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I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

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    Lost In My Relationship

    I feel so lost right now. I feel like when I try to share how I am feeling it all either comes out wrong or he takes it the wrong way and our relationship declines. I love him with all my heart. I have A LOT of family issues (from when I was young) that still weigh on me. We...
    smurphette smurphette 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    A Lifeless Marriage

    There are so many things that get into my head which I could not control. Now, that me and my husband where totally at lost of communication. There is nothing I could do but let life flow on its own. Not caring too much about him is something I need and totally forget every...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    I Can't Communicate How I Feel Anymore.

    Here is my story.... My husband and I have been married about 5 1/2 years. I admit that when I was younger and when we were first married, I had a lot of growing to do.  I probably talked about how I felt too much, and was a little overly expressive.  Kind of the way...
    medorn medorn 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 2, 2008

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    I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

    I love my husband and want things to work out for us. We have been together for going on 5 years .(off and on). We and 1 child together and I have another child before him and he has 3 other kids. So, anyway dealing with in ex wife and step kids is not the problem. When you hear...
    southernchick28 southernchick28 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Maybe It Was to Fast

    well..... i try very hard to talk and cuddle and well it works for a few days and its gets to the point that you don't want to fight and you just don't say anything.... everything that comes from your lips goes in one ear and out the other.... it feels that you are two differant...
    lovememore lovememore 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    He Just Doesn't Care.

    I can't talk to him about my feelings because they're unjustified and I'm "crazy" like my mother. I feel like all I'm supposed to do is cook, clean, and take care of our two boys. I just hurt because my feelings are ignored and I have no one to talk to. My opinions are always...
    mommy9610 mommy9610 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    On the Outside Looking In

    Hi: I think that perhaps you are at a plateau in your relationship that he has taken you for granted.  He has a lot on his plate.....taking care of his family, moving, ensuring you are safe, well cared for, adjusted. There is some stress in his life that he does not feel...
    jbolton101402 jbolton101402 41-45 Sep 15, 2008

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    I Can't Trust My Husband With My Feelings And Thoughts.

    My husband has always had a big mouth.  Lately this is more than I can take.  He discusses our family business and intimate times with his friends.  The things he tells his family they call to confirm and get the story first hand from me.  If i share with him that some one...
    maggiebaby7 maggiebaby7 41-45 May 13, 2012

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    I'm scared to tell they person I love how I feel. He is everything to me. Everytime we talk I want to say something but I can't. I can't even tell him how much I'm in love with him...
    Kiraculp Kiraculp 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm not comfortable sharing things with people. Even people who I've known for years, whether it be a close friend, or a family member. I just am not okay with telling anyone my...
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward 13-15, F Jul 28

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    I had no clue like this guy was dropping a lot of hints and I finally told my friend stuff she he was saying and she called me stupid. Even my mom has pointed out when a guy was...
    katd1234 katd1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I feel so alone. I know it seems cliched to say these words but its true. I'm surrounded by so many people that say they love me, so why can't I feel loved? It's not like I'm an...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response Jul 28

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    My mum, I love her dearly but she always upsets me. We live a fair distance apart and I don't get to see her as often as I'd like. Yes, she drives me crazy but I still feel...
    probablyPMT probablyPMT 31-35, F a week ago

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    My friends sometimes borrow money or anything else from me. And i can't ask them to pay their loan. I want them to pay their loans without me asking them. But it seems like...
    petitedreamer petitedreamer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I dated a girl all throughout high school. We started dating Freshman year (her sophomore year) and we dated up until she went off to college. I left her after she had been at...
    whoknows2014 whoknows2014 22-25, M Jul 23

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    I'm giving up. I'm to tired of the fight inside me. I just can't hold it inside anymore. I get lost in my thoughts. I need someone. Someone. I'm so alone. But no one cares. No one...
    Adamexxx Adamexxx 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm always like the odd one out.. I'm the ugly, fat one in my group of friends.. I'm the talentless one in my family, I'm nothing special. I'm never the one that stands out (for...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Man that would be horrible. I mean your thoughts are also your secrets. It would be so scary to know that you properbly can't hide your secrets anymore because everyone could read...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 13 Responses Jul 25

