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I Feel I'm Not Needed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 236 People

    And Maybe That Is

    my problem, that she is getting so indepenant that my usefullness will be diminished to nothing and I will be tossed aside cause my uses will be no longer needed and she will not want me to be around anymore. The only thing that is holding it together right now is that she...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 3 Responses May 22, 2009

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    Looking To Share My Life With The Right Woman!

    I am a single man, 56 yrs old young at heart, I look younger, Thats enough about me. That Woman I'm looking for will become my best friend first! & must want to be treated like a Queen! exc....
    loneliestly loneliestly 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Ok!

    Well I sometimes do, sensitive as hell i am..   But then I do have some lovely people near me to remind me that I am still worth more than a piece of ****!
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Outta Here

    If no one needs me, then there's no point in sticking around unless I'm enjoying myself. Well, I'm not enjoying myself, so I think it's time to go. "I think I'll go to Boston. I think I'll start a new life. I think I'll start it over where no one knows my name." It's better that...
    Dyssey Dyssey 70+, F Aug 15, 2013

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    The Nature of Friendship

    Tonight, I was attempting to clean up my circle.  The circle gets a life of its own, it grows and grows and people come and go.  I can't ignore the people in my circle who aren't there.  Meaning, I still visit, gesture, scribble, send gifts to those that are...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 6 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Scared And Lonely.

    I'm scared. I'm lonely. I don't know what to do with my life. I've been made redundant. My wife left me. Took the children. And is now a lesbian. The children fight. She stays in bed with her girlfriend. I want a hand to hold. I want to be held and hugged and kissed and loved...
    RichardQ RichardQ 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Just Why?

    *sigh* I am the youngest in my family, my two older sisters already passed their exams with top grades while me. I feel like I have brought shame to my family :/ Like I have a big ceremony organized by the school. When I told my parents about it. They just like "Owh, congrats...
    JuzSimple JuzSimple 13-15, F Sep 14, 2012

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    So Im Ending A Friendship

    I feel like my last close friend does not need me, so starting now without telling get im cutting all ties with her... Its for the best.
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 12, 2011

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    Eh....

    I know I am not needed for anything but someone to vent to.  Other than that, I'm not needed at all. 
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    So my best friend Sarah started dating one of

    our other friends; let's call him B. Now I never get to see Sarah without B being there too. Me and B are friends... Well, we fight a lot. We have a love hate relationship I guess. I love that Sarah's happy, but I miss her so much, even though I see her almost every day. I feel...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 14

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    How Has This Happened

    don't even know how to write this!i think that i am at my all time lowest!i don't go out of my way 2 cause trouble but it almost always seems to find me!I've always felt an outcast in my family and the past couple of days have just proved that i have always been right to feel...
    remember32 remember32 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    I feel as though I will never be seen

    for what I could be. I don't know how to prove I'm worth being appreciated. My friends are off having fun and they plan their fun day in front of me but without me. I need new friends.
    e220 e220 18-21, F 1 Response May 2

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    Ur never wanted or needed

    when they need u and wanted u the most they never saw u
    katiecarter13 katiecarter13 13-15, F May 2

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    I'm A Disappointment

    *sigh* I don't know where to start. Im a middle child. Im stuck in between my perfect older sister and my younger spoilt sister My parents came from China so they are very demanding. That's because only the best of the best from China get to live in America So I have to get A's...
    justanotherlie justanotherlie 22-25 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Sometimes I close my eyes

    and think how others life should to be if I was never born. Sometimes I think: wait... Ca- can you see me?
    VanjaBraat VanjaBraat 13-15, F May 3

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    This Is What It Feels Like To Be A Ghost.

    So I am 18, and I have a big family who is relatively close to one another. My parents are divorced both remarried, both with falling apart marriages. My family consists of 2 older siblings from my real parents marriage, and a 2 year old brother from my moms second marriage. I...
    madpie madpie 18-21 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I usually pay no mind to my feelings, I'm happy with my bf anywats. it's good to just keep things the way they are.
    KayaNakaku KayaNakaku 16-17, F Oct 23

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    I'm a little worried about this. I just hope my depression and whatever I have doesn't turn nasty.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Every time he says something so blatantly cold, I wonder why I'm here. What must it feel like to be with someone who would care if I left?
    niklb niklb 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So... I'm gay and best friends with this straight guy and i went over to his house and he's so provocative the first time i went to his house and the second time that i went he put...
    benjibatch benjibatch 16-17, M a week ago

