I Feel Like My Stepmom Hates Me

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    Someone Please Help

    My father and stepmother have been married since I was a toddler. Within the last couple years I have moved in with my Father, his wife, and their two children. I do now and have always felt that my Stepmom hates me. She clearly treats me differently than her children. Always has...
    ohcollegegirl ohcollegegirl
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2013

    I feel like my step-mother hates me

    as clearly as I feel pain if I poke my own eyes. Its an almost tangible, clear feeling that was at the center of my childhood experience. Now that I am cultivating a good degree of teen cynicism, I guess all I can say is that it is what it is. When I was little I wanted her to...
    whitemut whitemut
    16-17, M
    1 Response Sep 5, 2014

    Some days I just feel like an outcast here.

    I try my hardest to make things right, but it never works. Today I made a breakfast surprise and she told me she wasn't eating the food I made. Funny right? Well I guess she hates me enough to have the balls to slap me in the face. Apparently I wasted food & I have to pay for it...
    distanceandspace distanceandspace
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    I Really Cant Live With Her.

    my dads girlfriend who we've lived with for a year and a half now She hates me ... i know it... she's never admitted it but i know... she steals my stuff and then when i find it and take it back she accuses me of stealing her stuff she manipulates my dad OVER AND OVER thinks she...
    sammydooo sammydooo
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    I feel like my stepmom hates me,

    her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never said anything to her, she has 4 girls of her own that are 24,24, and 22yrold twins, I have always appreciated her because my mom wasn...
    Harliee417 Harliee417
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015

    So my stepmom hates me

    because A I'm not athletic like her kids B I don't go to a private school like her kids C I really don't care about that artificial stuff (I'm pretty slim) my great grandpa ate that garbage all the time and lived to be 100 and D I'm not her kids. Let me give you a scenario so...
    baghen baghen
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    My Stepmonster!

    I was six when I met her, At first she was nice and my dad had met her at his work and they connected from there. When she moved in with my dad is was fine she wasen't mean or bossy. Until they made it offical and he asked her to marry him. I thought oh yay maybe she would be a...
    stepmonstergirl stepmonstergirl
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2012

    I don't know what happened with me

    and my stepmom. We used to be really close when I was little but as I got older she changed. She hates me and I hate her back. I try to make peace with her, but it's like she wants to ground me. To be honest, I want my dad to get a divorce. Every time they argue I pray someone...
    DomDaBomb5628 DomDaBomb5628
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015


    Okay so my dad has been married to this woman for two years or so. I don't know why but she hates me. She hated being around me so much that she'll just get in the angriest mood ever when she is. Both of them are kind of health freaks and so my sister and I don't get stuff like...
    takishima23 takishima23
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2013
    Transgendergirl01 Transgendergirl01
    16-17, M
    2 Responses May 18, 2015

    Someone Save Me...

    I am 16 years old, and i live with my dad, step mom, 17 year old step sister, step uncle, step grandma, and my 6 year old half brother. my sister, who is now 18, moved out about a year and a half ago, due to the continuous physical fights between her and my step mom. my dad is a...
    dubstepgirl22 dubstepgirl22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2011

    I Feel Like My Step Mom Has Always Hated Me

    When I was 3 my dad married my stepmom. I went to their house on the weekends because during the week I was at my biological mother's house and my older sister was with me. So every weekend we went to dad's and I never really liked it because my stepmom scares me. Shes got...
    Cashby Cashby
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2013

    My stepsister told my lil sis she has a baby

    voice. I took her aside and told her to stop. I told my stepmom. Next time i see her she yells at me for standing up for her.
    puppy1418 puppy1418
    13-15, F
    Oct 18, 2015

    Why I Can't Stand My So Called Stepmom

    Well I get yelled at everyday by my stepmom and I just can't stand her it's as if she thinks everything I do is below expectations ...here is what happens about an hour ago ...I was playing video games on the Xbox360 and I'm sitting there by myself when my little brother walks in...
    Oscar1234567 Oscar1234567
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

    Why Does She Hate Me So Much?

    i always thought my step-mom just doesn't like me.....she always says things like i'm stupid, and implies i have too many mental problems. she always fights with my father, and blames their problems on me being a bad kid. now i KNOW she hates me, she KNOWS what animals mean to me...
    mimssimorgan mimssimorgan
    7 Responses Oct 2, 2010

    I Feel Like My Stepmom Hates Me

    Okay, so I don't know what happened but here's the story. So I live with my dad, my stepmom, and my stepbrother. I've known my stepmom since I was about 3 years old. But they were just friends. So now they have been together for almost 3 1/2 years. Ever since I started living...
    Wallflower1200 Wallflower1200
    6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    Does My Stepmom Hate Me?

