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I Feel Confused About My Life

Do you feel like your life does not make sence? 382 People

    I Feel Confused

    I feel confused,Why are we here?So many mixed messages,Confusing,I often wander,Why are we here?
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M Sep 10, 2011

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    Hi everyone, I will try to keep this

    conversation short whilst ensuring I cover all the important elements that has been bothering me for over a year now. So, I graduated last year with a degree in management, and soon after decided to switch to a career in Law. I was all set to start my Law school in January but...
    simplyroo simplyroo 22-25, F Mar 1

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    Dont Know Where To Go Anymore, Ive Hit A Wall That I Cant Scale.

    Im not sure how to feel. I love him, im mad at him, he says he loves me but we arent together anymore...its so confusing. I just read a ton of Abuse survivor stories and it made me feel really numb but made me realize that he is just using me (he did not abuse me we just broke up...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Dec 16, 2010

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    I Feel Confused About My Life

    I am at point in my life that I cannot seem to understand. Everything that happens is opposite to my expectations. I do feel uncapable of deciding what to do next. I think that most of the events going on in my life are totally different to who I feel I am. My life is x-axis...
    ariguz ariguz 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Everything is okay in the end.

    If it's not okay, then it's not the end
    Chico071 Chico071 22-25 Jun 2

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    Pissed At Myself, For Feeling Like This

    Went to bed happy Got up feeling unhappy Feeling confused Nothing seems to amuse Don't use to be like this Now I'm pissed Pissed at myself, for feeling like this What is happening Feeling like this is devastating Am I falling into depression, Loosing my life possession What...
    kemi8698 kemi8698 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2012

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    what does it make me

    if im depressed sometimes, listen to loud music and wear black clothing? emo?
    xxDarkSoulsxx xxDarkSoulsxx 13-15, F Apr 19

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    What to Do, What to Do.

    Everything seems confusing right now. I don't know where to live, where to work, how to see my daughter. My mom seems to be keeping her from me and doing things to hurt me. Both of my parents seem against me-mean people. Some of my so called friends seem to hate me all of a...
    TranscendentEcstasY TranscendentEcstasY 26-30, F 5 Responses May 2, 2009

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    I been watching too much love movies all day

    long tonight which was usual for me. I felt dead, bored, dull and ashamed. These movies reminded me a lot of my ex who we dated for almost 3 years. Yesterday I sent her a text asking her if she still believes I cheated on her (which I didn't) after playing a troll with my...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M Apr 19

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    I have recently broken up with my partner

    if 4 years. We shared a life and a business together. She has gone off with one of our clients who is much richer than me and also dissolved our business partnership and left me broken in every way. I am struggling in every way and have very few friends who really understand...
    jezzmagtig jezzmagtig 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm feeling tired about my life not moving

    forward. I'm rarely satisfied (if ever) on how things are going for me. My professional career is just a switch-and-bait situation; my last job I worked there for 5 months, just because I partecipated in a course and I had to chance to propose for a working stage for that...
    MrC88 MrC88 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    My boyfriend moved away

    for a job and to be near family. He never broke up with me. He calls and he won't tell me to move on. I really love him. He seemed upset about going away; and claimed financial duress. I miss him and am very sad and alone. I don't know how to move on or if I should or can or...
    Hummingbirdgirl Hummingbirdgirl 31-35, F Apr 20

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    Just Venting

    I feel pretty bummed out school is coming to an end. I feel like I wouldnt know what else to do with myself with out school. The best part of school is the people that i've met..this one guy. He's way older than me but somehow we became good friends and connected over a couple of...
    Allyouneedislove91 Allyouneedislove91 18-21, F Jun 29, 2013

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    I Feel

    I get it everyone feels confuse, why? i wish i knew i have so many things i wish i knew yet nothing comes to mind. Is this normal? is this real? how come i didnt know i was confuse when i was a kid? oh yeah thats because i just wasnt. I didnt even know what that word meant or...
    tre3016 tre3016 18-21 1 Response Apr 16, 2012

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    I don't know what is going on my life,

    on my head, on my heart, I'm tired of crying, and i can't be crying everytime i got home... I'm stressed,nervous,pressed, and i can't handle all that they're doing... I suppose to have a life with legs, but instead that, I'm having my past life returning again... I'm losing...
    hdias1 hdias1 18-21, M Jan 21

