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I Feel Hopeless Sometimes

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    Hopeless...

    i am 19 years old girl,who live alone,but who care?yep im hopless of my life,i wanted to study medicine its was my child dream but i coudnt achieve it althogh i was top 10 student in my city,:( i lost all my life because of bad freinds ,my dreams didnt come true now im studying...
    ghazaal ghazaal 18-21, F Mar 24, 2013

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    Read This You'll Relate ; I Promise !

    Feb.9th I know by now I do take things personally. Honestly way more than I ever expected to, but here’s the thing that I think is the center of what I am truly about. I don’t want to show weakness or sadness. Yes I tend to hold so much negativity within me under the name...
    Feb 14, 2013

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    I feel like I have made a huge mistake

    and am about to make an even bigger one. Also, I feel like I am better off alone. I am feeling desperate.
    neile73 neile73 36-40, F May 8

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    I've known my current dorm mate

    for 2 months and I'm afraid of getting attached. Last year many people told me that they want to be good friends and ended up never talking to me. I don't want this again. Gia has showed that she cares for me by going out of her way for me. Gia's been through a lot of **** in...
    XxTinyBearxX XxTinyBearxX 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Like, Right Now

    At this moment I'm feeling a bit hopeless. I don't really like to hope anyway cause then I just get let down in the end. But even if I was one to hope, I'd still be hopeless right now. I've seen stuck in this crappy hole of a life for years. Occasionally having a good time...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Mar 22, 2008

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    Stuck, But Hopeful

    There seems to be something missing out of my character that leaves me floundering. A lot of the dreams that seemed so possible once seemed to have bypassed me forever. I always wanted to work in a music related field, but time, confidence and being badgered into being...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    Will I Be This Way Forever?

     Tyler (the husband) and I had a very honest and difficult conversation the other night. It began as a light-hearted reference to something from the past, and became a long-winded complaint about his mother from me. Understandably, this upset him. We talked about several...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    I Am a Hopless Mess

    I am a 26 year old mother of 3 kids. Their ages are 6,4 and 3. My husband is a truck driver and gone quite a bit so I am a stay at home mom. Within the last few months i have began to feel worse and worse about myself. I have tried Prozac 20mg, Prozac 40mg and recently Citalopram...
    onehotmess onehotmess 26-30 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    Nothing can change a person.

    ....not even when you try to change yourself for him. My dad just never stop.....its like I can't make a choice of my own....for those who are saying your just a teenager I know that....but my problem is more complex. I can even pick my own shoe....he always has to judge ever...
    izzyalmond izzyalmond 13-15, F Aug 9

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    Hopeless

    Hope is one of the greatest things in our lives. With hope all things are possible and the future looks bright! Without it life is just existence, meaningless, gloomy. You have no desire for living. You go along because you have to not living but just existing. The future looks...
    lonesomeloser66 lonesomeloser66 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 24, 2009

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    Feeling Rather Hopeless Atm...

    So, i love this site because i can blog about my feelings but don't have to keep it up like a diary! Anyway, today i made the mistake of texting a guy i like, not about anything personal, it was about a work thing, anyway he didn't text back, which i knew he wouldn't cos he...
    cutebutpsychojw cutebutpsychojw 26-30 Apr 30, 2013

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    Not This Time

    I want to reach out and fix the problems that ail you. I want so badly to take away your scars, your pain, but I cannot. I am only helpless, hopeless. I cannot save you, I cannot.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2009

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    I Destroy My Life

    Everytime something good happens in my life, I destroy it. I got accepted into Norwich two days ago, and yesterday and today my emotions are out of control. I've been flipping out, I cried once, and just feel overall depressed and hopeless. This is the story of my life. Failure.
    jaycm610 jaycm610 18-21, M Nov 15, 2009

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    Why Am I Hopeless?

    So I'm sitting here at school. I'm a senior, and I go to a military highschool, because I want to go into the military. Our last day until break is Friday, and then we have 9 days off. I got into college the other day. My parents care about me. I have no reason to be unhappy...
    jaycm610 jaycm610 18-21, M Nov 16, 2009

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    Breathless

    It's amazing. I want to hate him so bad because it's so much easier than loving him...I want to hate the smile that takes my breath away and I want to hate that feeling in the pit of my stomach...the butterflies. I wish my heart wouldn't race everytime I see his picture...
    frankiedeadgirlwalking frankiedeadgirlwalking 16-17, F Nov 5, 2008

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    Stuck

      It is hard to try new things because I have so many times tried new things and even succeeded, and no one cared.  It seems like it's not worth it, it won't amount to anything anyway. 
    grit grit 51-55 3 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    And It Hurts

     I can think of very few emotions that can have such a powerful impact on someone's life as hopelessness.  I know it does on mine.  It is like a black hole that sucks away all life. When I get hopeless, I stop caring. Usually it's accompanied by depression...
    alalife alalife 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    So Naive.

    I am a 20 year old with a new family. It consists of my boyfriend, son, and myself. My son is halfway to being 8 months old and I love him so much. On the other hand I never planned my life to end up this way. As a child I thought I'd go to school and have a group of good friends...
    Lauren921 Lauren921 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Hopeless

    well my bf is in the Army and the other day he asked me if I would be better off single he really got me mad nd I told him if it was dat was the case I would of told him nd he hasn't texted me since Monday I'm beginning too feel very hopeless I really do love him but I just don't...
    jorozco38 jorozco38 18-21, F Oct 23, 2013

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    I'm Going Down

    a hundred more pages to read. fifty more articles of law to memorize cases I have to analyze four more hours before the class but this brain isn't working from studying last night why I didn't study last Saturday and Sunday? and now, I know.. I'm gonna mess up with a major...
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    Here Is Some Hope For U Fellow Ep'Ers Have Fun ;)

    i made this album full of encouraging quotes and motivational and posting more images in it , its skycloud give it a look u will love it for sure ;) http://sdrv.ms/15ZDnOa this is something extra: http://www.goodreads.com/quotes
    Azizinum Azizinum 26-30, M Mar 20, 2013

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    I Feel Hopeless

    hi I am 23 year old female coming from one of the poorest asian country.As in our counry,teachers and parents beated with a stick if the students or children do not listen to their words. My childhood is well treated by that wooden stick.And still right now i am also afraid of...
    maydaytoo maydaytoo 22-25 9 Responses Oct 26, 2010

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    Broken Heartedwant

     I guess...I've done it again. It's amazing how someone can be so beautiful and so broken and all you want to do it save them and you don't really know what to say. You don't know what to do. You're silent and...slowly it just slips away. God, I don't want to walk away but I...
    frankiedeadgirlwalking frankiedeadgirlwalking 16-17, F Oct 14, 2008

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    Quarterly. But sleep

    and food help. Those give mind clarity. To hear and recognize true pals. Or think of them to cope with jerks.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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