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I Feel I'm Not Needed

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    So my best friend Sarah started dating one of

    our other friends; let's call him B. Now I never get to see Sarah without B being there too. Me and B are friends... Well, we fight a lot. We have a love hate relationship I guess. I love that Sarah's happy, but I miss her so much, even though I see her almost every day. I feel...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 14, 2014

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    This Is What It Feels Like To Be A Ghost.

    So I am 18, and I have a big family who is relatively close to one another. My parents are divorced both remarried, both with falling apart marriages. My family consists of 2 older siblings from my real parents marriage, and a 2 year old brother from my moms second marriage. I...
    madpie madpie 18-21 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    And Maybe That Is

    my problem, that she is getting so indepenant that my usefullness will be diminished to nothing and I will be tossed aside cause my uses will be no longer needed and she will not want me to be around anymore. The only thing that is holding it together right now is that she...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 3 Responses May 22, 2009

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    So Im Ending A Friendship

    I feel like my last close friend does not need me, so starting now without telling get im cutting all ties with her... Its for the best.
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 12, 2011

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    I feel as though I will never be seen

    for what I could be. I don't know how to prove I'm worth being appreciated. My friends are off having fun and they plan their fun day in front of me but without me. I need new friends.
    e220 e220 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    Sometimes I close my eyes

    and think how others life should to be if I was never born. Sometimes I think: wait... Ca- can you see me?
    VanjaBraat VanjaBraat 13-15, F May 3, 2014

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    How Has This Happened

    don't even know how to write this!i think that i am at my all time lowest!i don't go out of my way 2 cause trouble but it almost always seems to find me!I've always felt an outcast in my family and the past couple of days have just proved that i have always been right to feel...
    remember32 remember32 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Outta Here

    If no one needs me, then there's no point in sticking around unless I'm enjoying myself. Well, I'm not enjoying myself, so I think it's time to go. "I think I'll go to Boston. I think I'll start a new life. I think I'll start it over where no one knows my name." It's better that...
    Dyssey Dyssey 70+, F Aug 15, 2013

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    Scared And Lonely.

    I'm scared. I'm lonely. I don't know what to do with my life. I've been made redundant. My wife left me. Took the children. And is now a lesbian. The children fight. She stays in bed with her girlfriend. I want a hand to hold. I want to be held and hugged and kissed and loved...
    RichardQ RichardQ 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Looking To Share My Life With The Right Woman!

    I am a single man, 56 yrs old young at heart, I look younger, Thats enough about me. That Woman I'm looking for will become my best friend first! & must want to be treated like a Queen! exc....
    loneliestly loneliestly 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Just Why?

    *sigh* I am the youngest in my family, my two older sisters already passed their exams with top grades while me. I feel like I have brought shame to my family :/ Like I have a big ceremony organized by the school. When I told my parents about it. They just like "Owh, congrats...
    JuzSimple JuzSimple 13-15, F Sep 14, 2012

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    Ur never wanted or needed

    when they need u and wanted u the most they never saw u
    katiecarter13 katiecarter13 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    I'm A Disappointment

    *sigh* I don't know where to start. Im a middle child. Im stuck in between my perfect older sister and my younger spoilt sister My parents came from China so they are very demanding. That's because only the best of the best from China get to live in America So I have to get A's...
    justanotherlie justanotherlie 22-25 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Eh....

    I know I am not needed for anything but someone to vent to.  Other than that, I'm not needed at all. 
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    The Nature of Friendship

    Tonight, I was attempting to clean up my circle.  The circle gets a life of its own, it grows and grows and people come and go.  I can't ignore the people in my circle who aren't there.  Meaning, I still visit, gesture, scribble, send gifts to those that are...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 6 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Ok!

    Well I sometimes do, sensitive as hell i am..   But then I do have some lovely people near me to remind me that I am still worth more than a piece of ****!
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    We met in our sophomore year of high school. He would always try to talk to me but I was so shy that he would usually end up having a conversation with himself. I knew he liked me...
    belacleo belacleo 18-21, F Jan 9

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    I've been feeling this more and more recently, I've become quiet, distant... I cover it well which I guess is what I do, but I can't do it no more. I just don't feel good enough...
    codenamekidnextdoor codenamekidnextdoor 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Well that was freaky. A handful of hours later M is completely back to normal and A is doing swimmingly considering. Guess I just needed to earn my mom badge today. LOL
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F Dec 26, 2014