    My dad and stepmom got married 8 years ago, and at first it was really great. She basically took over the motherly role where my mother was unable to. My brother and I call her mom and treat her like she is our mother. I owe a lot to her, because she got me on the right course...
    jcheal1 jcheal1
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    I nead help with a situation.

    My step mom left out her notebook on the table. And out of curiosity i looked at it. She had written down things like thoughts about suicide or cheating on my dad. I hid the notebook under my bed too show too my dad later but while i was at school she found it and later they...
    doggylover101101101 doggylover101101101
    18-21, F
    Feb 10, 2014

    Help !!!!!

    hi i have a step mum i have lived with since i was 13, my mum died when i was 4 and been living with my dad most of my child hood. since i was 13 iv found it difficult live with my step mum and my step brother both seem to be very angry and have a bad attitude. when i was 14 i...
    vale1991 vale1991
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    I feel as if my stepmom hates me.

    My dad has been with her since i was 4, I'm 14 now in the 9th grade. I've been putting up with her for 10 years. When I was little she would whip me with a wooden spoon every time I did something wrong. She was nice until her and my dad got married and had a child. I have been...
    ChurchPointBears76 ChurchPointBears76
    16-17, M
    Dec 21, 2014

    Should I Just Give Up?

    I feel completely hopeless I have always wanted to have a good relationship with my step mother but now i honestly believe that she hates me.I want to tell my dad that how i feel about her too but im afraid he won't listen or think i'm trying to have a pity party. When I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2012

    My stepmom hates me because i'm prettier

    than her daughter. She hates when i'm having fun. Whenever i do she talks to my dad and we end up leaving.
    puppy1418 puppy1418
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    I really need tips on how to be a better

    stepmom, we have joint custody. Her mom has her every other weekend and she is a very insecure person, my SD has 7 years old and i have been with her dad since she was 3, she was raised by her mother and she was totally out of control, everytime she came to our house there were...
    BlackAngel523 BlackAngel523
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    Ok so my step brother

    and I don't get along very well, and I know that I don't start the fights because even my dad has told me that he gets in his nerves and he is a very difficult child. (He didn't say it in such nice words) Ok and my step mom always looks at me like I'm the spawn of satan, when I...
    geneticgeorge geneticgeorge
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jul 17, 2014

    My Stepmother Has Alienated My Father From Me

    Hi there.  I'm a 30-something motherless mother whose father remarried 2 years and 1 week after my mother had passed.  Things were ok at first.  I tried to ignore her annoying unsolicited advice, her incessant self-promotion, and the constant comparison about how...
    argentanya argentanya
    20 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    I can't believe I am having issues with my step

    mother. I am not even sure when it all began? I am expecting a visit from her next month and I know it would be super awkward. I have not seen her in years but I am sure I will meet her with a handshake and not a hug.
    deleted deleted
    May 16, 2015

    My stepmother hates me

    because she's miserable and I'm not. That's it.
    kyky789 kyky789
    18-21, F
    Feb 22, 2014
    Tygersilk1 Tygersilk1
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2015

    Little Jabs

    OK so first of all, she's not technically my stepmom but she's been my dads girlfriend for 5 years. They had my baby sister and she has a son younger than me who I will call Po (which he says a lot). I also want to point out that I don't think she HATES me I just think she doesn...
    rachel1234567890 rachel1234567890
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2013

    My Fathers Fiancee Hates Me

    little background: I never knew my father growing up and he never knew I existed. After my mother died, I found him and we reconnected. I moved to another country to try to establish a relationship with him. It's been about 6 months since I've been here, and his fiancee Ellen has...
    cosmicspeck cosmicspeck
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2012

