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I Feel I Have No Personality

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    when im around people, i have nothing to say and i feel out of place, like i dont belong, because they all seem to have some trait that makes them desireable, but not me.  Even here on ep i want to talk to people, anyone really,  but i never know what to say.  and...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    I'm Just There.

    When I'm with people, I don't do much. I talk quite often, but it's just noise. Nothing funny or quotable. I don't know what lead to me being this way. I don't have much confidence...but neither do all the "amazing" people. I'm a huge perfectionist...that's probably it. I...
    Spazzerelly Spazzerelly 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    Good to know that other people feel the same way

    as me. The thing with me is mylack ro poor ability to carry on a proper conversation, especially one that's interesting. If its one thing I'm not shy to meet random people (that I don't have a crush on) and eb friendly to them, but its the part where getting to know someone on a...
    amysmithsc amysmithsc 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Still Trying To Figure Myself Out

    I used to be quite shy and self consicous when I was younger mostly due to being teased in school. I thought I pretty much out grew it after high school. Well, at least until recently I have began to wonder if maybe I am not very in tune with the reality of how other see me and...
    nordicxgirl nordicxgirl 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    When asked to name 3 words

    that best describe myself. ............
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    No Personal Opinion :(

    I'm a really quiet girl. When there's a group of people talking or discussing about something I never talk, I dont know if its because I'm very shy or because I have nothing to say; I fear I have no personal opinion about things. And whenever I have a strong opinion on something...
    danonino0o danonino0o 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Like Water

           Yep, I too sometimes feel like I have no personality. I mean, I do have a number of character traits, but I don't really have any well-defined likes, dislikes, preferences, beliefs or opinions. Like, I don't know what my favorite color is. I...
    juliexplosion juliexplosion 22-25 7 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    An Empty Shell Of A Person...

    Ok, maybe I DO have a personality because everyone does, but my problem is that I don't have an interesting personality or an attractive personality. My personality type is pretty much bland, vanilla and dull. Sure I do get lucky once in a while and can fire off a good joke or...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 7 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Just "there".

    I dont always feel like i have no personality but sometimes Its like i just shut down. Especially if im with people for, lets says around, 4-5 hours. Im in what I feel like is a very pivitol point in my life, and what i do now could shape how i am for the rest of my life. I...
    DooneyJ DooneyJ 18-21 2 Responses May 6, 2011

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    Ashamed Or Afraid?

    I know I have a personality, but it might as well not exist for there is no one around to witness it and that's all that counts right? We are nothing more than the accumulation of the actions we do. It's not what we feel or say, but what we do that defines us. So I guess I'd be...
    SirMugatu SirMugatu 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Terrified Of Life

    Hello everyone. i know i don't have a personality. when i manage to get a rare date. (always through internet) i always have a blank mind while trying to have a convo, so i tend to sit there and have an akward smile. so usually no second date. to be honest i give up, i work...
    nvvm22 nvvm22 22-25 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Ruined

    I am a father of 4  and have been married for 20 years. We have 2 homes and have traveled to many places. I  have always been employed. I recently lost my job do to poor communication choices. I had hit my head and was searching for common ground. I had a high profile...
    noflair noflair 46-50 6 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    Hoping And Praying For Change

    ***warning: incohesive thoughts and bad english***I feel i have no personality.. That title really nailed it when it comes to my thoughts about myself. Its so difficult to explain. But i dont really know how to be myself. Well, its easier when i am alone, then i am absorbed in my...
    LifeIsStriving LifeIsStriving 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    I Too Feel Like I Have No Personality

    Because of being a loner I don't think I've developed a growing personality from interacting with people. i always thought I hated people, but I think it's just a case of not knowing how to deal with people and their different personalities. I want to have a relationship but I...
    pippol pippol 56-60 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    All My Life

    I've jumped from social group to social group, acting like those around me, after I stoped hanging out with people, there was nothing. Just hollow nothingness, lying in bed doing nothing, feeling nothing, not even bordom, time seems to melt into the emptyness, and the day fades...
    FatalLonging FatalLonging 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    So, I don't know... I feel like I always

    compare myself to others. I have really low self esteem. There are a lot of people that I aspire to be and I feel like I don't have a personality? I mean, I don't know how to be myself because I don't know who myself is and I'm always scared of what people think. How do I get...
    shutuptalk shutuptalk 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Being There

    I always remember a quote from the actor Peter Sellers when he said, "I have absolutley no personality at all. I am a chameleon. When I am not playing a role, I am nobody." That, I guess, sums me up, playing a different role around different people, with no real, true personality...
    thelastday thelastday 22-25, M Feb 7, 2012

