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I Feel Ignored

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    I Feel Ignored

    and it feels horrible.....at times i want to be alone but not ALL the time! when i actually talk to them shouldn't they talk back??? grrrrrrr......
    PMCLaura13 PMCLaura13 16-18, F Mar 10, 2008

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    No one wants to talk to me anymore.

    But they only talked to me when they need something.
    Leighton4 Leighton4 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    .....

    I feel completely ignore most of the time where ever I am. Even on the internet nowadays. I don't know what to do to get anyones attetion really.. people just don't care. I feel invisible most of the time. It's like I'm not really there..
    LostInTheDarkness LostInTheDarkness 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    I'm living in a household

    where there is no sex in my marriage. On top of that I have a 17 year old stepdaughter that manipulates her mother so she can do whatever she wants. My wife refuses to set guidelines or discipline so she can disobey and not get punished. I have a part time job which I work hard...
    bubley bubley 51-55, M 5 Responses Sep 28

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    Nobody Listens

     even in my family they think they hear but nobody listens, i could be invisable. I want to make it ok for eveybody because i am a nice person but who hears me? Answer.. nobody, i may as well be on my own. Fed up with all of the people that say thay care because really they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Big Heart / Intense Or Needy (also In Sensitive Group)

    I realize that I could be viewed as justifying myself a lot and you might get the impression that I'm in denial about my problems. At least you know I'm aware of more than one angle about the issue. That being said I want to share some introspective thing that may apply to you...
    BobArctor BobArctor 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Only When They Want Something.

    I feel ingored. My "friends" only ever call or write when they want something from me. If they are having a hard time and need someone to listen, they call me. If they need money, they call me. If their dog got into rat poison and they remember that I worked with a vet...
    MelancholyCheer MelancholyCheer 26-30 3 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    No One Is Interested In What I Have To Say...

    It seems that no one is ever interested in me. People only talk to me when they want to. I am so...different than everybody around me, so whatever I have to say is never interesting enough for them to listen. There are few people that I talk to. Well only 4. To my misfourtune...
    obvious11 obvious11 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Having trouble understanding how someone could

    be so close to you, talk everyday for months, enjoy everything about you, then just ignore you like you don't matter
    missmiss3 missmiss3 36-40, F 2 Responses May 20

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    Is It Normal To Be Ignored?

    I have noticed that I am often ignored in all situations.  When I go to social events I normally end up alone in some corner, wishing someone would come up and talk to me, but no one ever does.  Often I try to send texts or voice mails to reach out and makes friends, but I don...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2011

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    Have You Ever Felt Ignored For No Reason At All..?

    Okay, this is the first time I ever posted on this site, so bear with me, okay? I decided to post here instead of venting out my problems through bloggin or tumblr because I didn't really want my friends knowing how bothered I am currently and I'm hoping that maybe someone went...
    Chippedfacade Chippedfacade 16-17, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Is This Still Worth It?

    Look I don't even know why am i still doing this.Trying to have a connection with you, waiting for you to text me, call me, chat and reply with my messages.Maybe if my friends would know about this one word for sure will i hear from them 'STUPID'.And my explanation would be, I...
    maeevan maeevan 22-25, F Jan 6, 2012

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    Those moments when you go away from your phone

    hoping someone left you a message when you got back. Then you see that no one did. I hate that feeling.
    roxoutloud roxoutloud 18-21, F Jan 19

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    I don't have nobody..

    . I don't have any friends, my family hates me... I sometimes just feel I need someone to talk, I just need someone that I can trust. I just need someone that likes me for who I really am...
    Ricking Ricking 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Almost all the time. I feel like the things I

    say just don't matter and no one listens to me anyways. I have people at my house every night and i always ask my boyfriend to just go one night with out having anyone over and he never listens to me or respects my wishes. He doesn't see anything wrong with it so he doesn't see...
    maggiemae89 maggiemae89 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Advice?

    My mom and dad just got divorced a couple of months or so ago. My mom immediately moved out with her new boyfriend and I had no choice but to move in with them because me and my dad don't get along very well. They both work during the day so I'm usually at home by myself, but...
    Mrocto Mrocto 18-21, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Everyday, for years. I talk,

    and look around, it's like everyone is purposely ignoring me. At work, at school, at home. What am I saying that people dismiss as not needing a response? It makes me angry, and frustrated. Always a different excuse when I call them out too, like "sorry I didn't hear you" or...
    raesaddiction raesaddiction 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    aditya3751 aditya3751 22-25, M Dec 14

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    Ignored.

    I don't know when It happened. I have always felt ignored from friends and family. I just wish for once somoene would make me feel less ignored...
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    I always feel ignored.

    Some people always tell me "come with us, we'll have fun." But it all end up terrible:( they just leave me alone.. Start to whisper and leave me standing in the back, even when they want to take selfies, I'm always the last one sometimes my face never appears in the pics...
    evix33 evix33 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I Am Woman Hear Me Roar!!!

    Ignore me and You will find me growling...Grrrrrrr!!!!  
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    My whole life I've learnt to self sooth.

    I guess that's a good thing. Means I don't need anyone. This is so contradicting to what I said the other day but i don't know anymore man.
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I met this girl at this party.

