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I Feel Like My Stepmom Hates Me

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    My Stepmother Has Alienated My Father From Me

    Hi there.  I'm a 30-something motherless mother whose father remarried 2 years and 1 week after my mother had passed.  Things were ok at first.  I tried to ignore her annoying unsolicited advice, her incessant self-promotion, and the constant comparison about how...
    argentanya argentanya 31-35 20 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Step Mom Favors Her Kids Over Me

    My parents have been divorced for seven years. My dad eventualy found a girl. they got married. Me and my mom were fighting everyday about stupid stuff so I decided to move in with my dad as a way out. when I moved there at first everything was great. They treated me all the time...
    coltonf93 coltonf93 18-21, M 12 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    My Stepmom Made My Life Hell

    My own mother left when I was five leaving my lovely dad to bring up two young daughters alone. As 6 years passed my dad eventually decided to look for a new relationship after years of being very selective and distrusting of women in fear of his girls getting hurt again. My dad...
    annalisa0 annalisa0 22-25 3 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    Does My Stepmom Hate Me?

    My dad and stepmom got married 8 years ago, and at first it was really great. She basically took over the motherly role where my mother was unable to. My brother and I call her mom and treat her like she is our mother. I owe a lot to her, because she got me on the right course...
    jcheal1 jcheal1 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Someone Save Me...

    I am 16 years old, and i live with my dad, step mom, 17 year old step sister, step uncle, step grandma, and my 6 year old half brother. my sister, who is now 18, moved out about a year and a half ago, due to the continuous physical fights between her and my step mom. my dad is a...
    dubstepgirl22 dubstepgirl22 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    I can't believe I am having issues with my step

    mother. I am not even sure when it all began? I am expecting a visit from her next month and I know it would be super awkward. I have not seen her in years but I am sure I will meet her with a handshake and not a hug.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 16

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    Help

    My step mum completely hates me. in the summer she pinned me up against the wall and started hitting me i couldn't get her off. She then told my dad and Grandma i was out of control and hit her. she then claimed that i had hurt her both physically and emotionally and made my dad...
    sophiewebster12 sophiewebster12 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why

    My dad has been married to this woman for 7 years. I've been nothing but nice to her, but, for some reason, she hates me. I don't understand why. I do everything I can to make sure she isn't mad at me, but, it doesn't matter. I'm never good enough. It's gotten to the point where...
    ShaRey ShaRey 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    Should All Kids Be Treated Like This?

    My nightmare started when my mom died when I was 4. About 3 years after that my dad started dating and once I was 9 my dad was dating someone else. One year after he dated Lana he proposed. Me and my older sister thought it would be great. For the wedding (it was small so only...
    Hnz3 Hnz3 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    I feel like my stepmom hates me,

    her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never said anything to her, she has 4 girls of her own that are 24,24, and 22yrold twins, I have always appreciated her because my mom wasn...
    Harliee417 Harliee417 18-21, F Jul 30

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    Yes!!!

    There are too many examples I could give. Here's an argument between her and my dad when I was younger. We had just bought a new house and they were trying to decide who would get what rooms.Dad: What do you want to do?Amanda: I don't know.Dad: How about we put Nolan(my brother...
    ForeverAndAlways001 ForeverAndAlways001 18-21, F 22 Responses May 1, 2011

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    I feel like my step-mother hates me

    as clearly as I feel pain if I poke my own eyes. Its an almost tangible, clear feeling that was at the center of my childhood experience. Now that I am cultivating a good degree of teen cynicism, I guess all I can say is that it is what it is. When I was little I wanted her to...
    whitemut whitemut 13-15, M Sep 5, 2014

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    My dad just got a new wife

    and she hates me! She called me weird and got in my way when i was trying too walk out the door but my dad does not do anything about it and whenever i try too bring it up she just says i am lying and then i have too apologize too her for lying.
    doggylover101101101 doggylover101101101 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2014

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    I don't know what happened with me

    and my stepmom. We used to be really close when I was little but as I got older she changed. She hates me and I hate her back. I try to make peace with her, but it's like she wants to ground me. To be honest, I want my dad to get a divorce. Every time they argue I pray someone...
    DomDaBomb5628 DomDaBomb5628 16-17 1 Response Jan 18

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    I've thought about it

    for years, and it all makes sense; no use denying it now. She hates me. I've known her since I was eight years old and dating my father, and everything was fine until they got married. She was nice, but authoritative, and spoke to me like I was a friend. After I moved in...
    NotNicole NotNicole 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2014

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    Tygersilk1 Tygersilk1 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Some days I just feel like an outcast here.

