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I Feel Ignored

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    Only When They Want Something.

    I feel ingored. My "friends" only ever call or write when they want something from me. If they are having a hard time and need someone to listen, they call me. If they need money, they call me. If their dog got into rat poison and they remember that I worked with a vet...
    MelancholyCheer MelancholyCheer 26-30 3 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    Those moments when you go away from your phone

    hoping someone left you a message when you got back. Then you see that no one did. I hate that feeling.
    roxoutloud roxoutloud 18-21, F Jan 19

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    I Am Woman Hear Me Roar!!!

    Ignore me and You will find me growling...Grrrrrrr!!!!  
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    I'm Ignored A Lot

    Being ignored all of your life has a devastating effect on your mental state... at least it did for me. I've never had a girlfriend, nobody stops to say "hi" to me, and I just feel left out constantly. I have only a small group of friends and that's it. Apparently I've been...
    Awesomeguy1 Awesomeguy1 13-15 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    The Past In The Future

    I feel like... everytime we don't talk.. its becasue.. your ignoring me.. i feel like.. im not good enough anymore.. i feel like i am a nobody, a nothing.. i feel like you have better things to do in your life then talk to the one person that cares about you.... Its happened...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    Big Heart / Intense Or Needy (also In Sensitive Group)

    I realize that I could be viewed as justifying myself a lot and you might get the impression that I'm in denial about my problems. At least you know I'm aware of more than one angle about the issue. That being said I want to share some introspective thing that may apply to you...
    BobArctor BobArctor 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    Shy

    I'm usually a quiet person, and in class I feel ignored. When I'm not with people important to me, I feel ignored. I do get shy around certain people important to me, but I don't feel ignored with them, just shy sometimes. I try to be more talkative to more people, but it feels...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    .....

    I feel completely ignore most of the time where ever I am. Even on the internet nowadays. I don't know what to do to get anyones attetion really.. people just don't care. I feel invisible most of the time. It's like I'm not really there..
    LostInTheDarkness LostInTheDarkness 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    Nobody Listens

     even in my family they think they hear but nobody listens, i could be invisable. I want to make it ok for eveybody because i am a nice person but who hears me? Answer.. nobody, i may as well be on my own. Fed up with all of the people that say thay care because really they...
    Vixenvet Vixenvet 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    It's Strange...

    It's said people run from pessimists right? That people do not like them etc etc so on and so forth... Well why is it then that these friends I have who are posting whining updates on Facebook *daily* have a MILLION responses of encouragement and cries of sympathy? But how come...
    fancygal fancygal 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    I Feel Ignored

    and it feels horrible.....at times i want to be alone but not ALL the time! when i actually talk to them shouldn't they talk back??? grrrrrrr......
    PMCLaura13 PMCLaura13 16-18, F Mar 10, 2008

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    Is This Still Worth It?

    Look I don't even know why am i still doing this.Trying to have a connection with you, waiting for you to text me, call me, chat and reply with my messages.Maybe if my friends would know about this one word for sure will i hear from them 'STUPID'.And my explanation would be, I...
    maeevan maeevan 22-25, F Jan 6, 2012

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    She Is Ignoring Me

    I have this female coworker who joined us in December and we became good friends. We have been luching together since. SHe is very intelligent and has a lot of experience, too. I like her for that. She is a very confident person. Everything was going ok betweeen us. But someone...
    newmsuv newmsuv 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Ignored.

    I don't know when It happened. I have always felt ignored from friends and family. I just wish for once somoene would make me feel less ignored...
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Advice?

    My mom and dad just got divorced a couple of months or so ago. My mom immediately moved out with her new boyfriend and I had no choice but to move in with them because me and my dad don't get along very well. They both work during the day so I'm usually at home by myself, but...
    Mrocto Mrocto 18-21, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Being An Introvert

    I've always been that innocent,quiet girl in class who is rarely noticed. I tried to become more talkative but it it's not just me. I'm about to finish college and my present hasn't really been felt. Advice please :(
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Is It Normal To Be Ignored?

    I have noticed that I am often ignored in all situations.  When I go to social events I normally end up alone in some corner, wishing someone would come up and talk to me, but no one ever does.  Often I try to send texts or voice mails to reach out and makes friends, but I don...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2011

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    No One Is Interested In What I Have To Say...

    It seems that no one is ever interested in me. People only talk to me when they want to. I am so...different than everybody around me, so whatever I have to say is never interesting enough for them to listen. There are few people that I talk to. Well only 4. To my misfourtune...
    obvious11 obvious11 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Generation Gap

    Talk about feeling ignored try raising 9 children that all think their smarter than you.Then they find out 5 or 10 years down the road maybe Mom was right.
    widow2709 widow2709 41-45, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Have You Ever Felt Ignored For No Reason At All..?

    Okay, this is the first time I ever posted on this site, so bear with me, okay? I decided to post here instead of venting out my problems through bloggin or tumblr because I didn't really want my friends knowing how bothered I am currently and I'm hoping that maybe someone went...
    Chippedfacade Chippedfacade 16-17, F Jun 8, 2010

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    It's so weird when it happens. And it's not a pleasant feeling either. My grandmother always talks to me, asks about my day, straightens my jacket collar, anything; she's super...
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I'm just on this earth to be a stepping stone to others in my life to get where they want to be.
    calicorex4 calicorex4 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Yeah like I hate it when I tell some one not to message some one r not to do something they do it anyway I just hate it grrrrrr
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Marriage over? Check. Zero love life? Check. Hopelessly dead-end career? Check. Fear of failure limiting dreams? Check. Self-loathing? Check, check, and check. I'm posting this to...
    Kronk23 Kronk23 36-40, M Apr 1

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    I told someone else about my depression. I thought if I told more people, I would have more people to turn to when I needed them. He was my best friend, so I thought I could trust...
    anon1995 anon1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I've got abandonment issues. Being ignored makes me feel like a little kid being abandoned. It actually makes me panicky.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel like no one truly hears me when I speak. Like I'm so easily ignored and invisible. Constantly.
    CassInterrupted CassInterrupted 16-17, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Whenever people ignore me, it ****** me off badly. I take it VERY personal. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. Like I never ignored you before. I try to give you a good laugh...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Espically when they said they never hurt you and then started ignoring you when they had no reason to and you, the one being ignored had every right to ignore them but you don't...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Ok I think it's time for me to let go of this guy and back off. I haven't seen him since we got in this fight. Yesterday he was complimenting saying how beautiful I am, wish he...
    gymgirl71 gymgirl71 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Dinner is more important. Getting to bed on time is more important (even though they don't have a job and don't need to be anywhere in the morning). Everything is more...
    MatureNotDead MatureNotDead 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I was there when your life was falling apart, when you cried I was the one who tried to soothe you. I was the one who you ignored for days but was there as soon as you was bored...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I hate being ignored but I tend to ignore some people lol oops 🙈
    ariannexo ariannexo 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Lately, I have not been feeling very great. I do not have anyone to talk to and so it's usually just me and God (but most of the time, I don't know if he's even listening to me...
    bakemehappy bakemehappy 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like I am currently being shunned. No one is answering my texts, emails and phone calls. Not my bestest friends, and cousins. I feel like I'm the only one left in this...
    blueskies256 blueskies256 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I bet no one will read this too . It's just about my luck , if I started to make graves people will stop dying :/ . I really feel jealous from people who can have other's...
    Bash94 Bash94 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 26