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I Feel Confused About My Life

Do you feel like your life does not make sence? 329 People

    Will It Ever Change?

    (Sorry if there are language/spelling mistakes in my post - English is not my mother tongue) I feel really embarrassed writing this, at times I think I'm going crazy and have been for a very long time. I have it all figured out for the outside world: I'm a university graduate...
    KittyKatty KittyKatty 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2010

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    what does it make me

    if im depressed sometimes, listen to loud music and wear black clothing? emo?
    LoveNight LoveNight 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Do I Really Have To Change If Im Happy?

    Quick backstory; I'm 27, live with my fiance, have my bachelors in english (instead of education cuz I didn't know I wanted to be a teacher at the time)I work at a school making **** money, but it makes me happier than anything. I thought I wanted to be a teacher but I really don...
    Devilsin Devilsin 26-30 Nov 6, 2012

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    Just Don't Know What To Do...

    I graduated HS 2010, so I've been out of school for a little over a year now. I moved with my parents from Iowa to Colorado last summer after I graduated. Bummed it for 6 months just kinda not feeling like doing anything, until the little money I had saved up ran out. Now I'm...
    Ray1992 Ray1992 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2011

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    What to Do, What to Do.

    Everything seems confusing right now. I don't know where to live, where to work, how to see my daughter. My mom seems to be keeping her from me and doing things to hurt me. Both of my parents seem against me-mean people. Some of my so called friends seem to hate me all of a...
    TranscendentEcstasY TranscendentEcstasY 26-30, F 5 Responses May 2, 2009

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    ..........................

    i'm confused with my life i don't see the point to live i don;t know what i'm supposed to do i live a life thats not mine its a somebody else. why is this world so confusing all about the money to i want to change my life but i'm struggling so much to change it. It's hard to...
    harlindo harlindo 22-25, M Dec 22, 2012

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    ....why Me....

    i am 20 years old and ever since i could remember i have always been skinny.when i say skinny,i mean extra skinny. all my family members are average,i wouldnt say overweight but they are quite big boned..no one at all is skinny. i never thought i was fat or starved myself to...
    divaxox divaxox 18-21 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    I don't know what is going on my life,

    on my head, on my heart, I'm tired of crying, and i can't be crying everytime i got home... I'm stressed,nervous,pressed, and i can't handle all that they're doing... I suppose to have a life with legs, but instead that, I'm having my past life returning again... I'm losing...
    hdias1 hdias1 16-17, M Jan 21

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    Passionless And Without A 'calling'

    So the story goes like this: I went to college for two years pursuing premed like any other Asian kid would do to please the parents. I knew it wasn't for me after the first year because it felt like an uphill battle and I wasn't too keen on reaching the top. So I went to art...
    sayhellnotobs sayhellnotobs 26-30, F Jul 18, 2012

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    I Feel Confused About My Life

    I am at point in my life that I cannot seem to understand. Everything that happens is opposite to my expectations. I do feel uncapable of deciding what to do next. I think that most of the events going on in my life are totally different to who I feel I am. My life is x-axis...
    ariguz ariguz 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    I am afraid I am gonna plunge into another

    depression I feel really alone tonight. I feel hopeless for the first time in a long time. I tried to express to my girlfriend that I felt I was starting to battle a depression. And she said she understood and would try to help, but lately I have felt blown off by her. She...
    dmsummerwind dmsummerwind 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    I been watching too much love movies all day

    long tonight which was usual for me. I felt dead, bored, dull and ashamed. These movies reminded me a lot of my ex who we dated for almost 3 years. Yesterday I sent her a text asking her if she still believes I cheated on her (which I didn't) after playing a troll with my...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    Dont Know Where To Go Anymore, Ive Hit A Wall That I Cant Scale.

    Im not sure how to feel. I love him, im mad at him, he says he loves me but we arent together anymore...its so confusing. I just read a ton of Abuse survivor stories and it made me feel really numb but made me realize that he is just using me (he did not abuse me we just broke up...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Dec 16, 2010

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    Hi everyone, I will try to keep this

    conversation short whilst ensuring I cover all the important elements that has been bothering me for over a year now. So, I graduated last year with a degree in management, and soon after decided to switch to a career in Law. I was all set to start my Law school in January but...
    simplyroo simplyroo 22-25, F Mar 1

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    Pissed At Myself, For Feeling Like This

    Went to bed happy Got up feeling unhappy Feeling confused Nothing seems to amuse Don't use to be like this Now I'm pissed Pissed at myself, for feeling like this What is happening Feeling like this is devastating Am I falling into depression, Loosing my life possession What...
    kemi8698 kemi8698 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    I'M Always So Confused It's Fustrating.

