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I Feel Like I Was Played With

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    Was It All Just A Lie?

    I started seeing this guy 4 years ago. He was broken up with his girlfriend when we started. He got back together with her but we never stopped seeing each other. That went on for 2 years. When they finally broke up. We officially became boyfriend-girlfriend and that lasted for a...
    iamlost88 iamlost88 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    He Was In For The Hunt

    We were introduced by a "friend" who thought we should meet. I have decided to be open minded about meeting new people, you know to give myself and love a chance. It has been years since my first truly great heart break. I thought it was time to give it another try. It seemed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 8, 2012

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    It Was All Some Kind Of Sick Game To You

    You won. Even now you do things to keep hurting me so you have control over me. Why bother now? You've been living with her for 4 months.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2013

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    If you have to have the guts to lead me on

    for months just to randomly stop messaging me one day, please be kind enough to give me a reason. I quit talking to half of my friends because it bothered you and now this..okay
    brooklyn18 brooklyn18 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 26

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    Definately Do..

     Try to help me understand what happened... because it seems to me that I've been played.. This guy has told me how much he loved me and wanted to marry me and only be with me... But then this all happens.. and he tries to say he hasn't talked to me for days because he...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

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    Girls Always Play With This Little Boy...

    I don't know what it is about me that makes girls want to play with my feelings and hurt me, it's just that way. I recently had a breakup with an amazing girl that I was madly in love with. I thought I met the one, we shared the same values and both wanted the same things out of...
    Gladtuknow Gladtuknow 18-21, M May 15, 2012

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    Mirroring

    I think I have apologized for every single thing I have done.Some not even worth apologizing.But he has never apologized not once,until last week when my friend threaten to kick his *** if he did not do so.He has also never blamed himself,or has taken responsibility for what he...
    FlutterFlower FlutterFlower 16-17, F Aug 2, 2013

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    One minute he acts like he's back in the game,

    and then he won't even respond to any of my text messages. I now feel like the only thing I've ever been to him was another notch on his belt and that's all.
    Tears3 Tears3 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Was Played With.

    I was played with,simple as that.
    angelwithoutwings angelwithoutwings 26-30, F 1 Response May 16, 2011

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    He Played Me Like I Was A Deck Of Cards

    I dated this guy for six months and I loved him more than anything. He was sweet and I loved him to pieces but then he had his faults too but I chose to ignore them. One day I find out from my cousin he is seeing someone else. I said no way he cannot be seeing someone else he is...
    countrygrrl82 countrygrrl82 70+ 1 Response Dec 22, 2011

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    My Last Ex

    The one that is in prison now. The one I moved here to be with. When he would look at me, he would give me this fake smile. It looked fake to me. He did so much for me. He walked to the store in the cold. He walked to work evey day. One time, I was watching him as he smoked...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 31, 2010

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    I've done something i shoulnt have done to someone who is really good to me :'c
    sapatov sapatov 16-17, M Aug 2

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    Its 7:40pm... Dad is at work. Jake is at football practice and im laying in bed. My dad has been home. Its good and bad. In the morning. Dad wakes up. And when hes leaving for work...
    KovusShame KovusShame 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I love to have my hair played with by brushing it shampooing it getting it cut colored I like to have my head layed back in the sink to have my hair washed
    mp98mp98 mp98mp98 36-40, M Aug 11

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    Oh yeah I'm so into having my hair washed by an experienced shampoo person in the salon and I love having people touch my hair and massage my nape. As the only woman in my office...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Having my hair played with is such sweet extasy, but not in a sexual way. My husband gets aroused because I can't help but purr from the sheer pleasure of it. Sometimes I massage...
    violetpenny03 violetpenny03 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I love having it stroked and played with. Teased, twisted and twirled between fingers. It's just so lovely and relaxing.
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F Aug 12

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    I have really long thick hair and absolutely love when it's played with our brushed. I could stand someone playing with it for hours on end!! It is one of the most relaxing things...
    stakalisious stakalisious 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    I love it when ppl braid my hair cuz it feels like a massage.
    spirituallife25 spirituallife25 16-17 3 days ago

