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I Feel Like I Never Fit In

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    Too This Or Too That

    too punk for mainstream. to shy for society. too scared for privateering. to fearless for the norms. i'm always the square peg in a world of round holes. i'm a chameleon cuz i have to be. because i never fit anywhere. too city for the small town. too country for suburbia. i'm...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    I Never Have Fitted In Anywhere

    I feel like I have never fitted in anywhere. Well, that’s not quite true. As a small boy I was quite ‘normal’, but as my teens arrived, I did not seem to adapt. I was never any good at sport, and that seemed quite important. I lacked confidence with other people. My...
    Alypius Alypius 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    Never Found A Place To Be

    After 40 years I can say that I have never found a place where I could fit in. Growing up no one ever wanted to be my friend and I couldn't even get picked in sports teams whether I was good at the sports or not. I am so tired of trying to find my spot in life that I have just...
    lonertoo lonertoo 41-45 Dec 3, 2012

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    I Am Friendless

    in a world that values how many friends you have.  I find that with friends comes a lot of drama and I like to live simply.  I've always thought that being on a deserted island would be wonderful.  I do get lonely at times and would like to find that one person that I could...
    sg0617 sg0617 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2011

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    I Am a Misfit

       i like to joke about this at times but I compare myself to the christmas cartoon ruldoph , I feel like the little misfit on that cartoon, i never felt i fit into any social group, being shy passive and backwards has worked against me as long as I can remember, i...
    sweetstacey sweetstacey 26-30, F Jul 26, 2008

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    Good Pair Of Shoes

    I figure that finding your soulmate or the love of your life is like finding a great pair of shoes. I've been looking for a good pair of shoes since May. I met Robert Herjevec from Dragons Den and Shark Tank at a school reunion in May. I wore a 6 year old suit that just didn't...
    denhua denhua 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    And to be honest, I'd rather not. I hate today's society.
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    All my life things have been weird for me. I've always been in-tuned with the paranormal world; e.i., I have had bizarre dreams, I seen shadow people, I have been touched by things...
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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I feel like I'm loosing my friends . Most of my friends just stopped talking to me while the others are now cheerleaders and are hanging out with those type of ppl . And I'm not...
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    I've been married three times yet never been in love. I work as a PC tech but don't fit in with "techies" or "geeks". I don't understand my feelings and lack thereof. I just...
    TheScorpio1966 TheScorpio1966 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 28

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    That's Okay. Why do I want to be a part of a homogenised lump that can not think or feel as individuals? I forgive those who have been hurt or cajoled into living acceptably. I am...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response Jul 26

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    I've always felt like I'm an outsider , adopted at brith and found out at 5 years old , now I'm 30 and I still feel like I just don't fit in anywhere ... I cry cause unselfishly...
    shyartist1983 shyartist1983 26-30, F Aug 2

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    Hey There people... I am 32... And I just feel like a looser... When I left school I wanted to do an art course. But my parents didn't approve... So I did a marketing course only...
    SweetBrazilianLizzy SweetBrazilianLizzy 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Hey guys, my life has been pretty good so far but lately I feel like I don't belong in my country. It started like a few months ago when I went to Thailand for a month with someone...
    msawsome44 msawsome44 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    I feel like giving up because I just don't fit in anywhere
    littlemonkey97 littlemonkey97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Everytime I log in into Facebook or open Instagram and see that other people are having fun and have lots of friends I feel like I'm the loneliest person in the world and that...
    theitalianboy theitalianboy 18-21, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    My head feels like its gonna explode I don't want to think anymore. I want to forget I exist for awhile. I don't want to hear the shower dripping, feel my arms burning from the...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone! This is my first post! (Woohoo) Okay, So hi, I'm Kat. I'm 24... 25 on MONDAY 8/11!!! *Suddenly gets writer's block* -_- Always happens. Meh. I live in FL. I'm a...
    LovelyCalico LovelyCalico 22-25, F Aug 7