    We were in a circle playing truth or dare. I was picked and I chose a dare, which was to kiss the girl on the neck. It felt good to do that again after taking a break from any contact with a girl and I went to contact her on Facebook afterwards. I got her number and we texted...
    jamierhoden jamierhoden 16-17, M Jun 28

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    I mean i know the last time we talked was

    really great. And now it seems like im out of the picture. WTF? After 8 messages. It made me look like desperate. Really impossible. I had goals set. But its all ruined.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Generation Gap

    Talk about feeling ignored try raising 9 children that all think their smarter than you.Then they find out 5 or 10 years down the road maybe Mom was right.
    widow2709 widow2709 41-45, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    The Past In The Future

    I feel like... everytime we don't talk.. its becasue.. your ignoring me.. i feel like.. im not good enough anymore.. i feel like i am a nobody, a nothing.. i feel like you have better things to do in your life then talk to the one person that cares about you.... Its happened...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    the say that the eyes are the windows to the

    soul... hes my best friend and knows me better than anyone, so how come when he looked into my eyes he didn't see. he notices everything else i feel but he never acknowledges this one and its slowly gnawing at me. i mean im not ignorant, i know that he will never feel the same...
    Fallen321 Fallen321 16-17, F Nov 17

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    She Is Ignoring Me

    I have this female coworker who joined us in December and we became good friends. We have been luching together since. SHe is very intelligent and has a lot of experience, too. I like her for that. She is a very confident person. Everything was going ok betweeen us. But someone...
    newmsuv newmsuv 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Anybody wanna kikkkk with me?

    Leah.gabrielle. Ages 15-18 pleeeease.
    leahxxgabrielle leahxxgabrielle 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Being An Introvert

    I've always been that innocent,quiet girl in class who is rarely noticed. I tried to become more talkative but it it's not just me. I'm about to finish college and my present hasn't really been felt. Advice please :(
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Shy

    I'm usually a quiet person, and in class I feel ignored. When I'm not with people important to me, I feel ignored. I do get shy around certain people important to me, but I don't feel ignored with them, just shy sometimes. I try to be more talkative to more people, but it feels...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    Hey Emce 1 why did you say "hi"

    and then block me from your account? I would love to get to know you in a chat. Really O just want to be friends!!!!
    bubley bubley 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    Sometimes I feel like nobody listens I could be

    talking to a room full of people and I feel like I'm not being heard. I have hopes and dreams and goals and aspirations for the world that I want people to hear, but I guess they don't. I can't even talk to my own mom because let's be real, who wants to really hear about it. I...
    mytinyinfinity mytinyinfinity 18-21, F Dec 7

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    No one will talk to me anymore.

    I don't know what to do. Even my old friends from before I moved. I don't have very many friends, but the ones I have will never talk to me, I'm just ignored. And I don't know what to do about it. If they talk to me they leave the conversation as soon as possible it seems, or I...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I'm Ignored A Lot

    Being ignored all of your life has a devastating effect on your mental state... at least it did for me. I've never had a girlfriend, nobody stops to say "hi" to me, and I just feel left out constantly. I have only a small group of friends and that's it. Apparently I've been...
    Awesomeguy1 Awesomeguy1 13-15 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    My best friend ignored me for 2 years because she was afraid of falling in love with me. Then on our 4 year of being friends she stopped ignoring me and I asked her out. We have...
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm invisible. My family and friends constantly ignore me. It hurts my feelings. The only way for me to get their attention is to throw objects across the...
    Eristocrat Eristocrat 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I have been sick lately mentally, physically, and emotionally. I have found it harder and harder to deal with my families constant judgement and my friends silly ridicules...
    emem37 emem37 16-17, F Dec 7

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    Worst feeling in the world especially if you know that they don't care
    PirateBunny PirateBunny 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 8

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    let's face it. i'm a Leo! that's the worst thing that you could ever do to me!
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Dec 7

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    Like my mum, she's so busy with the other guy now a days. No one is ever home anymore. She's gone and my grampy is always gone. Idk. They use to be here all the time but not...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    One of my bestfriend doesn't care about me that much anymore. She is a very chill person sometime, and that make it cind of worse. She just doesn't seem that interested in what I...
    AlvaPanda AlvaPanda 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Or sitting at the front of the bus; where the teachers are. Hopefully that won't happen again! P.S. It only lasted about an hour.
    fcnantes fcnantes 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    I say I feel ignored and taken advantage of and I explain why and he says where is this coming from? Then I explain and he says he doesn't understand what he's suppose to do. Idk...
    Butterflywings1987 Butterflywings1987 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    so i had this in my journal from a couple days ago but .. i hate feeling like i'm being ignored. like i'm just not good enough to pay attention to. like no one actually cares. i...
    flawlxsskay flawlxsskay 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I am not a very socially comfortable person. I feel awkward alot of the time. Being around people is not something that i am entirely used to but i try to expose myself to it & i...
    flyingblossom flyingblossom 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 19

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    I absolutely hate being ignored. I didn't do anything to deserve this... Feeling unloved and not cared about. But I mean, it's whatever. Not like I matter or anything.
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    I hate being ignored but I also like being alone sometimes . I think we all hate being ignored but like alone time also
    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    if i know a person well i hate being ignored especially when they just suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason!
    romell romell 41-45, M