I Feel Deeply and Often Get Hurt Because of It

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    A person who is ruled by the heart sometimes

    can find true love and live a fairytale life. Most often this fool ends up in pain. Once in a while, the fool gets a glimpse of his own future as played out over and over in his past. He sees where his heard leads. To hellish agony, yet he cannot change his own nature. He...
    Psychasthenia Psychasthenia
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 22

    Fuc,k the liers who say they love you

    but they really don't Fuc,k the pretenders who'll make you believe when nothing true Fuc,k the maniacs who'll do everything to score Fuc,k those best friends who make you fall for them and be shock when you do. They even have the nerve to hug you while your heart is breaking and...
    mysticalexis224 mysticalexis224
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7

    We can talk for hours,

    i am off limits yet we still talk.. You created a spark inside of me.. You were so different to anyone i know.. A deep thinker a romantic.. My soul became drawn to you like a magnet. Turns out.. It was just asian women you are after..not so much me as a person.. God that hurt...
    Forever786 Forever786
    26-30, F
    Feb 27

    I'm confused with the title of this group.

    . It says I feel deeply and often get hurt 'coz of it but I FELL deeply makes more sense to me than feel coz when you say feel deeply, I think there's another word needed to complete it for it to make more sense .,. but I guess feel makes sense too... I don't know if I'm just...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    Mar 16

    I have Ben hurt by my ex.

    I pray that my heart will mend and I'll find love again. For now I giving myself time to heal.
    Crystal39 Crystal39
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I hope the attached picture gives hope to those

    in despair just as I gained some hope from it. Today is the best day I have had for about a month. Today the lady I have been trying so hard to make contact with finally heard my cry. She has contacted me and it appears that she is well. So just a huge thank you to all who...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    I'm done being so miserable.

    Nobody deserves that. Happiness is a choice and I'm choosing it now. You should too. The heck with the people who kick us to the ground and enjoys it. You want to get back right? You want vengeance? Well the best vengeance is for us to be happy. Smiling at their faces with...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 17

    When my girlfriend and I was together she did

    not get along with anyone in my family. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago and not only do I have to deal with a breakup which is killing me inside so bad that I want to die but no one in my family will talk to me for what she's done. Now I have know one to talk to and death...
    Ugene25 Ugene25
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Leaving me was okay. People leave me all the

    time, im used to it. What hurts like hell is when you made me so damn special yesterday, and then make me feel so unwanted today.
    jai09 jai09
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    I'm so tired I'm helping others

    but no one seems to appreciate I feel like a car run out of gasoline!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    And I pretend that I can handle it

    and if I hold my head up, I won't drown Can't let go, you're like the chemical, you're racing through me My heart just pounds, pounds, pounds...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 6, 2015

    It sucks when you care about people

    but they don't care about you as much as you do
    deleted122 deleted122
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 13, 2015

    I have now unblocked him.

    . I tried to be strong and i just want to recover from his toxic love but once again i find myself communicating with him.. **** my life.. 1 step forward and 10 steps back
    PursiutofHappyness PursiutofHappyness
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    I am tired of being disappointed

    and having my heart broken. Why can't people just be honest about who they are and what they really want from you?
    Islndgirl Islndgirl
    36-40, F
    8 Responses May 2, 2015

    And i never learn from experience to not fell

    head to toe in love. Brutal heart much lol
    adelinebeth adelinebeth
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    when they always bully me

    and hack everything i do i my life as if they own me. they coz me to feel inferior and less of a person, i feel depressed and isolated, and feel like there is no one that i trust in this sadistic world that iam living in. iam hurt until now i feel supressed ofmy feelings and...
    bokading bokading
    31-35, F
    Jan 12

    I walked in silence in the shadows A new day

    brimming with promise and hope. I glance up at the symbol of so much dispair A whisper of long forgotten heartache borne upon the spring breeze floated past me like so much smoke from a long extinguished candle. Too much for me to bear Yet the beauty of her sadness the quiet...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 13

    Most people don't understand.

    .. I feel color, strange I know. ..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 17, 2015

    you know what is pain.

    .. ask my life it's can give right answer.
    unknownusername0 unknownusername0
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 16

    I had not to long had a baby

    and a family friend had reached out to me via text message. Just started off as general chitchat. After a few days of communicating I had developed feelings. Maybe I was lonely... I hate that I can become attached to someone just like that. Why did I and why do I, how do I know...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 4

    I wear my heart on my sleeve with everyone,

    people hurt me all the time because I'm too soft. I try not to let it affect me, pretend even to myself that I'm not hurting, I can ignore my feelings but If I look deep down, I feel the pain.
    Lilyandroses Lilyandroses
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 16

    I'm so stupid for believing,

    trusting and giving everything all the time when I fall in love. Now that it's over, I just want to die cos the pain is unbearable.
    IAmDaenerysTargaryen IAmDaenerysTargaryen
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 20

    I am a sensitive soul.

    I have a deep rooted issue of abandonment that makes me selfish and clamoring for someone's time. I feel insecure and jealous that I tend to sabotage relationships even when they're going so well by ending them. I built myself a tower around my heart to protect her, in the end...
    WynterSolstice WynterSolstice
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 26
    Twinkletoejam Twinkletoejam
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    It has been quite a week.

