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I Feel Betrayed By My Entire Family

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    Family Still In Touch With Abuser

    Hi. This is my story. It deals with issues of sexual abuse, so if this could be triggering for you, please be careful. My maternal grandfather sexually abused me when I was three and four years old. I didn't remember the abuse until I was 24. I came to find out he had abused all...
    sage321 sage321 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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