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I Feel Disconnected In My Relationship

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    Is It Wort It?

    I sleep next to him every single night and I see him every day. We already spend enough time together but in a way I still feel so distant from him. I know we are completely different but it hasnt been much of an issue until a few months ago. We are as opposite as we can be in...
    Sunshine1058 Sunshine1058 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    So Tired Of Feeling This Way....

    I have been feeling extremely disconnected... What is sad about all of this is the fact that I have a 10 month old daughter, a helping husband, a mother, father and brother. The husband... which I love so much but I feel like I have nothing in common with him anymore. Which then...
    Help718 Help718 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    I Love This Girl Because Its Natural (edited regularly)

    I have been dating and this girl, come into my life and everything flowed where we just connected. but we have had ongoing problems and nasty arguments. from my view its has been disturbing from the happyness i came from and her i guess the peace after two years separated after...
    dameen dameen 36-40, M Apr 26, 2010

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    Feeling Disconnected...

    My fiance and I have been together for a little over three years. Everything has been great until recently. Between the constant small fights and the three large explosive fights we've had over the past few months, i feel there is irreparable damage to our relationship. For a...
    ImpactBlasphemy ImpactBlasphemy 22-25 3 Responses Jul 25, 2010

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    I Feel Estranged From My Fiance

    My situation is quite unique, I think. My fiance and I had only known each other for less than a month before we conceived. I am now past my fifth month in pregnancy. Although we try to spend time together when we can usually we are apart because, even though we've found a place...
    lunatica lunatica 21-25 3 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I don't what to do . It's been 11 years

    and I feel like I wasted my time .
    1goodfella 1goodfella 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    Feel Disconnected In Relationship

    Hi I am separated for 3 months now from my husband whom I have been with for 13 years. About 2 years ago I started a new career. As I have grown, the distance between my husband & myself just got more and more obvious. I realized we had some major trouble when I didn't...
    transmorphangel transmorphangel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 20, 2008

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    Trapped

    Me and my partner have been steadily growing apart for years. She's ten years older than me and had two children already, we've been together nearly seven years and had a daughter who is the centre of my universe. I work, she stays home. She resents that I get to go out the...
    Sivebeck Sivebeck 31-35 1 Response Sep 1, 2011

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    I Feel Ignored

    This is mild compared to some of the problems I read on here, but this still counts as my first actually personal post on here. I'm married, and I love my wife to death, but lately, I feel very disconnected from her. I think this is due to several factors. She is in a band now...
    gaeilge14 gaeilge14 26-30, M Sep 6, 2013

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    Sometimes I feel like me and my fiancé don't get enough time together and when we do we are talking about all these stressful things or being next to one another and being on our...
    Soldiergirl3 Soldiergirl3 18-21, F Nov 20

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    Many believe past relationships are a sign of failure or time they wasted with the wrong person. Yes, relationships leave us with feelings of sorrow, uncertainty, and guilt but...
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    I think deep down I'm never really been that bothered about relationships. I've had so many opportunities to date over the years, many people have just offered themselves to me...
    BabblingFool BabblingFool 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    I really want to be in a long distance relationship, but I kinda feel guilty about wanting to because I feel like I'm just trying to push away any pressure about sex. :/
    beingbrye beingbrye 22-25, T 9 hrs ago

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    Long distance relationships are hard! I love my girlfriend but she's so far away. I get to see her on holidays, college breaks, and just random visitation but I just don't feel...
    josh221992 josh221992 22-25, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    As you have read my other stories my wife brought up a divorce. We haven't been getting along very well. I told myself I would talk to her and find out if this is what she really...
    harleyman2169 harleyman2169 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    When will I get my chance, I feel like I've been spending this last year in a turmoil of relationship fails. Just when I thought the next one may have worked, it seems like it isn...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm very disconnected from media in general compared to basically every other kid I know. I never watch TV, listen to the radio, or care about the news. I'm one of the only kids in...
    RipperCreak RipperCreak 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 29

