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I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

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    I Can't Trust My Husband With My Feelings And Thoughts.

    My husband has always had a big mouth.  Lately this is more than I can take.  He discusses our family business and intimate times with his friends.  The things he tells his family they call to confirm and get the story first hand from me.  If i share with him that some one...
    maggiebaby7 maggiebaby7 41-45 May 13, 2012

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    Lost In My Relationship

    I feel so lost right now. I feel like when I try to share how I am feeling it all either comes out wrong or he takes it the wrong way and our relationship declines. I love him with all my heart. I have A LOT of family issues (from when I was young) that still weigh on me. We...
    smurphette smurphette 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    Maybe It Was to Fast

    well..... i try very hard to talk and cuddle and well it works for a few days and its gets to the point that you don't want to fight and you just don't say anything.... everything that comes from your lips goes in one ear and out the other.... it feels that you are two differant...
    lovememore lovememore 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

    I love my husband and want things to work out for us. We have been together for going on 5 years .(off and on). We and 1 child together and I have another child before him and he has 3 other kids. So, anyway dealing with in ex wife and step kids is not the problem. When you hear...
    southernchick28 southernchick28 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    He Just Doesn't Care.

    I can't talk to him about my feelings because they're unjustified and I'm "crazy" like my mother. I feel like all I'm supposed to do is cook, clean, and take care of our two boys. I just hurt because my feelings are ignored and I have no one to talk to. My opinions are always...
    mommy9610 mommy9610 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    A Lifeless Marriage

    There are so many things that get into my head which I could not control. Now, that me and my husband where totally at lost of communication. There is nothing I could do but let life flow on its own. Not caring too much about him is something I need and totally forget every...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    I Can't Communicate How I Feel Anymore.

    Here is my story.... My husband and I have been married about 5 1/2 years. I admit that when I was younger and when we were first married, I had a lot of growing to do.  I probably talked about how I felt too much, and was a little overly expressive.  Kind of the way...
    medorn medorn 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 2, 2008

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    On the Outside Looking In

    Hi: I think that perhaps you are at a plateau in your relationship that he has taken you for granted.  He has a lot on his plate.....taking care of his family, moving, ensuring you are safe, well cared for, adjusted. There is some stress in his life that he does not feel...
    jbolton101402 jbolton101402 41-45 Sep 15, 2008

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    I'm terrible at talking about my feelings. It's just something that I can't do. I feel as if I'm burdening anyone if I tell them how miserable I actually am and I don't want to be...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I feel like every feels like there problems are worst then any one else, so when you tell them how you feel them think you are just complaining. For example when ever I was...
    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M Jan 7

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    I don't really tell people what I think or feel. They know the basics and that's about it. Truth is, id love to live out in a survival situation like before technology was invented...
    lovedownunder lovedownunder 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    in reality people may say that they understand how your feeling when they really don't because it never happened to them. I just want someone who will understand
    Itsmiprada Itsmiprada 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    People don't really care. so it's just easier to keep it all to myself.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I get scared because I don't want them to think I'm just fishing for attention. I keep most things to myself if not directly asked about it.
    xxalicerosexx xxalicerosexx 16-17, F Jan 7

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    If you ever want to see who people really are, ignore them for a couple hours.. They will eventually show you their real side.. Some handle it well, others are just ******** who...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 6

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    love hurts so much ....,, and it hurts more when it's one sided.. :?-(
    saurabh1993 saurabh1993 18-21, M Jan 7

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    Well... This week really sucks. My friend and her family died in a plane crash on Saturday, Then this Monday my sister in law gave birth but her baby died. Then just today my...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 7

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    True. People have often told me that!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 7

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    but i will this year but its to late
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M Jan 7

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    So I am pretty sure I am passive aggressive or something because I am afraid to say what it is I want so instead now I just sulk. I can’t stand my husband he has left me so many...
    andylynn39 andylynn39 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I can't cope with everything anymore I'm giving up with life all together. I've got so much this year to get through and I can't do it. There's so much on my mind. So much ahead of...
    WhatsThePointInLifeAnymore WhatsThePointInLifeAnymore 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    Look at you stupid ex-husband! Trying hard to follow me like a desperate guy! You are worth nothing to me! I dedicate my devotion and love to a guy better than you stupid! Because...
    DawnS87 DawnS87 26-30, F Jan 18

