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I Feel Like Im the Only One Who Understands Me

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    Understands Me?! Nobody Did, Nobody Does, And Nobody Will.

    ...And I like it that way. I've spent the last six or seven years of my life trying to get people to understand who I am, and why I do what I do... but if I'm honest with myself, it's not worth the effort. The fact is. If you understand me... you don't know me. And if you don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I Do

     I use to have someone who understood me. My grandma was one of them, but she passed in june 14, 2004. so i had been alone ever since then until i met a good friend eho later became my fest friend. She and i were like twins and she understood everything about me. We would...
    mylife101 mylife101 16-17, F Dec 20, 2009

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    Comprehension

    There are so many things in my head I wish I could explain to someone but I usually keep it to myself b/c ppl don't understand. My friends usually ask me for advice because they believe I'm level headed and I am when I'm not emotionally vested. Now in my own relationships I...
    fatedbyluv fatedbyluv 22-25, F Dec 17, 2012

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    Loneliness In A Crowd

    My life is on track, I am a 3rd year med student. I have great friends who would do just about anything for me. I have a boyfriend who truly loves me and I love him back, we've been happy. Yet here I am, alone and lonely. I live alone and it usually is a place for me to...
    fatedbyluv fatedbyluv 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    Hard For Family and Friends to Understand

    I have been feeling down for quite a while.  Its very hard to explain to some the feeling you are having when sometimes you dont understand them yourself.  I think they are just trying to help telling you it will pass or to just snap out of it...This experience has been...
    tryingtocope101 tryingtocope101 31-35 Jul 17, 2008

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    Which Is Why...

    ...I choose to stay to myself and not be social. No one gets me, I can't feel comfortable with anyone but me.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2010

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    No One Ever Understands Me

    i feel like an alien on this planet! i mean,  im pretty matter of fact gorgeous but in the inside i dont feel like myself because im always depressed and always reading depressing books! they call me white when im african american because im light skinned and my friends...
    teardrops09 teardrops09 16-18, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2008

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    I feel like no one understands me. But for some reason, I feel like ghosts and spirits understand me. I feel like I can talk to and trust ghosts and spirits. I feel like I can't...
    Ambria101 Ambria101 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    i feel like no one actually listens to what i have to say,yea i may think they do,but then again i know they really dont
    amari101 amari101 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    There have been plenty of times in my life where I felt that no one really understood me or how I felt. I think that this feeling of no one understanding me has caused me to push...
    burton318 burton318 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I remember the heartbreaking time a close "friend" & my boyfriend plotted against me and started dating in 2012 and still dating. I lost a lot friends along with this. Me being a...
    EbbsBreaux EbbsBreaux 16-17, F Jul 13

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    People love versions of me. My masks. Even close friends, call me when they need me to cheer them up. Who is going to cheer me up. Who is going to accept what I really am. My...
    rockstin87 rockstin87 26-30, M Jul 9

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    I gone through some trauma and I don't go out alot But even with my friends. i feel like they don't understand why my experiences from my past change who i am. I love my friends I...
    pomtonic1109 pomtonic1109 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I feel that no one will ever love me and it's tearing me apart
    hornyharry123 hornyharry123 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Sometimes it just really sucks not having someone by your side and to support you. Not saying its has to be a boyfriend it could even be a friend or family member whatever. But...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 14

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    This is a thought. I need to make this thought reality. This was the worst period in my life. I was just lost and confused. I didn't have any purpose. I saw inspiring movies, but...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    The more I talk, the more I say, the less people listen. I can sit perfectly still all day and never make a peep and everyone wants to know what is wrong, (or at least the best...
    Momma1985 Momma1985 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I want is to listen to someone & know everything there is to know about them but the only problem is I want them to want the same thing with me. Having a hard time finding that...
    1lostsinner2 1lostsinner2 18-21, F Jul 22

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    No one really knows me, or everything about me. I feel that I cannot reveal my whole self to anyone, not even here. This hurts me so much because I just want someone to know me and...
    Salma786 Salma786 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    You know you got nothing left to live for when you wake up every day, no one called, or texted, and than you remember that you got no family anymore, that you lost everyone you...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M Jul 7

