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I Feel Like My Parents Don't Want Me Around

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    I feel like my mom really doesn't understand me.

    I can't open up to her and she makes alot of assumptions about me. I wish we could have the same relationship her and my older sister have 😕
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F May 22

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    What Did I Do Wrong?

    I love you more than my own life. I thought you loved me. What happened? I grew up with two older sisters and my mom. Dad was ALWAYS at work, so mom raised us girls by herself. That was okay, though. She's the best. It stayed that way for a really long time. Like, until I was...
    MassyThePanda MassyThePanda 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2009

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    Am I Still Loved?

    im 17 and i have a 19 year old brother and a 6 year old sister.my family always tells me how i wont have any friends and i have barely fought or got in trouble my whole life.they dont laugh when im around but when the other 2 are around they laughing so ****** hard.im also a mom...
    poppypoppy12 poppypoppy12 16-17 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    My Dad Kicked Me Out.

    i have nowhere to go. i dont know what to do, HELP ME. my dad doesnt understand the constitution, he says that i DONT have the right to remain silent when im living under his roof. so now i dont know where to go. i have a bag packed, but what number can i call? god, this sucks...
    nikki485 nikki485 13-15 Apr 23, 2011

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    Unnecassary and Peircing Criticism .

    sometimes I feel like my parents dont want me around them any more . It feels really bad and I have been loved by them deeply , sometimes their love touches me and makes me feel like a slime for thinking such things . But it feels like they use me as a pet , someone they love and...
    lisarisamonalimkins lisarisamonalimkins 16-17 2 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    ever since my dad got remarried

    and had another kid, my brother and i have taken the back burner. scratch that, we've been moved out of the kitchen entirely. particularly me bc i live with my mom and only see him twice a month. whenever i try to hang around him outside of my room my step mom will say something...
    kggi kggi 16-17, F Jul 25

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    Unwanted, Unloved And Lonely...

    I feel as if my parents don't like me anymore! I'm 15, and doing well in school, I am an RAF Cadet, mostly responsible and everything, but nothing I ever do seems to impress them. If they pay me a (very rare) compliment, it's clearly forced, and fake. If I want to have a rational...
    DestinyNeko DestinyNeko 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    What Happened?

    I'm a sophomore in high school. I have a part-time job, get straight A's, and I always do the chores my mom asks me to do. Life was great, but ever since I got back from Arizona, visiting my dad, things haven't been the same. My mom and my stepdad ignore me, but then turn around...
    DragonSpirit DragonSpirit 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2013

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    Unwanted,Unloved,Lonely

    my parents separated when I was 5 im ok with that I feel like my parents no longer wants me or love me and im only 15:( I have other brothers and sisters it seem like the loves them more than me :(
    diamondrocks diamondrocks 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I am the 5th out of 6 girls in my family.

    Right now there are three children living at home. So at the moment, I am like the middle child. I do my best to deal with everything that goes on. My parents SPOIL my older and younger sisters. They seem to be able to get everything and anything they want. Me on the other hand...
    Houston2015 Houston2015 16-17, F 1 Response May 22

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    Confusion

    My parent's are divorced and I've come to terms with that. Actually, it's better that way, they fought way too much. I'm 16 and currently in a foreign exchange program. My dad got remarried 2 years ago and they wanted a ''family''. All of the kids weren't ready to accept that, it...
    simoneyponey simoneyponey 16-17 Dec 14, 2011

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    I Now Know What True Sadness Is

    I'm 23 years old, a part-time cashier and a pretty good college student. I was born and raised in Northeast Philadelphia but we moved to Collegeville when I was 17. I have an older brother who is almost 26, and a younger brother who is almost 19. I live with them and my parents...
    CatieCass CatieCass 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Unwanted

    I'm 20 years old and felt unwanted pretty much my whole life of what i can remember. First of all I don't know my biological father never have and from what i've heard (from my nan) is that he was just a normal man who went on to have kids after me. See he met me when i was a...
    Lotusflower24 Lotusflower24 18-21 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    I Dont Know What Happened

    ♥so my parents loved me....once, but now its diffrent my mom made me move out of my room&&now i have to share a room with my little sister who gets into my stuff so i was a little upset about it but i didnt say anything, so my little sister destroys my things&&gets me...
    bambamsisco bambamsisco 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2010

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    I Fell Like My Parents Don't Want Me Around

    My mom and dad never was happy with me in what i do they always think that i am useless and dumb. When ever i point out their mistakes and their promises to me they would say that i think that they are stupid and has if they know everything in this world. My mom would scold me...
    AshleyHunter98 AshleyHunter98 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I Get The Feeling Im Not Wanted

    For the longest time ive felt like my parents dont want me around. When i was in high school i never talked to any of them unless it was about school or something they needed. When they talked about school it usually became a big verbal beat down on me about how im going no were...
    joshk100 joshk100 18-21 2 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    Not What They Planned For!