    . A difficult one, here. Shopping for N's stuffs helped my mood a bit, but it was temporary. H cursed at me again last night. And went to punch the bedroom wall. ..For asking to pretend to come in bed for awhile, so N wont be distracted and go to sleep. It won't take long...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 28

    Some things I just can't forget.

    If forgiving is also forgetting, I wish I could just get amnesia. Things hurt so much and kind of linger whether you want them to or not. I'm still able to have fun and enjoy life in a way of course, but I'm not the "me" that I used to be. I miss the simple "me".
    Flower293 Flower293
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    I have never been able to play it "cool.

    " I always worry, and I know I always will. (I feel like if I don't care, who will? This makes me feel like I have the world over my head or on my shoulders.) The thing is it seems like everyone has has a life. . . is doing something while I sit here and wait for them and get...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 4

    Hold fast, while I kiss the wine off your lips.

    Close your eyes and see what I mean. Lean into my intentions and let me sketch your wants. Hold fast, while I kiss the loneliness off your lips.
    HomelessWind HomelessWind
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I had a tough day at work yesterday.

    Here's to hoping today will be better!!!
    Twinkletoejam Twinkletoejam
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    I breathe you in deeply,

    holding wet lips together to keep you close. You casually make yourself at home in my soul, painting over forgotten truths. Your soft laugh quiets me and smiles a knowing smile. I breathe you in deeply, because that's all I have.
    HomelessWind HomelessWind
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2015

    It REALLY makes me angry

    when people, especially those who should know better, mistake my kindness for weakness!!!!
    CurvesandClass CurvesandClass
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Even though I feel deeply

    and continue to get hurt I change who I am. I love hard...it's just who I am and there are much worse characteristics to have.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 5

    I'm hurting. I'm broken.

    I feel alone and helpless. My heart aches so badly I can hardly stand it anymore. I don't know what to do or how to feel better.
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2015
    deleted122 deleted122
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2015

    I do not know how someone can be

    so nice one minute and so cruel the next. I also do not know why their opinion matters so much to me. I guess that is what make me who I am.
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    How to murder someone?

    Tell them you love them and never talk to them again 😩
    Blackisahappycolor Blackisahappycolor
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    I trust. I feel. I love.

    Somewhere along the way I learn about doubts. Inconsistency and some discrepancy triggers it. Even the slightest simplest of things that don't add up can push me to back off and turns into the most negative of thoughts and feelings. I miss those times that I have my full...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 13

    Emotionally exhausted from giving myself wholly

    to people who can only give me half of themselves. The problem with these relationships is, they always end. Because they have to. Always a dead end. And the pain is unbearable and debilitating. All that's left are pieces of something once so beautiful. Memories and an aching...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    Sometimes I hate that I am still too nice

    and care too much. I just don't have the energy to take care of myself, yet I have the energy to go out of my ways to make others happy :/ I'm so broke right now, yet I'm still using what I saved to help a close friend celebrate his birthday. One day is fine, but a whole weekend...
    EndlessDreams22 EndlessDreams22
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    i wish i had no feeling

    so i get hurt less
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 6

    I miss... The feeling of another's skin against

    mine Becoming one with another Getting lost in someone's eyes Uncontrollable laughter about nothing Being held and feeling adored Happiness in someone's voice when they hear from me The simplest things are what I miss the most.
    Twinkletoejam Twinkletoejam
    41-45, F
    19 Responses Jul 18, 2015
    Lee124 Lee124
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 20, 2014

    I covet her smile and the way she looks at him.

    I pour through memories as I pour another one. I shouldn't be here. She shouldn't be there...as I pour out another one.
    HomelessWind HomelessWind
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    I still think of you .

    .. and I still can't understand what happened. Im not sure I actually miss you, you seemed to think I was falling for you ( I think ?) its more the not understanding why - if I can't understand it I can't learn from it .. Its strange how open you can be with someone on here...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    So often I get hurt because I care

    so much about the people in my life and for this and the fact I wear my heart on my sleeve I have been hurt more times than I can count! Doesn't mean I will stop caring...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 26

    I have a kind heart and a gentle soul

    and I often get hurt. I tend to put everything into a relationship and love deeply and unconditionally. I want to find someone that will accept me for who I am and appreciate me for the kind hearted, gentle, loving and affectionate person that I am.
    TotalityOfMe TotalityOfMe
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Jan 8, 2015
    HonestAndHopeful HonestAndHopeful
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Sep 30, 2015
    sachanto sachanto
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jun 27, 2015
    ToughKitty ToughKitty
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 10

    I feel things deeply.

    I believe it when someone tells me that they love me. I get hooked fast. I fall hard. The other person doesn't always feel the same...most of the time actually. Then I am left to pick up the pieces of my life again. You would think that I would eventually learn. But I...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    "You deserve someone better

    than me" Well the last person i am with also said that to me and maybe the next will and so on and so fourth. Just exactly how many "betters" i have to go through?
    jai09 jai09
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 26

    The feeling when someone you love made you feel

    like you are making up stories to them just so you could have their attention is greatly hurtful. I find it pretty offensive for them to actually made me feel like a fool and worst; a dumb. And making me feel like a liar made it so much worst than the first two that I have...
    smilemelove smilemelove
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 5
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