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I Feel Like I'm a Bad Girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    So Depressed

    Ill be 17 in October and ive been dating the love of my life for a year now, I moved two hours away and its absoloutly killing me I moved from a good school good friends and most importantly my boyfriend its been like 3 months but eveytime I leave his house to go back home I...
    daileygirl daileygirl 16-17 Sep 3, 2012

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    And It's Not The First Time Too...

    I've been going out with the same guy for about a year and a half now and to be honest, we both can't take any of this anymore, all the insults and guilt trips. I've been through a lot of bad relationships, one in particular that changed me. I've been quite afraid and...
    LittlePopPop LittlePopPop 18-21, F May 3, 2010

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    I Am Horrible

    Okay so lets start by saying I have the most amazing boyfriend. He does so much for me and I love him to pieces. He takes me for who I am and loves me. He does not judge me in anyway and I love that about him. But I am horrible towards him... When we have our good times they are...
    tamaradanielleee tamaradanielleee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    I Know I Am.

    In my own defense, most of my 'bad girlfriend' traits come from choosing bad boyfriends. However, I date a lot when I'm single. I have no problem meeting guys at all. They approach me often and I'm invited on dates all the time. It isn't often that I find...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2008

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    Bad Long Distance Girlfriend

    So, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and this September I went away for school. We broke up once because we didn't think the long distance relationship would work, and there was just a lot of misunderstanding. Eventually we worked it out though, and have been doing...
    beegirl66 beegirl66 22-25 Nov 5, 2010

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    Not Good Enough....

    I have the most amazing boyfriend in the world. hes sweet, he buys me food when there is none in the fridge, hes smart and  beautiful in every possible way. he has this dream of being a dj and ill i want is a family. i know I'm young and its hard to find a job now a days. hes...
    crybabiesssssss crybabiesssssss 18-21 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    I Think I'm A Bad Girlfriend.

    I have this boyfriend we'll call him "joe". we are in highschool, i'mha sophomore and joe is a junior. For this school year joe was sent to a boarding school far away and he only has his cellphone (against rules) and can only text me at night. Now when joe comes home, i want to...
    mysterylover mysterylover 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    I Feel Like A Horrible Girlfriend

    I feel so bad right now. I *just* saw a blog post from my boyfriend written last Saturday. How did I miss that? I should of read it then, it puts everything that's happened this week in a new light. I feel horrible. I must of seemed like a callous *****. How can you be sensative...
    LostLotus LostLotus 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    More Like Was....

    In case no one noticed, Ive been thinking about Dan a lot recently, ha...     I was a horrible girlfriend..... a lot of the time I was the nicest, sweetest girl ever... and in a way that probably made it worse when I did kick off....   I was for the most part...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F Dec 9, 2008

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    I Don't Want To Ruin This..

    I have the most amazing, perfect boyfriend in the whole entire universe. He's my whole life, I love him to the moon and back, three times! I'm only 16, I know, I'm to young for love. But I honestly think it can last forever. Call me love-struck but it's true, its what I feel. My...
    galliottgalliott19 galliottgalliott19 16-17 Oct 5, 2012

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    Unlimited Chances

    We've been fighting a lot recently. He has asked for a break up for so many times that sometimes I think I'll just give in to his demand. But I can't. No matter how meaningless begging seems to be, I can't give up on him. Sometimes I think I'm with him for such selfish reasons...
    some19yohag some19yohag 18-21, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Lostt !

    I feel like I'm treating my boyfriend like **** , been with him for 4 years now . . .We recently had a babygirl and I am thankful for my family  I met my boyfriend when I was only 14 years old and now we are 18.I have a problem trusting him though because he left me in the...
    michellelyn michellelyn 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    I don't know if it's depression, or what, but since last year i've been feeling like I have no direction in my life, like I don't like nothing, I've been feeling that what is ahead...
    licito licito 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    It's crazy. I'm crazy. God, I don't even ******* know. I'm with this amazing guy. His feelings for me are impossible to question. He loves me. I know it. He let's me feel it...
    ohmyfvck ohmyfvck 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I always hate when I'm someone's second choice. I feel like I'm being used. And I don't like that. I feel like you only wan me around when something fails,It makes me feel like...
    AshCakes AshCakes 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Reality is starting to blur and my emotions cannot be kept. I feel like I'm suffocating inside of myself, and there is no easy fix. What I wouldn't give to be normal me again.
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I don't truly think I ever will be. I'm a rubbish daughter A terrible sister A bad friend I feel like I let everyone down constantly.
    Nethaly Nethaly 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    If I like someone, I always feel ashamed of myself and inadequate for them. I'm running out of ways to simulate being loved. Feeling like I have very little happiness in my future...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    I'm in a relationship but I feel so alone. I feel so unattractive and useless. Why do I feel like I'll never truly be happy
    Butterflylost Butterflylost 36-40, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's really hard to find someone who understands you ... Someone who doesn't have a problem with who you are .... Looking for a mate is actually not that easy ... I'm getting tired...
    Dunkelweis Dunkelweis 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Containing this air that fills my lungs, trying to breathe and calm down. There is much building inside I cannot control much longer. A rage of fury, fire uncontrolled in which I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    im 21 and going to work at a convenient store next week. my mom told me i can do better, but im scared to use my abilities as a bilingual person. my boyfriend thinks im thinking...
    snoflower snoflower 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I feel like im wasting time in taking driving loessns while I cant drive well as others:-(
    denez denez 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Nothing's changed at all. I'm struggling with my grades still and probably won't graduate high school. There's no point anymore. I'm just here, and that's all.
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F Nov 27

