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I Feel Angry and Bitter Sometimes

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    I'm angry all the time recently.

    Mainly at my husband but sometimes my mother. The main issue is my husband won't have a child with me and I'm upset about it. Another thing is his sister is staying with us right now and it seems like every little thing she asks for he does. I actually don't mind her being here...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Reminiscing On Drunken Dad

    He used to drink a lot. I remember once, he had gotten absolutely pissed out of his face down town. He was vile to his girlfriend so she went home and left us with him. I must have been about 8 at the most and I was petrified. Me and my eldest brother didn't get on but I couldn't...
    mixedupmess mixedupmess 18-21, F May 7, 2012

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    This Is a Promise.

    I am going through a divorce and my ex has our son who is 16 months old. When I had my son I went ahead and had my tubes tied because HE didn't want any more children. Now I feel like he has stolen my baby from me AND left me barren and unable to have any more. If there ever...
    ReddBrown ReddBrown 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    Am I Too Cynical?

    I was joking with someone via email about how cynical I've become lately, and he told me I shouldn't be a cynic at such a young age. And it depresses me, but I kind of am. Everything annoys me. I can't stand that. I literally find a flaw in almost everyone I meet. And obviously...
    laurenlikespie laurenlikespie 22-25, F Jan 23, 2012

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    I wish I wasn't so angry all the time.

    I'm jealous and envious of a lot of people. Always looking for the things they have and I don't.... I regularly feel out of place in this world, like I don't belong anywhere.
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Feeling Normalish!

    This week so far has been a great week!!! Really controlling my BPD outbursts well, Ethan still reading his BPD books and finding them useful but techniques so alien to him! Luckily he hasnt had to use them much. Self harm still happening, probably more than normal because I...
    Irishborderline Irishborderline 31-35 Mar 15, 2012

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    It All Happened At Once- Celebration Meets Tragedy

    It had been almost two years of seeing each other.  Our kids love each other, between the two of us we have four.  The beginning of our relationship was akward.  Afterall, we both lived with the scars of previous marriages to hard drug addicts turned deadbeat...
    WhatMattersCannotBeSeen WhatMattersCannotBeSeen 31-35, F 3 Responses May 31, 2009

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    Learning To Control My Anger

    Life these days can make anyone angry. People work long hours, then commute through terrible traffic to households in disarray. Even seemingly easy lives, good paying jobs,happy familes, pull peopleinto many directions. Merely getting kids to sports games, or surviving change in...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2012

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    This is normal so I shouldn't feel

    so intimidated right ^_^' It's normal for people to feel bitter and angry Hopeless and helpless Sad and alone Confused and afraid But I can't stand how afraid I am for myself sometimes to me that pretty 'disgusting' That's probably not the right word :}/ I don't have much...
    SquirrellyGal2493 SquirrellyGal2493 18-21 May 19

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    I'm driving myself insane.

    I don't want to be angry and bitter. But lately I'm a little touchy. One wrong move from someone I'm snapping like a snapping turtle. I just feel so aggravated and stress. I'm tired and worried. Almost losing another grandmother is hard to deal with. Even though she is doing...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16

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    YBlah YBlah 41-45 Dec 7, 2012

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    Bitter To The Ones I Love The Most..

    Due to the fact that I have issues with feeling neglected by my loved ones, it transforms me into this bitter monster sometimes. I lose control in a way, my anger heats up in me and it leaches onto me with a tight grasp; exposing the worst side of me. I hold on to things and it...
    Ohheyitzsimmy Ohheyitzsimmy 18-21, F May 22, 2013

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    I'm So Closed.

    I don't even know how to start. It's like I need to talk about these things so much, but I can't burden the people I know and love with what I'm dealing with in my head. They don't want to know, and they either don't care or are consumed with themselves. I used to be so positive...
    laurenlikespie laurenlikespie 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2011

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    Bittersweet Truths

    I've never considered myself a writer before, but I believe I have a witty outlook on life that others find humorous so feel free to let me know how much of a failure you really think this is. Basically I stumbled upon this site while looking for a more healthy outlet than...
    gingerbread13 gingerbread13 18-21, F Nov 28, 2011

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    I get really angry at things especially other

    women. I know it comes from being abused as a teenager. I look at these women who act like a tease to men n think I was never like that; why weren't they sexually abused instead of me it wouldn't affect them. Like the other day when my boyfriend liked a picture of girl who was...
    Tillnow Tillnow 26-30, F Feb 9

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    I Try Not To, But Yes I Do

    Bitterness has a way of taking you by surprise.  You'll be walking through life quite happily and quite calmly - then out of nowhere you will suddenly be in a bad mood, and something you say will have such a bitter tone to it.  Or if some random person is rude to you...
    Opalgem Opalgem 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    ...like At Present.

