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I Feel Insecure At Work

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    Not one day goes by that I don't think twice about something having to do with work. I either worry about something I said to a co-worker--ponder over something they said to me...worry about saying the wrong things to a client-worry about bothering my boss with too many questions...
    greenlionburning greenlionburning 41-45 1 Response Oct 21, 2011

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