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    I'm a liar because I won't tell you everything. I'm stupid because sometimes I'm wrong. I'm ugly because my face isn't perfect. I'm a pushover because I like making people happy. I...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    As a young child, I was labeled "gifted" and took this very much for granted. I believed that I was smart because that's what I was always told. As I get older and older, learning...
    veroveroc veroveroc 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    This sucks! No matter what I end up being plan b or 2 choice! What kills me most is the guy doesn't get it. He says I'm jealous and want more then what we have and he wants. I'm a...
    mariatwila mariatwila 31-35, F Nov 22

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    I realized after being in love with same man for 14 years that I'm the only one whose trying and loving the person. I lost all the love and respect for myself. While I was blinded...
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F Nov 21

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    Idk what to do anymore.... all i try to do, people around me are doing 10 times better. Everybody has no problem talking with people while i just barely say hi. Why is it hard for...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 8

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    it feels so bad, when you smile, when you talk to everyone, understand them, express your affinity... but at nights, when you are going to wrapped in dreams..it's only you and you...
    ElliasA ElliasA 18-21, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Not good enough for dad, not good enough for my so called friends, not good enough for my husband, not good enough for the boyfriend....only ppl i can go to are my babies. And tho...
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977 36-40 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Here is the thing. I know that I can be and do anything. Other people have told me that I have the potential to fly high - I have mental images where I am flying high. The problem...
    befabolous befabolous 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have a constant feeling of insignificance of my actions. I chose to study art out of passion, yet after years of studies I am ridden with doubts of it being just an ego game...
    Gegete Gegete 22-25, F Dec 5

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    Sometimes, (which is a lot throughout the span of my life) when I figure something out, do/say clever things, and utterly impress people, I always think their reactions are...
    Darnguyen Darnguyen 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel lost, so alone and everyday i feel a piece of me die. It seems as though im slowly fading away, sinking, like a ship into the dark depths of the ocean. I cry out for help me...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 23

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    And here it goes again, I feel completely useless. It seems that I am never enough and I haven't done anything right for my entire life! Ugh!
    Mariangabalon Mariangabalon 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I have been with my bf for almost 5 yrs. he is amazing and smart, but his family constantly reminds me of how I am not worthy. What hurts more is that agrees with them.... 3( so...
    LittlePointeShoes LittlePointeShoes 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    My bf and I don't agree on anything anymore. He wants colored Christmas tree lights. I want white lights. He wants to shop at wallmart. I want to shop at Roses. He like the...
    Butterflywings1987 Butterflywings1987 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I am 14 years old . I like other guys but I haven't been realize it for whole my life . Now I accept myself for who I am . I want to talk and maybe trade photos . Please write me...
    egorderyagin egorderyagin 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    My heart is sinking of despair ......
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Nov 22

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    You're not alone, you're not worthless, message me if you ever need someone to talk to
    Michaelyourguardianangel Michaelyourguardianangel 18-21, M Nov 23

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    All these thoughts in my brain are killing me
    amberlxl amberlxl 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    Hiya im Ace, Alpha male of the Blood-moon Silver pack. if theres any younger therians out there needing guidance id love to help :)
    codenameace codenameace 18-21, T 2 Responses Dec 6

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    thinking of things that not worth thinking of.
    EEA1991 EEA1991 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Most people around my age have it all. A good job, plenty of friends, few worries and are generally moving in the right direction, they get opportunities and can embrace life for...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    As I'm on my own most of the time at school... when someone takes an interest in my life, it feels as if they really care. I have classmates that chat with me for an hour or more...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    As hard as I try and as much as I accomplish I never feel like i'm good enough. My sister gets all the praise, I have always kind of fallen by the wayside when it comes to stuff...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29