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    Often feels that way. I'm sure I just blunder about and screw it up most of the time!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    It seems like when I need someone I'm all alone. I'm always available when others need me but when I need someone there no where to be found. Yes, I'm a loner at heart but there...
    TheFusmicster TheFusmicster 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    (Any comments/help are really appreciated) I have a best friend, who is a girl, named holly. She's 5'4, very slim as she's a dancer, beautiful brown hair and eyes. She has an...
    megboundyx megboundyx 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 1

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    I was so happy. Sooooo happy the beginning of 2014. I had a sense of humor, no anxiety, no vagueness, no monotonous behavior, the only thing that could bring me down was my best...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Oct 1

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    I'm the one people turn to for help. it's never the other way around.
    andrewD51 andrewD51 18-21, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    My friends are plastic. Whenever I'm not around they would always talk about me, as if I wasn't just outside the door that I could hear them.
    Ranran123 Ranran123 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a guy who was there when the wheel went 'round..and managed to be a maverick, independent, keep out of trouble(MOST of the time--:)) and hopefully become a better man in the...
    SouthernItaliano SouthernItaliano 51-55, M 12 hrs ago

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    Another lonely weekend, no one to talk to get a hug from or care I'm there (other than to clean his clothes that is)
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 8 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm so sick of always being seen as weird, It's the fact that I can't compare with anyone because I'm so weird, family tries to understand, but most of them can't even say a thing...
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    This is not the way it was supposed to go. I'm Rosalind (21 years old) and I have been with my boyfriend Benvolio (22 years old) for 6 months. Not incredibly long of a...
    ReservedRosalind ReservedRosalind 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Somewhat of asking for advice/telling my story. I am a 21y old male who has somewhat just rediscovered my shaken gender identity. It's all rather confusing to me right now which...
    SqEdward SqEdward 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone or anything :/ :P
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    I'm just feeling down, would like to know
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 43 Responses Oct 7

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    Hm. I feel hopeless and empty too much. I feel like crying but I can't bring myself to it. It's not being sad and morbid I feel, it's just the hopelessness of humanity and how I'm...
    fatality500 fatality500 13-15, M Oct 10

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    It's supposed to rain most of the days this following week. It's fitting, because that is how I feel... I want to cry, all this following week. As I've mentioned here and there...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I try not to be a jealous person but I cant help it. I thought I was going to have fun in high school but so far I'm not. I am trying to make new friends but it is really hard so I...
    volleygirl45 volleygirl45 13-15, F a week ago

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    I really don't have a clue on what I'm feeling or what should I do. I mean nothing's wrong in my life! I'm a teenage girl with a perfect life. Everything's perfect; family, friends...
    ifonlykuwait ifonlykuwait 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm shy about my body. I am smaller than the other boys in my class. They look like men compared to me, tall and muscular with some hair on their faces. I blush at the sight of...
    2tfx 2tfx 13-15, M Oct 9

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    Only the second person who feels like this on here. I hope others join us. Why? Well I'm still growing as a person, so much to learn about life. I want to change direction in...
    nunos nunos 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I'm very lost and don't know what to do next. I feel so bored of life that a lot of times I wonder if death would be better you know. I don't know what to do in order to keep my...
    Zoned1 Zoned1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    I feel like I've lost contact with reality. I'm slipping people! Please help!!!
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    So I'm pretty paranoid, if I'm walking about in the city I feel like everyone is looking at me, I look at someone walking past like a glimpse and then they just lock onto me until...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 19

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    I'm ugly, but it's okay because I'm also highly intelligent, funny, talented and I can "read" people. So, being ugly doesn't make me feel bad, and I don't need people telling me...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F Oct 21

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    I miss you so much that I feel like dying babe 😔 I'm pretending to be strong and okay in front of others which is not like me but inside me I feel like dying and I cry my heart...
    lydiasangi lydiasangi 18-21, F Oct 23

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    So... I know I should'nt feel that way, but I'm so jealous of my boyfriends life. It's absolutely not his fault but it bothers me so much and I don't really want to tell him how I...
    tellmeimnormal tellmeimnormal 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23

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    how do you tell that you are a wolf because I feel like I am and some agree but some say I'm a cat. And a long time ago someone told me I'm more like a dog and though they didn't...
    Okamipyon Okamipyon 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Most of the times I just pretend I'm fine.. But the truth is, I feel sooo lonely and there are times I want to just cry.. I feel so miserable and I'm not who I was anymore and I...
    kangaroo02 kangaroo02 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have a great boyfriend, but I don't get to see him everyday. Why do I feel so lonely and depressed when he leaves after he's been here for a few days? I have two young boys to...
    jlkreul jlkreul 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I just have come to a conclusion of how alone I am. I have no friends. only have a few good people in my life. but otherwise I'm ******* alone. and it's all my fault. can't help...
    ashbomb ashbomb 13-15, F 3 days ago