    I think my mom and dad made a common mistake when planning to have me:  they expected a perfect little clone of themselves.  Instead they got me.  I may be a lot of things, but a clone of my parents is NOT one of them!!!  Both Mom and Dad are crazy smart and...
    SkyTurtle SkyTurtle 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Not Sure If Im Loved....

    hello, Im going to tell you about my life.. im the youngest of four, some might think that my parents love me and spoil me alot.....well they did once. throughout my life both of my parents where really busy, and when they were home they would watch the tv the whole time. i was...
    amudevil amudevil 16-17 3 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I'm Only 14 :(

    Every time I do just one thing wrong my mom gets pissed and threatens to kick me out ! I'm only 14 but my birthday is in 26 days, it almost feels like nobody wants me here and I don't know what to do.
    poppy15 poppy15 13-15 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    I Am 24

    I am 24 now I don't understand why do my parents like my year younger brother my dad told me I have to pay rent and not my brother and wen Christmas,last year I got nothin an got kick out the hose to live on the street ware to go and my brother got what he want and I meant this...
    bmorenight bmorenight 26-30, M Aug 17, 2013

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    I Feel Like My Parents Don't Want Me Around

    For the first 12 years of my life I was an only child. As most of you can probably imagine, suddenly getting two siblings is quite a change. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I don't like having a brother and a sister, but now, my brother's about to turn 5 and my sister's just...
    liverbird1 liverbird1 16-17 2 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Unwanted.

    My parents are divorced, and I'm fine with that. I'm 13. My dad re-married in a year while my mom started dating someone. I was completely fine with them having new partners, plus I was very lucky that both of them were very nice. My dad's wife has two children that are older, me...
    JaneDoe715 JaneDoe715 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2012

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    This is my first shared experience so bear with me please. Lately, for no apparent reason, I have just been feeling like I don't belong anywhere. And I ask myself all the time why...
    broller broller 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    A little set up for you: I'm a 19 year old girl. Portuguese. Lived in England most of my life. Born in SA. Confident in my appearance. I write. I draw (at university, so it's legit...
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    There's not much else to say; I don't feel like I belong. I think that may be due to my general outlook on life, which I have always had so it's not something that will change (at...
    Ri95 Ri95 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know I don't. I don't know what to do. I'm stuck on this earth. I just want it to go away. I've always been too different to have acceptance or love. Every single person has...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I want to go home. I miss Georgia... I hate it here. I hate it with a burning passion. I never wanted this. I never ******* wanted any of this. I wanna go home... But I don't...
    InsanityIsTheButterflysDrug InsanityIsTheButterflysDrug 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm not interested in the unnecessary gossip people around me always seem to be talking about, or in the constant criticism that goes around. I prefer to stay away from everyone...
    YeuxNoirs YeuxNoirs 22-25, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm not here. I don't know where I am.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i don't know anymore if it's all worth it. everyday day find something else to tease me , and everyday it gets worse. nobody helps me and to be honest i'm done fighting it and...
    secretwriterx secretwriterx 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    i don't know anymore if it's all worth it. everyday day find something else to tease me , and everyday it gets worse. nobody helps me and to be honest i'm done fighting it and...
    secretwriterx secretwriterx 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    Nah, I don't. I'm too...too...I think too much...gosh, I mean, I just...my head, is filled with nonsensical and contradictory ideas...but somehow THEY ALL MAKE SENSE I think life...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I was born in the wrong body. I have always wanted to be a girl and have told all my friends and they all support me but i cant seem to tell my parents
    loverofboobs loverofboobs 18-21 1 Response Nov 7

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    in the last 5 years I have moved so much I cannot count the times. I have been illegally evicted twice, I even went to court with proof but the judge NEVER let me speak. I have...
    CUTEANDCUBBY CUTEANDCUBBY 46-50 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well besides my family. You honestly want that best friend. That one person you can count on anything, and I hope one day we'll meet.
    Tognoni2 Tognoni2 13-15, F Nov 5

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    Thanks to societal trends. And way less caring about healthy world.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    No one is there for me even my friends when I am sad. ??
    elainenguyen619 elainenguyen619 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Who would care anyway? Im just a problem for every one. Eveyone will be better without me
    Ashlee344 Ashlee344 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Something that grinds my gears is when people tell me I will change my mind. I really doubt I will. Having a kid would involve me to have sexual relations with a male, and I...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    But it is. Everyday I wake up I think about my past. I can't move forward mentally. My brain is so consumed with my past self (childhood). I experienced so many trials as a kid...
    forestchild forestchild 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    Hello all...here's my problem... Well, this the first time that i write something like that about my BF.. My BF and i have a long distance relationship.. We meet sometimes and he...
    Roosh99 Roosh99 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I'm 21, and all I want is to get my tubes tied. I hate that so many people only see me as a baby making machine, and I hate that my life apparently means nothing if I don't have...
    spiffyoctopus spiffyoctopus 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 29

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    My cousin who is the same age as me, 31, made a comment that if she could turn back time, she would never had kids. This is the 2nd time she's said this and I got so disgusted. She...
    Hopeless314 Hopeless314 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 27

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    At first it was just sexual attraction, yes I'm married, yes it shouldn't have happened, but we'd just met that night, had a few drinks, ended up back at his place with a few...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 30

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    I feel like I am. :( He's replying to my texts in less than a sentence he use to reply with a whole paragraph. He use to call when he said he would but now leaves me waiting weeks...
    Justbeingmeok Justbeingmeok 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Its like two feelings tearing me between them. I want to travel light in life. No companions to slow me down. Only my own responsibility. My own success. But there is this little...
    BillyEmad BillyEmad 16-17, M Nov 14

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    When I tell people that I don't want to eat or that I'm not hungry they automatically assume I just don't like food or that I'm anorexic but that's not the case. Truth is I...
    lolitamunchkin lolitamunchkin 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    When I see the person I am talking to online, I feel uncomfortable. I don't care what they look like but I realize I'm talking to a real person and not some imaginary person.
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 26