    I try my hardest to make things right, but it never works. Today I made a breakfast surprise and she told me she wasn't eating the food I made. Funny right? Well I guess she hates me enough to have the balls to slap me in the face. Apparently I wasted food & I have to pay for it...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    Someone Please Help

    My father and stepmother have been married since I was a toddler. Within the last couple years I have moved in with my Father, his wife, and their two children. I do now and have always felt that my Stepmom hates me. She clearly treats me differently than her children. Always has...
    ohcollegegirl ohcollegegirl 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    i went on holiday with my dad

    and her and first she said that she didnt want to take me and today (friday) i went to spend the week end with my dad and she already asked me today when i'm going to leave
    aimeetomlinson aimeetomlinson 13-15, F Jun 5

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    Yup..My Step Mom

    So my dad and step mom were fighting for hours and screaming at each other. So i ran to my room and when i thought it was over I came back upstairs....well, she turned to me and said, " It's all your daughters fault, you give her more attention then you do with me!!" So basically...
    thekid98 thekid98 16-17 4 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    My stepmother hates me

    because she's miserable and I'm not. That's it.
    kyky789 kyky789 16-17, F Feb 22, 2014

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    Ok so my step brother

    and I don't get along very well, and I know that I don't start the fights because even my dad has told me that he gets in his nerves and he is a very difficult child. (He didn't say it in such nice words) Ok and my step mom always looks at me like I'm the spawn of satan, when I...
    geneticgeorge geneticgeorge 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2014

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    My Stepmonster!

    I was six when I met her, At first she was nice and my dad had met her at his work and they connected from there. When she moved in with my dad is was fine she wasen't mean or bossy. Until they made it offical and he asked her to marry him. I thought oh yay maybe she would be a...
    stepmonstergirl stepmonstergirl 13-15 2 Responses Aug 25, 2012

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    My Stepmom Hates Me

    My dad and mom separated when I was born. I sometimes can't help myself thinking what it would be like if my father and mother were together. I know my stepmom hares ne it so obvious my past action toward her and the way she treats me is all the proof that she hates me. It all...
    Oscar1234567 Oscar1234567 18-21 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    My Step Mom Is Evil. . .

    all i got to say is she seperated my dad and i. She tries convincing my dad that the only reason i dont liker her is because im jealous and selfish and i dont want to "share him" for one hes not a property and for two i am deffinately not jealous.. infact i wanted him to find a...
    TheShyGurl TheShyGurl 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    My Step Mom Calls Me Discusting And Treats Me Like A Dog

    SO, Since alot of stuff happens with my step-mom i think ill just tell you her personality and some things that she has said to me recently.. shes like a little barbie and she spends alot of money on face creams and cllothing and other thingss... shes a big ol *****. this morning...
    BeccaSmith19 BeccaSmith19 13-15 1 Response Jan 24, 2012

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    Why I Can't Stand My So Called Stepmom

    Well I get yelled at everyday by my stepmom and I just can't stand her it's as if she thinks everything I do is below expectations ...here is what happens about an hour ago ...I was playing video games on the Xbox360 and I'm sitting there by myself when my little brother walks in...
    Oscar1234567 Oscar1234567 18-21 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    My Stepmother!

    It all started in 2005 when my father and mother had gotten a divorce (I was about 5 years old). My mother was the one who wanted the divorce and had no intention of keeping my older sister or me. So, my sister and I went to live with our father. In 2012, his job required him to...
    nutellabeans nutellabeans 13-15 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    I Feel Like My Step Mom Has Always Hated Me

    When I was 3 my dad married my stepmom. I went to their house on the weekends because during the week I was at my biological mother's house and my older sister was with me. So every weekend we went to dad's and I never really liked it because my stepmom scares me. Shes got...
    Cashby Cashby 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I Really Cant Live With Her.

    my dads girlfriend who we've lived with for a year and a half now She hates me ... i know it... she's never admitted it but i know... she steals my stuff and then when i find it and take it back she accuses me of stealing her stuff she manipulates my dad OVER AND OVER thinks she...
    sammydooo sammydooo 16-17 3 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Why Does My Step Mom Hate Me Always!?

    My dad has cancer, yep. Since finding out I have done my best to be as supportive as possible, as he is my best friend. Even with my Step mom, as nice as I can be. I'm nice to everyone and try to get along. She has always been rude, snappy, and negative towards me, but I let it...
    zinaba zinaba 31-35 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    I feel as if my stepmom hates me.