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    I feel like ..i was never meant to be a mother ...don't get me wrong I believe children are so beautiful and innocent and all I see is good in them! innocent and sweet ...I have 3...
    pinkfloydkitty pinkfloydkitty 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I never thought I would turn out to be like this when I was younger. Incompetent, inadequate, lost soul. I'm not anywhere close to the life stage points I should be. I feel like I...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 4

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    This has to be the worst pain I have ever felt towards the person I call my dad. Just the thought of what he said and what happened brings tears to my face and pain to my heart...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jul 30

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    It amazes me the different people in your life.... There are those you can always turn to... Those that are there for you... Those that make you smile like you've never smiled...
    Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Increasingly I am feeling like I was born with a mask on my face... I mean, here I am, this 39 year old lady with a wealth of experience, I speak several languages, am well...
    Hhaawke Hhaawke 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Everywhere I am I don't belong home nope school nope sleepovers nope where DO I belong? Idk sometimes I feel like hell is my place.i always fake smiles u may never know but my...
    Shinecarberry Shinecarberry 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    This a major problem for me, all the time. I feel like crap over this. Imagine me, living in a small town with a school of maybe 200 people K-12 grades. And always having this...
    lportra24 lportra24 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Sometimes I do...... There will be times I'm playing around with Ana and she suddenly gets all upset by it and begins to cry. I mean I never push it too far or make it annoying...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    This is the first time I am sharing my story. Exactly as I said before, I feel like I live in Hell. Hell on Earth, that is. Now, let me tell you why. First of all, I have a large...
    Mymin Mymin 13-15, F Jul 27

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    I feel like a fraud. I've been in orchestra for 5 years now, and I play the beautiful cello...except I never ACTUALLY played in class. (I'm practically a master at muting sounds...
    ArtisteMe ArtisteMe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I feel like I should have been born in the future. When vintage is 80's and 90's. When everyone has equal rights. Possibly when money has dissipated. When all disease has a cure...
    enlightenyoursoul enlightenyoursoul 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I used to be very ambitious, I wanted a successful career and was willing to do my best to achieve my goals. But now that I am at one of the best universities in my country, I've...
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    not my fault just feel like I am forget feel I know I am especially when someone u love says something u never though they would
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    My life is very complicated. My daughter is disabled and sit in wheelchair. She goes to school for disabled kids. Since shes away, i sleep till lunch at home. I developed this bad...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I don't know why everything goes wrong!!! In the beginning of this year my math teacher was the best he was teaching us perfectly, waiting in the class at lunch time If any student...
    nona000 nona000 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I've never had a dream that I did not understand in some way, it makes me feel like I'm in touch with myself.
    emavii emavii 18-21, F Jul 31

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    Anyone else feel like a monster wen they're upset or angry doing things hey thought they would never do?
    oneperson93 oneperson93 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    whenever i tell my friends how i feel, they never seem to understand. they brush it off. nobody listens...
    maggie1414 maggie1414 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Whenever I am in social situations I never know what to say because I am so nervous and antisocial. Every conversation I attempt to have turns into an awkward silence, because I...
    leolove4 leolove4 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm always like the odd one out.. I'm the ugly, fat one in my group of friends.. I'm the talentless one in my family, I'm nothing special. I'm never the one that stands out (for...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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    Ambria101 Ambria101 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have an awful case of anxiety. Its paralyzing me from living a normal life. I've been given a PRN(as needed) of Clonzepam .5 mg. These have changed everything. I can sleep...
    ehmesseye ehmesseye 18-21, F Jul 22

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    ever since my dad got remarried and had another kid, my brother and i have taken the back burner. scratch that, we've been moved out of the kitchen entirely. particularly me bc i...
    kggi kggi 16-17, F Jul 25

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    I get depressed a lot, and I've learned to just accept the fact that I'm going to be depressed. It still takes it's toll on me, though, and it can get quite painful. It started as...
    Tsalokath Tsalokath 18-21, F Jul 26

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    I feel depressed a lot more than before. I feel like all the happiness I use to shower people with is being sucked from me more and more. The rules my parents keep placing on me to...
    ruizr302 ruizr302 18-21, F Jul 26

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