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I Feel Ignored

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    The Past In The Future

    I feel like... everytime we don't talk.. its becasue.. your ignoring me.. i feel like.. im not good enough anymore.. i feel like i am a nobody, a nothing.. i feel like you have better things to do in your life then talk to the one person that cares about you.... Its happened...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    Is It Normal To Be Ignored?

    I have noticed that I am often ignored in all situations.  When I go to social events I normally end up alone in some corner, wishing someone would come up and talk to me, but no one ever does.  Often I try to send texts or voice mails to reach out and makes friends, but I don...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2011

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    Being An Introvert

    I've always been that innocent,quiet girl in class who is rarely noticed. I tried to become more talkative but it it's not just me. I'm about to finish college and my present hasn't really been felt. Advice please :(
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Everyday, for years. I talk,

    and look around, it's like everyone is purposely ignoring me. At work, at school, at home. What am I saying that people dismiss as not needing a response? It makes me angry, and frustrated. Always a different excuse when I call them out too, like "sorry I didn't hear you" or...
    raesaddiction raesaddiction 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Having trouble understanding how someone could

    be so close to you, talk everyday for months, enjoy everything about you, then just ignore you like you don't matter
    missmiss3 missmiss3 36-40, F 2 Responses May 20

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    I met this girl at this party.

    We were in a circle playing truth or dare. I was picked and I chose a dare, which was to kiss the girl on the neck. It felt good to do that again after taking a break from any contact with a girl and I went to contact her on Facebook afterwards. I got her number and we texted...
    jamierhoden jamierhoden 16-17, M Jun 28

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    I'm Ignored A Lot

    Being ignored all of your life has a devastating effect on your mental state... at least it did for me. I've never had a girlfriend, nobody stops to say "hi" to me, and I just feel left out constantly. I have only a small group of friends and that's it. Apparently I've been...
    Awesomeguy1 Awesomeguy1 13-15 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Is This Still Worth It?

    Look I don't even know why am i still doing this.Trying to have a connection with you, waiting for you to text me, call me, chat and reply with my messages.Maybe if my friends would know about this one word for sure will i hear from them 'STUPID'.And my explanation would be, I...
    maeevan maeevan 22-25, F Jan 6, 2012

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    Big Heart / Intense Or Needy (also In Sensitive Group)

    I realize that I could be viewed as justifying myself a lot and you might get the impression that I'm in denial about my problems. At least you know I'm aware of more than one angle about the issue. That being said I want to share some introspective thing that may apply to you...
    BobArctor BobArctor 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Advice?

    My mom and dad just got divorced a couple of months or so ago. My mom immediately moved out with her new boyfriend and I had no choice but to move in with them because me and my dad don't get along very well. They both work during the day so I'm usually at home by myself, but...
    Mrocto Mrocto 18-21, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Only When They Want Something.

    I feel ingored. My "friends" only ever call or write when they want something from me. If they are having a hard time and need someone to listen, they call me. If they need money, they call me. If their dog got into rat poison and they remember that I worked with a vet...
    MelancholyCheer MelancholyCheer 26-30 3 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    Shy

    I'm usually a quiet person, and in class I feel ignored. When I'm not with people important to me, I feel ignored. I do get shy around certain people important to me, but I don't feel ignored with them, just shy sometimes. I try to be more talkative to more people, but it feels...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    I Feel Ignored

    and it feels horrible.....at times i want to be alone but not ALL the time! when i actually talk to them shouldn't they talk back??? grrrrrrr......
    PMCLaura13 PMCLaura13 16-18, F Mar 10, 2008

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    She Is Ignoring Me

    I have this female coworker who joined us in December and we became good friends. We have been luching together since. SHe is very intelligent and has a lot of experience, too. I like her for that. She is a very confident person. Everything was going ok betweeen us. But someone...
    newmsuv newmsuv 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Generation Gap

    Talk about feeling ignored try raising 9 children that all think their smarter than you.Then they find out 5 or 10 years down the road maybe Mom was right.
    widow2709 widow2709 41-45, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    No One Is Interested In What I Have To Say...

    It seems that no one is ever interested in me. People only talk to me when they want to. I am so...different than everybody around me, so whatever I have to say is never interesting enough for them to listen. There are few people that I talk to. Well only 4. To my misfourtune...
    obvious11 obvious11 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    I Am Woman Hear Me Roar!!!

    Ignore me and You will find me growling...Grrrrrrr!!!!  
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    Hey Emce 1 why did you say "hi"

    and then block me from your account? I would love to get to know you in a chat. Really O just want to be friends!!!!
    bubley bubley 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    No one wants to talk to me anymore.

    But they only talked to me when they need something.
    Leighton4 Leighton4 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    .....

