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I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

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    He Just Doesn't Care.

    I can't talk to him about my feelings because they're unjustified and I'm "crazy" like my mother. I feel like all I'm supposed to do is cook, clean, and take care of our two boys. I just hurt because my feelings are ignored and I have no one to talk to. My opinions are always...
    mommy9610 mommy9610 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Lost In My Relationship

    I feel so lost right now. I feel like when I try to share how I am feeling it all either comes out wrong or he takes it the wrong way and our relationship declines. I love him with all my heart. I have A LOT of family issues (from when I was young) that still weigh on me. We...
    smurphette smurphette 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    I Can't Trust My Husband With My Feelings And Thoughts.

    My husband has always had a big mouth.  Lately this is more than I can take.  He discusses our family business and intimate times with his friends.  The things he tells his family they call to confirm and get the story first hand from me.  If i share with him that some one...
    maggiebaby7 maggiebaby7 41-45 May 13, 2012

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    I Can't Communicate How I Feel Anymore.

    Here is my story.... My husband and I have been married about 5 1/2 years. I admit that when I was younger and when we were first married, I had a lot of growing to do.  I probably talked about how I felt too much, and was a little overly expressive.  Kind of the way...
    medorn medorn 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 2, 2008

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    A Lifeless Marriage

    There are so many things that get into my head which I could not control. Now, that me and my husband where totally at lost of communication. There is nothing I could do but let life flow on its own. Not caring too much about him is something I need and totally forget every...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Maybe It Was to Fast

    well..... i try very hard to talk and cuddle and well it works for a few days and its gets to the point that you don't want to fight and you just don't say anything.... everything that comes from your lips goes in one ear and out the other.... it feels that you are two differant...
    lovememore lovememore 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

    I love my husband and want things to work out for us. We have been together for going on 5 years .(off and on). We and 1 child together and I have another child before him and he has 3 other kids. So, anyway dealing with in ex wife and step kids is not the problem. When you hear...
    southernchick28 southernchick28 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    On the Outside Looking In

    Hi: I think that perhaps you are at a plateau in your relationship that he has taken you for granted.  He has a lot on his plate.....taking care of his family, moving, ensuring you are safe, well cared for, adjusted. There is some stress in his life that he does not feel...
    jbolton101402 jbolton101402 41-45 Sep 15, 2008

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    When I open up to someone I feel like they don't really understand me or even try to do so. That's why I've shutdown and stopped talking about my life and now I'm just sticking to...
    Careisla Careisla 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    i just feel lonely since ive moved, it seems everyones forgotten about me. yup, i can and will go out and make new friends, but i just feel awfully lonely as i am by myself in...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I always think about how guys view me..Do guys like funny loud girls who aren't afraid to be themselves? There's this guy in my gym and around him I get nervous so I'm all loud...
    tfiosqueen tfiosqueen 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    I was raised in a very dysfunctional family. Everyday was another fight and more drama, the thing is my family is very violent so all I heard growing up was screaming, all I saw...
    jen202022 jen202022 16-17, F Oct 2

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    I really can't stand my life anymore it's just hard to keep living knowing that people would kill you if they had the chance and that even your own parents wouldn't miss you all...
    J5227 J5227 13-15, T 1 Response Oct 8

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    nobody knows i'm gay, feeling alone, can't talk to anyone about how i feel, so tired ... i can't stop thinking how messedup my life is. is this it ? is this really it ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 9

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    It feels super horrible the scorching heat makes me feel sick and superheated, I can't stand the heat anymore I really need some major icing and cooling. I never had a heat stroke...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    My mother share with me today that she believes that my grandfather molested me as a baby. She had hinted to it in the past years but never came out and just said it. She was...
    StormFairy StormFairy 18-21, F Sep 28

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    Very upset. I don't feel like sharing my bed with him anymore. I will start moving my stuff to my son's room. I want us to be done! End this marriage or stay but I'll start...
    honestydiary honestydiary 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 4