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    Okay so to make a long story short, every year me and a group of friends get together for a new years party. Every year I tend to look my best because I diet and work out a month...
    MattyMedic MattyMedic 18-21, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I think it has finally occurred to me that we aren't friends are we? I really thought we were....for a long time, nearly two years. But I'm just that girl willing to sleep with you...
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    Well I'm 17 years old with no driver license or job yet.I barely go out because I barely have any close friends. And lately the people who I thought were my friends are picking on...
    breebree0233 breebree0233 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    It's so distressing, not being able to place where you stand. I feel like I'm floating, just wading through a dream, surrounded by fog. It's like I'm in a funhouse surrounded by...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I'm feeling quite lonely today. It's not an unusual feeling for me, but today it just feels so much more intense. I once told someone about when I feel like this and their...
    EazyZen EazyZen 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    All my friends are getting engaged and I'm still single :|. Feels a little odd.
    thearamo thearamo 22-25, M 20 hrs ago

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    I'm so f*cking happy right now! Like I feel like I'm going to burst with love. Maybe it's the drink talking xD (so much for being tee total) But I feel really good right now...
    TheFemaleGrimReaper TheFemaleGrimReaper 18-21, F Dec 25, 2014

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    I have a best friend for 1 year and i feel like I know her for at least 5 years. I know everything about her. the thing is that she doesn't really know me. I feel so misunderstood...
    coco3700 coco3700 16-17, F Dec 25, 2014

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    It seems everyone has friends, best friends, acquaintances, or at least someone they have on social retainer to talk to whenever they're bored or lonely. It seems no one has a...
    VexisArcanum VexisArcanum 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm always nude,24-7 so it is hard to tell. haha
    nudigirl nudigirl 22-25, F 26 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Everyone has lies they say to others. My personal favorite is saying I'm okay. In all honesty I'm far from it. I've felt broken for a very long time now. Loneliness, depression...
    smokebombtom smokebombtom 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I work in the hospitality industry and I have started my carrier as as an Agent but after a five years of working in this industry I have moved from a hotel to other one for...
    Yassan Yassan 26-30, M Jan 5

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    Every ****** g day. Today (now technically yesterday) is my birthday and I feel like a giant POS. My wife made me feel like **** because she said she would cook dinner when I got...
    snake215 snake215 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    My husbands girlfriend just told him that she feels bad for me. That she's angry for me. That if she were in my position she would feel used, disgraced, and embarrassed. I feel bad...
    nyas28 nyas28 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 15

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    It's not pretty but me, myself and I are in a relationship with each other, the killer is we don't see eye to eye. I basically feel that all the goodness in me is being held back...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Think I'm cursed, all I said I wanted for Christmas was family time and all I've had is alone time, spend more time crying than laughing. And I know there are going to be people...
    Nethaly Nethaly 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Can anyone here relate to feeling like there's a wolf inside you that just wants out? I was sitting in the car last night on the way back from a Christmas thing and I literally...
    Bradioactive Bradioactive 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I feel like I always miss the mark by just a little. I'm 5'11 or 6'0 and most people say 6'3 or 6'4 is the ideal height. So I'm barely above average, My 'equipment' is 5.5 inches...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I hate how she made me feel loved then now, she don't love me anymore. It hurts so much and I hate how this break up makes me feel. Everyday, I get to think about those sweet...
    guhint guhint 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    I know that I am just an adopted child but why does she always needs to make me feel this way. I feel like I am never enough and I feel like I am the dumbest woman in the world...
    Mariangabalon Mariangabalon 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Most of the time people don't know how to take me. I'm definitely a handful and can be hard to handle at times.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I'm curious about what everyone thinks about physical shifting? I want to hear anyone's opinions, whether they think it's impossible or claim to have p-shifted before. If you have...
    Bradioactive Bradioactive 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    of coarse I'm gonna say I'm ok. I'm not gonna tell you all of my pointless feelings. they don't matter .
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I don't know if this is the right place to share my story but all I know is that I'm hating my life because of my family, I'm 22 years old and they treat me really bad, they dont...
    Ninaahj Ninaahj 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    It's different, I don't like it but I do. He's married & I'm practically married? Maybe that's why it feels okay? I know it's not but I like it, I wish i didn't but I do. I never...
    SincerelyJasmineXO SincerelyJasmineXO 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Sometimes I feel like I'm the main character in a show about a guy having a mid life crisis like califonication or Bo jack horseman. This is extra bad because I'm a 19 year old...
    heyitsme95 heyitsme95 18-21, F Jan 2

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