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I Feel Like He Doesn't Want to Talk to Me

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    Why Has He Closed Up to Me?

    Everytime me and my fiance get into a fight or an arguement he has nothing to say. He just doesnt talk. Tonight was another one of those moments. We were talking on the phone about how i get to worried sometimes about what hes doing, as it's a long distance relationship, how do...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    ozgirl25 ozgirl25 26-30, F Feb 22, 2014

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    He Used To Talk To Me For Hours....

    This guy used to talk to me for hours everyday, but now he takes hours or days to respond to a text! And when he does respond its usually a one word response. When I asked him if he was okay, he told me that nothings wrong, and that he is just not talkative, but I feel as though...
    rainxshadow rainxshadow 22-25 2 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    I Can't Live Without Him I Love Him

     evryevening i talk with my boyfriend ,since two years and we were happy ;but in last days i feel like he doesn't want to talk to me ;and every time when i was talking with him he said that he want sleep ;he was tired ;he will get up at 6.00 am in the morning ; he was really...
    hassna hassna 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    Why Won't My Freakin Bf Talk To Me

    Ok, I've been with the same guy for 2 years... He sucks at txting and he sucks at picking up he's phone... I told him it bothers me, so he told me he would work on it... But he still does it, I understand he's busy but when u see a txt u txt back, that's how it works, does he not...
    Hannah831 Hannah831 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    I feel like my best friend doesn't want to talk

    to me anymore so I gave up on talking to him for now
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2014

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    Shuts Me Out

    my boyfriend doesnt like talking to me. he has told me before that things i talk about bore him, and he starts to tune me out. im 19, and he's, older, than i am by...a few years...we have a 9 month old son together. one specific time he tuned me out, and actually got mad at me...
    MaxisMom MaxisMom 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    I have a friend that had a huge crush on me in

    8th grade. We used to walk together with some of his friends. Two months before the last day if school he began acting weird. It was like he didnt want me near him anymore. I asked him if everything was okay and he just got mad and said " yes sheesh everything is ok" I didn't...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    He Didnt Call After First Date Its Been 2 Days ,He Was Active On Facebook??? He Didnt Like Me?

    Honestly i feel so sad and helpless I just ended a relationship with the worst guy ever he had no sympathy if i was sad at all he just straight ignored me he was to much of a coward to break it off officially -&-for treating me so bad now, that, that is over its been I had...
    Yalex Yalex 18-21, F 1 Response May 14, 2013

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    I Love Him But He Don't Care...

    m in a relationship from last six years and our relationship is like we hv to marry, we r family frens and our parents r happy. initially i talked to him first n den we fell in lov ...we met for few times, but den he decided we won't meet now since we a hv a long way to go and...
    mishthu mishthu 22-25 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    Our Conversation

    I just wanted to post our conversation so you can see what I was talking about before: Me: I love you with all my heart hunny if you can, tell me whats bugging you. Even if it doesnt make any sense just tell me how you feel or your thoughts or a similar situation, anything...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Haha, Can You Say....

    UNDERSTATEMENT!!! I know he doesn't want to talk to me, if he did he would. I'm here, completely available and he's not coming anywhere close. Don't know why, I would say I don't care except that I'm worried about him, if not for that then at this point I really...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    One day I was in the airport waiting

    for my flight to take off, and this guy says "Excuse me" so I turn around and he says "My friend thinks ur cute". So I said "Y doesn't he tell me himself?" and the friend that liked me said he was going to. (& I was wearing my glasses, braces, and no makeup. So I thought that...
    behappy14 behappy14 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    He Just Doesn't Want To Talk To Me Anymore.. But I Love Him..

    So me an this boy would talk EVERYday ALL the time . Then two days ago I ruined everything but we decided to be friends again. Now he is giving me short answers an isn't fun to me.. :c He is treating me like anyone else... nothing like I treat him. help?
    momogoesmeow momogoesmeow 13-15 Jan 22, 2013

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    She says she wants to end it all when she's all alone in her room She cries The way she feels inside is too much for her When all you got is these four walls It's not that hard to...
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    SpanishCristian SpanishCristian 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am feeling afraid and paranoid. No judgments please. I met this guy on the internet. We were chatting for months. Got closer and closer until we got into a relationship. Well...
    Awesomenessoverload Awesomenessoverload 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I feel like sh*t. I feel like breaking down and sobbing my eyes out. I really don't feel like living. Right now I want to end my worthless f*cking life. And this time I won't fail...
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    Sometimes you feel like you are standing at the end of the road you've been on and no matter which way you turn you're going to explode. You can feel it in the air all around you...
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    I feel like **** .. I want to run .. Please depression don't come back
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F Jun 29

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    SomethingPink SomethingPink 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    TeresaRudolph71 TeresaRudolph71 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 28

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    Just want it to end .. I won't be missed
    EyesOnyou72 EyesOnyou72 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I can't find it anywhere, the answer to my problem. I simply cannot understand what normal people do anymore, and i feel like i am done trying because nothing's getting any better...
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    I don't know if you mean they don't want them in the sense that when they have them they put them up for adoption or let someone else take care of them or if you mean parents who...
    thehobbits thehobbits 22-25 Jun 25

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    Emphasis of the 'feel'. I'm not saying they actually don't. I had to move back home after finishing an art degree so I could build up my career to go freelance. It's been hard...
    EleanorPainting EleanorPainting 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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