I Feel Insecure

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    my problem is, the same

    as others, weight. recently i saw a film called thinspiration, which made me even more aware of my weight. i have read about pro-ana on internet, and i try to do what they do, but i always find myself back the way i am. what worries me most is what other people think of me. i...
    ProAna18 ProAna18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 26, 2015

    People keep on saying

    that I have a horse mouth, lips, over whatever. I feel very insecure about that 😔
    iv0ryr0s3 iv0ryr0s3
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2014

    I Dont Want To Be Insecure Anymore..

    I dont want to be insecure anymore. I hate the way I put so much pressure on myself. And the way everything I do and everything about my looks are never good enough. I want my self-esteem to be better, I want to be able to say that I look good and that I am a good person and so...
    Maja96 Maja96
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    *Please don't judge me* What makes me

    insecure is when my boyfriend constantly stares at other women. I'm not just talking about a quick glance, I'm talking about he will stare them up and down wherever we may be. Sometimes I feel like his focus is more on them and not me when we are out. He will even go as far as...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 8, 2015

    Is there any way to fix this?

    I have an overbite and my upper lip poofs out making me look like a horse (3-5 people told me ) :(
    michennn michennn
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    When you get to know someone,

    all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognise the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the person not the shell. That's why you can't fall in love with beauty or looks. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it...
    ivyblood ivyblood
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    I love my best friend.

    More than anyone. But I hate feeling that everyone around me loves her and I just get left behind. Every gut I like, has liked her before me or starts doing it after I get them to meet. I think I will never be comfortable with a guy that I like and her. Even though I know she...
    AnasHead AnasHead
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 6

    I think even though people love me

    and think I'm a good person, I'll always doubt myself and everything I do
    MadZMatters MadZMatters
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    So it's summer before my senior

    and it's going pretty ******. I defintly have gained some weight this summer. I've struggled with weight issues since the 8th grade and no matter how much I try to accept my body I can't. I just got some new clothes for school and I don't fit in them well... Honestly I'm...
    Noexpectation Noexpectation
    13-15, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    I honestly feel like im not good enough

    for anything or anyone. I hate it cause i feel like my boyfriend is hiding stuff from me even though he says his not.. i just really want a friend.....
    layah08 layah08
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2014

    I cant believe that anyone would ever like me

    im not pretty enough although there's this guys that says he those I cant trust him I been hurt to many times plus the guys is just to good and good looking for me
    skittlesjunky skittlesjunky
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    Everybody juss make me feel like i'm the worst

    person in the world :'( what a horrible night <'3
    DessyLove DessyLove
    18-21, F
    Jul 19, 2014

    I suddenly feel completely incompetent in

    accomplishing all the things I ever wanted to do in life. It's like an invisible bully that keeps nagging at me. It takes a lot of energy to argue with myself and it likely makes people around me believe in my incompetency as well.
    eccentricpython eccentricpython
    26-30, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    I'm currently trying to raise my self esteem

    and feel better about myself, but am having a hard time because of what I went through in the past. People keep telling me that I'm a wonderful person and that there's no reason for me to feel insecure, but they just don't understand the things I've been through. I have spent...
    fabgirl824 fabgirl824
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    Am I Complicated?

    Seems like I have weird random spurts of confidence, and insecurities. And I'd hate to say this, because if my best friends would say this too me I'd look at them in shock, but, It seems like my insecurities come from my past/marriage...or should I say relationship that fell...
    TorquoisePhx TorquoisePhx
    26-30, F
    Jan 11, 2012

    I start fights with the ones I love

    because I think if I hurt them first they can't get to me
    MadZMatters MadZMatters
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2015

    You know what sucks is having a best friend

    that is waaaay hotter than you and all these guys flirt with her while I'm just supposed to sit there and smile like it doesn't matter to me
    silverxrose silverxrose
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    I'm feeling pretty insecure right now.

    It's one of those moments where I feel unattractive. I'm also feeling like my personality sucks too. Sometimes I just need someone to let me know that I won't be ugly forever. That people like me the way I am.
    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts
    18-21, F
    Jun 30, 2014

    My mother blame me on everything happened she

    always says it my fault I don't what to say I feel so unsafe I feel like something is going to take me I'm afraid and I don't what to I hardly sleep at night when I feel that I wanna cry I wanna scream I want someone to hold me I want someone to hug me so tight I feel like I'm...
    jumanachan jumanachan
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2015


    Lately i've been feeling so ugly and so fat :'(It makes me cry.I can't even eat anymore, I just throw the food out or puke.I feel really down at night, and nothing is making it better :/
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    5 Responses Oct 25, 2011

    One time, I embraced my weaknesses,

    and for a time, I was happy.
    Ambititer Ambititer
    18-21, M
    Sep 28, 2015

    This is my birthday weekend.

    I should be celebrating. Out with friends, enjoying life. But I'm not. I can't. I am dealing with the fact that I have been so insecure for years that I stayed married to a man who constantly did and said things to let me know he didn't want me. What a big pill to swallow...
    blknurse blknurse
    Jan 11, 2014

    My biggest insecurity is being used

    as a pass time for someone I like while they wait for someone they think is better. Its happened so many times before that it comes up every time I start to like a girl. It wouldn't be so bad if it was at least someone who wasn't a complete a@@ that I was being passed up for.
    kazwoh kazwoh
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 8, 2014

    Sometimes I feel like a colossal *****

    who will never find a boyfriend, because I care more about school than I do about getting a boyfriend. I have the same feelings as any of my friends but I want a future, and a future doesn't come from between a guy's legs. It comes from a college degree. ...And that's why I feel...
    MyChemicalBreakup MyChemicalBreakup
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    I Feel Insecure Very Easily, Especially With People

    I feel insecure very easily. Sometimes I feel more confident, and then it only takes one thing to get me feeling afraid again.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 2, 2012


    I am in charge of security of the programs! and security of my child.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2009
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