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I Feel Ignored

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 231 People

    Big Heart / Intense Or Needy (also In Sensitive Group)

    I realize that I could be viewed as justifying myself a lot and you might get the impression that I'm in denial about my problems. At least you know I'm aware of more than one angle about the issue. That being said I want to share some introspective thing that may apply to you...
    BobArctor BobArctor 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2008

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    I don't have nobody..

    . I don't have any friends, my family hates me... I sometimes just feel I need someone to talk, I just need someone that I can trust. I just need someone that likes me for who I really am...
    Ricking Ricking 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Everyday, for years. I talk,

    and look around, it's like everyone is purposely ignoring me. At work, at school, at home. What am I saying that people dismiss as not needing a response? It makes me angry, and frustrated. Always a different excuse when I call them out too, like "sorry I didn't hear you" or...
    raesaddiction raesaddiction 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I met this girl at this party.

    We were in a circle playing truth or dare. I was picked and I chose a dare, which was to kiss the girl on the neck. It felt good to do that again after taking a break from any contact with a girl and I went to contact her on Facebook afterwards. I got her number and we texted...
    jamierhoden jamierhoden 16-17, M Jun 28

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    No one wants to talk to me anymore.

    But they only talked to me when they need something.
    Leighton4 Leighton4 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 9

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    She Is Ignoring Me

    I have this female coworker who joined us in December and we became good friends. We have been luching together since. SHe is very intelligent and has a lot of experience, too. I like her for that. She is a very confident person. Everything was going ok betweeen us. But someone...
    newmsuv newmsuv 26-30, F 2 Responses May 3, 2011

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    Those moments when you go away from your phone

    hoping someone left you a message when you got back. Then you see that no one did. I hate that feeling.
    roxoutloud roxoutloud 16-17, F Jan 19

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    I'm Ignored A Lot

    Being ignored all of your life has a devastating effect on your mental state... at least it did for me. I've never had a girlfriend, nobody stops to say "hi" to me, and I just feel left out constantly. I have only a small group of friends and that's it. Apparently I've been...
    Awesomeguy1 Awesomeguy1 13-15 1 Response Aug 19, 2012

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    Hey Emce 1 why did you say "hi"

    and then block me from your account? I would love to get to know you in a chat. Really O just want to be friends!!!!
    bubley bubley 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    .....

    I feel completely ignore most of the time where ever I am. Even on the internet nowadays. I don't know what to do to get anyones attetion really.. people just don't care. I feel invisible most of the time. It's like I'm not really there..
    LostInTheDarkness LostInTheDarkness 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2010

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    Generation Gap

    Talk about feeling ignored try raising 9 children that all think their smarter than you.Then they find out 5 or 10 years down the road maybe Mom was right.
    widow2709 widow2709 41-45, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Nobody Listens

     even in my family they think they hear but nobody listens, i could be invisable. I want to make it ok for eveybody because i am a nice person but who hears me? Answer.. nobody, i may as well be on my own. Fed up with all of the people that say thay care because really they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

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    Only When They Want Something.

    I feel ingored. My "friends" only ever call or write when they want something from me. If they are having a hard time and need someone to listen, they call me. If they need money, they call me. If their dog got into rat poison and they remember that I worked with a vet...
    MelancholyCheer MelancholyCheer 26-30 3 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    The Past In The Future

    I feel like... everytime we don't talk.. its becasue.. your ignoring me.. i feel like.. im not good enough anymore.. i feel like i am a nobody, a nothing.. i feel like you have better things to do in your life then talk to the one person that cares about you.... Its happened...
    MiremebeKamaria MiremebeKamaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    Ignored.

    I don't know when It happened. I have always felt ignored from friends and family. I just wish for once somoene would make me feel less ignored...
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    No one will talk to me anymore.

    I don't know what to do. Even my old friends from before I moved. I don't have very many friends, but the ones I have will never talk to me, I'm just ignored. And I don't know what to do about it. If they talk to me they leave the conversation as soon as possible it seems, or I...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Is It Normal To Be Ignored?

    I have noticed that I am often ignored in all situations.  When I go to social events I normally end up alone in some corner, wishing someone would come up and talk to me, but no one ever does.  Often I try to send texts or voice mails to reach out and makes friends, but I don...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2011

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    Advice?

    My mom and dad just got divorced a couple of months or so ago. My mom immediately moved out with her new boyfriend and I had no choice but to move in with them because me and my dad don't get along very well. They both work during the day so I'm usually at home by myself, but...
    Mrocto Mrocto 18-21, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Being An Introvert

    I've always been that innocent,quiet girl in class who is rarely noticed. I tried to become more talkative but it it's not just me. I'm about to finish college and my present hasn't really been felt. Advice please :(
    huangzichen huangzichen 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Anybody wanna kikkkk with me?

    Leah.gabrielle. Ages 15-18 pleeeease.
    leahxxgabrielle leahxxgabrielle 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Shy

    I'm usually a quiet person, and in class I feel ignored. When I'm not with people important to me, I feel ignored. I do get shy around certain people important to me, but I don't feel ignored with them, just shy sometimes. I try to be more talkative to more people, but it feels...
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F Nov 16, 2013

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    I Am Woman Hear Me Roar!!!

