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I Feel Like I'm a Bad Girlfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    I Don't Want To Ruin This..

    I have the most amazing, perfect boyfriend in the whole entire universe. He's my whole life, I love him to the moon and back, three times! I'm only 16, I know, I'm to young for love. But I honestly think it can last forever. Call me love-struck but it's true, its what I feel. My...
    galliottgalliott19 galliottgalliott19 16-17 Oct 5, 2012

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    I Know I Am.

    In my own defense, most of my 'bad girlfriend' traits come from choosing bad boyfriends. However, I date a lot when I'm single. I have no problem meeting guys at all. They approach me often and I'm invited on dates all the time. It isn't often that I find...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2008

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    So Depressed

    Ill be 17 in October and ive been dating the love of my life for a year now, I moved two hours away and its absoloutly killing me I moved from a good school good friends and most importantly my boyfriend its been like 3 months but eveytime I leave his house to go back home I...
    daileygirl daileygirl 16-17 Sep 3, 2012

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    Relationship Problems. I Dont Know What To Do This Time.

    I've been with my guy for about 4 years now. We met in high school and stayed with each other since. and of course for a relationship to last this long of course you hear about the Pros and cons of any relationship that will last for 4 years. But in the past I was a little...
    Jan 9, 2013

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    Unlimited Chances

    We've been fighting a lot recently. He has asked for a break up for so many times that sometimes I think I'll just give in to his demand. But I can't. No matter how meaningless begging seems to be, I can't give up on him. Sometimes I think I'm with him for such selfish reasons...
    some19yohag some19yohag 18-21, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Not Good Enough....

    I have the most amazing boyfriend in the world. hes sweet, he buys me food when there is none in the fridge, hes smart and  beautiful in every possible way. he has this dream of being a dj and ill i want is a family. i know I'm young and its hard to find a job now a days. hes...
    crybabiesssssss crybabiesssssss 18-21 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    And It's Not The First Time Too...

    I've been going out with the same guy for about a year and a half now and to be honest, we both can't take any of this anymore, all the insults and guilt trips. I've been through a lot of bad relationships, one in particular that changed me. I've been quite afraid and...
    LittlePopPop LittlePopPop 18-21, F May 3, 2010

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    I Feel Like A Horrible Girlfriend

    I feel so bad right now. I *just* saw a blog post from my boyfriend written last Saturday. How did I miss that? I should of read it then, it puts everything that's happened this week in a new light. I feel horrible. I must of seemed like a callous *****. How can you be sensative...
    LostLotus LostLotus 22-25, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    I Think I'm A Bad Girlfriend.

    I have this boyfriend we'll call him "joe". we are in highschool, i'mha sophomore and joe is a junior. For this school year joe was sent to a boarding school far away and he only has his cellphone (against rules) and can only text me at night. Now when joe comes home, i want to...
    mysterylover mysterylover 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    Lostt !

    I feel like I'm treating my boyfriend like **** , been with him for 4 years now . . .We recently had a babygirl and I am thankful for my family  I met my boyfriend when I was only 14 years old and now we are 18.I have a problem trusting him though because he left me in the...
    michellelyn michellelyn 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    Bad Long Distance Girlfriend

    So, I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and this September I went away for school. We broke up once because we didn't think the long distance relationship would work, and there was just a lot of misunderstanding. Eventually we worked it out though, and have been doing...
    beegirl66 beegirl66 22-25 Nov 5, 2010

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    More Like Was....

    In case no one noticed, Ive been thinking about Dan a lot recently, ha...     I was a horrible girlfriend..... a lot of the time I was the nicest, sweetest girl ever... and in a way that probably made it worse when I did kick off....   I was for the most part...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F Dec 9, 2008

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    I Am Horrible

    Okay so lets start by saying I have the most amazing boyfriend. He does so much for me and I love him to pieces. He takes me for who I am and loves me. He does not judge me in anyway and I love that about him. But I am horrible towards him... When we have our good times they are...
    tamaradanielleee tamaradanielleee 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 6, 2012

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    I know we aren't officially,

    but I made you feel jealous ;-; with that guy. I... Sorry.
    AfterFall AfterFall 22-25, F Apr 18, 2015