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    I'm The "un" In Fun

    I've never found my niche, somewhere that feels comfortable and easy.  Being around people feels like work.  What do I say, how should I stand and I really just can't wait for it to be over so I can go back to being alone.  I'm not sure what I can't wait to come...
    exfai exfai 36-40 5 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    I'm Just Blah

    I feel empty. I feel alone. My moods fluxuate daily. I conform to fit in with the people I'm hanging out with. I feel dumb. I am dumb. I have no personality. When I was 16 years old, I witnessed my friend die from a horseback riding accident. I guess you can say I went though...
    Mhicks20 Mhicks20 18-21 3 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    I Can't Find Myself

    I don't know who i am. i try finding myself but i can't. it's to hard to have a personality. I'm a nobody.
    xxxxunknownxxxx xxxxunknownxxxx 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    I Too Feel Like I Have No Personality

    Because of being a loner I don't think I've developed a growing personality from interacting with people. i always thought I hated people, but I think it's just a case of not knowing how to deal with people and their different personalities. I want to have a relationship but I...
    pippol pippol 56-60 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Plain Jane.

     I feel very plain... I have no outlandish thing that makes me me, i am just really bland and dont really feel like i have a personality. Maybe its because the people around me have a massive personality and it kinda swallows up who i am or maybe i just really dont have...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Re-create Myself.

    everything has its beginning and mine starts here. I noticed a while back I act differently each day. Violent one, quiet another. But by the end of the day theres nothing left. It depends who I'm around I just act like them so I don't look out of place one bit. I can play so many...
    Metus Metus 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I feel that I have no personality.

    I find myself unable to express emotion and also unable to respond appropriately when people show me affection. Before I used to blame my discontent in social situations on the people around me, thinking that everyone was self-centered, that no one gave me an opportunity to...
    lplus lplus 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    It's been a really weird week this week worst one for this month! I am really disappointed with myself and well thats a horrible feeling to deal with... Hopefully I can resolve it...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It took me some time before i came to realize that the events in my opinion were repeating themselves??Only to then realize that i was seeing future events of what could be?? I...
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    Wow! Violated doesn't even begin to describe how I feel right now!! I was catfished by a girl by the name of "plunkedd" on okcupid! She was using pictures of a Russian model and I...
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    I've noticed different sub-personalities within me that affect my moods and behavior. However, I do not have a multiple personality disorder. I do not experience abrupt shifts from...
    DarkPathos DarkPathos 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I mean yeah to me, they go hand in hand for instance, if you are cute, yeah okay but your personality will easily move you up, down, our keep you right when you are. you could be a...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hope to get married some day. Not in the near future, but sometime in the future. I have a boyfriend but he doesn't want to get married nor to have a family. I dont understand...
    OnlyCB OnlyCB 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    ok. I don't really know what I'm doing. glad this is anonymous bc I don't want to be doing this wrong. I know a lot of people are very judge mental towards me & I have a hard time...
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    Your result for The Personality Defect Test ... Robot You are 71% Rational, 43% Extroverted, 29% Brutal, and 14% Arrogant. Robot You are the Robot! You are characterized by your...
    myzterieboy myzterieboy 41-45, M Jan 3

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    I never really thought about this until now, but I just realized that opposites really do attract. The best thing about being different is that it allows you to compensate for...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    I am have been diagnosed as with borderline personality disorder last year.Such a relief.I think I have had it for 10 years and have inherited it from my mother.Who I forgive,If...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    when im watching movies , the characters in it seem so special. they all have there own personality and talents and they have a life. im so boring compared to everyone I have no...
    EnjoyTheSilenceX EnjoyTheSilenceX 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    So I've seen black shadows since I was little only a few ever made me feel scared. Now I can't stop hearing bells. When I hear them I don't feel comfortable. It's a very dark...
    ScarletVisions ScarletVisions 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am holding back tears. I'm so happy. So many good things happening for me. Lost 15 pounds. Decided to weigh myself yesterday and im 15 pounds lighter from my last weigh in...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I feel so stuck in my life I just want to scream! I don't even know where to begin. This all hit me this morning. I was tossing and turning in bed and couldn't sleep at all. I...
    Ana8939 Ana8939 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Personality is overlooked these days, and people are judged mostly on their appearance. Personality is what actually matters, because it is usually the one thing that never changes...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    my name is Ciara and I'm 19 and I am currently in the hospital post laminectomy. I have had back pain for about a year now. I had an inflamed SI joint that I recieved 3 steroid...
    cjacobs34 cjacobs34 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Now if you want to know the song that really fits my personality..only one comes to mind...lol. It's "*****" by Meredith Brooks. "I hate the world today You're so good to me I...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 9

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