I Feel Like I'm a Bad Girlfriend

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    I Feel Like A Horrible Girlfriend

    I feel so bad right now. I *just* saw a blog post from my boyfriend written last Saturday. How did I miss that? I should of read it then, it puts everything that's happened this week in a new light. I feel horrible. I must of seemed like a callous *****. How can you be sensative...
    LostLotus LostLotus
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 27, 2011

    And It's Not The First Time Too...

    I've been going out with the same guy for about a year and a half now and to be honest, we both can't take any of this anymore, all the insults and guilt trips. I've been through a lot of bad relationships, one in particular that changed me. I've been quite afraid and...
    LittlePopPop LittlePopPop
    18-21, F
    May 3, 2010

    Bad Long Distance Girlfriend

    So, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and this September I went away for school. We broke up once because we didn't think the long distance relationship would work, and there was just a lot of misunderstanding. Eventually we worked it out though, and have been doing...
    beegirl66 beegirl66
    22-25
    Nov 5, 2010

    So Depressed

    Ill be 17 in October and ive been dating the love of my life for a year now, I moved two hours away and its absoloutly killing me I moved from a good school good friends and most importantly my boyfriend its been like 3 months but eveytime I leave his house to go back home I...
    daileygirl daileygirl
    16-17
    Sep 3, 2012

    Relationship Problems. I Dont Know What To Do This Time.

    I've been with my guy for about 4 years now. We met in high school and stayed with each other since. and of course for a relationship to last this long of course you hear about the Pros and cons of any relationship that will last for 4 years. But in the past I was a little...
    Jan 9, 2013

    How can I be your reassurance

    and your despair?
    silentsimp silentsimp
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 10

    I Am Horrible

    Okay so lets start by saying I have the most amazing boyfriend. He does so much for me and I love him to pieces. He takes me for who I am and loves me. He does not judge me in anyway and I love that about him. But I am horrible towards him... When we have our good times they are...
    tamaradanielleee tamaradanielleee
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 6, 2012

    I Don't Want To Ruin This..

    I have the most amazing, perfect boyfriend in the whole entire universe. He's my whole life, I love him to the moon and back, three times! I'm only 16, I know, I'm to young for love. But I honestly think it can last forever. Call me love-struck but it's true, its what I feel. My...
    galliottgalliott19 galliottgalliott19
    16-17
    Oct 5, 2012

    Not Good Enough....

    I have the most amazing boyfriend in the world. hes sweet, he buys me food when there is none in the fridge, hes smart and  beautiful in every possible way. he has this dream of being a dj and ill i want is a family. i know I'm young and its hard to find a job now a days. hes...
    crybabiesssssss crybabiesssssss
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 23, 2012

    More Like Was....

    In case no one noticed, Ive been thinking about Dan a lot recently, ha...     I was a horrible girlfriend..... a lot of the time I was the nicest, sweetest girl ever... and in a way that probably made it worse when I did kick off....   I was for the most part...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2008

    I Know I Am.

    In my own defense, most of my 'bad girlfriend' traits come from choosing bad boyfriends. However, I date a lot when I'm single. I have no problem meeting guys at all. They approach me often and I'm invited on dates all the time. It isn't often that I find...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2008

    I know we aren't officially,

    but I made you feel jealous ;-; with that guy. I... Sorry.
    AfterFall AfterFall
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    Unlimited Chances

    We've been fighting a lot recently. He has asked for a break up for so many times that sometimes I think I'll just give in to his demand. But I can't. No matter how meaningless begging seems to be, I can't give up on him. Sometimes I think I'm with him for such selfish reasons...
    some19yohag some19yohag
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2013
    prashik1996 prashik1996
    18-21, M
    Apr 11

    I Think I'm A Bad Girlfriend.

    I have this boyfriend we'll call him "joe". we are in highschool, i'mha sophomore and joe is a junior. For this school year joe was sent to a boarding school far away and he only has his cellphone (against rules) and can only text me at night. Now when joe comes home, i want to...
    mysterylover mysterylover
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2011

    Lostt !

    I feel like I'm treating my boyfriend like **** , been with him for 4 years now . . .We recently had a babygirl and I am thankful for my family  I met my boyfriend when I was only 14 years old and now we are 18.I have a problem trusting him though because he left me in the...
    michellelyn michellelyn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2011

    sometimes i do ..its normal to me make bullying

    to him and acting angry to him for give more attention and always acting jealous to gay ,lesbian and male ..
    SAKuraXLee SAKuraXLee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 11

    I want to talk to him

    but i feel like he shouldn't forgive me for treating him ******. I feel like he thinks I take him for granted. I feel bad.
    silentsimp silentsimp
    16-17, F
    Apr 10

    You tell me that it's okay

    and you love me as I watch you let it go. All I do is make you cry in bed for hours. I've stayed up too many nights fake sleeping, listening to you vent and blame yourself for everything. One second I'm the reason you're smiling and loving life, and the other second I'm the...
    silentsimp silentsimp
    16-17, F
    Apr 10

    Sometimes, yeah, I do.

    My partner has bpd and has a lot of paranoia about things like whether I really love them or not. Sometimes I feel like it's a reflection of myself, like something I'm doing or not doing is what makes them think I don't love them with all of my heart. I want them to be as...
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    Apr 11

    because you just said this,

    "I hurt and I'm sad for the reason that you can't tell me anything and I have to watch you sit there helpless and sad.", "Sometimes I feel like i am taken for granted for somethings I do.", and "That hurt me, so bad that I forgot my self worth". There you have it that's why I...
    silentsimp silentsimp
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 11

    i always do all i do is fight with my future

    husband who i do love to death but im new to this all my relationships have been abusive but this one so im not sure how to really do this
    peeingbikini peeingbikini
    22-25, T
    Apr 11
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