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I Feel Like I'm Always Being Judged

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    Every time I do something,

    I just feel people would start talking bad stuff about me. And every time I feel judged, I feel so small and intimidated by others.
    OrianaS3011 OrianaS3011 16-17, F Apr 23

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    Not by people but by God.

    It is like he has a double standard and I am being judged with more scrutiny than everyone else. It's just not fair. People tell me to enjoy my life but he's taking the enjoyment out of it. It's tough to explain it any better and even tougher to understand. FML
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 1 Response May 6

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    Watch Everything I Do and Say

    My dad constantly criticizes me for everything I do... even about little, insignificant things that don't even matter. He's always angry at me, and I seriously never do anything wrong. He treats me like I'm stupid and he can make me feel like a complete loser. So I...
    flyingintherain flyingintherain 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover

    I always feel like people seem to judge me, maybe I'm just paranoid or maybe I'm just awesome at what I do, who knows?... but all in all I just have this feeling. The only thing I really have to say is that you should never judge a book by it's cover. And another thing I would...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 5, 2013

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    I always feel like every time I do

    or say something it's weird or wrong but if someone else does the exact same thing it's perfectly fine. And every time I try to defend myself I feel like I get shot down instantly. Most of the time I am afraid of going outside of my comfort zone because I feel like no matter...
    theartist102 theartist102 22-25, M Aug 4

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    I Hate This Part About Me...

    I hate how I am always thinking people are judging me negatively. I am always careful with what I saw and how I say it, yet I feel like I always screw up with it. I'll think people are judging me in their heads, even though they won't admit it. I am really paranoid about this...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F Aug 16, 2013

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    Always Feeling Judged Working With My Family.

    I hate how I feel everyone judges me when I tell them I work with my family. I absolutely hate it. I am to the point where when anyone asks me what I do, I cringe as I don't want to see how they react to it. I feel like other people that are climbing corporate ladders and what...
    fallencook fallencook 26-30, M Jan 10, 2013

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    Because I Always Am

    And not because i put my opinions out there And not because I put things in print for people to see But because i tell the truth no one wants to hear.... They don't wanna know that those who try hard don't always succeed nor do the ones who do things right, that sometimes...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    The Looks.

    Everything I say and do someone will look at me, and it will always be this weird look like I think she's weird. I know I shouldn't care what other people think of me, but somtimes I can't help it. Especially when I am trying to truly expres myself and I get these weird looks...
    Littledove Littledove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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