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    Idek why but lately I've been having vivid dreams about wolves and being one...not saying that I am one I just find it very weird
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm probably just too weird by normal people standards. I don't feel like anyone likes me or wants to be with me, I'm just kind of there it's hard to explain. There was a time when...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I kept having this feeling of being useless. I tried to be part of something. But the only thing happening is that it seems a lot of people also want to be part of those. So I was...
    Tazmanou Tazmanou 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    sometimes I just feel like I'm an alien to everyone. I feel like I'm a different creature, maybe not human enough.
    badazzbasicbich badazzbasicbich 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am an introvert and like being alone but miss the idea of being in a relationship. I've just never been successful with them and have for the last 5 years or so been single and...
    Anontymous30 Anontymous30 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    Post update I'm pleased to say that I have finally successfully reached that point I have been working hard to reach
    Moonlighwolf Moonlighwolf 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    It wasn't until a little while ago that I embraced this side of me. I've always been overly logical and I always put aside everything I couldn't find a logical explanation to...
    AlphaAiyana95 AlphaAiyana95 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I like to sing and write songs. I think I'm really good at it. I've been through a lot of trauma and it's my way to cope. It's the only way I can ever make sense out of anything I...
    Lyric8 Lyric8 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    you ever think you met someone that cares and after a while you start to realise they don't...there's only one person in my life that hasn't done that to me...my saving grace even...
    vamp1r3 vamp1r3 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    Unfortunately I'm what you call a cunnnnt...oops my bad. guess I should support things I find ******* revolting. In the end everyone thinks their opinion is right, so why the f...
    Cocrispy Cocrispy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    i feel like i m outsider this ****** mind is killing me this black thougt are slaying me
    SEDDIKMBM SEDDIKMBM 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I am with the love of my life. In 2002 we were good friends, then dated each other for a while, fell in love, only for us to get into a huge argument, part and go our separate...
    MartiniMagic MartiniMagic 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i don't know its weird man, recently I've just always been sad. like, I've slowly fallen into this pit of sadness. maybe its because i'm slowly detaching from my friends, maybe its...
    spulunky spulunky 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    i always felt like i was a wolf from my tender childhood and i would like to speak abiut it with peoples like me
    Kurojaki Kurojaki 18-21, T a week ago

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    And it hurts that I cant be what everyone wants, or what anyone needs. And it hurts that I cant be what I want or what I need because Im not enough and I wont be enough and I'll...
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So very, sadly, true. I realize I am a part of society, like we all are, unless we are secluded in a cabin in the woods (maybe in the deep northern woods of Canada?). I am just a...
    PixieParty PixieParty 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    do you ever feel like you cant do anything right? That what I feel like everyday of my life. I go to college and I feel like I'm letting my family down because I suck at college...
    IcedOverHeart IcedOverHeart 18-21, F Feb 1

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    hi I have been single for 35 years I feel like I'm not good enough to I just want someone in my life
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    my gun is loaded...im taking this tie to writ emu goodby letters ..ul say I'm selfish...i guarantee I'm better off dead then alive...if hell exists I'm about to join.
    Katvondim Katvondim 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    i feel like i don't belong in this world. i feel like i don't belong in the family I'm in. i struggle with alot of different things...i have ever since i was a teenager..and i...
    bloodRedd bloodRedd 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I've been in this for years now, and still feel like an outsider. I've been with my boyfriend for three years living with him but still feel like I'm not part of his life. When I...
    LossOFcontrol LossOFcontrol 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I just can't help but feel like I mean nothing to everyone... can't help but feel worthless and pathetic... I'm not sure yet wts destroying me, or what's making my depression worse...
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I taught you said it was easy listening to your heart i taught you said i will be OK then why i am falling apart
    Desperate25 Desperate25 22-25, M Jan 29

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    You know how in the those Point&Click Adventure games, there's always that one puzzle to figure out, but its always near impossible and it takes too long the answer is so stupid...
    FluttershyLabeouf FluttershyLabeouf 18-21, M Jan 29

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    Despite everything I do and the people around me trying hard to be there I feel as if I'm lost and alone a lot of the time. No matter how many friends I have and no matter how...
    helsingrise helsingrise 18-21, T Jan 29

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    I have been crying myself to sleep for like 2 weeks because of feelings i barely understand. This is a repetition of my other posts and it seems lame. I want to cry all the time...
    TinselCookie607 TinselCookie607 18-21, M Jan 28

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    Today I lost a dear friend. She was an employee of mine when I managed a Halloween store. I came to live her like I do my own children. Tragic accidents have a way of destroying...
    Lloorrii2 Lloorrii2 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I am gay and dont know how to tell my family
    Desperate25 Desperate25