I Feel Like a Loser

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    i just turned 23, and have come to a relisation

    that i'm a loser. In primary school i was a quiet, but popular kid. i was good at sports and quite smart so i think that's why i was popular. i have never really been popular since primary school. I only have 1-2 close friends, who i am lucky to have. they are both successful...
    Reckless99x Reckless99x
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    I m a loser i got no job no money to pay my

    bills & rent time is running out of my hands i got no option except close my eyes for ever
    deathangle deathangle
    Dec 20, 2015

    why do i suck at most things in life

    that arent smoking, getting into **** and partying?
    bethanyhallen bethanyhallen
    18-21, F
    Mar 28, 2015

    I Feel Like A Loser

    I am 24 and have finished my post graduation in chemistry. At present i am working for a Knowledge Process Outsourcing that publishes scientific journals. I have no friends and no social life at all. I earn about Rs 15 000/- per month. I have failed every examination to try and...
    feelf feelf
    1 Response Apr 15, 2012

    I am 47 and have never had a career,

    only jobs. I am highly educated and talented but haven't accomplished much in life. I've never been married or lived with a man and have no kids. The longest I've dated anyone is 3.5 years, but I wanted to break up with him almost the whole time. I might be bisexual but have...
    loseriffic loseriffic
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    I don't know what it is,

    I just feel like such a stupid loser every single day. I mean I have a great job, And a life that people wish they had. But I suffer from Anxiety, OCD, ADD, Attachment disorder, And depression. everyday is a struggle for me to even get out of bed and get dressed. I feel like a...
    MindlessMatters MindlessMatters
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Feb 23, 2015

    The Never Ending Saga..of a Loser

    I feel like a loser..especially on this day. Nothing happened especially to elicit this feeling. Only that I know that I dont have a job, and it is proving difficult to find one. Part of it is of course my lack of motivation. In the past, I have alot of jobs fall into...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 28, 2009

    I have recently graduated from Uni.

    I was there for 3 years. I loved my first 2 years. I had a miserable time in 3rd year, but now its all done I am looking back with regret at the whole thing. I read online that so many people regard University as the best years of their lives. They say they went out and partied...
    joelex300 joelex300
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    I Feel Like A Loser

    I Am A Social Reject please try not to laugh at my pathetic existance: 1 i am 43 2 i still live with my Mother 3 i just stay in my room on my computer 4 i have not had a night out in 2013 5 reason is i have no friends 6 they have all done things with their lives (met girls got...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

    Most Of The Times....

    i feel like a looser. i feel that there is something wrong inside of me and it's irritating!!. but i can't figure out what it is..
    mylonelyplanet mylonelyplanet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2011

    A frank sinatra sing

    that is resonating with me. "Here's to the losers" by frank sinatra. Here's to those who love not too wisely, know not wisely, but too well To the girl who sighs with envy when she hears that wedding bell To the guy who'd throw a party if he knew someone to call Here's to...
    EmanonEvahi EmanonEvahi
    36-40, M
    Sep 9, 2014

    I had this boyfriend

    for a little while. But he broke up with me. Now it came to me that he has this new girlfriend with whom he went to China for three weeks. I makes me cry so hard. Why? Because he is such a fantastic person and we will never be. Will I ever experience hoe he experiences life? It...
    Yanyka Yanyka
    31-35, F
    Oct 20, 2015

    I m quite sad in life.

    I am anorexic n underweight, that's why I can't do any things properly. I feel like a loser.
    deleted deleted
    May 12, 2014

    Today at lunchtime, I walk outside of my work

    area and encounter one of the pharmacy techs I eat with sometimes. I ask her if she's going to lunch. She hesitates, says "Yeah", hesitates again as she averts eye contact, and then says she'll be late cause she has to go somewhere first. As we're having this exchange, a...
    SpilledSecrets SpilledSecrets
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2015

    Okay, it is night, half past seven in the

    evening. And I long for some company. A friend is coming in an hour, so nothing to complain about. But still, I wander around in house with nothing to do. How come I do not know what to do, do not feel like doing anything?
    Yanyka Yanyka
    31-35, F
    Oct 21, 2015

    I don't have any friends

    but today I refused to stay home bored and feeling sorry for myself so i put on my best Sunday outfit grabbed my laptop and went to my local coffee shop and I am on the web watching funny videos and looking random stuff up:) I bought me a green tea boba and there is a theater...
    VaidaV VaidaV
    22-25, F
    Jun 22, 2014

    I was happy until I was five.

