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I Feel Like a Loser

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    I am trying to lose 20 pounds bc i weigh over

    130 and used to be 105. I have tried being healthy but it just isnt working. I am trying to starve myself, but it is so hard because there is so much food around me. I even had cake today. CAKE!!! I try to eat under 1000 cal every day, but i fail at that. I am also a loser bc im...
    casey9599 casey9599 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm coming to terms with the fact

    that my birthday is going to be miserable. I'm turning 16, something I always expected Id be excited about. Instead, all the people that matter to me arent going to be there. Whatever I guess. Life could be worse.
    13Smiles 13Smiles 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Everytime I log in into Facebook

    or open Instagram and see that other people are having fun and have lots of friends I feel like I'm the loneliest person in the world and that nobody wants to hang out with me because I'm not as cool as the others. I know it's stupid but I can't help feeling like this.
    theitalianboy theitalianboy 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 20

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    God Hates Me

    So when I moved to NY a few years ago I was blessed to get a job at a bank for $13/hour, only to lose the job with the crisis 2 years later and never got a chance of a raise or promotion for my excellent performance . So I moved to DC where my uncle lives and found a job that...
    Nickpro Nickpro 36-40, M Apr 5, 2013

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    The Never Ending Saga..of a Loser

    I feel like a loser..especially on this day. Nothing happened especially to elicit this feeling. Only that I know that I dont have a job, and it is proving difficult to find one. Part of it is of course my lack of motivation. In the past, I have alot of jobs fall into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 28, 2009

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    My Day............................

    So here we are me and matt walking home a high schooler and a middle schooler mortal emblems inn my town... well uh... I own the powerful gang in town so... I DON'T GIVE A ****. well she subjects start out with what to do form Mr. **** essay... then it turns to how epic Mr...
    dailyguyboyjr dailyguyboyjr 22-25, M Nov 22, 2013

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    What can i do? i am not selected

    for the high school i always wanted to. I really wanted to attend that school and i feel like a piece of junk who cant even do anything. I also messed up my chance to give a good entrance exam. I wrote a letter when i had to write a paragraph.I wished i could have done a better...
    1234abcj 1234abcj 18-21 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Sometimes...

    There are times I just feel like a complete loser, and it isn't because I do not accomplish things. It's because of my anxiety. I make friends, and then watch them go, I wish I could just seize the day, sometimes, and try something new. Who cares if I am alone doing it, I just...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    Every Day Is Worse Than The Last

    Today: I am a college graduate $30k in debt and can't get a job due to being a felony drunk driver. I drank to make friends and fit in, and once people realized I am a criminal, they run the other direction and alienate me. I have a minimum wage job for 10 hrs a week and rely on...
    el17el el17el 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I feel like this nobody at my school.

    I recently made ask.fm and NOBODY from my school has asked me anything... Then I also made hot or not and I still don't have a score.. Plus I made a serious Instagram which nobody probably cares about. I'm sick of being an outcast, sick of being that weird girl in the back of...
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I cant do anything right

    if u get were i am coming from
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M Aug 17

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    I hate the feeling of no emotions.

    You're not happy nor sad nor mad. I don't know how else to describe it. I just know I'm feeling it right now and I hate it.
    mickey123xp mickey123xp 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have recently graduated from Uni.

    I was there for 3 years. I loved my first 2 years. I had a miserable time in 3rd year, but now its all done I am looking back with regret at the whole thing. I read online that so many people regard University as the best years of their lives. They say they went out and partied...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I feel like one because everyone I talk to

    randomly stops talking to me for no reason. :(
    RacerX2 RacerX2 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    So I'm 32, still a virgin and never had a proper serious relationship. I am in a job where I am treated like I'm stupid and have tried to get another one but no luck. I feel like I haven't achieved anything significant in my life. Everyone around me are getting married, buying...
    angela81 angela81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    I Am A Social Reject please try not to laugh at my pathetic existance: 1 i am 43 2 i still live with my Mother 3 i just stay in my room on my computer 4 i have not had a night out in 2013 5 reason is i have no friends 6 they have all done things with their lives (met girls got...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    why am i staying up for nothing?