    I sometimes feel, though I am only 17, that my life is going to waste. I'm one of those people who thinks they're never good enough, despite the fact they can acheive most things they want to with reasonable amounts of effort. It's really frustrating that I got...
    minksy minksy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2008

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    Sometimes When I Am Bored, All Of A Sudden I Get Very Angry

    I know you probably would say go out and do something. But I live on the south side of a city. I am like 30 miles from downtown. 30 miles. Then I am ashamed of being overweight. Lets not get into the fact, there are girls that walk past me all the time. There is nothing worse...
    chicago54 chicago54 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2010

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    People Lack Conscience

    I don't even know where to begin, but I was slandered.  I only have a vague idea of what happened.  What I can tell you is that EVERY single solitary person I knew withdrew from me.  My "friends" suddenly became "too busy" and refused to take or...
    angbit angbit 46-50 1 Response Aug 24, 2008

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    Angry All The Time

    Lots of being think I'm a sweet angel, trust me I'm far from it. I'm alway mad at the world and pissed off at everyone. I don't even know why so don't even ask me. I always anger my mother and sister and I get in trouble so much for my bitterness and anger. I hate being angry...
    Thatgirl8654 Thatgirl8654 18-21, F Nov 3, 2013

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    I Try Not to Be But Sometimes.....

    I try not to be,but sometimes I let it get the better of me...Normally I'm very levelheaded, but when it comes to some things like my Ex-husband, I get really angry and bitter....he walked out on me and my son 7yrs ago and took everything, I mean everything, he took both cars and...
    keyna keyna 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    It's sad when you realize you aren't

    as important to someone as you thought you were.
    StajTheePoet StajTheePoet 22-25, F May 22

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    I Get Ugly When I Get Angry

    I don't get angry too often, but when I do, I can say some pretty mean things. I don't like that about myself. Although, lately, it seems I get angry more and more often. I used to be so calm and rational, but now I have these mood swings... I don't know what's happening to me...
    ImNotARealPerson ImNotARealPerson 26-30, M Apr 16, 2013

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    I Am Angry At Myself.

    I get so angry sometimes because not matter how I look at it, my life is screwed. It will take all but moving a mountain to get myself back into an environment of peace. I am currently so unhappy in my present relationship, it engulfs me. I am beginning to have mood swings that...
    smilesalot smilesalot 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2007

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    Sick

    I am scared, and I want to stop being afriad..  I have worked my life and shredded myself so others would stop torturing me, and I was wrong.. I destroyed myself.. And now with 25 years of damage, and the continued burden of continual misunderstanding, I am ready for a...
    optimism optimism 31-35 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Little Bit...

    I get so mad when I see people who are uncaring, mean, and selfish get everything they want.   Their bills are all paid, they have money and every comfort they can have.  I just want to be secure, to not have a bunch of debt lurking over me with nothing to show for...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    I live my life between angry

    and numb. I have really good parents now, but I didn't growing up they are completely different people now. My parents didn't protect me from the outside world and I blame them a lot for me getting raped, I just can't help it. How could you let that happen to your own daughter...
    sadiescm13 sadiescm13 16-17, F May 19

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    I Feel Bad About It

    I get angry and bitter when people talk about doing things that I haven't been able to do, or having things that I haven't been able to have. I just want them to shut up. I want to yell at them to keep it to themselves, no one wants to hear about their happiness...
    Trapt Trapt 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 18, 2008

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    Where Did Everyone Go?

    have you ever found yourself picking up the pieces, being the sole support system for someone after all of their so called friends and no account bf's have bitten the dust? that's where i am now and i have to say that i don't much like it. while i love my sister and would do most...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    Dehumanized

    I don't know if I should feel human or not. I can't feel sympathetic towards so many people. So many could be sobbing and I could just stand there and talk to them, pretending like they're not even crying. Just feel dehumanized, Like I don't have a soul. I deserve all the pain I...
    sagesbones sagesbones 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12, 2013

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    It's a lot of the time.

    I hold it in tho, I have to. I blame my step father for the mental issues I'm facing. I hold a lot of anger towards him. I used to just let my anger out. Throw things, break things, scream. It helped. But one day I pushed my sister and she bumped a computer desk. One of my...
    JustThat6irl JustThat6irl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    My Feelings, What I May Or May Not Want - They Don't Matter?!

    I don't know how many of you know my situation, and sometimes I can't even remember what I have written in stories vs. pms vs. comments vs. another ID I have - so bear with me if you feel like you have heard this before or don't understand or whatever! I have been married...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 11 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Its Been a While

    since I've been angry or bitter. My relationship with God changed that. I use to get mad I'd stab the wall or my door with a knife. Get in fights with my brother and take it out on my bratty niece who'd give me crap all the time. Jealousy was definitely an issue and hinderance...
    ladynau ladynau 19-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    Short Fuse

    Sometimes I feel angry because I look at whats going on with me and I hate it. It makes me feel bitter as well.....not having someone in my life as I see a number of a holes and d bag guys getting the good beautiful women. I get angry when Im on the road and I have idiots driving...
    EarthBear2784 EarthBear2784 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    I Just Need to Vent

    People suck. People are worthless and disappointing and terrible and I hate them. I'm learning how to not depend on a single one of them. They're not worth it. Everybody is fake and shitfaced and they can all go to hell.
    googleit googleit 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Sometimes

