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I Feel I Have No Personality

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    I Too Feel Like I Have No Personality

    Because of being a loner I don't think I've developed a growing personality from interacting with people. i always thought I hated people, but I think it's just a case of not knowing how to deal with people and their different personalities. I want to have a relationship but I...
    pippol pippol 56-60 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Still Trying To Figure Myself Out

    I used to be quite shy and self consicous when I was younger mostly due to being teased in school. I thought I pretty much out grew it after high school. Well, at least until recently I have began to wonder if maybe I am not very in tune with the reality of how other see me and...
    nordicxgirl nordicxgirl 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    Being There

    I always remember a quote from the actor Peter Sellers when he said, "I have absolutley no personality at all. I am a chameleon. When I am not playing a role, I am nobody." That, I guess, sums me up, playing a different role around different people, with no real, true personality...
    thelastday thelastday 22-25, M Feb 7, 2012

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    Terrified Of Life

    Hello everyone. i know i don't have a personality. when i manage to get a rare date. (always through internet) i always have a blank mind while trying to have a convo, so i tend to sit there and have an akward smile. so usually no second date. to be honest i give up, i work...
    nvvm22 nvvm22 22-25 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Like Water

           Yep, I too sometimes feel like I have no personality. I mean, I do have a number of character traits, but I don't really have any well-defined likes, dislikes, preferences, beliefs or opinions. Like, I don't know what my favorite color is. I...
    juliexplosion juliexplosion 22-25 7 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I Too Feel Like I Have No Personality

    Because of being a loner I don't think I've developed a growing personality from interacting with people. i always thought I hated people, but I think it's just a case of not knowing how to deal with people and their different personalities. I want to have a relationship but I...
    pippol pippol 56-60 1 Response Feb 4, 2009

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    Good to know that other people feel the same way

    as me. The thing with me is mylack ro poor ability to carry on a proper conversation, especially one that's interesting. If its one thing I'm not shy to meet random people (that I don't have a crush on) and eb friendly to them, but its the part where getting to know someone on a...
    amysmithsc amysmithsc 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    RandomExistence RandomExistence 16-17, M Oct 3, 2015

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    Ruined

    I am a father of 4  and have been married for 20 years. We have 2 homes and have traveled to many places. I  have always been employed. I recently lost my job do to poor communication choices. I had hit my head and was searching for common ground. I had a high profile...
    noflair noflair 46-50 6 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    I'm Just There.

    When I'm with people, I don't do much. I talk quite often, but it's just noise. Nothing funny or quotable. I don't know what lead to me being this way. I don't have much confidence...but neither do all the "amazing" people. I'm a huge perfectionist...that's probably it. I...
    Spazzerelly Spazzerelly 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    Hoping And Praying For Change

    ***warning: incohesive thoughts and bad english***I feel i have no personality.. That title really nailed it when it comes to my thoughts about myself. Its so difficult to explain. But i dont really know how to be myself. Well, its easier when i am alone, then i am absorbed in my...
    LifeIsStriving LifeIsStriving 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Pretty Much

    when im around people, i have nothing to say and i feel out of place, like i dont belong, because they all seem to have some trait that makes them desireable, but not me.  Even here on ep i want to talk to people, anyone really,  but i never know what to say.  and...
    fred7 fred7 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 23, 2007

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    I'm Just Blah

    I feel empty. I feel alone. My moods fluxuate daily. I conform to fit in with the people I'm hanging out with. I feel dumb. I am dumb. I have no personality. When I was 16 years old, I witnessed my friend die from a horseback riding accident. I guess you can say I went though...
    Mhicks20 Mhicks20 18-21 3 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    I'm The "un" In Fun

    I've never found my niche, somewhere that feels comfortable and easy.  Being around people feels like work.  What do I say, how should I stand and I really just can't wait for it to be over so I can go back to being alone.  I'm not sure what I can't wait to come...
    exfai exfai 36-40 5 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Let me start of with this question

    which is always on my mind; you know how when you hear a person's name or you think of a person, you immediately associate them with a common phrase or expression (facial or verbal) and tone and style and mannerism they have? Well, I wonder what it is for me. I don't think...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 3, 2015

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    No Personal Opinion :(

    I'm a really quiet girl. When there's a group of people talking or discussing about something I never talk, I dont know if its because I'm very shy or because I have nothing to say; I fear I have no personal opinion about things. And whenever I have a strong opinion on something...
    danonino0o danonino0o 18-21, F 15 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Everybody has a personality they just can't

    show it yet it in a way that suits them.... You will always find the loud person but a personality come in many ways so chin up chest out and say in front of a mirror I'm me! Try it see what happens
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M May 20, 2015

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    All My Life

    I've jumped from social group to social group, acting like those around me, after I stoped hanging out with people, there was nothing. Just hollow nothingness, lying in bed doing nothing, feeling nothing, not even bordom, time seems to melt into the emptyness, and the day fades...
    FatalLonging FatalLonging 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    carazami carazami 16-17 1 Response Oct 3, 2015

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    I feel that I have no personality.