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    I have three children and gave up a career of teaching to stay at home with them. I did all the things a parent wants to do- I read to them, played with them, encouraged them, was...
    Hateisexhausting1 Hateisexhausting1 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    my mom doesn't know if she loves her husband, but won't tell him
    reachingforthesun reachingforthesun 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I can't stand my MIL! She isn't what you would call mean or lazy but she is just so damn annoying! My husband and I have been married for a month and a half but we dated 6 years...
    cdub1990 cdub1990 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I know this is really strange but I don't know what to do anymore, I'm struggling and just feel like letting all these feelings out by writing this... I have a really terrible...
    DingleberryBooBoo DingleberryBooBoo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I am always in trouble at work, and even though I love what I do, and am good at it (so they tell me) I hate the feeling I have when I wake up in the morning. I hate coming to work...
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I think I told this story before, but here I go again... I have lost my faith in so many things. I have lost my faith in myself, in people, in life. When I was a kid, I had a...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    People say that a few people care and the rest are just curious. No one cares and everyone else is curious. I hate this place so much. No one cares, AT ALL. THEY ACT LIKE THEY DO...
    Atraxiella Atraxiella 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So I know I should always love my dad and be grateful for everything he's given me, but I really cannot stand him most of the time!! He pays for everything for me and my mom always...
    sindianau sindianau 18-21, F Jul 23

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    Did you ever meet someone and feel a strong connection to them without even really knowing them? Like they just "get" you and you feel like you know them and feel empathy towards...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I feel depressed a lot more than before. I feel like all the happiness I use to shower people with is being sucked from me more and more. The rules my parents keep placing on me to...
    ruizr302 ruizr302 18-21, F Jul 26

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    You don't notice much about me anymore. I'm your daughter. You should be the first to see what's wrong. But you don't. You don't see the despair in my eyes or the tears on my face...
    NeverTrulyWanted NeverTrulyWanted 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I get depressed a lot, and I've learned to just accept the fact that I'm going to be depressed. It still takes it's toll on me, though, and it can get quite painful. It started as...
    Tsalokath Tsalokath 18-21, F Jul 26

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    This has to be the worst pain I have ever felt towards the person I call my dad. Just the thought of what he said and what happened brings tears to my face and pain to my heart...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Hello everyone! This is my first post! (Woohoo) Okay, So hi, I'm Kat. I'm 24... 25 on MONDAY 8/11!!! *Suddenly gets writer's block* -_- Always happens. Meh. I live in FL. I'm a...
    LovelyCalico LovelyCalico 22-25, F Aug 7

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    I find it so painful when people tell me they are having a baby. No matter how happy i am for them it will make me cry. I then begin to wish it was me and think that its not fair...
    maggiedjp2002 maggiedjp2002 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I've posted this elsewhere, multiple times... didn't get much in the way of insight; so I'm posting it here. I just started working at this really small shop about a month or so...
    cloaked1 cloaked1 22-25, M Aug 2

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    Small talk to me just sounds like a broken record. I can't and won't do it anymore! Actually, now that I think about it, all of my TRUE friends started with me being completely...
    BeautifulVenDisaster BeautifulVenDisaster 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I can't take this I miss my friend but she's gone she took her life I miss my ex but he's gone he doesn't give a **** about me I miss my happiness but it's gone like a lost child I...
    baileyzook baileyzook 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's really just this one girl, and it bugs the hell outta me. Most times women I thought were hot but found out they were married or had boyfriends, I usually didn't care about...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    My ex dumped me a year and a half ago and has never spoken to me since. He quickly meet another woman and married her in 6 months time. He told me he loved me when obviously he was...
    brainwrecked brainwrecked 36-40, F a week ago

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    Actually I know she is. She tries to convince me she's not, but that's because she's so kind and caring, more than I can understand I think. I used to be convinced that it was...
    quietorloud quietorloud 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I remember seeing you walking pass me right across the chapel. That back pack hanging in your shoulders and the wearisome look etched on your face. I love those metals on your...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 27

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    Every morning that I wake up I am always feeling like a deer caught in headlights. Always wondering what the wife is gonna throw my way next. I'm telling you people, anything she...
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I posted my first and only post to this site after having found experience project while searching for the least painful methods of suicide, and came across several people that had...
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