    Not all the time but sometimes I do find myself feeling bitter...but then I remind myself of how my mum has let bitterness destroy her and I quit it! It doesn't get me anywhere. Usually I am bitter about the things in my past, things that happened that have changed me as a person...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F Dec 2, 2007

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    No Particular Reason

    I can't exactly pinpoint what has caused the fierce emotion of frustration I'm feeling right now.  There are so many things going wrong in my life and so many things that are just perfect.  Perhaps it is the overwhelming realization of responsibility. So much to do, and...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F Jun 29, 2008

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    Pointless

    I am so angry at myself right now.  Why did I think this time would be any different?  I am such an idiot.  To think that I was being so mature, that accepting responsibility made a difference. Now it's all gone to hell, again.  And I'm supposed to get up...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 5 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    I Have Been A Angry Person For A Long Long Time

    I have spoken my anger to GOD and asked god for forgiveness of my anger. its been like a tornado sweeping me up ...its an outside thing like a spirit or devil or maybe gods anger who knows... !!!!!!!!!!!! its like its the Egyptian mummy sdenes in the movies ...an anger wrapping...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2012

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    I dunno why but sometimes I feel

    so angry and irritated and I can't even think of why I feel that way in specific. I don't have a direct reason/cause to feel that way if that makes sense. But sometimes I just have the urge to curse someone out or punch someone! Fml..this is only sometimes though! Is there...
    TheoreticallySpeaking TheoreticallySpeaking 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2013

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    Not Normally..

    I try to be a very loving person. Sometimes, like when I have a bad day, I am the exact oposite of what I usually am. I am usually happy, but I will be depressed. I am usually sort of calm, but I will be really snappy and aggervated. I don't like when I get this way, but it...
    SavedByGrace14 SavedByGrace14 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2008

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    I'm selfish at times :P Then I realize it

    doesn't do me any good. But I still continue to be selfish at times :P
    Fretboard225 Fretboard225 16-17, M Feb 2

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    Even though I do love to view a relationship

    blossom, i cannot help but to feel jealous. Jealous because none of my relationships ever work out and here are two people, kissing and holding hands. It does make me a bit bitter because I so desperately long for a companion in life yet It is like I will never have one Angry...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Like Today!

    I usually prefer carrying a small paper bag to handbag when going to work. On friday wasnt able to get my usual paper bag so i opted to go with my documents' bag (which i have special connection with). Unfortunately, i forgot to carry it home in the evening. Today in the morning...
    Kittysandra Kittysandra 26-30, F Dec 12, 2011

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    I Think Being Sad Was More Healthy Than What Ever This Is

    I left a relationship about a year ago. its taken me all this time to process how just how ****** a relationship it was. i dont even know where to start to state my anger at him. its all just too much and here i am alternating between being spitting mad at one low life who was...
    dancingpigtails dancingpigtails 22-25, F Jun 19, 2012

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    The Bitterness Is Taking Over My Life

       I used to be sweet and everyone always commented on it.Now as of a short while i've changed.Life has changed me.Sure some things were caused by bad decisions like staying with my boyfriend despite all the garbage hes put me thru.Other things like getting told i...
    brok3nhearted brok3nhearted 31-35 4 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    Im always like this and I hate it.

    I just want something to calm me down.
    xtranquility xtranquility 18-21, F Feb 20

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    I Shouldn't Get So Angry.

    Okay, today I was in the lounge. I was mucking around, playing skyrim, plaing on the laptop when my sister comes in, from her room where she was jut on her laptop, and complains to my mum about how I "I shouldn't be on the laptop and the ps3 at the same time". So I'm thinking...
    Bulbasauros Bulbasauros 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    Naivity

    I often think that I would like to be a small child again. Life seemed so much easier back then. And then I think some more.Childhood was only easy because I didn't understand everything that was going on around me, I didn't know any different. So if I say, I wish I was young...
    mixedupmess mixedupmess 18-21, F May 7, 2012

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    Still Angry. . .and Sick of It

    Its been almost a year since one of my closest friends ditched me and made me feel worthless and I'm still mad.  I'm sick of being mad.  I'm sick of getting angry.  I know my anger wont lead to anything or solve anything but I can't help getting mad at her over and...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2009

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    Stop asking if I have a girlfriend,

    that is none of your business. Even if I did had one, I wouldn't go around bragging about it like she's a trophy or something. Just stop asking. >:(
    patrick199 patrick199 16-17, M 1 Response May 22

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    How Could You Do This?

    For the longest time, I denied that my little sister had a problem. I just told myself she was a teenager going through teenage stuff and living the teenage experience. Even through all the drunk nights, pills, experimenting.. I didn't want to believe there was anything wrong. I...
    laurenlikespie laurenlikespie 22-25, F Jan 4, 2012

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    I often feel angry against others for trivial things, specially my boyfriend if he spends time away from me it drives me crazy, or with his friends i don't like them and i want him...
    Ensamflicka Ensamflicka 18-21, F Aug 8

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