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I Feel Alone In My Marriage

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    We recently had a baby about 5 weeks ago and in these 5 weeks my husband has only helped I would say a total of 1 week all together. I feel so alone taking care of our child and...
    URLOVED4EVA URLOVED4EVA 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I Am Happier When She's Away... - when she leaves the sun comes out, the sky is blue and the birds begin to sing once again, the breeze blows cool and refreshing and the flowers...
    SleepingTiger SleepingTiger 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 30, 2011

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    It's Life ... I Guess - You grow up, you met someone. You grow together and then ... you grow apart. My fault. Well, no. It's really nobody's fault. It's life, I think. People...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2008

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    Too Complicated To Leave, Too Painful To Stay. - People think that leaving a marriage is the answer, but when you lose your retirement, your health insurance and everything you...
    DontTakeLess DontTakeLess 56-60, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Abandoned.... - Well... my marriage is not yet over but seems to be getting there. My wife is in A.A. and now she spends like.... 5 or 6 hours at least going to meetings and...
    dogma5000 dogma5000 36-40 4 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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    I Feel Alone - I cant say when it happened exactly but there are definite times I feel like I live alone in my house. Isn't there a song called separate lives? like we live the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 13, 2008

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    I Wonder When I First Felt It - There are no kids and we can both be somewhat private people who need some time and some space. That being said I didn't expect to be replaced by...
    Shad0whawk Shad0whawk 36-40, M Oct 23, 2011

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    Wonder Why Sometimes - We've been together for a long time now.  We have surpassed so many hurdles that have broken many a marriage.  But we are slipping back into the...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 1 Response Dec 2, 2009

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    Feeling Alone - my husband and i have been married less than a year.  we have been together a total of 4.5 yrs.  it has always been a rocky relationship, we have been...
    sadinma sadinma 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    Second Time, Second Mistake? - I am on my second marriage. Next month will be our four year anniversary. Yet, I feel like we have more bad days than good days. Or at least, I find...
    wlynn2u wlynn2u 46-50 Apr 28, 2012

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    What Is the Point, Really? - An acquaintance told me today "For someone who's supposed to be in the partnership of marriage, you are incredibly alone".  That REALLY...
    Lizzy22 Lizzy22 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2008

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    Not Much Fun. Nothing To Talk About. - I deeply love my husband,im very attracted to him.But he never has any intrest in talking about things,anything. He doesnt express feelings...
    lalaspiritjr lalaspiritjr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    I Feel So Alone - I have been married for 6 years and I feel so alone .if he isn't at work he is on the internet looking at adult sites and personal ads. We don't talk we don't...
    allitalianlady allitalianlady 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Alone - What went wrong?  I am alone and I don't have the answers.  My husband has cheated on me with prostitutes and I tried to forgive.  Truth is, I don't forgive...
    sacs sacs 31-35 1 Response May 2, 2009

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    Just like the title says, I feel alone in my marriage. I don't know how we got to this point, I don't know where we go from here.We fight soooo much its like a routine now. I don't...
    Marie40106 Marie40106 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    50/50 - Relationships need to be equally fulfilling to both parntners. At certain instances I feel my needs are not being met. Emotionally or physically. I know we are going...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    Sometimes..well most of the time I feel alone, even though Im in a very serious relationship I still feel alone. I feel like I have no one or anyone to run and talk to about what I...
    trulyblessed90 trulyblessed90 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Sometimes I have no one to talk to and I'm always alone most of the time which is normal to me. I don't like being alone all the time, I like it when people talk to me, but...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want to be alone, not feel alone
    skyleryounger skyleryounger 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I feel like no one really cares... I have friends, family and a boyfriend but I still feel alone sometimes. I wish it was like the movies and you phone someone, tell them you feel...
    OverThinker123 OverThinker123 18-21, F Mar 21