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    So I'm on here reading about lamenting relationships and jubilant affairs..how we "should've known about the hurt at the end of the affair" or "leave the straining relationship...
    NotVibrant NotVibrant 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    its like every where i go and no matter what i do the outcome is the same. me left behind in an empty house haunted by these 4 naked walls. ive never known security and i doubt...
    livingpositively livingpositively 22-25, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Half of my heart's got a grip on the situation. Half of my heart takes time. Half of my heart's got a right mind to tell you that I can't keep loving you. Half of My Heart - John...
    pinkfruitpop pinkfruitpop 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 3 months and it feels like 6 years... I dated him off an on for the last two and a half years. he is a great person but I have no emotional feeling. I...
    k8gonsalves k8gonsalves 26-30, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I know I am a human biologically, yet I don't feel that way mentally. I think about this when I walk around my campus, or when I am with my friends, or co-workers, or with any...
    EnigmaVolt EnigmaVolt 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Four and a half years ago, I met an amazing guy on a domestic flight (I was catching a connecting international flight). He swapped seats to come and talk to me, he took a while to...
    ColetteR ColetteR 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    As the experience says it what I want..... I want a daddy who won't disappear where I can be me and feel safe and not everything is s3x related add me on kick if you want what I...
    Babygirl12296 Babygirl12296 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and we see each other like every other week. This week he's been really sick with a lung infection and hasn't even texted me...
    danidenn danidenn 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    A little set up for you: I'm a 19 year old girl. Portuguese. Lived in England most of my life. Born in SA. Confident in my appearance. I write. I draw (at university, so it's legit...
    exulansis exulansis 18-21, F Nov 3

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    I love the beginning stages of a relationship where you've just met someone, you don't know if they like you like that yet and so you get to flirt with them meanwhile until one of...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F a week ago

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    December 28th of this year will mark 3 years for me and my boyfriend/father of my daughter... It's been ALONG 3 years too. Our relationship as any started off perfect, we were in...
    trustgod0713 trustgod0713 22-25 Oct 29

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    Ok, so now when I start really pulling away. Really checking out of this relationship, really looking physically and mentally depressed as I have to keep up this act of wanting to...
    Galaxystar25 Galaxystar25 22-25, F Nov 11

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why is being in love frowned upon? Why can't two people in love be something that is encouraged and celebrated? Before you go on and say how I should stop being a kid and that I...
    fernweh126 fernweh126 22-25, F Nov 1

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    I'm really sorry for the big rant, but I'm feeling pretty panicked at the moment and I need advice. Two weeks ago, everything was perfect. I was happy, and whenever I thought...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I find myself over thinking new relationships, contemplating on if we are taking it to fast, getting to close. On how I can nurture this new fragile relationship so it could...
    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I don't know what to do in my current relationship. My gf broke trust early on in the relationship by talking to her ex (about our relationship) and further hurt trust by being...
    Punky79 Punky79 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    Hello, I am a 21 year old girl who can proudly say that one year and 7 days ago I made the decisions to finally be strong and leave my abusive boyfriend. This is not the easiest...
    brittany122 brittany122 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    I've never been in a relationship longer than the one I'm in currently, which is not long compared to the many years others have had. For the year that we have been together, we've...
    ephemeralise ephemeralise 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    To say my long distance relationship has been successful is probably an understatement. I met my boyfriend on Omegle last August and I didn't think it'd turn out as anything other...
    ZaraHeath ZaraHeath 16-17, F Nov 10

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    I am in an online relationship with a person i've never met. This relationship is tearing me apart :( i am in a relationship with him but i cant get the good things of being in...
    zileray zileray 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I'm in a long distance relationship and we're both 18! We live 2 hours apart, doesn't seem too difficult like most of the stories I've read on here and I could never imagine living...
    Nhookieee Nhookieee 18-21, F Nov 12

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F Nov 19

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    Hi there! I've recently come out of an 8 year long relationship where I was constantly criticized, belittled and mocked. I didn't like it at all, his personality wasn't very nice...
    buttonthimbles buttonthimbles 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    ok so this is gonna get confusing fast (unless uve been there) im with a man at the moment weve dated twice once yrs ago when we were teens for about a yr and a half and had a...
    pebbles93 pebbles93 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    kerendion kerendion 26-30, F Nov 4

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    I am usually very mature when it comes to relationships and I am always honest and I usually don't react from emotion... BUT I am after all human, a young lady, young & in love...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F Nov 4

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    I am feeling really un happy with my life right now... I have a son and another child on the way. I live with the father- my "boy friend" but right now I feel like I can't stand...
    alicia1005 alicia1005 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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