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I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

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    He Just Doesn't Care.

    I can't talk to him about my feelings because they're unjustified and I'm "crazy" like my mother. I feel like all I'm supposed to do is cook, clean, and take care of our two boys. I just hurt because my feelings are ignored and I have no one to talk to. My opinions are always...
    mommy9610 mommy9610 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Maybe It Was to Fast

    well..... i try very hard to talk and cuddle and well it works for a few days and its gets to the point that you don't want to fight and you just don't say anything.... everything that comes from your lips goes in one ear and out the other.... it feels that you are two differant...
    lovememore lovememore 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I Feel Like I Can't Tell My Husband How I Feel Anymore

    I love my husband and want things to work out for us. We have been together for going on 5 years .(off and on). We and 1 child together and I have another child before him and he has 3 other kids. So, anyway dealing with in ex wife and step kids is not the problem. When you hear...
    southernchick28 southernchick28 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    On the Outside Looking In

    Hi: I think that perhaps you are at a plateau in your relationship that he has taken you for granted.  He has a lot on his plate.....taking care of his family, moving, ensuring you are safe, well cared for, adjusted. There is some stress in his life that he does not feel...
    jbolton101402 jbolton101402 41-45 Sep 15, 2008

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    I Can't Communicate How I Feel Anymore.

    Here is my story.... My husband and I have been married about 5 1/2 years. I admit that when I was younger and when we were first married, I had a lot of growing to do.  I probably talked about how I felt too much, and was a little overly expressive.  Kind of the way...
    medorn medorn 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 2, 2008

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    I Can't Trust My Husband With My Feelings And Thoughts.

    My husband has always had a big mouth.  Lately this is more than I can take.  He discusses our family business and intimate times with his friends.  The things he tells his family they call to confirm and get the story first hand from me.  If i share with him that some one...
    maggiebaby7 maggiebaby7 41-45 May 13, 2012

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    Lost In My Relationship

    I feel so lost right now. I feel like when I try to share how I am feeling it all either comes out wrong or he takes it the wrong way and our relationship declines. I love him with all my heart. I have A LOT of family issues (from when I was young) that still weigh on me. We...
    smurphette smurphette 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2013

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    A Lifeless Marriage

    There are so many things that get into my head which I could not control. Now, that me and my husband where totally at lost of communication. There is nothing I could do but let life flow on its own. Not caring too much about him is something I need and totally forget every...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    My husband put anything and everything before me. He would rather talk to anyone else but me. I repeatedly tell him how I feel and he doesn't make any changes. I feel like he just...
    Tcallen Tcallen 31-35 Nov 22

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    TheLoner1234 TheLoner1234 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I. . .just feel. . .so empty. I can't take living with a fake smile, day after day, with no one knowing how torn apart I truly am. I'm also thinking of cutting myself or even worse...
    CrypticIris CrypticIris 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I can't take this anymore! I am literally falling apart. I'm 4 months pregnant with 2 kids at home, my husband left me. I got fired from my job because I can't afford child care on...
    calitx calitx 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    michalb michalb 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 20

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    bloomingheart bloomingheart 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    My really good friend is slowly destroying our friendship with the amount of incessant emails/text messages she is sending me. I really value our friendship, however lately it...
    fckthtbtch fckthtbtch 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I don't know how much longer I can go on. My throat is bleeding again, and I am unable to eat. I don't want to go on if I never get to talk with him again. I didn't even need to be...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 10

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F Nov 24

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