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    I fell as if my whole family has no love for me and even my girlfriend says she loves me but i don't believe any of their love is genuine or real. writing it down made me realize...
    kushmonster666 kushmonster666 22-25 Jul 17

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    Why when ever I tell some one my problems they instantly don't care I have emotions and feelings in my body that I can physically feel and it hurts I wish some one cared or at...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I came here to help others primarly. Thats what I spend most of my time doing. Giving advice, being a friend, etc. But as soon as i need a friend or someone who cares. No one is...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 17 hrs ago

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    I always seem to be the first to go to someone when something is going on, but I just never get the samething in return. Or I never feel no one can ever for once can make me feel...
    MyStruggleIsMyself MyStruggleIsMyself 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 1

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    It's always the same. They talk to me and say they'll never hate me, they'll never leave me. But within a week they're no where to be seen. No one wants to put up with me. You can...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everyone either thinks I'm a lot stronger than I actually am or no one cares.
    reesespeices reesespeices 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I have no one and nothing to show for my life
    hornyharry123 hornyharry123 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Why WOULD anyone love me. Me. Why should anyone even like me. Everyone has every right to hate me. Because I'm ME and that's a good enough reason. It is for me anyway.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    They don't. And I mean friends, family, ect. I'm not as worried about not having boys after me or wanting to talk to me. I just want to be some bodies one person they want around...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    sometimes? It's all the time.
    whodareswin whodareswin 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Why would they? I'm not nice to look at at all and when I open my mouth, everything wrong comes out or nothing at all.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i felt so empty. i didn't know what was missing out of my life. i felt so lonely. I felt so different from everyone else because i see things so differently. i was ready to give up...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F Jul 18

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    Yes. I feel like no one gets me. And all my "friends" judge me for who I am.. It gets annoying feeling like you aren't good enough for them.. All my good friends don't go to my...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I've only really had one person make me feel like this..... I made a bad decision... I let them inside my walls.... I hurt them and myself and I'm not even sure how.... I see...
    Thatrandomgirlamy Thatrandomgirlamy 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    For the past 8 years of my 'life' I have suffered with severe anxiety and depression. They say it's meant to get better, but every day just gets harder. I'm almost starting to feel...
    36chambers86 36chambers86 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I am sixteen years old and have just received my "predicted gcse grades". All of my predicted grades are a grade B. Many people have told me these are "good grades" but to me a B...
    Candyflosshair Candyflosshair 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Everybody is so so much closer than me...when my friends and I meet new people they always relate to them better and they always hangout with them, not me. The people who I thought...
    Mikesmithg1 Mikesmithg1 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've had the same feeling since I was a little girl. I'm 16 now but mine feels more..supernatural if that makes sense. I can recognize the pattern in which things happen and I can...
    DiamondK15 DiamondK15 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm part wolf and need someone who understands me to talk to me!:)
    savvyZwolf savvyZwolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I feel like crap because I'm trapped with no where to go and the people I know are all ahead of me enjoying life while I'm stuck and it hurts me soo bad that I don't have a saying...
    sharmake sharmake 16-17, M Jul 18

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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Everywhere I go I'm looked down by because people can't understand the things I do, the clothes I wear, the way I laugh or how I sometimes feel as if my heart will explode with...
    MorbidPeaches MorbidPeaches 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Sometimes I Feel Like I m Nothing and All Alone In This Big World! I m new to this blogging thing, but I've always felt better when I write things down, and I thought maybe if I...
    saumilBhatt saumilBhatt 18-21 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I feel like this every night and I can't go to sleep until the next morning and it's so stressing what is going on?
    LaKira LaKira 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    It’s as if I came to live with a friend 18 months ago and I have long since worn out my welcome; now everyone is wondering when I’ll finally find my own place and leave them to...
    annadee annadee 41-45, F Jul 3

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    It’s as if I came to live with a friend 18 months ago and I have long since worn out my welcome; now everyone is wondering when I’ll finally find my own place and leave them to...
    annadee annadee 41-45, F Jul 3

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