    I feel completely ignore most of the time where ever I am. Even on the internet nowadays. I don't know what to do to get anyones attetion really.. people just don't care. I feel invisible most of the time. It's like I'm not really there..
    LostInTheDarkness LostInTheDarkness 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    Nobody Listens

     even in my family they think they hear but nobody listens, i could be invisable. I want to make it ok for eveybody because i am a nice person but who hears me? Answer.. nobody, i may as well be on my own. Fed up with all of the people that say thay care because really they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Those moments when you go away from your phone

    hoping someone left you a message when you got back. Then you see that no one did. I hate that feeling.
    roxoutloud roxoutloud 18-21, F Jan 19

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    Ignored.

    I don't know when It happened. I have always felt ignored from friends and family. I just wish for once somoene would make me feel less ignored...
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    No one will talk to me anymore.

    I don't know what to do. Even my old friends from before I moved. I don't have very many friends, but the ones I have will never talk to me, I'm just ignored. And I don't know what to do about it. If they talk to me they leave the conversation as soon as possible it seems, or I...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Have You Ever Felt Ignored For No Reason At All..?

    Okay, this is the first time I ever posted on this site, so bear with me, okay? I decided to post here instead of venting out my problems through bloggin or tumblr because I didn't really want my friends knowing how bothered I am currently and I'm hoping that maybe someone went...
    Chippedfacade Chippedfacade 16-17, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I have a naturally quiet voice and its hard for me to project my voice so sitting with a bunch of people who think yelling is the way to have a conversation is hard. I was having...
    Anicia47 Anicia47 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I hate that feeling when I'm ignored I just wanna scream and yell until I have no more energy. I asked my family a question and I'm ignored but when my younger sis asks something...
    starzygirl1 starzygirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Okay does people only help people who they choose I came to this website looking for a way to feel welcome and Im being ignored I can tell not to be rude to anybody just cause Im...
    autumnmarch12 autumnmarch12 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes people just says yea yea yea but i dont get feed back or advice ;-; i be feeling so ignored
    ashley486 ashley486 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I don't blame anyone for ignoring me. I wouldn't want to talk to me either. I get mad sometimes, but I shouldn't be pissed at them. I completely understand, I deserve it. I'm okay...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don't have a paying job, and I don't have an active social life. Never really been to a party, and just had to leave my college for my psychiatric conflicts. "So, no one told...
    Gripthat Gripthat 18-21, M Jun 26

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    Sometimes it feels like no one can hear what I say :/
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F Jul 11

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    Hello everyone, today I think it is telling a story to some, it is only my feelings. I'm an ugly person that lasts as long silence, I am of those who by everything and nothing...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I hate being ignored by the people that I care about and that claim they care about me. I don't really mind so much if a stranger, someone that I just meet, or someone that I'm...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    On Thursday night, I was invited out to a bar by this guy I have been getting to know over the last month or so. If this was anyone else I would have been in two minds whether or...
    Itscomplicatedtbh Itscomplicatedtbh 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 28

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    I hate being ignored 😑 😕 all I want is to talk to you the least you can do is listen 😑 being ignored is hell to me
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Dont you just love being ignored, makes me feel so happy about myself....not😓
    avxragxwhorx avxragxwhorx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Right now it feels like I'm being ignored by everyone.... :(
    daysflyby daysflyby 16-17, M Jul 9

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    It makes me feel like a load of crap when I'm being ignored. So annoying!
    notsofab notsofab 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I reach out to my step sisters and they keep shutting me down and leaving me out. They hate my mom and I. I can tell. They're jealous because my step dad wasn't around for them...
    holdontilmay holdontilmay 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was there when your life was falling apart, when you cried I was the one who tried to soothe you. I was the one who you ignored for days but was there as soon as you was bored...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    urrhh, I'm only not ignored by you when you're high or drunk or just bored. :(
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F Jul 12

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    Especially by people claiming they want a 'normal friendly conversation' but then just ignore you when you try and talk to them -.- People who claim to hate being ignored and then...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I probably won't message any one first today. Because I'm not in a mood to be ignored or rejected. And if I message someone I know they won't want to talk to me. Buuuutt I don't...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel that nobody acknowledges me and wants to understand how I feel, because people almost all the time believe what I say is either nonsense or ignored. Some of my family wants...
    Drkness00 Drkness00 18-21, M Jun 24

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    I feel that nobody acknowledges me and wants to understand how I feel, because people almost all the time believe what I say is either nonsense or ignored. Some of my family wants...
    Drkness00 Drkness00 18-21, M Jun 24

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    i can hardly even think about it without crying. I feel it now. The hot tears running down my face. Ill have to hide it. From my parents. From my friends. From everyone. This is...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I am a teenager. A very unknown one, to say the least. My confidence is ten feet under and my self esteem is non existent. Everyday is a struggle and a new opportunity to hate...
    viviandarling viviandarling 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    My father raped me when I was 6-10. My brother saw and raped me when I was 6-12. My two sisters were told and asked if they want me too and they said yes and raped me from 6-12. My...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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