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I Feel I'm Not Needed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 240 People

    Looking To Share My Life With The Right Woman!

    I am a single man, 56 yrs old young at heart, I look younger, Thats enough about me. That Woman I'm looking for will become my best friend first! & must want to be treated like a Queen! exc....
    loneliestly loneliestly 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Eh....

    I know I am not needed for anything but someone to vent to.  Other than that, I'm not needed at all. 
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    Sometimes I close my eyes

    and think how others life should to be if I was never born. Sometimes I think: wait... Ca- can you see me?
    VanjaBraat VanjaBraat 13-15, F May 3, 2014

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    I'm A Disappointment

    *sigh* I don't know where to start. Im a middle child. Im stuck in between my perfect older sister and my younger spoilt sister My parents came from China so they are very demanding. That's because only the best of the best from China get to live in America So I have to get A's...
    justanotherlie justanotherlie 22-25 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Scared And Lonely.

    I'm scared. I'm lonely. I don't know what to do with my life. I've been made redundant. My wife left me. Took the children. And is now a lesbian. The children fight. She stays in bed with her girlfriend. I want a hand to hold. I want to be held and hugged and kissed and loved...
    RichardQ RichardQ 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Just Why?

    *sigh* I am the youngest in my family, my two older sisters already passed their exams with top grades while me. I feel like I have brought shame to my family :/ Like I have a big ceremony organized by the school. When I told my parents about it. They just like "Owh, congrats...
    JuzSimple JuzSimple 13-15, F Sep 14, 2012

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    I feel as though I will never be seen

    for what I could be. I don't know how to prove I'm worth being appreciated. My friends are off having fun and they plan their fun day in front of me but without me. I need new friends.
    e220 e220 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    And Maybe That Is

    my problem, that she is getting so indepenant that my usefullness will be diminished to nothing and I will be tossed aside cause my uses will be no longer needed and she will not want me to be around anymore. The only thing that is holding it together right now is that she...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 3 Responses May 22, 2009

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    The Nature of Friendship

    Tonight, I was attempting to clean up my circle.  The circle gets a life of its own, it grows and grows and people come and go.  I can't ignore the people in my circle who aren't there.  Meaning, I still visit, gesture, scribble, send gifts to those that are...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 6 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Ok!

    Well I sometimes do, sensitive as hell i am..   But then I do have some lovely people near me to remind me that I am still worth more than a piece of ****!
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    This Is What It Feels Like To Be A Ghost.

    So I am 18, and I have a big family who is relatively close to one another. My parents are divorced both remarried, both with falling apart marriages. My family consists of 2 older siblings from my real parents marriage, and a 2 year old brother from my moms second marriage. I...
    madpie madpie 18-21 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Outta Here

    If no one needs me, then there's no point in sticking around unless I'm enjoying myself. Well, I'm not enjoying myself, so I think it's time to go. "I think I'll go to Boston. I think I'll start a new life. I think I'll start it over where no one knows my name." It's better that...
    TigersEyeAndTurquoise TigersEyeAndTurquoise 70+, F Aug 15, 2013

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    So my best friend Sarah started dating one of

    our other friends; let's call him B. Now I never get to see Sarah without B being there too. Me and B are friends... Well, we fight a lot. We have a love hate relationship I guess. I love that Sarah's happy, but I miss her so much, even though I see her almost every day. I feel...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 14, 2014

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    So Im Ending A Friendship

    I feel like my last close friend does not need me, so starting now without telling get im cutting all ties with her... Its for the best.
    Krie Krie 22-25 Mar 12, 2011

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    How Has This Happened

    don't even know how to write this!i think that i am at my all time lowest!i don't go out of my way 2 cause trouble but it almost always seems to find me!I've always felt an outcast in my family and the past couple of days have just proved that i have always been right to feel...
    remember32 remember32 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Ur never wanted or needed

    when they need u and wanted u the most they never saw u
    katiecarter13 katiecarter13 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    No one ever wants talk to me and no one ever cares about me or how I'm feeling. I'm always pre-judged by people I don't know, or judged by people I DO know, and it's always some...
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    I'm exhausted. I'm tired of listening to people and believing them. My faith in seeking someone to date is zero to none. I have reached that threshold of completely losing intrest...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 34 mins ago