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    Did you ever meet someone and feel a strong connection to them without even really knowing them? Like they just "get" you and you feel like you know them and feel empathy towards...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    For the past two weeks, I don’t think I’ve dreamed once-or if I have, I don’t remember it. That probably doesn’t seem all that significant… Except for me. It’s made...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So having unrequited love fore someone you have known for a few months is bad or even a year or two. Though knowing someone your whole life and having unrequited love for them is...
    BDMW15 BDMW15 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I never thought I would turn out to be like this when I was younger. Incompetent, inadequate, lost soul. I'm not anywhere close to the life stage points I should be. I feel like I...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    This has to be the worst pain I have ever felt towards the person I call my dad. Just the thought of what he said and what happened brings tears to my face and pain to my heart...
    XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX XCrAzYBeAuTiFulX 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Hello everyone! This is my first post! (Woohoo) Okay, So hi, I'm Kat. I'm 24... 25 on MONDAY 8/11!!! *Suddenly gets writer's block* -_- Always happens. Meh. I live in FL. I'm a...
    LovelyCalico LovelyCalico 22-25, F Aug 7

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    cross country was brutal but shorter today, but my body feels like total crap. my legs feel like cinderblocks when I move them, and i feel bloated all over. At dinner, I felt...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    My husband Johnny and I have been together for 2 years, married for a year and a half. We met through his older brother 2 1/2 years ago and started talking as friends. Neither one...
    ashleymarcia ashleymarcia 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I'm just really really disappointed. I told my mom that this woman (I have a story of how I distrusted this adult who happens to be my moms close friend and how she is now bluntly...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have a few different feelings that are similar and I can't stand feeling the way I do about it. First, my real family; I miss them all so much but especially my sister and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I have all kids of dreams.. And i must say before i say anything else, that i feel like dreams are some of the times based on what you have been thinking about, or somethings...
    cbeneath cbeneath 22-25, F Aug 5

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    I feel like I should have been born in the 1700's and I also feel like I should have been a pirate captain
    oneperson93 oneperson93 18-21, M Aug 5

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    I can't make sense of myself in relation to the life around me. I look at people and I feel so very different. There are moments when I know that a certain thought process was...
    WhisperSayuri WhisperSayuri 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    My moms side of the family is really Catholic and pretty homophobic. My mom isn't homophobic but she doesn't approve of the "lifestyle choice". Her boyfriend is really right winged...
    chanchilla chanchilla 18-21, F Aug 10

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    Today I was called mean, rude, stupid and a bully! I don't know why, and I try to be a good person to everyone but I feel like no one understands me. And this wasn't the first time...
    Katie2135 Katie2135 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Hey guys, my life has been pretty good so far but lately I feel like I don't belong in my country. It started like a few months ago when I went to Thailand for a month with someone...
    msawsome44 msawsome44 22-25, M Aug 20

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    I know they don't. Yet sometimes, I get this anxious feeling of being judged and looked down on. At first it was at school, but now it's in my own home too. I'm not that insecure...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So about 10 months ago I moved from the state I grew up in. I live about 500 miles from there now and when I got here I was busy with moving and buying a house and traveling for...
    ande7897 ande7897 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    But God always save me. I got so sick before i almost died. Pain. Death i know what it feels like. Been to a lot of accidents but jst almost seems like someone is trying to save me...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I always feel like every time I do or say something it's weird or wrong but if someone else does the exact same thing it's perfectly fine. And every time I try to defend myself I...
    theartist102 theartist102 22-25, M Aug 4

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    I feel like I should have been born in the future. When vintage is 80's and 90's. When everyone has equal rights. Possibly when money has dissipated. When all disease has a cure...
    enlightenyoursoul enlightenyoursoul 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    It amazes me the different people in your life.... There are those you can always turn to... Those that are there for you... Those that make you smile like you've never smiled...
    Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 Sadgirlwithoutarazor1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I really struggle with this too. I used to have a fulfilling career until I became disabled. I think my career defined who I was as a person. Without a job I feel like I've lost my...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Whenever I'm at in public, I feel like my parents think I'm a disgrace. They've actually told me they're afraid to go out in public with me. All because I'm too loud. I don't...
    DrewbyDoo DrewbyDoo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm not underweight. I'm 5'5 and 130 lbs, but I am thinner than most people I know or come across and they have noticed it too. I don't eat a lot, just because I don't really...
    Slexre Slexre 22-25, F Aug 10

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    There is this really funny, really understanding, really incredibly beautiful girl that lives down the street from me in the same neighborhood. We have had on and off crushes on...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    There is this really funny, really understanding, really incredibly beautiful girl that lives down the street from me in the same neighborhood. We have had on and off crushes on...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 10

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    I feel like I shouldn't of lived this long any way, but lately I feel like death is gripping my neck tighter and tighter. I don't know how to get it to release. im not one of the...
    Yungbug Yungbug 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    As far as I can remember I can't recall the last time my parents ever said I love you or we are proud of you hugged me or even had a discussion with me, I'm originally francophone...
    alexaz66 alexaz66 26-30, M Aug 11

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