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    I feel like there are so many versions of me. Is that weird? Yeah, that's weird... but it's like I open myself up to certain people. Some people know things about me that others...
    Froma2zee Froma2zee 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I heard that my ex's cat (nibbles) at the vet was accidentally adopted and my ex can't have her back anymore. I feel so bad...Really bad... (haven't been talking to my ex for a...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    You are so perfect!! Every sentence u say is meaningful!! You care about feelings although I'm not the only one, but I feel satisfied!! Thank u and I really love u, but I can't...
    Borika Borika 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I really don't care how you are raise but don't tell me how to live my life.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jan 23

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    Everything feels numb. Nothing seems to stand out to me. Everything I used to love to do now seems too impossible to get one. Nobody I know seems to realize I exist. Nothing seems...
    SnowyBirdie SnowyBirdie 13-15, M Jan 11

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    I am always the bride's maid, but never the bride. The runner up. People's second choice. There's always someone else my crushes prefer over me. I can get them to like me, sure...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Producing Productive Products We are the products, of the products, that we bought up, we were brought up, to buy up, a diet, of electronics, our narcotics, are HiDef hypnotic...
    AaronLA AaronLA 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    I am going to be 30 in 16 days. I have 2 wonderful children who are my world. I grew up in a rough home, moved out at 16. I felt I had to, or I was going to end up just like my...
    sohurtnow sohurtnow 26-30 Jan 15

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    Okay so I know alot of yoy are going to judge me once I tell my story but I don't care. approximately 3 1/2 years ago my husband Bert fell 8 feet onto a concrete floor injuring...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    sometimes, I think to myself.. what is the point of even trying in the world any more if people just result in not liking me in the end. i'm a very nice person and i try to belong...
    tirwin6471 tirwin6471 16-17, F Jan 16

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    I can't do this anymore! I am to overwhelmed! The heartache is to much to bare. I still cry! On top of that I can't even survive. I'm broke. I work so hard everyday at work to have...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Hi, yes , correct, I'm here to rant about my sister in law because I really can't stand her anymore. She's currently living with my parents and I, because they couldn't afford a...
    Lucyfire Lucyfire 18-21 1 Response Jan 7

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I still can not stop thinking about my ex. Some days I'm ok, other days I still cry. I can't get him out of my head. My heart pounds so hard when I think of him. I miss everything...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I was used to be friend of crazy, funny, “alive and burning” people, I was used to have many girlfriends, even at the same time, I was living fast and that’s how any guy...
    calande calande 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    Years ago I met this beautiful girl, who became a close friend of mine. We spent time together on a regular basis, I'd even watch as she would get flirtatious with other men and I...
    steampunkBeverage steampunkBeverage 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    The hidden secret of life I mean. I myself don’t know what I mean. I have a huge trusting problem. The problem is not that I don’t trust anyone but that I trust EVERYONE. I...
    avnn avnn 16-17, F Jan 21

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    No, I am not in love with someone. I have never experienced anything like this actually. I think it'd be cool to know this feeling of "falling in love" and be "in love" with...
    Lila2088 Lila2088 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    I am loved by my one set of grandparents, my single mother of 51, boyfriend, and my bestie carey. I don't have any other family anymore :-( I don't feel like I can truly talk to...
    JessiAnn27 JessiAnn27 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I don't know what is real anymore, i wake up from 'dreams' with scars...how can it just be sleep paralysis...if i can't move whilst it happens? i'm not doing this to myself...so...
    Narlu Narlu 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    If someone gives you their heart, tells you that you are getting what you need now, and if you leave her the ripple effect will kick in, but something goes wrong, she pushes you...
    musicmatters1111 musicmatters1111 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 15

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    I am so hopelessly in love with this guy I met a little over a year ago. I met him through a friend and since then we have really bonded and gotten close. He tells me things he has...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    I have this ideal world in my imagination which never resembles anything in this world. I constantly long to live in my imaginary world. The real world is nowhere close to my ideal...
    johnyxrox johnyxrox 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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