    My dad has been with her since i was 4, I'm 14 now in the 9th grade. I've been putting up with her for 10 years. When I was little she would whip me with a wooden spoon every time I did something wrong. She was nice until her and my dad got married and had a child. I have been...
    ChurchPointBears76 ChurchPointBears76 13-15, M Dec 21, 2014

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    I really need tips on how to be a better

    stepmom, we have joint custody. Her mom has her every other weekend and she is a very insecure person, my SD has 7 years old and i have been with her dad since she was 3, she was raised by her mother and she was totally out of control, everytime she came to our house there were...
    BlackAngel523 BlackAngel523 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Why Does She Hate Me So Much?

    i always thought my step-mom just doesn't like me.....she always says things like i'm stupid, and implies i have too many mental problems. she always fights with my father, and blames their problems on me being a bad kid. now i KNOW she hates me, she KNOWS what animals mean to me...
    mimssimorgan mimssimorgan 16-17 6 Responses Oct 2, 2010

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    She Will Never Stop Hating Me

    I'm almost 25 years old and I still feel like my step mom hates me. She always knows exactly what to say to me to make me feel an inch tall. We've had the talk where she admitted to being terrible to me and that she hated me when I was growing up and that she was so so so sorry...
    4eversad 4eversad 22-25 2 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Fake Stepmom

    ive always had a feeling like my stepmom doesnt like me, and now i know. i was looking through my stepsisters phone and there were text messages from her that said 'heather is coming over with laundry, thats the only reason she ever comes over now. all she does is eat. she is a...
    heathermay heathermay 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 25, 2009

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    My Step Mom Hates Me

    Hi my name is christine and i live with my stepmom dad and two sisters. Now you might think that my mom and my dad got divorced and i stayed with my dad. Wrong. My real mom died when i was three and i've been living with my stepmom for almost five years. She hates me she had...
    welchchristine15 welchchristine15 13-15 Nov 29, 2011

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    I Feel Like My Stepmom Hates Me

    Okay, so I don't know what happened but here's the story. So I live with my dad, my stepmom, and my stepbrother. I've known my stepmom since I was about 3 years old. But they were just friends. So now they have been together for almost 3 1/2 years. Ever since I started living...
    Wallflower1200 Wallflower1200 26-30 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Should I Just Give Up?

    I feel completely hopeless I have always wanted to have a good relationship with my step mother but now i honestly believe that she hates me.I want to tell my dad that how i feel about her too but im afraid he won't listen or think i'm trying to have a pity party. When I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    Why?

    Okay so my dad has been married to this woman for two years or so. I don't know why but she hates me. She hated being around me so much that she'll just get in the angriest mood ever when she is. Both of them are kind of health freaks and so my sister and I don't get stuff like...
    takishima23 takishima23 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    My Stepmother

    my stepmother was always horrible to me. At first it was little things like "your mothers a bad mum" and "your not normal"(which she said everyday she saw me) then she would spoil my bratty stepsisters get them anything they wanted and i mean anything and as soon as i wanted...
    honfanxxx honfanxxx 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2010

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    So my stepmom hates me

    because A I'm not athletic like her kids B I don't go to a private school like her kids C I really don't care about that artificial stuff (I'm pretty slim) my great grandpa ate that garbage all the time and lived to be 100 and D I'm not her kids. Let me give you a scenario so...
    baghen baghen 31-35, M Jul 3

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    Transgendergirl01 Transgendergirl01 13-15, M 2 Responses May 18

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    Little Jabs

    OK so first of all, she's not technically my stepmom but she's been my dads girlfriend for 5 years. They had my baby sister and she has a son younger than me who I will call Po (which he says a lot). I also want to point out that I don't think she HATES me I just think she doesn...
    rachel1234567890 rachel1234567890 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2013

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    I Feel Like My Step Mom Hates Me

    Okay, l have to give a little back story. My step-mom blows up sometimes and other times she's super nice.(She yells at me over little things like if I chew gum, even if Im not smacking.) It all started on her birthday. She said that for her birthday she wanted a sapphire...
    Horselover227 Horselover227 13-15 3 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Isn't If Funny How Bad Thing Turn To Good

    When I was 3 months my mother was killed in a car accident ,so I never really knew her. Then when I was 3 my dad married a woman that had special needs because she was very "crazy". But she never seemed to like me growing up and I have no idea why, but she does. When I was 6 ,she...
    LifeLover2199 LifeLover2199 13-15, F 1 Response