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    every minute is cruel without you. I imagine one night you will grab my face and breath deep and kiss me forcefully. I won't fight you. dreaming about you is addicting. Do you...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I am struggling to get over the person I was seeing before. He put me down all the time and now I feel I can't get anyone. He has made me feel so worthless and depressed. I have no...
    MelisJade MelisJade 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I said I Do and at the time I meant forever. I could have never foreseen what would become of us. I don't know what killed it for me? My metamorphosis? His drinking? Our...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    Also wishing I had some close friends to talk to... Well here I am, just another morning sitting with my father-in-law...watching him sleep. He is pushing 100 and isn't in his...
    505gizzy 505gizzy 41-45, F 7 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I just can't seem to get my head above water. I'm financially drowning. I'm an assistant manager, I make $8.40. I work 10 hour days, and I work hard. However, I still can't seem to...
    jlochman88 jlochman88 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I wish I knew a dream decoder. I had the weirdest dream that my ex sent me an email, (can't remember all of it, but it was basically like a poem or something asking we why fell...
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I love how one person can me feel so cared for and love. How that one person can keep my smiling from the moment I get up till the moment I go to sleep. I really appreciate this...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know why I always find myself the person people love to tell me my flaws. Like if I'm smoking at a friends house they gotta understand I have been smoking all day and I...
    bananaloc bananaloc 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    I don't want to be expected to be happy with settling for less because I have baggage and issues. Yet, I know that the people who say that you can have the life you want no matter...
    Friability Friability 18-21 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Me and my boyfriend of 9 years have been living with my boyfriends parents because of the economy and the fact that he has helped his family financially in the past, bringing down...
    Anonymous8712 Anonymous8712 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Been immigrants my family traveled to Sydney, Australia via small boats during the war. I had a very rough childhood growing up. My dad left my mum after I was born. A guy moved...
    zenzuu zenzuu 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    I can't do it anymore. I wanted to be strong. I don't want to guilt him. I didn't guilt him last time. He came back on his own. I only left him two messages, neither pressuring nor...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 3

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    Hi.. I'm Alyx, I really can't take people lieing to be anymore on EP.. First was Ryan, who pretend to be 14 and talked about how he was bullied and got beat up. He talked about...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 12 Responses Oct 5

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yale) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F Sep 29

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    So before I get into the deep stuff, let me fill you in. I grew up an only child in a happy home, my parents were never married but were always together, I am 22, my mom is 44...
    Chelssea Chelssea 18-21 Oct 3

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    I am mostly writing this because I really need to vent and let it out. My husband is battling CVS (cyclic vomiting syndrome) and has been for the last year now. He is currently...
    kristinap123 kristinap123 22-25, F Oct 2

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    I have been married 25 yrs. In 2012 I was diagnosed with RA and was told i could no longer work. Apparently my husband is not a man that can handle caring for someone with a...
    phoebesmom12041 phoebesmom12041 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    When I am not taking my bipolar meds, I am a mess, when I am taking them I am a zombie, either way me and my husband fight a lot. We have a five month old but we only met 15 months...
    C8DAGR8 C8DAGR8 22-25, F Oct 15

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    I wish someone would kill me or I would get in a fatal cat accident or something. Jeeze. Why can't I sell my life force to someone who will use it
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    Ever get that sudden moment, where your heart starts to feel heavy and your eyes get teary? I don't know why, but I suddenly feel like crying.
    henal216 henal216 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    You know… sometimes I wish I had the courage to just come to her and tell her how I really feel about her, just to get this out of my chest... It's sad that I'm basically venting...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 3 Responses Sep 25

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    I don't know what it is. It's been 2 years and so since we broke up, I've moved onto another guy and I thought I was over you. You were really the first person that I ever fell...
    ttommyggee ttommyggee 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    I never thought that this time would come. 2 years ago I graduated from college. After few months I got an online job. I thought it would be just a temporary job while I was...
    nobodybutme97 nobodybutme97 22-25, M Oct 4

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    Don't even know where to begin when it comes to with my MIL she is in a class of her own when it comes to a evil person, Seriously! She wrote me off from the very moment she meet...
    2mommy85 2mommy85 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    Well, my boyfriend tries but he's too busy so he's never really around. My mom takes the side of her other children who sexually abused me when I was little. They tried to make me...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    I am so upset all the time :( I cry almost everyday all over a dumb boy. I was in love with him and I still am :( I guess I just can't let go. I'm only 14 and he was the only guy I...
    mayks3 mayks3 13-15, F Oct 2

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    Lately I have been feeling really fed up and depressed. I feel that both family and friends hate me being happy or having a life of my own. My parents are both really ill and have...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've decided how I will kill myself. I'm going to starve myself to death. Already lost six pounds in eight days. Lets see how fast I can shed this fat. I can't take life anymore. I...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F