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    I think I have literally been through a series

    of unfortunate events. Recently I have started to be able to recall them so I figured I might as well share them. When I was in pre-school, there were days that instead of socializing, I hid under the tables. In elementary school the school bully came over, Jake, with one of...
    saraheve434 saraheve434 22-25, F Jul 13

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    One moment I want to die

    and say **** the world but at the same time I feel like something is holding me back..like I'm going to miss out on something. FML
    jordinv jordinv 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Total Confusion

    I know God has a plan for me but I am confused as to what it is. Just when I think I figure it out I end up in a whirlwind of chaos. I know what I want in life but it seems a constant struggle to get it. Maybe I am trying to hard or not hard enough. I don't know. I try to always...
    LostSpace LostSpace 41-45 1 Response Aug 17, 2011

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    Every day I have been thinking about moving to

    Florida with part of my family because i have been asked to. I am skeptical because I haven't lived on my own before. I have a job and I'd have to get a new one or transfer. I don't know if there is anything left for me in Indiana. I don't want to move and find out Florida isn't...
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    It Bafffels Me

    why as a child i had to go through so much.why when i needed people they turned their back.now i can seee all the cold ,carelessness of others.i just clam up.i had so many freinds when i worked.now that i am basicly crippled,i have none.i lived as good as i could but it didn`t...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Apr 29, 2009

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    I Dont Know What To Do

    :( Just feeling confused in a fatigue never knowing what to say or do just depressed i guess
    yolo66 yolo66 22-25, F Aug 9, 2013

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    I Am Confused With My Life

    I dont know what has been happening to me lately.  when i was in highschool i thought i had my whole life thoughtout and now it is like i made a mistake with my choice.  i have decided to go to an art school to become a special effects artist and i was so settled...
    ConfusedTime ConfusedTime 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2010

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    Don'T Know Which Direction To Go

    When I was a very young woman I knew exactly what I wanted. I thought I could do anything before I felt the constraints of the world. As I got older my avenues narrowed. In my mid life I can still do almost anything I want as I have no kids or husband. But I dont know which way...
    Fireflower352 Fireflower352 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    Passionless And Without A 'calling'

    So the story goes like this: I went to college for two years pursuing premed like any other Asian kid would do to please the parents. I knew it wasn't for me after the first year because it felt like an uphill battle and I wasn't too keen on reaching the top. So I went to art...
    sayhellnotobs sayhellnotobs 26-30, F Jul 18, 2012

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    Back to Been Mentaly Stuck

    The issue I seem to struggle with constantly and no into several years; and getting more difficult as I become a young adult, is ever so involved in every decition and action I do. Around February I met a young girl my age(20) that provided my mind an optional idea to think about...
    ariguz ariguz 22-25, M Aug 26, 2009

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    Im Confused

    Where to start.... my life feels like a rollercoaster.im confusedI need a cuddleI want a boyfriend that loves meIm sick of feeling lonleyIm sick of not being attracted to anyoneIm feed up of feeling like **** day after dayI dont know how to relate to peopleI feel like an alienI...
    scarlettscar scarlettscar 26-30 Feb 23, 2011

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    I've always felt that everyone around me has a

    road they are meant to follow and know exactly what they want out of life. But I don't. Everyone says to do whatever makes you happy, but how can you be happy when what will make you happy will hurt so many people? How can I do what makes me happy without support? I know...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    ..........................

    i'm confused with my life i don't see the point to live i don;t know what i'm supposed to do i live a life thats not mine its a somebody else. why is this world so confusing all about the money to i want to change my life but i'm struggling so much to change it. It's hard to...
    harlindo harlindo 22-25, M Dec 22, 2012

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    If You Could See Me

    if you could see menakedbarevulnerableyou'd realize that i'm not attractive.if you could see me with no makeup on, nothing onyou'd realize i'm not prettyor beautifulor gorgeousor perfector whatever the **** else you want to call meno,i'm definitely ******* not.if you could meif...
    jesuswasalover jesuswasalover 13-15, F Nov 15, 2011

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    I'm so confused and I wanna scream

    because I swear yesterday I was second guessing our relationship and now I don't second guess it at all but now I'm second guessing not second guessing and then I think back to my ex and I wish I could talk to him and just idk I'm starting a new school and a new life but I'm so...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 5

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    Just Don't Know What To Do...