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    I have had a really tough year. I guess I have reason to feel the way I do. I don't know how anyone wouldn't. why do I feel so ashamed at being depressed. I know I don't really...
    wthdoido wthdoido 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My friends are amazing, but can't feel my loss. I dated a woman, briefly, who was in my circle of friends and it didn't work out (her decision). Over the next two years, we...
    illbaround illbaround 26-30, M Mar 25

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    I often wonder why I do this. Today for instance, I had to bring my mother to the ER due to dehydration. When we arrived her body was beginning to go into shock. They admitted her...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 31

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    I have a guy best friend, and he's married, (bad marriage) but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm from a small town and could walk everywhere I needed to go. Running is my favorite way to destress, and I feel like accomplished something after finishing a run. I lost that...
    ambernoel ambernoel 18-21, F a week ago

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    So I'm this 46 yr old guy , a bad *** Mr fix it ..hard to believe I started out as a stupid young wanna be lawn mover mechanic at 18 ...was swinging wrenches on Chevy Monte Carlo...
    joophomme joophomme 46-50, M Apr 5

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    Top ten questions about relationships with psychopaths/narcissists. I took this from the site psychopathfree.com. I found it to be very helpful. 1. Is he / she really a psychopath...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 27

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    So I'm one week into quitting drinking, because I have over many years been in denial that I have a drinking problem. In order to get my life on track, save relationships with my...
    TrustxxIssues TrustxxIssues 31-35, F Apr 5

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    Ive always felt strongly connected to wolves and there's a strange...magical feeling I get when I'm in the woods. I've tried shifting to a wolf form in the past but it hasn't...
    EllieLoveless EllieLoveless 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    ...not sure where to begin if to begin at all. Most days I feel I've lost my mind...Anyway, I remebered a life where I'm from a large family, a royal one at that, one of the...
    Solzok21 Solzok21 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I feel like I'm dying. I somehow manage to go through my daily routines but I no longer feel like there's a reason for me breathe. I feel like I'm just existing, not living; and...
    ILoveWeights ILoveWeights 26-30, M Mar 29

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    Perhaps I should explain my depression in finer detail. Aside from all 4 of my girlfriends screwing me over for some other guy for no valid reason, I have no one to talk to or...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm sick of people draining me.....they fight over my attention because being with me makes them happy. What do I get out of thus deal NOTHING. all you talk about is yourself. I'm...
    evesimone74 evesimone74 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    a lot of the time, I can forget the reasons why. I'm depressed, sure, whatever. I ignore it, force my way past it, don't look at it, don't examine it. But then something happens...
    anata1 anata1 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I know people say it's a permanent solution to temporary problems. I always try to do the right thing and then I end up being hurt because it benefits me in no way but for the...
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Overall, I more or less like my life, but I'm a little worried that I'm wasting time by not knowing what I want. Time seems to be speeding up, so I'm afraid that if I make the...
    MsJuliaM MsJuliaM 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm beginning to think that this group relates to me a bit. I'm beginning to see that I nearly freeze after a sentence of normal conversation. I start saying something and then I...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Quarter life crisis? I'm so depressed.. Drinking my 3rd can now.. I don't know why I'm crying.. I've been crying since this afternoon.. I feel like I'm nothing.. Nothing to be...
    margaux04 margaux04 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    on some days I feel like "I'm awesome you don't like me it's your loss" while on other days I feel like "I'm so lonely. what have I done wrong in life that made me this miserable...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I feel like I'm a complete psychic case! I am suicidal...upto recently....I used to put cuts on my arms and all....my boyfriend changed that.... I start feeling happy and normal...
    Zunairanasim Zunairanasim 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Recently I have noticed how i am never the same with everybody. Not with my boyfriend, my brother, my sister, my parents, or even my online friends. I feel like everybody I talk to...
    stressbubble stressbubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Recently I started feeling more and more like moving forward with the things that make me happy and excites me such as piercing my ears or buying some new stilettos. But The truth...
    Danairis Danairis 46-50, T 3 Responses Mar 22