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I Feel I'm Not Needed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 239 People

    Outta Here

    If no one needs me, then there's no point in sticking around unless I'm enjoying myself. Well, I'm not enjoying myself, so I think it's time to go. "I think I'll go to Boston. I think I'll start a new life. I think I'll start it over where no one knows my name." It's better that...
    TigersEyeAndTurquoise TigersEyeAndTurquoise 70+, F Aug 15, 2013

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    Ur never wanted or needed

    when they need u and wanted u the most they never saw u
    katiecarter13 katiecarter13 13-15, F May 2, 2014

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    So Im Ending A Friendship

    I feel like my last close friend does not need me, so starting now without telling get im cutting all ties with her... Its for the best.
    Krie Krie 22-25 Mar 12, 2011

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    So my best friend Sarah started dating one of

    our other friends; let's call him B. Now I never get to see Sarah without B being there too. Me and B are friends... Well, we fight a lot. We have a love hate relationship I guess. I love that Sarah's happy, but I miss her so much, even though I see her almost every day. I feel...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F Oct 14, 2014

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    Sometimes I close my eyes

    and think how others life should to be if I was never born. Sometimes I think: wait... Ca- can you see me?
    VanjaBraat VanjaBraat 13-15, F May 3, 2014

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    I feel as though I will never be seen

    for what I could be. I don't know how to prove I'm worth being appreciated. My friends are off having fun and they plan their fun day in front of me but without me. I need new friends.
    e220 e220 18-21, F 1 Response May 2, 2014

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    The Nature of Friendship

    Tonight, I was attempting to clean up my circle.  The circle gets a life of its own, it grows and grows and people come and go.  I can't ignore the people in my circle who aren't there.  Meaning, I still visit, gesture, scribble, send gifts to those that are...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 6 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Just Why?

    *sigh* I am the youngest in my family, my two older sisters already passed their exams with top grades while me. I feel like I have brought shame to my family :/ Like I have a big ceremony organized by the school. When I told my parents about it. They just like "Owh, congrats...
    JuzSimple JuzSimple 13-15, F Sep 14, 2012

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    This Is What It Feels Like To Be A Ghost.

    So I am 18, and I have a big family who is relatively close to one another. My parents are divorced both remarried, both with falling apart marriages. My family consists of 2 older siblings from my real parents marriage, and a 2 year old brother from my moms second marriage. I...
    madpie madpie 18-21 2 Responses Feb 19, 2011

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    And Maybe That Is

    my problem, that she is getting so indepenant that my usefullness will be diminished to nothing and I will be tossed aside cause my uses will be no longer needed and she will not want me to be around anymore. The only thing that is holding it together right now is that she...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 3 Responses May 22, 2009

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    How Has This Happened

    don't even know how to write this!i think that i am at my all time lowest!i don't go out of my way 2 cause trouble but it almost always seems to find me!I've always felt an outcast in my family and the past couple of days have just proved that i have always been right to feel...
    remember32 remember32 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Ok!

    Well I sometimes do, sensitive as hell i am..   But then I do have some lovely people near me to remind me that I am still worth more than a piece of ****!
    Floydian Floydian 22-25, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2009

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    Scared And Lonely.

    I'm scared. I'm lonely. I don't know what to do with my life. I've been made redundant. My wife left me. Took the children. And is now a lesbian. The children fight. She stays in bed with her girlfriend. I want a hand to hold. I want to be held and hugged and kissed and loved...
    RichardQ RichardQ 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    I'm A Disappointment

    *sigh* I don't know where to start. Im a middle child. Im stuck in between my perfect older sister and my younger spoilt sister My parents came from China so they are very demanding. That's because only the best of the best from China get to live in America So I have to get A's...
    justanotherlie justanotherlie 22-25 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Looking To Share My Life With The Right Woman!

    I am a single man, 56 yrs old young at heart, I look younger, Thats enough about me. That Woman I'm looking for will become my best friend first! & must want to be treated like a Queen! exc....
    loneliestly loneliestly 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    Eh....