    I graduated HS 2010, so I've been out of school for a little over a year now. I moved with my parents from Iowa to Colorado last summer after I graduated. Bummed it for 6 months just kinda not feeling like doing anything, until the little money I had saved up ran out. Now I'm...
    Ray1992 Ray1992 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2011

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    Attitudes

     one minute i am yelled at and told that i dont do enough work and how if she had a little more cooperation from me then everything would run smoothly, the next your crying and saying i do to much work and saying comments that dont help anyone it just makes people despise...
    ladybuggirl27 ladybuggirl27 13-15, F Jun 15, 2009

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    ....why Me....

    i am 20 years old and ever since i could remember i have always been skinny.when i say skinny,i mean extra skinny. all my family members are average,i wouldnt say overweight but they are quite big boned..no one at all is skinny. i never thought i was fat or starved myself to...
    divaxox divaxox 18-21 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Will It Ever Change?

    (Sorry if there are language/spelling mistakes in my post - English is not my mother tongue) I feel really embarrassed writing this, at times I think I'm going crazy and have been for a very long time. I have it all figured out for the outside world: I'm a university graduate...
    KittyKatty KittyKatty 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2010

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    Do I Really Have To Change If Im Happy?

    Quick backstory; I'm 27, live with my fiance, have my bachelors in english (instead of education cuz I didn't know I wanted to be a teacher at the time)I work at a school making **** money, but it makes me happier than anything. I thought I wanted to be a teacher but I really don...
    Devilsin Devilsin 26-30 Nov 6, 2012

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    Education And Friends!

    My school life was alright because I went to schools where there were deaf people which I can be friends with very quickly and had some hearing friends too so I was pretty happy back then to have both sides the deaf world and hearing world so mixture of people! :) Once I left...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Mar 12, 2013

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    I'M Always So Confused It's Fustrating.

    I feel as though I really don't have a grasp on life like others do. It fustrates me to no end. I'm always so indecisive when it comes to major decisions. I'm not sure if I can follow my own path or be pulled by others. I don't want to be but I can't stand alone, I'm not strong...
    Mesroeman Mesroeman 18-21 May 24, 2013

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    It's just hormones... right? That's what i'm always telling myself but im bloody 18 years old and i'm losing my mind. It's the old cliche that no one undestands me and heck to be...
    Yomarion Yomarion 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Have you ever realized how you can think and think and think about what life's about; but everytime you feel close to understanding what the secret is behind life: God throws a...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F Jul 9

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    So a guy I liked used me for sex and lost my virginity to him now he doesn't care. There's another guy who likes me and he cares but I'm not sure I feel that way for him and I'm...
    bingerprincess bingerprincess 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I cheated on my husband. I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    Yesterday I was talking on the phone with a friend and he said that nobody liked him, I said, "I like you" and then he said, yea but you're my friend. Son i had to ask. Why is that...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F Jun 24

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    I cheated on my husband, and I am currently pregnant, but I don't know if the baby is his or the other man's. The other man is a former friend of high school, who happens to have...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I don't want to keep being punished for the pain I've gone through and had no control over in my past
    DeLos1985 DeLos1985 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Does anyone else have this problem. Whenever I'm going somewhere like for example shopping I always need to find a quick way out for example I will make sure I look at earlier...
    imafuckingmess imafuckingmess 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Oops i did it again!! 😂😂 lol i have to laugh at myself cause i have no control over this personality anymore... She comes and she does what she does and shes good at it too...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I've never been so confused about my feelings. I started seeing this guy about 2 months ago & he is the most genuine person I've ever met. I've never had someone care for me so...
    LeeC91 LeeC91 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    At least I think I am. I'm almost confused about being confused... I don't know if you can even call this a normal relationship but it sure makes a big impact on me and that counts...
    emilyymariee emilyymariee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I'm not confused about whether I'm in a relationship, I am, but I'm confused about where things will go. In 2 months he'll be moving out of the country, going abroad to study with...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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