    ? what is effing wrong with me?? no one gonna come... i know things are not always at out commands... but its like a battle between my mind and heart... i feel like shaking out of this familiar emotion.. its red sign ahead, and i am closing in.. i should not, i must not...the...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Blah

    Like really. I have no friends, really. I use too, over time, back in the past. Like elementary school, the other elementary school, high school... and now I got nobody. Well, one person. I have a boyfriend that i love more than anything and he is my best friend. I kind of...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2007

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    Sometimes I Feel Like A Damn Loser

    I have one question to ask to You. Why all of this things happened to me? Can You give me a reason, why You made me and put me here, in the world like this? I know I always make mistake, I always wrong to make a decision. I always make everything that I do to be mess. So tell...
    BlueDophin BlueDophin 22-25, F Aug 2, 2013

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    I'm Such A Loser

    i'm turning 17 next year...what have I accomplished?...nothing....it's like i can't do anything right an everyone else is moving up while they look down at me....i just don't get it!!!.....i'm a cool guy...yet it seems i can't get a break...my own mother said she wished she had a...
    ajalawallace ajalawallace 18-21, M 10 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Nothing Seems Good Enough

    I feel like life has passed me by.  I battle with my idnetity.  I used to think what makes a person a success is if they are happy or not.  If you're a janitor and your'e happy, you're a success.  Years later I find how cruel society is.  I've lost my faith.  I don't know...
    goover goover 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 13, 2011

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    For the Moment

      I don't always feel like a loser, but I go through moments, around the same time as my menstrual cycle, where I feel immense shame and disappointment over past failures I have made throughout my life. This moment's feeling was sparked by interacting...
    anisagonige anisagonige 22-25, F 5 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Is It Depression Or Something Else?

    I miss out on social events---therefore people think I'm stuck up. The thing is I'm shy. I'm also a bad mix of: I'm anti-social---or at least I think I am---shy, and not the brightest of them either. I don't like to stay around with a group of people cuz I tend to shrink...
    halibet halibet 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    I am 24 and have finished my post graduation in chemistry. At present i am working for a Knowledge Process Outsourcing that publishes scientific journals. I have no friends and no social life at all. I earn about Rs 15 000/- per month. I have failed every examination to try and...
    feelf feelf 22-25 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    I never thought I would turn out to be like this

    when I was younger. Incompetent, inadequate, lost soul. I'm not anywhere close to the life stage points I should be. I feel like I put my life at a crossroad. I don't feel like I've accomplished anything worthwhile and here I am still continuing to feel like a misfit as usual. I...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I m quite sad in life.

    I am anorexic n underweight, that's why I can't do any things properly. I feel like a loser.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 12

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    I Too Feel Like A Loser.

    I'm 24 year old female. Ever since I was a child I've had so many ambitions and goals and dreams. I never wanted to be an average joe. I wanted to be SOMEBODY. Someone successful, someone who contributed something to society. But when the time came in my life to start achieving...
    AnonymousAB AnonymousAB 22-25 3 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    I want my whole life to change.

    . Everything i planned before failed. 😞 hopefully this time i'll get back on track and be happy again.😄 Not getting any younger. Help me GOD PLEASE! 🙏
    Eggshake Eggshake 13-15 4 Responses Jun 21

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    I don't have any friends

    but today I refused to stay home bored and feeling sorry for myself so i put on my best Sunday outfit grabbed my laptop and went to my local coffee shop and I am on the web watching funny videos and looking random stuff up:) I bought me a green tea boba and there is a theater...
    VaidaV VaidaV 18-21, F Jun 22

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    I feel like a loser everyday .

    Yeah I I feel like like not a winner . Everyday I go to ( Instagram . YouTube . Face book ) other familiar sites .. Or go out ... I see everyone .. Living their life . Looking great . Traveling . Success . I feel like I want to die .. I feel like I'm nothing ... I need help
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M 2 Responses May 13

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    Im a Loser

     sometimes i really feel like a complete nobody i really want to appear like i have some amount of self woth but deep down no matter how much i try to be perfect i am still nothing, it alaways leads to the same feelings of why bother I am tired of keeping up the fisade tired...
    sweetstacey sweetstacey 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    Blah Blah Blah.

    I am always sad. I try to be happy but it just doesn't stick. I feel pathetic too, I just feel like I'm a nobody. Like I'm nothing. There's nothing really special about me. I'm just uninteresting and boring. I don't have lots of friends in real life because I always stay at home...
    oldaccount oldaccount 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 21, 2012

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    So this girl in my school called Miss.