    Isn't If Funny How Bad Thing Turn To Good

    When I was 3 months my mother was killed in a car accident ,so I never really knew her. Then when I was 3 my dad married a woman that had special needs because she was very "crazy". But she never seemed to like me growing up and I have no idea why, but she does. When I was 6 ,she...
    LifeLover2199 LifeLover2199
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2013

    i went on holiday with my dad

    and her and first she said that she didnt want to take me and today (friday) i went to spend the week end with my dad and she already asked me today when i'm going to leave
    aimeetomlinson aimeetomlinson
    18-21, F
    Jun 5, 2015

    My Stepmom Hates Me

    My dad and mom separated when I was born. I sometimes can't help myself thinking what it would be like if my father and mother were together. I know my stepmom hares ne it so obvious my past action toward her and the way she treats me is all the proof that she hates me. It all...
    Oscar1234567 Oscar1234567
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    I Don't Know Why

    My dad has been married to this woman for 7 years. I've been nothing but nice to her, but, for some reason, she hates me. I don't understand why. I do everything I can to make sure she isn't mad at me, but, it doesn't matter. I'm never good enough. It's gotten to the point where...
    ShaRey ShaRey
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2010

    Yup..My Step Mom

    So my dad and step mom were fighting for hours and screaming at each other. So i ran to my room and when i thought it was over I came back upstairs....well, she turned to me and said, " It's all your daughters fault, you give her more attention then you do with me!!" So basically...
    thekid98 thekid98
    4 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    I Feel Like My Step Mom Hates Me

    Okay, l have to give a little back story. My step-mom blows up sometimes and other times she's super nice.(She yells at me over little things like if I chew gum, even if Im not smacking.) It all started on her birthday. She said that for her birthday she wanted a sapphire...
    Horselover227 Horselover227
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2012


    My step mum completely hates me. in the summer she pinned me up against the wall and started hitting me i couldn't get her off. She then told my dad and Grandma i was out of control and hit her. she then claimed that i had hurt her both physically and emotionally and made my dad...
    sophiewebster12 sophiewebster12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2013

    My Stepmother

    my stepmother was always horrible to me. At first it was little things like "your mothers a bad mum" and "your not normal"(which she said everyday she saw me) then she would spoil my bratty stepsisters get them anything they wanted and i mean anything and as soon as i wanted...
    honfanxxx honfanxxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2010

    Why Does My Step Mom Hate Me Always!?

    My dad has cancer, yep. Since finding out I have done my best to be as supportive as possible, as he is my best friend. Even with my Step mom, as nice as I can be. I'm nice to everyone and try to get along. She has always been rude, snappy, and negative towards me, but I let it...
    zinaba zinaba
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2013


    There are too many examples I could give. Here's an argument between her and my dad when I was younger. We had just bought a new house and they were trying to decide who would get what rooms.Dad: What do you want to do?Amanda: I don't know.Dad: How about we put Nolan(my brother...
    ForeverAndAlways001 ForeverAndAlways001
    18-21, F
    22 Responses May 1, 2011

    My dad just got a new wife

    and she hates me! She called me weird and got in my way when i was trying too walk out the door but my dad does not do anything about it and whenever i try too bring it up she just says i am lying and then i have too apologize too her for lying.
    doggylover101101101 doggylover101101101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2014

    Fake Stepmom

    ive always had a feeling like my stepmom doesnt like me, and now i know. i was looking through my stepsisters phone and there were text messages from her that said 'heather is coming over with laundry, thats the only reason she ever comes over now. all she does is eat. she is a...
    heathermay heathermay
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 25, 2009

    My Step Mom Is Evil. . .

    all i got to say is she seperated my dad and i. She tries convincing my dad that the only reason i dont liker her is because im jealous and selfish and i dont want to "share him" for one hes not a property and for two i am deffinately not jealous.. infact i wanted him to find a...
    TheShyGurl TheShyGurl
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    I've thought about it

    for years, and it all makes sense; no use denying it now. She hates me. I've known her since I was eight years old and dating my father, and everything was fine until they got married. She was nice, but authoritative, and spoke to me like I was a friend. After I moved in...
    NotNicole NotNicole
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    My Stepmom Made My Life Hell

    My own mother left when I was five leaving my lovely dad to bring up two young daughters alone. As 6 years passed my dad eventually decided to look for a new relationship after years of being very selective and distrusting of women in fear of his girls getting hurt again. My dad...
    annalisa0 annalisa0
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2011
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