    I feel as though I really don't have a grasp on life like others do. It fustrates me to no end. I'm always so indecisive when it comes to major decisions. I'm not sure if I can follow my own path or be pulled by others. I don't want to be but I can't stand alone, I'm not strong...
    Mesroeman Mesroeman 18-21 May 24, 2013

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    Back to Been Mentaly Stuck

    The issue I seem to struggle with constantly and no into several years; and getting more difficult as I become a young adult, is ever so involved in every decition and action I do. Around February I met a young girl my age(20) that provided my mind an optional idea to think about...
    ariguz ariguz 22-25, M Aug 26, 2009

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    Just Venting

    I feel pretty bummed out school is coming to an end. I feel like I wouldnt know what else to do with myself with out school. The best part of school is the people that i've met..this one guy. He's way older than me but somehow we became good friends and connected over a couple of...
    Allyouneedislove91 Allyouneedislove91 18-21, F Jun 29, 2013

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    Im Confused

    Where to start.... my life feels like a rollercoaster.im confusedI need a cuddleI want a boyfriend that loves meIm sick of feeling lonleyIm sick of not being attracted to anyoneIm feed up of feeling like **** day after dayI dont know how to relate to peopleI feel like an alienI...
    scarlettscar scarlettscar 26-30 Feb 23, 2011

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    Total Confusion

    I know God has a plan for me but I am confused as to what it is. Just when I think I figure it out I end up in a whirlwind of chaos. I know what I want in life but it seems a constant struggle to get it. Maybe I am trying to hard or not hard enough. I don't know. I try to always...
    LostSpace LostSpace 41-45 1 Response Aug 17, 2011

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    Education And Friends!

    My school life was alright because I went to schools where there were deaf people which I can be friends with very quickly and had some hearing friends too so I was pretty happy back then to have both sides the deaf world and hearing world so mixture of people! :) Once I left...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F Mar 12, 2013

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    Every day I have been thinking about moving to

    Florida with part of my family because i have been asked to. I am skeptical because I haven't lived on my own before. I have a job and I'd have to get a new one or transfer. I don't know if there is anything left for me in Indiana. I don't want to move and find out Florida isn't...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Don'T Know Which Direction To Go

    When I was a very young woman I knew exactly what I wanted. I thought I could do anything before I felt the constraints of the world. As I got older my avenues narrowed. In my mid life I can still do almost anything I want as I have no kids or husband. But I dont know which way...
    Fireflower352 Fireflower352 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    It Bafffels Me

    why as a child i had to go through so much.why when i needed people they turned their back.now i can seee all the cold ,carelessness of others.i just clam up.i had so many freinds when i worked.now that i am basicly crippled,i have none.i lived as good as i could but it didn`t...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Apr 29, 2009

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    I Feel

    I get it everyone feels confuse, why? i wish i knew i have so many things i wish i knew yet nothing comes to mind. Is this normal? is this real? how come i didnt know i was confuse when i was a kid? oh yeah thats because i just wasnt. I didnt even know what that word meant or...
    tre3016 tre3016 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    Can You?

    Can you set me free,From the coldness in me,Melt the ice away,Make my heart warm again,Let me feel,Stop me from shutting down,Hiding from the world around me,Hold me tightly,Keep me safe,Make me feel love again. x
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Oct 23, 2013

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    I Am Confused With My Life

    I dont know what has been happening to me lately.  when i was in highschool i thought i had my whole life thoughtout and now it is like i made a mistake with my choice.  i have decided to go to an art school to become a special effects artist and i was so settled...
    ConfusedTime ConfusedTime 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2010

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    It makes me sad to see how people live their lives being walked all over. How they force themselves over and over to try again to make something work. Even though in the back of...
    comfortdistortion comfortdistortion 18-21, F Apr 9

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    viicky77 viicky77 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
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    Simple4me Simple4me 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
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