    I know I am not needed for anything but someone to vent to.  Other than that, I'm not needed at all. 
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2010

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    The minute I become anything less than strictly necessary for someone is the minute I lose any value in their life. It has always been the same. I'm pretty dependable. I give...
    GoldingFlies GoldingFlies 18-21 1 Response Feb 15

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    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 22 hrs ago

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    Ah the pillow. I Hate this pillow. It's a king size pillow so not quite a body pillow but in terms of its role as the Berlin Wall of our bed it works just fine. The few times I...
    Alohaguy Alohaguy 36-40, M 9 hrs ago

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    it's probably because I have actually done so.
    mrweerd mrweerd 26-30, M Feb 11

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    So we are down to about once a month. There are lots of reasons why. Al of which logically seem ok. Still breastfeeding, but she wants to stop. Has wanted to stop with our...
    Alohaguy Alohaguy 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    it's not like i like being this way, as if i am being this cold and emotionless on purpose. apparently, my normal facial expression makes me look like an angry serial killer. or...
    Kihon Kihon 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    Hate this feeling. I'm stuck. I want to grow up, I really do... yet I so badly just want to stay a kid. God, why is growing up such hardship?!
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    I'm not feeling like myself at all. I'm losing faith in everything, except God. I'm losing faith. I don't know what's happening. I feel like I'm doing a lot of things to make...
    BMTH99 BMTH99 13-15, F 40 mins ago

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    I want someone to message and talk about things. I want someone to give me compliments and tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special :] I want someone to talk about erotic things...
    oldsam94123 oldsam94123 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    I want someone to message and talk about things. I want someone to give me compliments and tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special :] I want someone to talk about erotic things...
    oldsam94123 oldsam94123 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    I want someone to message and talk about things. I want someone to give me compliments and tell me I'm pretty and make me feel special :] I want someone to talk about erotic things...
    oldsam94123 oldsam94123 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    That really drives me insane because it makes me feel like he/she doesn't trust what I'm saying.
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F 14 hrs ago

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    I met a guy. And the scary thing is, I liked him. I liked him way more that I ever did any girl. I've always had feelings for guys but I never acted upon it. So I told him. He...
    AlexTheAverage AlexTheAverage 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    I say I'm OK when I am and even when I'm not. Everything is fine! No not really. Never really. I say I'm fine because that is what is expected. If people knew half the things going...
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Feeling like this right now, I'm so stupid. :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    Slowly but surely I'm losing myself. Or so it feels.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I turn the music louder so I wouldn't hear my thoughts, but it's stupid because the lyrics remind me of what I'm trying to forget.
    weirduo weirduo 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Ok I'm freaking out right now cause I've never done this before. I'm not gonna put any labels on my self cause I'm not really sure. Here we go. .. When I was around 8 I realized I...
    lovagirl19 lovagirl19 18-21, F Feb 10

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    My friends are sitting next to me right now thinking I'm fine. When actually I'm sitting here feeling like life's not worth living. I don't feel right...I don't even feel like me...
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I'm bored and a writer. So I'm just going to randomly write something on here. Darkness. There was NOTHING but a black void that surrounded her making her feel alone and terrified...
    stardancer99 stardancer99 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm almost always "around" people. but I feel you need to enjoy the company in order to not feel alone :/ You can deduce that I'm not often pleased with my company or the people...
    LadyWildFlower LadyWildFlower 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    I feel different sometimes like I'm not the real me. The real me loves life and going out and helping people. The real me loves running, boxing and lifting weights.the real me is...
    Thefightingangel Thefightingangel 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    was using it for past 6-7 years .. there was a time when i used to check my cell 24/7 for how many likes I got & chats & photos, comments n all that staff on FB! now it's been 5-6...
    Kheya092 Kheya092 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have one part of my body That's ticklish, The title of this group is perfect and sums up exactly what I want to say. I thought i would post this since I get quite a few...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I change my mind so often that even I can't keep up with it. And i don't mean about simple things like clothing, or what I want for lunch. I go from wanting to be with my boyfriend...
    Dodgey4 Dodgey4 22-25, F Feb 2

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    My husband works out of town and I don't really have alot of friends in my town. I am very lonely. my husband shares a hotel room with his coworker so we don't get a chance to talk...
    calgarysc calgarysc 22-25, F Feb 2

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    So life sucking!!! I can't win.. What are you doing to me? I see you and get shy, yet all I want to do is talk to you, wrap myself in your arms... But I can't... Anxiety controls...
    catho catho 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm never good enough for any guy, but my sister is.
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    I feel like the my world is slowly slipping away, like when you're about to lose consciousness. I'm losing control of life and I don't know what to do. I feel like as if my life...
    150035039m 150035039m 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Do u ever feel like you are doing everything wrong, and you are hurt never good enough for anybody? And then comes a point when you don't know what to do anymore. It's like...
    thelastfallenangel thelastfallenangel 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I feel like I'm really dreaming this ****** dream mainly reliving my life but I'm in a coma cuz I fell off my horse during a national horse show and my best friend was there. If...
    BobTheUniPonyWakoLover BobTheUniPonyWakoLover 13-15, F Feb 17

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