    Ignore me and You will find me growling...Grrrrrrr!!!!  
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 15 Responses Feb 23, 2008

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    Having trouble understanding how someone could

    be so close to you, talk everyday for months, enjoy everything about you, then just ignore you like you don't matter
    missmiss3 missmiss3 36-40, F 2 Responses May 20

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    I always feel ignored.

    Some people always tell me "come with us, we'll have fun." But it all end up terrible:( they just leave me alone.. Start to whisper and leave me standing in the back, even when they want to take selfies, I'm always the last one sometimes my face never appears in the pics...
    evix33 evix33 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I Feel Ignored

    and it feels horrible.....at times i want to be alone but not ALL the time! when i actually talk to them shouldn't they talk back??? grrrrrrr......
    PMCLaura13 PMCLaura13 16-18, F Mar 10, 2008

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    Have You Ever Felt Ignored For No Reason At All..?

    Okay, this is the first time I ever posted on this site, so bear with me, okay? I decided to post here instead of venting out my problems through bloggin or tumblr because I didn't really want my friends knowing how bothered I am currently and I'm hoping that maybe someone went...
    Chippedfacade Chippedfacade 16-17, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Is This Still Worth It?

    Look I don't even know why am i still doing this.Trying to have a connection with you, waiting for you to text me, call me, chat and reply with my messages.Maybe if my friends would know about this one word for sure will i hear from them 'STUPID'.And my explanation would be, I...
    maeevan maeevan 22-25, F Jan 6, 2012

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    No One Is Interested In What I Have To Say...

    It seems that no one is ever interested in me. People only talk to me when they want to. I am so...different than everybody around me, so whatever I have to say is never interesting enough for them to listen. There are few people that I talk to. Well only 4. To my misfourtune...
    obvious11 obvious11 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I don't want to say I hate it, and it might just be my interpretation, the world looks strange in my eyes, I try to believe everyone loves me, cus I received lots of bday wishes...
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Nobody ever responds, or doesn't even feel like they care. So, I'm starting not to care myself. **** it. All. Right. That's how everyone else acts. But I can't do that. I'm just so...
    lucidity91 lucidity91 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I feel ignored right now but I have no idea why and I feel kinda off😕 I hate this feeling of constant confusion and sudden sadness.
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    A big pet hate if mine being ignored... Cannot stand it... Not trying to be disrespectful to men or anything... Or cause a stir there, I know all men are different. I have had a...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel worthless, unwanted and unloved, especially unloved. For the last few weeks it's getting more often. But why is that? Don't get me wrong, not everything in my life...
    Gammler Gammler 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    I've been posting about the same topic for a while, and I feel like posting again so I can ventilate as I'm having a terrible morning. Nearly two months ago, my ex-girlfriend broke...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I've always been highly intuitive. Only, I have not always heeded my intuition. Many years ago, I attended a baby shower for a cousin that I had not seen since we were children...
    Aeydii Aeydii 36-40, F Aug 11

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    hello to anyone who is reading this. i think i have a major problem. its kind of embarrasing but it would mean alot to me if anyone can help me out. it seems like i dont know the...
    mike8989 mike8989 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I keep being ignored by people around me whether in skul ,home or public .I used to be able to talk cheerfully around ppl but ,after being ignored many times i became scared and...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    Ignored at home by my family, ignored at school by everyone, ignored by my friends.
    AnimeHalfBlood63 AnimeHalfBlood63 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate being ignored because wen im trying to talk with someone , and they dont say say nothing . I feel like im a ghost or something , like today i try to tell my mom something...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I reach out to my step sisters and they keep shutting me down and leaving me out. They hate my mom and I. I can tell. They're jealous because my step dad wasn't around for them...
    holdontilmay holdontilmay 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Last night I saw my counselor and after my session I waited almost an hour for my husband to come and pick me up, but he never showed. This was the first time this has happened...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I may be mad. But it's more maddening to be ignored. Well? you think I'm talking bullshit aren't you? Well truth is, facts and my feelings are **** and bull. I'm real. I don't give...
    MeXYours MeXYours 16-17, F Aug 9

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    I probably won't message any one first today. Because I'm not in a mood to be ignored or rejected. And if I message someone I know they won't want to talk to me. Buuuutt I don't...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    This time it was in a professional context. I am studying re-exams for the summer at my university (yes, it is normal to have retakes. I am not a super human who passes all...
    Existentior Existentior 31-35, M Jul 24

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    I am ignored often. I was told to be quiet this morning by friend because I was trying to tell him something, and he responded with: 'Dude, I am trying to play a game right now...
    MainMan1999 MainMan1999 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    One of things I hate the most in life! I would rather have someone tell me " I don't want to talk to you anymore" than simply get cut off constantly or straight up ignored for no...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    If you don't like me then tell me. If you don't want to talk to me tell me. If you decide I'm too broken for you to be around or that you can't stand me, tell me. I hate being...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I get ignored at times by my man and I get mad
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I feel so low, I'm struggling to continue with the pretence that everything is ok. I just can't cope. I'm miserable. When I'm walking down the street, guys rarely look at me and...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    It happen that i feel so lonely that i wish if go to sleep and never wake up again. It is so harsh as just no one talk with me in the right moment while i am writing this and may...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Aug 11

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