    I find myself unable to express emotion and also unable to respond appropriately when people show me affection. Before I used to blame my discontent in social situations on the people around me, thinking that everyone was self-centered, that no one gave me an opportunity to...
    lplus lplus 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2014

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    Well I have a personality,

    I just think it sucks. My lack of friends can back that up. XD I'm not mad though :p Any other 'no personality' beings want to be friends ;) I'd be more than happy to befriend a fellow being :D
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 30, 2015

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    Just "there".

    I dont always feel like i have no personality but sometimes Its like i just shut down. Especially if im with people for, lets says around, 4-5 hours. Im in what I feel like is a very pivitol point in my life, and what i do now could shape how i am for the rest of my life. I...
    DooneyJ DooneyJ 18-21 2 Responses May 6, 2011

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    I Can't Find Myself

    I don't know who i am. i try finding myself but i can't. it's to hard to have a personality. I'm a nobody.
    xxxxunknownxxxx xxxxunknownxxxx 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Re-create Myself.

    everything has its beginning and mine starts here. I noticed a while back I act differently each day. Violent one, quiet another. But by the end of the day theres nothing left. It depends who I'm around I just act like them so I don't look out of place one bit. I can play so many...
    Metus Metus 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    So, I don't know... I feel like I always

    compare myself to others. I have really low self esteem. There are a lot of people that I aspire to be and I feel like I don't have a personality? I mean, I don't know how to be myself because I don't know who myself is and I'm always scared of what people think. How do I get...
    shutuptalk shutuptalk 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Ashamed Or Afraid?

    I know I have a personality, but it might as well not exist for there is no one around to witness it and that's all that counts right? We are nothing more than the accumulation of the actions we do. It's not what we feel or say, but what we do that defines us. So I guess I'd be...
    SirMugatu SirMugatu 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Plain Jane.

     I feel very plain... I have no outlandish thing that makes me me, i am just really bland and dont really feel like i have a personality. Maybe its because the people around me have a massive personality and it kinda swallows up who i am or maybe i just really dont have...
    SuperRobotMonkeyTeam SuperRobotMonkeyTeam 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    When asked to name 3 words

    that best describe myself. ............
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    An Empty Shell Of A Person...

    Ok, maybe I DO have a personality because everyone does, but my problem is that I don't have an interesting personality or an attractive personality. My personality type is pretty much bland, vanilla and dull. Sure I do get lucky once in a while and can fire off a good joke or...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 7 Responses Nov 15, 2009

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    Having schizoaffective disorder

    and a decade and a half of isolation next to no friends and no interest in things except having one crisis after another has caused my character to grow dull and boreing.
    cutiepitunia cutiepitunia 70+ Oct 15, 2015

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    Basically, at School, I hang out with my 3 friends Emilija, Chloe and Alisha. Chloe came round mine the other day and told me that Alisha has been slagging her off to everyone yet...
    Heyyitzmoi Heyyitzmoi 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Well, that's not entirely true. I have few friends but they live on the other side of the country and I see them maybe once a year. We do text every now and then, once in few weeks...
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    On the 22nd, I have a phone interview for the Disney Internship Program and I am so excited and nervous. This is the final step in the process. I have been practicing answering...
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    •FATHER• Temporary feelings, they eventually burned as I sit here bruised and scared for the rest of my life. I might have lost the war, but reality strikes, I want to cry...
    Ameleasmith Ameleasmith 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    •FATHER• Temporary feelings, they eventually burned as I sit here bruised and scared for the rest of my life. I might have lost the war, but reality strikes, I want to cry...
    Ameleasmith Ameleasmith 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    •FATHER• Temporary feelings, they eventually burned as I sit here bruised and scared for the rest of my life. I might have lost the war, but reality strikes, I want to cry...
    Ameleasmith Ameleasmith 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    •FATHER• Temporary feelings, they eventually burned as I sit here bruised and scared for the rest of my life. I might have lost the war, but reality strikes, I want to cry...
    Ameleasmith Ameleasmith 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Okay I hope this doesn't make me a terrible person. I care 95% about there personality and 5% about looks.
    PassionateFlames PassionateFlames 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are days I hate my life. In other words hating my life is hating my parents, my father in particular. I was my family's scapegoat. Yep, I inherited that dreadful honorable...
    allinlove allinlove 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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