    My goals were to keep my parents and grand parents alive and safe forever, because that was what they did for me. I didn't worry about my death, because I would just never stop breathing. I woke up in a cold sweat and began to panic and then cry. My mom woke up asked what was...
    MaudlynMadline MaudlynMadline
    26-30, F
    Mar 5, 2014

    They Call Me Mr. Ugly..

    Every day I go to school I get at least one comment saying that I'm ugly, or I'm fat or anything close to that. I feel horrible when people say that.. Also, every time I see a couple like, holding hands or kissing it makes me feel depressed also. I feel that way because none of...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    I'm aimless... thats enough to make me feel

    like one... Feeling stuck... IDK how am I gonna get through!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015

    Couple of months ago i heard from my ex

    boyfriend that some friends i was occasionally hanging out were calling me a loser. I was not very close with those people, we were just fine and mostly went out as a group. Actually i would never have guessed they would call me a loser because they were nice to me. But i know...
    kajusu kajusu
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2014

    I am so sick and tired of feeling like a loser.

    I wasn't always like this, at one point in my teenage years I even had a good social life. I've only had one boyfriend my when I was 19, it lasted 10 months and ended with him cheating and dumping me 4 days before Christmas. I currently don't have any friends in the province I...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait
    22-25, F
    Jul 16, 2014

    I cant do anything right

    if u get were i am coming from
    deleted deleted
    Aug 17, 2014


    There are times I just feel like a complete loser, and it isn't because I do not accomplish things. It's because of my anxiety. I make friends, and then watch them go, I wish I could just seize the day, sometimes, and try something new. Who cares if I am alone doing it, I just...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Feb 21, 2013
    Atljjay Atljjay
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    I am trying to lose 20 pounds bc i weigh over

    130 and used to be 105. I have tried being healthy but it just isnt working. I am trying to starve myself, but it is so hard because there is so much food around me. I even had cake today. CAKE!!! I try to eat under 1000 cal every day, but i fail at that. I am also a loser bc im...
    casey9599 casey9599
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2014
    zerofivenosh zerofivenosh
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    I feel like I will never get the hang of

    studying again. demotivated as hell.
    Yanyka Yanyka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    I'm Here For You..

    This isn't a story, this is me, being a person and letting everyone who reads this know..not only know but hope you will not be afraid of what I"m going to say. Posting this in the story section I am hoping that many people will read this and reply to me. I have add experiences...
    AKidWithASaint AKidWithASaint
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Sep 15, 2010

    I m quite sad in life.

    I am anorexic n underweight, that's why I can't do any things properly. I feel like a loser.
    deleted deleted
    May 12, 2014

    Someone To Lean On

    This isn't a story, this is me, being a person and letting everyone who reads this know..not only know but hope you will not be afraid of what I"m going to say. Posting this in the story section I am hoping that many people will read this and reply to me. I have add experiences...
    AKidWithASaint AKidWithASaint
    18-21, M
    Sep 16, 2010

    So i posted something on fb

    while at work and duh my boss is my "friend' for some reason...and i got in s--- because it was called bullying. I was just saying I hate people who name drop...like this new guy at work...yes, i know it was a stupid thing to do...but my boss is also a hot head who swears at his...
    clouds4208 clouds4208
    36-40, F
    Jan 31, 2014

    feels weird being 18

    and you still don't really get out much. I don't smoke or drink so people probably think I'm boring.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2015
    arcanum26 arcanum26
    22-25, M
    Oct 31, 2014

    What can i do? i am not selected

    for the high school i always wanted to. I really wanted to attend that school and i feel like a piece of junk who cant even do anything. I also messed up my chance to give a good entrance exam. I wrote a letter when i had to write a paragraph.I wished i could have done a better...
    1234abcj 1234abcj
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

    I feel like a loser at school.