    Sh*tbag (not using her real name, BECAUSE I RESPECT HER DIGNITY) and I were supposed to do a Home Economics project together. I sent her an email earlier asking her how we can split up the work, but no reply came. The next day at school(we have a day left for the project) I...
    solicitude solicitude 13-15, F Apr 22

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    Loser Weekend No Life .____.

    It is the first week of school. I am embarassed that I don't have any plans for the weekend. I didn't yesterday, and I don't either today. I am in a sorority and I don't always feel like the girls are the closest to me. Well some of them are more than others. But how can I not...
    volleyballgirl049 volleyballgirl049 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Someone To Lean On

    This isn't a story, this is me, being a person and letting everyone who reads this know..not only know but hope you will not be afraid of what I"m going to say. Posting this in the story section I am hoping that many people will read this and reply to me. I have add experiences...
    AKidWithASaint AKidWithASaint 18-21, M Sep 16, 2010

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    They Call Me Mr. Ugly..

    Every day I go to school I get at least one comment saying that I'm ugly, or I'm fat or anything close to that. I feel horrible when people say that.. Also, every time I see a couple like, holding hands or kissing it makes me feel depressed also. I feel that way because none of...
    Shark411 Shark411 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    A frank sinatra sing

    that is resonating with me. "Here's to the losers" by frank sinatra. Here's to those who love not too wisely, know not wisely, but too well To the girl who sighs with envy when she hears that wedding bell To the guy who'd throw a party if he knew someone to call Here's to...
    Nightshade777 Nightshade777 31-35, M Sep 9

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    I m quite sad in life.

    I am anorexic n underweight, that's why I can't do any things properly. I feel like a loser.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 12

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    Loser Feeling Suddenly Hits Me

    I am going to be 40 next month. Going to be divorced, having a hard time looking for work and financially broke. My ex got child custody and for education purposes, my son is better of with him. The education system in my country, Malaysia, sucks big time. So we are separated...
    ComeDown ComeDown 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    So i posted something on fb

    while at work and duh my boss is my "friend' for some reason...and i got in s--- because it was called bullying. I was just saying I hate people who name drop...like this new guy at work...yes, i know it was a stupid thing to do...but my boss is also a hot head who swears at his...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Most Of The Times....

    i feel like a looser. i feel that there is something wrong inside of me and it's irritating!!. but i can't figure out what it is..
    mylonelyplanet mylonelyplanet 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2011

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    I was happy until I was five.

    My goals were to keep my parents and grand parents alive and safe forever, because that was what they did for me. I didn't worry about my death, because I would just never stop breathing. I woke up in a cold sweat and began to panic and then cry. My mom woke up asked what was...
    MaudlynMadline MaudlynMadline 22-25, F Mar 5

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    I'm Here For You..

    This isn't a story, this is me, being a person and letting everyone who reads this know..not only know but hope you will not be afraid of what I"m going to say. Posting this in the story section I am hoping that many people will read this and reply to me. I have add experiences...
    AKidWithASaint AKidWithASaint 18-21, M 7 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    I am so sick and tired of feeling like a loser.

    I wasn't always like this, at one point in my teenage years I even had a good social life. I've only had one boyfriend my when I was 19, it lasted 10 months and ended with him cheating and dumping me 4 days before Christmas. I currently don't have any friends in the province I...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Couple of months ago i heard from my ex

    boyfriend that some friends i was occasionally hanging out were calling me a loser. I was not very close with those people, we were just fine and mostly went out as a group. Actually i would never have guessed they would call me a loser because they were nice to me. But i know...
    kajusu kajusu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I am 47 and have never had a career,

    only jobs. I am highly educated and talented but haven't accomplished much in life. I've never been married or lived with a man and have no kids. The longest I've dated anyone is 3.5 years, but I wanted to break up with him almost the whole time. I might be bisexual but have...
    loseriffic loseriffic 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    He Believes I'm Worthless.

    ~ I remember the day my ex called me worthless. Oh, how those words cut me down to size. I remember writing the word " worthless" on the very bottom of an old personal drawing of my ex. I created the drawing of him when we first fell in love. How ironic a few years...
    Dotson Dotson 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I m quite sad in life.

    I am anorexic n underweight, that's why I can't do any things properly. I feel like a loser.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 12

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