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    My few friends say they care for me, but do they really? My cutting habitat started again and they don't even care. My parents don't want me to contact them and I just feel alone...
    annie760 annie760 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I feel alone like if I went away forever then they might notice then I talk no one hears me or I speak to talk to myself I feel this way everyday what to do ?
    Lovewitholeheart Lovewitholeheart 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    People everywhere. I hear greetings of Happy Birthday to my nephew. Everyone seems happy and alive. Why do i feel this way? Why do i feel alone when i'm not.
    elel110993 elel110993 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I feel alone when I'm not. I know I'm not but I just do... I've been single for a year and 2 months. Yes if does get lonely and hurts sometimes,but I work at my job and workout and...
    cameron20 cameron20 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I know I'm not, I have friends, family, etc. But I can't help still feeling alone. I just hate this feeling, having so many good friends but no one I can be with.
    FierceArk FierceArk 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Hello to anyone who would read this... I am married and I would say happily. I've got 5 beautiful children. One is married and four live with me at home. My wife is as beautiful...
    Spanishfantasy Spanishfantasy 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    So I've finally come to accept that I don't care about forming any kind of relationship or keeping them with anyone new. People have come and gone I simply don't care anymore. Most...
    fuqlife fuqlife 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I am 22 years old and I have no idea what it's like to be in a romantic relationship with someone. I've never dated, held hands, or kissed anyone in that way. I've been interested...
    Najjap Najjap 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    BRUNO MARS LYRICS "Talking To The Moon" I know you're somewhere out there Somewhere far away I want you back I want you back My neighbors think I'm crazy But they don't...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I'm glad I'm not the only person who feels this way.. lately I just feel so alone. even if I'm in a crowd of people I feel like nobody is there. it's a terrible feeling. not only...
    michellemay michellemay 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I no longer live with my mom. My dad is in jail. My grandparents are someplace else.. I'm alone. I no longer have a girlfriend, I don't really go out, and I'm just.. Depressed...
    Budd11 Budd11 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    You know that feeling.. when you have friends, but you don't really feel that close to them. When you're constantly surrounded by people but feel more alone than ever? It's how i...
    Orsoeus Orsoeus 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Alone yet again. I shouldn't be surprised i thought he'd change...only he was worst now yet again h he's gone. He was neverreally there anyway always chasing a feeling. Guess i...
    missy5414 missy5414 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I feel so alone.....even though I have friends....... I feel tired.....even though I'm not that sleepy..... I feel hungry....... But I don't want to eat..... I don't care anymore...
    atleastme007 atleastme007 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    It's strange, you can be in an intimate situation eg cuddling and still feel completely alone. It comes down to the other person not picking up on the fact that you're not really...
    emmysauraus emmysauraus 16-17, F Apr 3

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    I have read many many posts about lonliness here. many that just fail to make sense to me, why ? because of age and most likely because theres a sense of beauty from those that...
    Jad88 Jad88 56-60 1 Response Apr 5

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    oh no. i suffer from body dysmorphia and today is a really bad day. i saw myself in the fitting room mirror and wanted to die. i am so disgusting, why do i even bother. How can...
    GreyDaze GreyDaze 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel so alone, and nothing is going right for me. I just feel like nobody cares.
    foolishlylovingthee foolishlylovingthee 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I am alone- My bed is cold, I wish I had someone. The rooms is also cold. Maybe I'm not alone? Maybe I have some sort of presence with me. Who knows.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I feel so alone a lot of the time. Sometimes I enjoy it, most of the time I don't. My anxiety gets in the way and I occasionally accidently freak out and people leave. I just want...
    babybunny26 babybunny26 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I will be leaving my family in the morning. This is the hardest thing I will ever have to do. But at this time I feel that it is necessary. I wish I could just find someone to...
    Somethingelsetotry Somethingelsetotry 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I have these great friends...yet I just feel so alone all the time..
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Why must everyone leave and I care. I'm so alone. The things it takes for people to keep me in their lives i just can't understand. I feel fear, pain, and like I'm a failure. I...
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Feeling so sad and alone.... :c damn worst combination of feelings 💔
    infinitedreams infinitedreams 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    My bestfriend left me for a couple of girls who she used to hate, and now I have no on a lot of people at uni just ignore me now as I never had much to do with anyone else when I...
    rememberme2000 rememberme2000 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Havent had any sexual contact with my partner in three weeks now_ i hate feeling this alone, i hate feeling this unloved... No point in talking to her about it as she doesn't seem...
    Billy98765432 Billy98765432 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i've always been there for every1...but wen it comes to me...i am all alone :'( #whygod?
    princess5na princess5na 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25