    Everyone keep hanging out with friends that care and I have no one that invest in the friendship. I'm talking about people from school. I just work on school work. I want more people to care about me and have friends to hang out with and want to hang out with me. I feel like I...
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    I hate the feeling of no emotions.

    You're not happy nor sad nor mad. I don't know how else to describe it. I just know I'm feeling it right now and I hate it.
    mickey123xp mickey123xp
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    i just came across an article titled:

    "Experience Project: a social network for losers" is that what we are? :-(
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2016

    Every Day Is Worse Than The Last

    Today: I am a college graduate $30k in debt and can't get a job due to being a felony drunk driver. I drank to make friends and fit in, and once people realized I am a criminal, they run the other direction and alienate me. I have a minimum wage job for 10 hrs a week and rely on...
    el17el el17el
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2011

    I Too Feel Like A Loser.

    I'm 24 year old female. Ever since I was a child I've had so many ambitions and goals and dreams. I never wanted to be an average joe. I wanted to be SOMEBODY. Someone successful, someone who contributed something to society. But when the time came in my life to start achieving...
    AnonymousAB AnonymousAB
    3 Responses Dec 4, 2012

    I Feel Like A Loser

    So I'm 32, still a virgin and never had a proper serious relationship. I am in a job where I am treated like I'm stupid and have tried to get another one but no luck. I feel like I haven't achieved anything significant in my life. Everyone around me are getting married, buying...
    angela81 angela81
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2013

    For the Moment

      I don't always feel like a loser, but I go through moments, around the same time as my menstrual cycle, where I feel immense shame and disappointment over past failures I have made throughout my life. This moment's feeling was sparked by interacting...
    anisagonige anisagonige
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 6, 2009

    Right now I'm feeling like the epitome of a

    loser. I'm 23, have little to no friends, no boyfriend, unemployed, no car, no one to talk to or hang out with, pretty much no life. I'm just a "homebody" at this point, and I feel bad about that because I still live with my parents, so as you can see, I don't even have my own...
    ConfessionsOfALostGurl ConfessionsOfALostGurl
    26-30, F
    Jan 30, 2015

    I should call this friend

    because she rang me and I texted back that I would call her today. but I feel scared calling her. I feel inadequate to converse. I see myself stumbling and stupid during conversation. I see the conversation being formal and awkward. turn this around and share my successes with...
    Yanyka Yanyka
    31-35, F
    Oct 17, 2015

    Now, I've felt like this

    for a while after graduating high school. I was always one of the top students in each grade and everyone had high hopes for me. Teachers, other students, friends, and family. So, I went into college and even though I still achieved top ranking in my classes, I couldn't stick to...
    WindsomeFlurry WindsomeFlurry
    5 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    I want my whole life to change.

    . Everything i planned before failed. 😞 hopefully this time i'll get back on track and be happy again.😄 Not getting any younger. Help me GOD PLEASE! 🙏
    girlhope girlhope
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    So this girl in my school called Miss.

    Sh*tbag (not using her real name, BECAUSE I RESPECT HER DIGNITY) and I were supposed to do a Home Economics project together. I sent her an email earlier asking her how we can split up the work, but no reply came. The next day at school(we have a day left for the project) I...
    solicitude solicitude
    16-17, F
    Apr 22, 2014

    Loser Weekend No Life .____.

    It is the first week of school. I am embarassed that I don't have any plans for the weekend. I didn't yesterday, and I don't either today. I am in a sorority and I don't always feel like the girls are the closest to me. Well some of them are more than others. But how can I not...
    volleyballgirl049 volleyballgirl049
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2012
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