.

    I hate being alone. It makes me depressed. But when I'm around people, I want to be alone. People stress me out but I feel like I need them. I'm so confused.
    TwigTheWonderKid TwigTheWonderKid 16-17, F Aug 4, 2012

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    Life Turn

    you know how to tell my sad story, i am so lonely and depressed about an year ago i just wonna say to dear friends about my whole life and how i gonna lonely in life my childhood gone modrate i have better life in childhood but another part is my parent they fight each other...
    yash95 yash95 18-21, M May 15, 2013

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    Why Do I Feel So Alone?

    I am a mother, wife, daughter & sister. I have family and my kids around my. Why do I feel like I am doing this thing called life on my own? I am a Christian, I know God is with me I just can't feel Him half of the time. My relationship with my husband is not good. I feel...
    why78 why78 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 15, 2007

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    I Don't Feel Alone a Lot I...

    I don't feel alone a lot I am alone alot.  I get home from work at 3pm and my husband gets home at 9pm.  Most of the time I don't mind because I do enjoy my private time.  I can read, work on some art or crafts, play games on the computer, take a nap or do some...
    raybay53 raybay53 51-55, F Jul 7, 2007

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    Very Lonely

    It is the same feeling everyday.  I wake up having to make myself get out of bed everyday...I am almost 30 and STILL living with my parents.  I have destroyed almost every relationship in my life and the feeling of loneliness has proven way too much for me to handle...
    nalamichelle nalamichelle 16-18, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2007

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    Eyes

    I want to look deep into those mysterious dark eyes, eyes that reflect that way you truly feel, eyes that hint a story of your past, the loneliness and the hope you once had, eyes longing to find the truth, eyes missing those intimate encounters, eyes hungry to discover more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    I've always felt like an outsider even when I'm with my close friends or family. I feel like I never fit in which leads to me always dealing with this constant state of lonely that...
    sfortzallie18 sfortzallie18 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I feel alone and am alone. I can't feel the presence of the people around me anymore, it's like no matter how many people is around me. I still feel alone. I tried telling but they...
    xxrara xxrara 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Sometimes I feel so alone, I know I shouldnt really say this because I'm still 16 but... I've never had a boyfriend at all, well maybe you'd think that my physical appearance is...
    yayeuh123 yayeuh123 16-17, F Mar 24

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    I seriously dont like this feeling. I ALWAYS feel alone. People will always be telling me tht im not alone but i dnt listen. At the end im always alone nd this feeling hurts me...
    wolfbeliever wolfbeliever 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    I realize how the concept of 'liking' on Facebook is directly related to a desire to be accepted but there's an opposite of liking without a button- the informal name is 'trolling...
    TomorrowIsNew TomorrowIsNew 41-45 Apr 4

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    Sometimes I have no one to talk to and I'm always alone most of the time which is normal to me. I don't like being alone all the time, I like it when people talk to me, but...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I want to be alone, not feel alone
    skyleryounger skyleryounger 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I feel like no one really cares... I have friends, family and a boyfriend but I still feel alone sometimes. I wish it was like the movies and you phone someone, tell them you feel...
    OverThinker123 OverThinker123 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Just like the title says, I feel alone in my marriage. I don't know how we got to this point, I don't know where we go from here.We fight soooo much its like a routine now. I don't...
    Marie40106 Marie40106 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I feel alone like if I went away forever then they might notice then I talk no one hears me or I speak to talk to myself I feel this way everyday what to do ?
    Lovewitholeheart Lovewitholeheart 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    People everywhere. I hear greetings of Happy Birthday to my nephew. Everyone seems happy and alive. Why do i feel this way? Why do i feel alone when i'm not.
    elel110993 elel110993 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I feel alone when I'm not. I know I'm not but I just do... I've been single for a year and 2 months. Yes if does get lonely and hurts sometimes,but I work at my job and workout and...
    cameron20 cameron20 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I know I'm not, I have friends, family, etc. But I can't help still feeling alone. I just hate this feeling, having so many good friends but no one I can be with.
    FierceArk FierceArk 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    My few friends say they care for me, but do they really? My cutting habitat started again and they don't even care. My parents don't want me to contact them and I just feel alone...
    annie760 annie760 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Hello to anyone who would read this... I am married and I would say happily. I've got 5 beautiful children. One is married and four live with me at home. My wife is as beautiful...
    Spanishfantasy Spanishfantasy 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just a heads up. I don't want to talk to men and I like women, so if you are a bisexual woman or lesbian, that would make things a little easier. But if you aren't, that is fine to...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I am 22 years old and I have no idea what it's like to be in a romantic relationship with someone. I've never dated, held hands, or kissed anyone in that way. I've been interested...
    Najjap Najjap 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    BRUNO MARS LYRICS "Talking To The Moon" I know you're somewhere out there Somewhere far away I want you back I want you back My neighbors think I'm crazy But they don't...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I no longer live with my mom. My dad is in jail. My grandparents are someplace else.. I'm alone. I no longer have a girlfriend, I don't really go out, and I'm just.. Depressed...
    Budd11 Budd11 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    You know that feeling.. when you have friends, but you don't really feel that close to them. When you're constantly surrounded by people but feel more alone than ever? It's how i...
    Orsoeus Orsoeus 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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